How Using Failures with Single Women Can Help You

You may think that I have lost my mind, but did you know that failure with single women is good for you? You may be thinking, Don have you lost your mind telling me that making mistakes with single women is good for you?

Let me explain why striking out with women can be good for you. I will use the inventor Thomas Edison as an example for my explanation.

As you know, he invented the modern light bulb. Do you think he invented the light bulb on his very first try? Certainly not. He endured failure after failure; mistakes after mistakes until he got it right. Mistakes after mistakes were necessary to finally get it right.

Each experiment and failure brought him closer and closer to his goal of completing his invention successfully.

And so it goes in the dating game. If you are not making lots of mistakes, you are not learning anything. You learn valuable lessons from your mistakes. You learn the correct way to succeed with single women. You learn what works and what doesn't work.

So, when you start feeling a little bummed out about your failures with women, think about Thomas Edison for some inspiration. You've got to fail a little bit before you succeed.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on When to Stop Pursuing a Woman

This week I want to discuss chasing women, or rather I should say, when is the best time to give up on chasing a particular woman?

When you keep chasing a woman that you're crazy about and it's all one-sided and she shows no interest in you, what should you do? Well, if a woman is not interested in you she will go out of her way to give you hints by the way she acts towards you. She will try to make it clear that she does not want to get involved with you.

So, what can you do about it? Not much. Just accept the fact that she does not want anything to do with you and move on. The worst thing you can do is to pretend that there's a chance that you will get together when there's no way in hell that she will let that happen. Some guy's just try harder to get a woman when there's no chance for romance.

This just backfires. This will only make her dislike you more. The more you try to win her over, the more you just make a fool of yourself. You are just wasting your time and that of the woman.

So, a good lesson is to never hang around where you are not wanted. Just walk away with your pride intact. Respect her wishes of not wanting to get involved with you. Who knows, this might work in your favor somehow. She might have second thoughts someday. She may think, maybe you were a good guy for her after all. She may think, "He showed respect for me and just maybe I made a mistake by rejecting him."

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Dating Tips on How to do Better with Women

It's Easy to be a Good Listener If She's Voluble, But What If She Finds It Hard to Converse Easily? - If she's shy, inhibited, reticent, draw her out. Make her feel important, comfortable, relaxed, and appreciated. Your own spontaneity, informality and complete interest in her will help bring her out.

A Magic Formula If You Believe and Practice it - A famous, amazingly successful New York psychologist once said, During an interview: "I tell all my shy, inhibited, introverted patients: "Never be afraid to ask, you will be surprised and delighted to find out how often you receive a Yes! It is the expectation of receiving a "No!" which defeats most men "on the prowl" before they have half-started."

Why Some Men Never Get Past First Base - Many men with every advantage in looks, personality and the genuine affection of the women they court, never get very far in developing a love affair simply because they do not keep trying, do not keep moving onward. Ignore mild rebuffs, even repeated refusals, unless you are quite certain that the woman really wants you to stop!

Even then, unless she indicates plainly otherwise, you can always try again next time! Remember that most of the time she is only waiting for the opportunity to join you in love and sex if, in the process, you can make her feel secure and appreciated.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on Dating Raped Women

This week I want to discuss a topic that one of my subscribers to my newsletters suggested that needed to be addressed. That subject is dating women who have been raped or sexually molested in the past. Here is what he wanted to share with my readers:

I have seen several women who had been raped or sexually molested in their pasts. This can completely destroy a woman's confidence and self-esteem. One girl who was molested by her father was adamant that the only thing I couldn't do was fall in love with her which I totally failed to do, but scared her off. This is why trust, communication and chemistry are important and if any of these are out of whack, it ain't going to happen.

Guys, if you can't score right away with her, don't sweat it; it doesn't have to mean that anything is wrong with you. Never play games with women as this always comes back to bit you in the ass later. If all you want is casual sex, say so up front. I met a woman I am still seeing because that's what she wants. We agreed if we become serious we would stop seeing each other and if we see someone else we stop.

I am also disgusted that some men consider a woman who was raped to be damaged goods and totally write her off. Rape is a crime of assault and if a woman confesses this to you she is probably scared of how you will react.

Do yourself a favor and never let this stop you from seeing someone. Put sex off and help her through it. If it doesn't work, move on and don't pretend to be compassionate to score with her. Have faith and trust yourself and always be a gentleman.

Answers to Why Single Women Want Great Sex

This week I want to focus on why single women want good sex:

To be more correct, single women don't want sex - they want good sex and romance. Women's desires are much greater than most men realize. But, unlike men, who are just after sex, single women are looking for great sexual experiences. Single women are very discriminating and choosy in picking sexual partners.

They are only interested in having a sexual encounter with a partner that:

1. Sexually arouses them.
2. Promises, by his manner or image or personality, to be "good in bed."

Single women want exciting, provocative, imaginative partners who will lead them through great sexual experiences. Though their sexual desire may be very high, they will pass up just any sexual encounter waiting to find the one that promises to be special.

The fact that single women are choosy about who they go to bed with and have sex with is a dilemma for men, but there is one good aspect to this trait. Single women, once they do choose, tend to stay with him, and are reluctant to change partners. Single women know that good sex is hard to find, so once they have it, they would rather hang on to that relationship than go back out into the market place. Keep in mind this propensity to stay in a relationship because sex exists only as long as the sex is good.

The last thought in this section is something that we have come to realize is a cardinal rule to be used in reading women. That is: SINGLE WOMEN HAVE SEX WITH MEN WHO THEY WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH. At first, this phrase may sound too simple and obvious to have any wisdom to it, but let us expand on it.

The meaning behind it is, that if a woman decides that she would like to sleep with someone, she will pursue that person relentlessly. And on the other hand, if a woman has decided that she is not interested in sleeping with someone, no amount of pursuit or persuasion is going to move her. Many men have wasted their precious time and energy by ignoring this reality.

If you order our best-seller, "A Man's Guide to Women" (Item #034 at http://www.getgirls.com) we will show you how you can read single women well enough to know whether or not to continue interest in her, or to bow out and put your energies into women where the odds of success are greater.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Awesome Dating Tips to Succeed with Single Women

Tip #1 - When you first meet a single woman, don't come on all hot and horny like a dog in heat. This approach rarely works and scares women away. Just approach her with a nice smile and lots of warmth and friendliness.

Tip #2 - Here's a great idea that will attract single women like crazy in nightclubs and bars. Bring your laptop computer with you and set it up on your table. Use your laptop and act like you are totally focused and consumed with what's on the screen. Before long, single women will be approaching you, wondering what you are doing. Their curiosity will be killing them. I would recommend loading your computer with games. Then you can show her how to play and you can make your move from there by asking her out or for her phone number. You could also say you are writing a book on meeting and dating women and ask her for her input on a subject such as, "What are the worst pick-up lines you have heard from men?"

Tip #3 - What's the best way to ask a woman for her phone number? Here's the best way: "I'd like to take you out sometime, can I have your phone number?" Be sure and always carry a pen and paper with you at all times, just for this purpose.

Tip #4 - After she gives you her phone number, how long do you wait before you call her? If she seemed interested in you, wait 5 days (this is to keep her guessing and thinking about you). If she did not seem too interested in you, wait 2 days.

Tip #5 - When asking for single women for a date, be specific about the date. Example: "Let's have dinner at Steak & Ale Thursday night at 7 p.m. and afterwards we can go have a drink at Boogie Nights Nightclub."

Tip #6 - When you are on a date with a woman, be sure and mimic her body language, tone of voice, rate of speech, and her breathing. This will make her feel closer to you and feel attracted to you. Try this. It works!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Tell if a Single Woman Has the Hots for You

This week I want to talk about clues women leave that will help you determine if she is interested in you are not.

It's very important to learn how a single woman acts, speaks, and uses body language around you that indicates that she is romantically or sexually interested in you. When you learn these signs, you can use this to your advantage. If a woman is truly interested in you, this really increases your chances of scoring with her.

Use these guidelines to tell if a single woman is truly interested and attracted to you:

• Big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing, with a relaxed face.
• She gazes in your eyes with deep interest and her pupils are dilated (this could be mistaken for being high on drugs).
• Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking her lips or touching of her front teeth.
• While talking to you she is slowly stroking her cocktail glass up and down with her thumb and index finger.
• If she is wearing clothes that shows her nipples underneath and you notice they are getting perky and erect.
• She starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm.
• Her crossed leg is pointed towards you or if that same leg is rocking back and forth towards you.
• She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours.
• She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. This indicates that she's thinking about you and her relating in some way.
• She blows smoke straight out from between her lips and toward you.
• She winks at you while talking to you or winks at you from a distance.
• She exposes the palms of her hand facing you.
• She twirls her hair around her fingers while she is looking at you.
• Her skin tone becomes red while being around you.
• She rubs her wrists up and down.
• She puts her fingernail between her teeth.
• She laughs in unison with you.
• She touches your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand while talking to you.
• Plays with her jewelry, especially with stroking and pulling motions.
• She mirrors your body language and body positions.
• Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile usually indicates interest in you.
• While talking to you, she rests an elbow in the palm of one hand, while holding out her other hand, palm up.
• In a crowd she speaks only to you and focuses all of her undivided attention on you.
• While talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes.
• She speeds up or slows down her speaking to match yours.

I know this is a lot of signs to look for, but this will be to your advantage to know if she's interested in you. If she's not truly interested in you, you will just be wasting your time on her. Memorize these positive signs to determine if she's got the "hots" for you and take advantage of the situation accordingly with your charm and seduction techniques.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com