Psyching yourself up and making preparations before going to a nightclub are very important. Be sure and get a good nights sleep before you go out. At least seven to eight hours will be sufficient. Eat a good steak dinner with your choice of vegetables prior to going out. This will put a lining on your stomach if you do a lot of heavy drinking and besides that, it will make you feel good.

If you don't have any good dancing records, buy as many as you can afford. There is a reason for this. A couple of hours before you leave, play your favorite records, or if you have a favorite radio station, turn that on. The purpose of this is to get you in the mood for dancing and the nightclub scene.

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If you drink, while you are relaxing and listening to the music, drink some of your favorite wine or mixed drinks. Also, taking a hot bath is very relaxing. It's a lot cheaper to drink at home than it is at the clubs. So try to do most of your drinking at home if you want to save some money.

While you are relaxing, picture in your minds eye, meeting some hot and sexy lady

at the nightclub. Actually see yourself talking to her, dancing with her, feeling your body rub against her during a slow song, etc. Feel her body next to yours, feel her crotch grinding against yours. See yourself leaving the nightclub and taking her to your place or going to her place or just leaving to get a bite to eat.

You are probably wondering what's the purpose of creating all these images in your mind. These images will register in your subconscious mind and when you get to the nightclub your subconscious mind will give directions to your conscious mind to act them out. Don't be disappointed if this does not work the first time because it takes repetition for this to soak into your subconscious mind. Also, all day long on the day you're going out, keep telling yourself over and over, "I'm going to meet a special lady tonight." You will be amazed at the results. This will also help you develop a positive mental attitude and build up your self-confidence.

If the girl is one who can be picked up, you then have the task of impressing her and selling her on your plan of a relationship.

If she has taken an instant liking to you and you can detect this, you might move right in and close the sale. That is, make a date, go off together, or whatever is agreeable at the time.

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But it is more likely that success will not come so quickly. You will probably have to work at the selling first. This can be compared to a salesman selling a vacuum cleaner (or anything else). The salesman could hand the vacuum to the prospective customer and say, "Here it is, lady. Would you like to buy it?" If he were very lucky, she may have already decided to buy it, because she really needed one and she liked the look of it.

It is more likely though; that the customer would be undecided, and the salesman would then work at selling his product.

Remember women want leadership.
TIP #1 - When planning a date, instead of asking the girl what she would like to do, have every detail of the date planned out - the reservations, the movie, even the parking place. Just tell her when to be ready. Let the rest of the evening be a pleasant surprise.
TIP #2 - When you are with a girl, hold the door, take her arm, and show her the way.
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TIP #3 - At a restaurant, make sure that you are seated at the head of the table or where the waiter will see you first and stand next to you when he comes to take the order. Conduct all of the dealings with the waiter. Ask your date what she would like so that when ordering, you can say, "She will have the...and I will have the...," instead of her giving her own order.
TIP #4 - If at all possible, drive your own car. Avoid letting her drive you. When you are driving, she is dependent on you. When she drives, you are hitching a ride and are no longer in control
TIP #5 - If a girl call, answer the phone with, "Hi, what can I do for you?" By saying this, you show that you are used to being the leader and being of service to others.

Yes, there are shy topless dancers. Some feel very uncomfortable stripping. Why do they do it then? For the money! It all revolves around money. These girls really don't enjoy stripping and their hearts are not really not into it. They are relieved when the dance is over. Also, these girls can have a shy personality. They are not very talkative and don't have much to say. You will have to do all the talking. They are very introverted and you may deceptively think that she is not interested in you.

Don't give up on these types and get discouraged. Accept the fact that she's a little shy and pursue her. Once you break the ice and get them warmed up, they can certainly make your night worthwhile. In my experiences, the best sex I had were with women who had shy personalities.

Try to select way-out or unusual, unique outfits. These will immediately catch the eye of women. By wearing an unusual and unique outfit and being among people in ordinary clothes, you will find yourself to be the center of attention. This is what you want to do and that is, attract a woman's attention.

Try to select sexy-looking clothes. By wearing sexy-looking clothes, you will be sending out a message. The message being that you yourself are also sexually stimulating.

Selection of eye-catching colors are very important in attracting attention. The human eye notices color and form simultaneously. If both your colors and form are unusual, strong, and simple, the human eye must take notice to them. The impression will be strong and quick.

Don't go to extremes though, in your selection of clothes and color. Wearing weird clothes that have too strong and conflicting colors will have the opposite effect in attracting attention. You will repel and you will be labeled as some kind of "weirdo."

One last item on dressing that really turns on and attracts women. When buying clothes, buy them tight-¬fitting, especially in the crotch area. Wear boxer shorts or even nothing underneath and this will create that "bulge" look. You will be amazed at the women that will stare at your crotch. Of course the more endowed you are, the bigger showing you're going to make.

It's a known fact that women also look at a man's body just like we look at a woman's body. So, why not give them something to drool over, like a bulging crotch.

Yes, this is true. When you are attempting to pick up a girl, you are really selling her the plan that the two of you will start some kind of relationship. Most of the basic sales principles apply quite well.

Just as in selling any other commodity, there is a predictable probability of success. We could say that approximately 50% of the attractive girls you may try to pick -up just cannot be picked up. This is because a good many women are either married, attached, or just dead set against being picked up.

But, on the other hand, almost all of them can be approached and spoken to, if the approach is reasonable. That means that when you, as the salesman, approach a strange girl, there is about a 50/50 chance that you have chosen a girl who can be picked up. If the girl is definitely not available she will let you know fairly quickly. You may then concentrate your attention elsewhere. It is good to expect such failures, so that you will not be disillusioned or blame yourself for them.

Let people know that you are a vital, important person who is doing things.

TIP #1 - When someone asks you what you did yesterday, never say, "Oh, I just sat around and was bored." Better to say, "I was up early to run errands and take care of business, then played tennis, met a friend for lunch, and worked in the afternoon."

TIP #2 - If someone calls and asks what you are doing, reply with, "I just walked in the door" or "I'm just on my way out to take care of business."

TIP #3 - Don't hang on the phone for hours talking to someone indicating you don't have anything else to do. Get the business of the call over, be pleasant, and then excuse yourself.

TIP #4 - By not calling a girl every night or contacting her every day, you show that you are busy and have other things that are important in your life besides her. This lets her know that she is going to have to compete for your time.

Tip #5 - If you run into someone, be pleasant and friendly. Show that person that you have an interest in her, but then excuse yourself because of having things to do. In this way, you show her that she is going to have to work for your time. You are not "easy."

By letting people know that you are a person doing things and active, you suggest a lot to a woman. Certainly, you must be someone who knows where you are going, hence, leadership. You play on her sense of wanting what she can't have because she will have to compete for your time with all of your other activities. You will appear to be different from all the other guys who are hanging on her begging for her time. She will suspect that there are other women in your life or you wouldn't be so busy. And finally, she is going to have to use her charms to seduce you away from all these other activities - and women love that challenge.

Here is some advice on picking up young topless dancers that don't have much experience.
Concentrate all your efforts on trying to meet and pick up the young and inexperienced dancers. They are a little more naive and more receptive to your advances. The older dancers have heard all the come-on lines, propositions, repetitive techniques and they really get tired of having to put up with all the bullshit.
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At least the young and in-experienced are new to what is going on in topless clubs and haven't developed a hardened attitude towards men. These girls will be much easier to meet and get a date with. Just be sure and ask her when you meet her, "How long have you been dancing?" So you can get a feel for how inexperienced she is. Of course, it will be obvious if she's a young or older dancer.