This week let's talk about trust in a relationship. Mutual trust is very crucial in establishing a successful relationship.
If you get involved with a woman you can't trust, this can cause some serious problems in your relationship.
So, what are some of the warning signs that the woman you're dating may not be trustworthy? Here's a list of the major ones:
1. She's always late for dates and offers no apology or explanation. Or even worse, she makes up lousy excuses.
2. She's dishonest with you and you catch her telling you lies.
3. You keep asking her for her phone number at home and she refuses to give it to you. You would think that after a few dates, any normal woman that was sincerely interested in you wouldn't mind you calling her at home.
4. She won't look you straight in the eye when she talks to you.
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5. Whenever you try to make plans with her to meet your family or get together with your friends, she makes up excuses to avoid meeting them. Also, she never brings up the subject of meeting her family or friends.
6. After you've been dating awhile she's hardly ever available. Most of the time you can't get in touch with her and she offers no explanation.
7. She constantly gossips about other people. Trust me on this one, if you tell her your deepest secrets, she's going to tell everyone she knows.
8. She's a very selfish person.
So, what do you do if you're dating someone with all or most of these warning signs? I don't know about you, but I don't care to date a woman I can't trust. It makes me lose respect for her.
I'm not advising you to dump every woman who is untrustworthy. I'm just offering you some warning signs so you can make good judgements for avoiding relationships with potential problems that will cause you unhappiness.
Trying to score with topless dancers can be very frustrating at times. You will have good nights and you will have off nights when no matter how hard you try, all you do is get rejected. Getting rejected happens to all men. It just comes with the territory. Just move on to another dancer. You will find one that takes a liking to you.
Each night that you go out to a topless club has its own personality. One night you can be attracting dancers like a magnet and the next night it can be slow and you don't attract much attention from the dancers. Plus, there will be times when you go to a club feeling tired, hungover, and feeling at your worst and the dancers will be all over you.
Each time you go to a club can be a different experience. Sometimes you get lucky and sometimes you don't. Just keep trying to pick up topless dancers and no matter what happens to you, don't take it personally.
I saw the new movie Water for Elephants today...Great movie...great acting...great story...great romance...loved it!
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Good date movie!
Do some people lie about themselves in their ads or when they respond to an ad? Of course they do. The people who write and respond to personal ads are a cross-section of the general population. No better, no worse. My experience, and the experience of many people that I've talked to, is that you meet the good, the bad, the ugly, the honest and the dishonest through the personal ads.
Try these pick up lines guys:
“Were you just smiling at me from across the room or do I have my contacts in incorrectly?”
“Hi! My name is__________and I hope you don’t mind me stopping to say hello to you. I know we are strangers, but if we waited for someone to introduce us, we probably would never meet. What’s your name?”
See a girl at the bus stop on a cold winter day? Pull up in your car and say, “Can I give you a ride, it’s too cold to be standing there waiting for a bus.”
“Let’s take the T-Tops off my Corvette and go for a ride.”
“Excuse me, but would you have the time?”
I want to tell you about a very unique way to attract single women for dating, romance, relationships, marriage, love, and sex using billboard ads.
Four single men here in Houston pooled their money together and leased a billboard (14x18 feet) for one month to run a billboard personal ad. The billboard ad cost $2500 and they split the cost four ways.
The billboard ad read something like this: 4 single white businessmen 27-32 SEEK WIVES. Write, Box 422, Houston, TX 77242
So, how did this ad do? Well in the first 10 days they got over 300 responses from single and attractive women. Also, they got a lot of local media coverage. The spokesman for the group even went on national talk shows to talk about their success with using this method to meet and attract single women.
If you've got the money to burn and some willing buddies, why not try this yourself and send a press release to your local media and national media telling them about what you did and your success stories.
You're probably saying to yourself, "What in the hell is a Colossal Gram?" This is what I would describe as the world's largest telegram. It measures 5 ft. by 7 ft. So what can you use this for to attract and seduce single women for love, romance, and a potential relationship or to just impress your current sweetheart? I'm glad you asked...
You can mail one of these to single women you are interested in making a big impression on, for occasions such as Valentine's Day messages, happy birthday messages, or just to tell her how much you miss her. Trust me, these huge telegrams will make a big impression on her.
Here are some sample messages for Valentine's Day that is coming up:
LOVING YOU IS THE BIGGEST
AND BEST THING IN MY LIFE
PLEASE DO ME THE HONOR...
SAY YOU WILL BE MY WIFE!
JUST WANTED TO SAY
IN A GREAT BIG WAY
I LOVE YOU
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY
ROSES ARE RED
VIOLETS ARE BLUE
BE MY VALENTINE
CAUSE I LIKE YOU!
Here are some Birthday message samples to use:
THIS IS HOW BIG & SPECIAL
I THINK YOUR BIRTHDAY IS
HAPPY 25TH, LINDA
ROSES ARE RED
TULIPS ARE REDDER
YOU'RE NOT GETTING OLDER
YOU'RE GETTING BETTER!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, LYNETTE!
Here is sample of a Missing You message to use:
MISS YOU IN A BIG WAY!
LOOKING FORWARD TO
OUR WEEKEND IN VEGAS
For more details on ordering and seeing what a Colossal Gram looks like, please visit their website at: www.colossalgram.com or call them at 1-800-222-GRAM.
P.S. I have no affiliation whatsoever with this company. I'm only passing along this information to help you attract and seduce single women.
A very common one-liner to start a conversation with a woman in a bar or a dancing is: "Don't I know you from somewhere? You seem familiar...". But it is one VERY BAD one-liner. Because a woman obviously doesn't want to look "familiar". She wants to look "special". And because this one-liner is so old and not in the least
original. And what to do if she says NO? Then you are left with the suggestion that, even IF you two had ever met, you are obviously not a man for her to remember. Not a good thing for your confidence...
A much better variant to this one-liner would be: "I don't think I've ever seen you. Because I would surely remember a nice looking woman like you". In this case you stay in charge. You started a conversation and made her a compliment in one single move. That shows balls. And you're not dependent of her answer.
Most of the women will say: "thank you". Then you can immediately offer her a drink. NEVER EVER say: "You're welcome". Because that shows that you where merely making her a compliment and that you don't mean it.
Some women will turn themselves away from you, or hide their face, or start laughing. That's really scary at first. You get the impression that you made a fool of yourself. But NO man is EVER a fool to a decent woman if he made her a nice compliment. In most cases it just means that she is shy and not used to getting compliments. Just apologize with a friendly voice for making her feel uncomfortable.
Give her a few seconds time and she will come back to you. Then offer her a drink. DON'T put your hand on her back or her shoulder to comfort her. It will make things worse!
If she shows no sign at all of coming back to you, just leave her alone without saying a word. And don't start thinking that everyone around has been watching you while you were turned down. If it's crowded, no one has seen a damn thing! Don't leave the bar feeling ashamed. Have a drink and try another woman. Convince yourself as soon as possible that not every woman reacts the way she did.
I've discovered a better way to attract women like crazy using the personals. You will run circles around other men answering personal ads of single women. What's the secret? Using voicemail with your ad. Here's how to use this girl-getting system to find love and romance using the personals:
Set up a voicemail account. You will find the companies to do this for you in the yellow pages listed under answering services. Run your personal ad in singles publications, magazines, online, etc. Here's a good example of a personal ad to attract single women like a magnet: Handsome SWM, 38, slender Hare seeking cute little bunny 25-35, romantic and slender to share my carrots with. Call 484-2424 (your voicemail number) to hop all over town and have some good times and have a hare-raising experience. If you like to lay in clover and nibble, a plus.
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The women will call your voice mail and will listen to a pre-recorded message by you. Here's a sample script to use for your voicemail message: "I love you darling. How long have you longed to hear these words? How often have longed to be held in a man's arms, to be cuddled, caressed and kissed, warmly, sweetly, and tenderly? Perhaps you are my sweetheart - who knows? My name is Don and I am a one woman man, writer, author, publisher, 38, 6" 1", 185 lbs., and desire to meet an attractive, loving, affectionate, slender woman 25-35 who is interested in a meaningful relationship. So, if you're tired of what you've had up until now and ready for a 1st class man to come into your life and treat you like a Princess, please leave your phone number at the sound of the beep and I will return your call as soon as possible. Thank you and I look forward to talking to you.
You can also set up a 1-800 voicemail to use for personal ads in national publications and magazines and for online personals. This way the women will be more inclined to call you being that it is a free call. In closing, guys try this better method of using the personals to attract single women like a magnet.
P.S. When making your script for your recorded message, talk in a very romantic and sexy tone of voice. This will turn the women on!
The way you ask for a date with single women can make a big difference in whether she accepts or declines. Also, it's very important that you feel confident in advance that she is going to accept your invitation to get together for a date.
Whatever you do, don't expect a "no" answer in advance of asking her out. This can backfire on you by showing the woman your lack of confidence around women. If you expect rejection, it can create a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Let me give you some examples of the wrong way of asking single women for a date. These negatively phrased questions can set you up for failure in trying to get a date:
1. "I know you're probably busy Friday night, but if you're not busy would you like to go out with me?"
2. "I don't suppose you're free to have lunch with me on Friday are you?"
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3. "You wouldn't want to meet me for a drink Thursday after work, would you?"
Can you see how negative these questions are? They are already programmed for a "no" answer. Plus, she might think that you have already asked someone else out and you got shot down, so now you are trying your luck with her. Her thinking this, even though it might not be true, puts you in a bad position.
It's best to make it easy for the woman you're asking out to accept your invitation for a date. Make it easy for them to say, "yes." Also, think positive when asking her out. Believe that she is going to accept and there's no way that she will say, "no."
In my opinion, here's the best way to ask a woman for a date:
1. "My friends have been raving about a new Italian restaurant that serves really great food. I've never been there. Would you like to try it out with me?" (This really doesn't have to be the truth, just make it up to get a date).
2. "There's a good symphony/play coming to town in a couple of weeks. This sounds like a really fun thing to attend. Would you like to join me?"
3. "Some of my friends are going to the beach this weekend to hang out and party. They have asked me to come along. I know it would be a lot of fun. Would you like to come along with me?"
I'm sure you get the idea now. These are non-pressured and direct questions for asking for a date. They sound so much better than the negative examples I gave you to not use for asking for a date. Don't you agree?
I hope this advice helps you to get more dates and happy hunting!