OK, you understand what women want. You have tailored your image accordingly. You have chosen a woman. You have met her. You have dated her. You have romanced her. You have made love to her. And now you are in a relationship. Finally you can relax. Wrong!

Now the real work begins. Previously, you were in a situation where she saw you at your best. When you were meeting her and dating her, you made sure that your clothes were right, you were groomed and the mood was right. Your best foot was forward. She saw not you, but your best image. Now that the relationship has begun, you will be together more often and she is going to see more of the real you - your weaknesses, your insecurities, your bad habits, and if you are like most men, you may be in real trouble.

Now, more than ever, you are going to need imagination, spontaneity and leadership. You are going to have to continue to romance her. You must continue to be infinitely aware of the eight elements of what women really want and maintain your image accordingly. You are going to have to make sure that she does not become disenchanted with what she has. And don't forget - people are more apt to become disenchanted with what they have, than with what they don't have.

How to Seduce Single Women With Candles, Incense, and Fireplaces  This week I will focus on how to make your apartment or house more romantic for seducing single women. All you need are three simple things:

1. scented candles
2. incense
3. firewood or artificial logs
These powerful aphrodisiacs really turn single women on and put them in a romantic mood for seduction.

 You will need to go to the store and buy an assortment of scented candles and incense. Then when you have the women over at your place, get her opinion on which scent she likes before you light the candles and incense.  After she has made her selection light them up and the erotic and stimulating scents will fill the air. Now, all you have to do is dim the lights, put a log in the fireplace, and put on some romantic music ( I highly recommend using one of our Seduction Tapes).  With this romantic atmosphere you should be irresistible to women.
And don't make the mistake of thinking candles and incense are for sissies. Women are very attracted to these romantic gestures and the bottom line is preparing single women for your advances.

If  a  Woman  Doesn't  Show  She  Likes Me Right Away, She Really Doesn't Like Me and Will Never Like Me

This is  an unproductive belief that  a woman, upon first meeting her, must show complete interest  in you by verbal and non-verbal communication.

This is a  perfect example of this misconception. You ask a woman to dance and she  readily accepts. After the dance is over she accepts another mans invitation to dance. You get all  upset and you say to yourself, "If  she  was  really  interested  in me, she would have found some excuse not to dance with that guy when he asked her."

What  this  guy  doesn't  know  is  that  in the majority of cases like this, is that  when interest is not immediately  shown to the other, this doesn't mean that the possibility of liking you may not be there.

So, don't give up on a woman if  she accepts another guys invitation to dance. Just keep on pursuing her.

In conclusion, a lot of times a woman will not show her interest  in  you  following  a  brief initial  meeting.   Prolonged communica­tion  and conversation  are  necessary before she can feel comfort­able in showing her interest in you.

Irresponsible Topless Dancers

If you hang out in topless clubs and try to pick up topless dancers, this is the type you will most likely date. They will frustrate and disappoint you. 
I'm not saying you have to accept it, but if you want to date these girls you're going to have to tolerate it.  What I'm trying to say is topless dancers are some of the most irresponsible and undependable women you will ever meet in your life.
This has happen to me many times in my encounter with topless dancers.  You give them your phone number and they never call or they forget to call.  She gives you her phone number, but you can never get a hold of her.  She says she will meet you for lunch, but never shows up.  She says she will meet you after she gets off work to go party, but disappears.  She makes plans with you, but constantly cancels the date.  So, what's a guy to do with all these frustrations and disappointments?  There's not much you can do.  It's their nature.  Just be patient and don't take her irresponsible nature to seriously.  Accept the fact that most topless dancers aren't very dependable.
Too much alcohol, drugs, and partying can take its toll on a dancer mentally and make her irresponsible.  This can certainly explain why some of these girls act like bimbos and airheads.  The body and mind can only take so much abuse.

Sex is a very powerful aspect of relationships. This is not to say sex is the total element of a relationship, but we are saying that it plays a larger role than people like to admit. Women, just like men, will want to meet someone or start a relationship with someone if they find that person sexually attractive. And, as the relationship continues, good sex is often the strongest glue that holds the two people together.

If it were possible to take an objective survey, we wouldn't be surprised if the results concluded that many break-ups today stem from sexual dissatisfaction or sexual boredom, and that partners leave the relationship because they are looking for something better. More specifically, exciting sexual experiences. Women are leaving relationships because of this more so today than ever before.

And what does all of this mean? What is the point of this chapter all boiled down to one sentence?

If you want to be successful with a woman, you'd better know how to keep her sexually satisfied.
This article is from our best-selling book, "A Man's Guide to Women."

Most Men Are Lucky That Meet And Attract Women


This  is a  misconceived notion  that meetingwomen happens to  other  men  because  of  luck  and good breaks. Picking up  or meeting a woman rarely happens by accident. Somebody has got to take that first step to initiate  contact  with  a  woman.  The only difference between you  and the other man  is he takes action, not because of a stroke of luck. So remember, you must go out and initiate  action. You must make  the effort to meet women.

How to Handle Rejection From Women
Rejection, rejection by a woman, rejection by the woman, the woman who has captured your thoughts, the woman whose smile sends shivers of warmth down your spine, the woman whose touch you dream of ... this icy doom fills you with dread. It is the utter desolation of helplessness. It is the worm of self-doubt. It is the gripping fear that warns you to abandon hope.
Rejection is a part of everyday life. People are turned down for raises, refused promotions, declined for loans, and passed over for recognition. Rejection is not final. Rejection is not ruin. Indeed, rejection can be the precursor to eventual success.
There is nothing personal about rejection. It happens to everyone. It is part of "the cost of doing business". It is intimately connected with risk taking. Every worthwhile endeavor at some point involves the risk of failure. This is what makes life interesting.

It is only by risking our persons from one hour to another that we live at all. And often enough our faith beforehand in an uncertified result is the only thing that makes the result come true.
Consider a rejection as a "second opinion" of sorts. The woman who rejects you might well have sounder judgment in the matter of a possible relationship than you. She may have compelling reasons for her conclusion that you are ill suited for each other, saving the both of you a great deal of future grief. This does not, of course, mean you are worthless as a person, just that she was not meant for you, and that you should find someone else.
There are techniques that can remove some of the sting from the fear of rejection. Simply "scoping the situation out", proceeding in small steps, rather than taking the grand plunge all at once is a prudent method of risk management. Asking a woman you have just met to become intimately involved with you is an enterprise almost certain to fail. Asking her to share five minutes over a cup of coffee is a more modest proposal, one much more likely to meet with her approval (after that, she may hint, or even let you know outright if she is willing to go farther). Tackle tricky situations in small increments.
When you do face rejection, and you will, accept it with good cheer. Bounce back and try again (presumably with a different woman). Continued life experience will desensitize you to the trauma of having doors slammed in your face. You learn to survive. You learn to go on. You learn to keep trying.
Since everything in life is but an experience perfect in being what it is, having nothing to do with good or bad, acceptance or rejection, one may well burst out in laughter.

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