No More Just Friends...
Are you always the friend, never the lover? As soon you become close to a single woman, she finds another guy to be her boyfriend?
It's easy to change "just friends" into much, much more. Simply stop waiting around for the woman to make the first move. Let your close single woman friend(s) know that you want more from your relationship (for example: seduction, intimacy, romance!). Put the idea into her head that you want to be intimate. You have to stop spending lots of time with women -- becoming close, sharing secrets, being the confidante -- but not getting what YOU want.
Okay, you have the woman in mind. You're ready to make the change. It's time to surprise her. If you usually get together at the local pizzeria, invite her out for a cozy dinner at a real restaurant. If she usually comes over to your house to talk about her problems, when she gets there, make sure you have some sensuous music on, candlelight, and a bottle of wine nearby.
Be assertive; make sure this woman knows what's available right in front of her eyes before she starts searching for the next "bad boy" who'll break her heart. No more "Mr. Nice Guy." This time, you're going to be someone's lover. Go for it!
This article was contributed by Deb Levine, author of "The Joy of CyberSex."
TIP #1 - Yes, sexy single women are attracted sexually and romantically to men with nice bodies and having a fit body usually means that you take care of yourself and take pride in your body.
However, there's one way that fitness can backfire on you and actually cause women to lose interest in you. Let me explain...if you are an exercise freak and your whole life revolves around body building and all you can talk about is your body and exercising, this can turn off women who don't share your enthusiasm. Due to your obsession with yourself, they may even think you are self-centered and stuck on yourself.
All I'm saying is you can have a nice body, but focus all your attention on the woman you're with. Your body will speak for itself, you don't have to constantly call attention to it. You don't have to cram your exercising and fitness lifestyle down a woman's throat unless you both are consumed with fitness.
TIP #2 - Keep your fingernails and toenails short and clean. Women notice things like dirty or long fingernails and toenails. It may surprise you, but a woman may not even date you because of unsightly fingernails or toenails.
TIP #3 - If you have gray or graying hair, leave it alone! Don't dye it or cover it up! Most single women are very attracted to men with gray or graying hair. They think it looks sexy and distinguished.
TIP #4 - If you have a moustache, be sure and keep it short and neatly trimmed. Women are turned off by long moustaches that invade their nostrils during kissing. Also, keep it clean and don't let it collect food.
TIP #5 - Here's another problem that can turn some single women off.
It's your nose hair and ear hair. As you get older these hairs grow like a weed and can become unsightly to some women. Trim your nose hairs and when you get a hair cut and have your stylist clip the hair out of your ears.
In closing, be aware that single women notice little things about your appearance that you may not even be aware of or things you may not consider important. The name of the game is attracting sexy single women and you certainly don't want them to be turned off by some flaw in your looks which you can easily correct.