The most important thing you can do to make single women feel romantically attracted to you is to make her feel special. Women are a lot less interested in the way you appear to her than in the way to make her feel about herself.
It's very important to make single women feel special and unique. In return, she will feel that you are also special and unique.
So, how do you make a single woman feel special? You tell her by saying something like this: "There's something very special about you. I noticed you the second I first saw you. You have a very unique face that's so exotic I can't explain it. You're more than just attractive. There's something very unique and original about your look."
Just say this to a woman you've just met and watch her reaction. I can guarantee you her face will light up with a smile and she will radiate warmth towards you.
So, remember when you're out on the prowl looking for romance, sex, or a relationship, don't forget to tell women that there's something special about them. Make them feel that they are the most important and special person on the earth. If you can do this, you're love and sex life will skyrocket!
When it comes to placing or answering a personal ad I don't think that there is an advantage or disadvantage to having or not having children. Some people, even those without children, prefer to date people who have children. Some people are neutral. Others would never consider dating someone with children.
If you have children, you should mention that fact and the relevant details as early as possible. If the fact that you do or do not have children matters to someone else, you might as well find out as soon as possible. If you are placing an ad, I think that you should state in the ad that you have children. There are many ways to say that you have kids. I see "active mom" or "custodial dad" frequently used.
I think that it is smart to tell the ages of the children and mention any special circumstances such as if the other parent has custody, whether a child has special needs, or that your children are grown up and gone. Things like that can make a difference one way or the other.
If you don't want to date someone who has children, don't say, "I hate kids." Use a bit of tact and say something like, "I prefer to date a man (or woman) without children." It will eliminate many people who have a lot of the other characteristics that you seek. But, if you really don't want to date someone who has children, especially if you really can't stand children, clearly state your preference. If you're one of those who are neutral on the issue, discuss your ambivalence if someone responds who sounds interesting and has children. You might find that you love children after all.