TIP #1 - SOME SINGLE WOMEN CRAVE A MAN WHO IS DOMINATING, "MACHO," AND EVEN JUST A LITTLE BIT CRUEL! - It's important to sensitively explore the unfulfilled needs of the woman you have met. At times, in the nature of being just a wee bit unpredictable and complex, you may act dominating, bossy, even slightly sadistic.

Watch her reactions closely when you do! If you see a glint in her eyes, a pleasurable submissiveness, a suddenly more positive response to you - you may be dealing with a single woman who has a masochistic need to be dominated and mistreated. If such behavior comes easy and natural for you, it can be exceedingly effective with such a woman.

TIP #2 - OPEN YOUR EYES TO THE UNCONVENTIONAL BEAUTY AND SEX APPEAL of the "plain-looking" single woman. Taste in beauty and sex appeal is often a purely subjective quality. Many single women whose faces and figures attract no public attention or enthusiasm may exert a provocative, tantalizing, even aphrodisiacal effect upon you personally...if you open your eyes and find those subtle elements in her which only you can appreciate and cherish!

TIP #3 - OCCASIONALLY BE UNPREDICTABLE! Many women, however much they value reliability and security in their man, also tend to take for granted, and to undervalue a man who is too ordinary, too conformist, too dependably predictable. Don't do it too often, and don't hurt her needlessly, but occasionally demonstrate unpredictable and unexpected qualities.

Leave at least a slight touch of mystery and romantic secrecy about your innermost self. For example, suddenly take a trip without advance warning and write to her from your temporary distant stopping point. Take her on a date to some place she has never been before and which she could not have expected from your previous behavior.

Use your imagination to display other romantic touches of mystery and unpredictability. For example, you may suddenly send her a present which opens up a completely unsuspected but attractive facet of yourself to her admiring contemplation!

TIP #4 - LOFTY, DRIVING AMBITION IS ATTRACTIVE TO SOME SINGLE WOMEN. Spin beautiful dreams of the future for her, and weave her into them! Express your highest, most dramatic ambitions and goals to her. Express them vividly, as concretely and confidently as possible. Give her the feeling that she will go along with you and share the heights, the glory, the success, and your mutual happiness!


Playing hard to get is very important. You must appeal to her power of seduction. Let her use her sensuality and sexuality to "catch" you. The important thing is that once you know a girl is interested in you, and then you can appeal to her power of seduction by playing hard to get. Don't call her every night. Don't make big sexual moves on her at first. You must appear to be interested, yet still holding back a bit - not quite sure if you want the relationship to go further. Make her feel as though she has to work harder to convince you that you do want the relationship to develop.









Poor hygiene will really turn a topless dancer off or any woman for that matter. Keep your hair and teeth clean and your breath fresh. Be sure and bathe, wear a good cologne, and wear a good deodorant. Don't forget to shave either. Be aware that facial hair will make you look older. Also, most dancers are not attracted to beards. If you insist on wearing a beard, keep it neatly trimmed.

If you are going bald or have a receding hairline, don't try to disguise it by combing it a certain way. This makes you look silly. Dancers are not going to judge you because of your lack of hair. If you're getting thin on top, just cut your hair short all over. This will give you the appearance of having more hair.

Another word about hair. If you have a chest or back like a hairy gorilla, trim it. The majority of women are turned off by too much hair. A word about gray or graying hair. This will attract dancers like a magnet, provided that you have a slender body to match it. If you're overweight, she will see you as just a fat old man, which will be a turn off and don't die your hair either because this is not good for your image either.

If you are an older man, wear your hair short. It will make you look younger. Study the models in the magazines for some nice hairstyle ideas. Finally, it won't hurt to have a nice tan either. Dancers love the beach, so it will certainly help for you to have that tanned beach-hunk look.










One of the cardinal rules in your search for the well-to-do woman is to forget the bars. The person you're looking for isn't wasting time in them. You have to go where the rich and soon to be rich spend their time. If you like boating and water, many yacht clubs allow people to join on social status who don't even own boats. What better way to meet a well-to-do woman than to be a member of this club and be present at the various social functions the club provides. This allows you to mingle with a lot of people of means without having a large cash outlay yourself. If you're a horse lover, find an exclusive stable or riding club and join up. This doesn't mean you have to have a horse of your own to learn to ride.

If you can afford the membership dues in a country club or if you can afford to borrow the money to join up, do so. If you are an aspiring golfer, most areas have places you can even rent the clubs. On public courses without restrictions, make sure you're playing during the middle of the week whenever possible. It's a common joke your doctors and lawyers are on the course during this time. Usually they play the country clubs but they have been known to play on public courses. The private clubs often have "men only" during certain hours. Find out if this includes the club house as well. If the restriction lifts at four or five in the afternoon, make it your business to be there.

Better supermarkets are excellent meeting places for the upwardly mobile, as are better department stores. You can be working there or shopping there, just as long as these eligible women see you. Some of the really large stores such as Bloomies in New York have entire departments devoted to party needs such as wine, cheese, crackers or hors d'oeuvres, etc. Want to meet a nice on-the-way up type of woman, she's here buying for a fun party. It's a sure bet if you're looking around this type of party center, conver­sation will develop if you let it or even better, start it.









I have suggested some serious conversation subjects, which you should be prepared to use when appropriate. But, be warned, many girls are not all that interested in a lot of serious conversation. They prefer the lighter stuff: kidding around, compliments, spicy talk (jokes, etc.) and a lot of going places and doing things. Also, discussions and planning of different escapades. In fact some girls really don't want to talk all that much. They would rather be involved in doing things. This is particularly true when you are not alone with a girl, such as in a foursome, or in a group at a party. You must always use feedback to determine your conversation trends.

Don't make the mistake of assuming that, because you are interested in more intellectual subjects, it is right for everyone else to be. You will, of course, find many girls who are just as intelligent, or more intelligent, than you are. But there are many others, particularly younger girls, who are actually childlike in their interests. I do not suggest that you adopt their views if you want to have a relationship with such girls, but you should at least cater to their interests. Do not deal with such a girl as you would with a more intellectual girl. She would be quite bored.












 


In our experience and observations, one thing has become clear: Women are much better at the game of seduction than men are. Women seem to be born with the instincts, or at least learn them at an early age, of how to play hard to get, how to tempt men, and how to master all the subtleties of male/female pursuit.

Men, on the other hand, seem to be very ignorant in these matters. The sum total of most men's expertise in pursuing a woman seems to be somewhat related to hitting her over the head with a club. And since this technique is no longer accepted, most men are completely lost and vulnerable to the manipulative instincts of women.

What do you wear to a topless club? You dress to impress, that's what. When a topless dancer first sees you she is impressed by how you look and what you're wearing. First impressions are very important and you want to make a good first impression. You can do this by wearing something that she is attracted to and you want to stand out from the other guys that are dressed like slobs or old men. So where do you find some up-to-date fashionable clothes to impress topless dancers? Your best source is from a catalog called International Male. Call them at 1-800-293-9333 for a free catalog. I ordered all my clothes for going to topless clubs from them. I always get tons of compliments on my clothes from the dancers. These fashions really impress the dancers and help to attract them like crazy. Believe me, there's a lot of truth to the old saying, "Clothes make the man." You can also get fashion ideas from GQ Magazine which is on your local magazine rack. Also, Esquire Magazine, and Playboy. Pay attention to how the male models are dressed that are 35 to 60 years old and try to dress like them.

Why do you need to be a sharp dresser? Because most of the topless dancers are young and they are infatuated with clothes. Her world revolves around clothes and she's always talking about them, shopping for them, and reading about them and she has an appreciation for a man who wears them well and looks his best.


Choose the colors that you look best in and if you don't know, ask women, they will know what becomes you. Don't go to a topless club over-dressed. You will appear to the dancers that you're stuffy. You want them to feel relaxed and casual around you.

You don’t want to make a fool out of yourself and turn the younger dancers off. They will secretly ridicule you behind your back. Dress for your age group. Here are some dressing taboos for topless clubs:

1. Avoid looking like her Daddy. Don't wear bright colors or anything polyester.
2. Avoid cowboy boots, ball caps, hush puppies, golf shoes, suspenders, sweaters with buttons on the front, pattern or plaid pants or jackets, bell-bottomed pants, loud ties, glasses, tie clasps or tacks, wear nothing that's a throw-back to the 60's and 70's, shirt pocket pen holders, Hawaiian shirts, or shirts unbuttoned down your chest.
3. A word about jewelry. Don't wear gold chains around your neck, gaudy watches and rings, gold bracelets, or calculator watches.