Women and Sex

Women are far more discriminating than men are concerning sex. They desire sex as much as men do, but whereas men will often have sex with anyone, women are looking for someone special. They are passing up sex with just anyone to wait for someone to come along who they deem to be that special guy. Women today not only want sex, they want good sex. And as far as women are concerned, whether or not the sex they have is good is the responsibility of the man.  We, as men, are the first ones to point out that this fact is unfair, but also the first to point out that it is a reality that we all have to live with.

The next time you are trying to figure out girl’s actions, just suppose that she is as motivated and swayed in her behavior by sexual desire as you are. Time and again, men ask us, "Why did she go for him? He doesn't have nearly as much going for him as I do." The answer is simple:  She was more sexually attracted to him than you. And that is it in a nutshell. Women are choosing men just like men choose women - by sexual attraction. If girls are interested in you, it is your sex appeal that got your foot in the door, and now good sex will help keep you there.

Sex is a very powerful aspect of relationships. This is not to say sex is the total element of a relationship, but we are saying that it plays a larger role than people like to admit. Women, just like men, will want to meet someone or start a relationship with someone if they find that person sexually attractive. And, as the relationship continues, good sex is often the strongest glue that holds the two people together.