Art of How to Get Single Women to Like You


One of the easiest ways to get single women to like you is just simply by paying attention to them.

And the best way to capture her attention is to revolve your conversation around the things that she is interested in. People in general tend to pay attention to the things that interest them and block out the things that hold no interest to them.

Just the act of paying lots of attention to your date will reap enormous rewards. The more you pay attention to her the more she's going to feel important and valuable.

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Just the opposite of this can get you in a lot of trouble and cause you to lose favor from your date. If you pay no attention to what she's saying, guess what's going to happen? She's going to assume that you're not interested in her and she may become angry because you're not interested in what she has to say.

Maybe I shouldn't be saying this, but fake it if you have to. Pretend you're interested in what she has to say out of courtesy and respect. People don't like to be ignored.



Let me give you a simple dating tip that is the key to paying attention to your date. The art of paying attention is to listen intently and carefully to what she is saying. This will go a long way in building trust and respect and getting her to like you and feel comfortable with you.

Another tip I want to share with you is during your conversation don't spend all your time concentrating on what you're going to say next or what you want to say. When you do this your mind will tend to tune out what she is saying because your mind is so busy thinking of what you're going to say next. Focus first on what she's saying and give it your undivided attention.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Succeed With Women Using Mental Focus


This week I want to talk about the subject of mental focus to help you succeed with single women. Anything you focus your mind on on a consistent basis with all your heart and 100% effort will bring about that which you focus on.



So what do you need to focus on? I'm sure there are areas in your love life that need improvement. Here are some examples to focus on:

  1. Don't have a girlfriend? - focus your mind on finding a girlfriend. Do whatever it takes to meet and find her.
  2. Lonely? - focus your mind on establishing new friendships with the opposite sex. It doesn't have to be a romantic friendship. It can just be a female companion to just hang out with.
  3. Horny? - we all know what spells relief for this problem. Focus your mind on finding a woman to solve this problem.

These are just a few examples. I'm sure you can think of other dating problems that you need to solve by focusing on their solutions.

The power of using positive mental focus can do wonders in improving your dating and love life. Negative mental focus can do lots of harm to you succeeding with single women. Here's a couple of negative examples that bring you setbacks in your pursuit of single women for love, romance, and relationships:

  1. You keep focusing on why your love life is not working.
  2. You focus on having bad luck with women and why is this happening to me?
What's bad about the above examples is that if you focus on them enough this is what you will experience. You will create a self-fulfilling prophecy.

So, what you want to be sure and do is have positive mental focus to bring about the positive changes you want in your love life.

Totally focus on the positive changes and actions you are going to take to find love and romance.

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Totally consume your mind with thoughts of finding someone special. Before you know it that person will suddenly appear out of nowhere. We tend to attract the things that we constantly focus on.

In closing, try this system of intense focusing to help you succeed with single women beyond your wildest dreams.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Misconceptions About Mailorder Brides


Probably the most common misconception is the idea that what all these single foreign women want is to come to America.

The truth is that, while coming to America has a attraction for some women, this is not the main motivation for most foreign women seeking American husbands. Probably the majority of single foreign women are attracted to American men simply because they see them as better than the men at home. In many countries the lot of a woman is not very pleasant. They are not treated well by the men in their own cultures and they see Americans as men who treat their wives quite well.

In comparison with the men found in most countries, American men are a pretty good lot. They are certainly the most sought after men in the world by women seeking husbands. A lot of people jump to the conclusion that the main reason for this is that the women are all primarily interested in coming to America and that's their main motivation. This is untrue.




For the most part, the single foreign women looking for American husbands are simply seeking a good husband, first and foremost. For those living in poor countries the prospect of coming to America is a factor, but it's usually never the primary one. Most women are simply looking for good husbands. They want husbands who will provide good homes for them, who will treat them well and not beat them or run around on them. They get all too much of that at home and are seeking something better.

In the light of the O. J. Simpson case, sensation-seeking media paint the picture as though wife abuse is a far greater problem in the US than it really is. The truth is that, while there is a problem, it's not nearly as bad in America, as a percentage of total population, as it is in many other cultures. Foreign women know this. That's the major reason why so many of them are interested in finding an American husband.

The main reason why American men are so highly sought after as husbands is because American men, as a whole, treat women far better than do the men in most other countries. American men treat their wives extremely well, by world standards. In contrast to American women, who are widely viewed as the world's worst wives, American men are widely viewed as the world's best husbands. This is what makes them so attractive to single foreign women.

This week's contribution is from Gary Clark, the author of, "Your Bride Is In The Mail."

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Avoid Treating Single Women Like One of the Guys


I'm sure that you are aware of how you act when you're around your buddies. You tend to joke around with each other, tease each other with insulting comments that are meant to be humorous, get involved in horseplay, etc. This is all done in fun and not meant to offend anyone. It's just a guy thing.

It's ok to act this way when you're around your buddies, but don't do it when you're on a date. One surefire way to ruin a potential relationship is to treat her like one of the guys. Don't do it!

When you tease, poke fun at, degrade, make offensive remarks all in fun at your date guess what happens? If she's the sensitive type, she will get very offended. You may think this behavior is no big deal because you're used to acting this way around your buddies, but trust me guys, she won't appreciate it and hold it against you.

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You see, while you're making all these meant to be funny comments, she is keeping score. And the score is not in you favor my friend. She will remember all your teasing and insults and take it personally.

In closing, I just can't stress to you enough how important it is to not treat single women you date like one of the guys. You will just end up hurting her feelings.



Do this instead: Make her feel good about herself and be as romantic and affectionate towards her as possible. You will have much, much more success with single women if you will take this approach.

P.S. Also, don't treat your date like one of the guys when you're on a double date. This makes matters much worse because you will be offending her in front of others and this will really alienate her. Plus, the other girl won't appreciate it either.

And when they go to the restroom together they may make comments to each other about what a creep you are. By being labeled a creep, this sure isn't going to help you get a second date. Wouldn't you agree?

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How Being a Porcupine Causes Dating Problems with Single Women


I'm sure that you are familiar with the animal porcupine. They have sharp prickly needles all over their bodies and you just can't get close to them.



Are you acting like a porcupine when you're around single women? Does this describe you:

  • Do you have a chip on your shoulder?
  • Are you oversensitive and tend to analyze everything someone says as directed to you in a negative say?
  • When you're on a date do you expect to be offended and rejected?
  • When on your date do you focus all your attention on trying to find faults with your date?
  • Do you reject a woman's advances to try and get to know you intimately?
  • Do you think all women are cold, stuck-up, self-centered, and standoffish?
These are all classic symptoms of being a human porcupine. And ,what is sad is that you may not even be aware of it. And being this way can cause you to be a failure with single women.

I'm sure you've heard the old saying, "What goes around come around." Well, if you treat women coldly and don't let anyone get close to you, guess what happens? Women will respond in kind and treat you the say way.

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What you want to do to break this porcupine curse is to act just the opposite. Be friendly, kind, warm, affectionate, caring and loving towards single women and they will tend to treat you the same way. In other words you've got to give love to receive love.

In closing, it would be helpful to consult with a very close friend or relative to have them give you their honest opinion to whether you have any of the symptoms of being a human porcupine. If you do have any of these symptoms, go to work on yourself right away to eliminate these negative traits that can play hell with your love life.

You may be scaring away women and not even be aware of it. And the reason might just be because you're acting like a porcupine.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Avoid These Mistakes When Dating Single Women


Nobody likes a whiner and complainer. So, when on a date avoid the tendency to bitch and moan about how the world is treating you unfairly. Hold your tongue about how you were mistreated by your ex-girlfriend or wife. Trust me, one of the best ways to ensure that you don't get a second date with a woman you're trying to impress, is to bitch and gripe about everything while on your first date.

When on a date with single women your best strategy is to be upbeat and positive. You'll make a much better impression on her this way instead of acting negative.

Now let's talk about the second thing you must try to avoid when on a date. That is arguing. Some people just by their nature, want to argue and disagree about everything. Don't do it guys! This will turn your date off and I'll explain why.

When you are arguing with a woman you're on a date with you are in a sense telling her that her opinions, thoughts, ideas, and things that she's learned in a lifetime don't make a damn bit of sense and she's totally wrong. Believe me, people don't like to be told they are wrong. This puts them in a defensive mode and they will resent you and make them angry.

So, do you want your date pissed off at you? If you consistently insult her intelligence and disagree with her, do you really think that she's going to want to see you again and expose herself to being mistreated and disrespected again? I think not!

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Avoid arguing if at all possible while on a date. If she is obviously wrong about something and you can't bite your tongue, then create a third party to do your arguing for you. How do you do this? Let me explain:



Make a comment that such and such said (another person, what you heard on the radio or TV, what you read in a magazine, newspaper, or book, etc.). I think you get the picture here. She won't be arguing with you directly, she will be disagreeing with a third party and in this way it let's you off the hook.

This is kind of a sneaky way of arguing, but it works! Try it.

In closing, if you're the type of guy who enjoys arguing and trying to prove people wrong about everything they say just to boost your own ego, you will become a very unpopular person. People will go out of their way to avoid you and this unfortunately includes the women that you date.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on How to Get Single Women to Like You


This week I want to focus on the secrets to getting single women to like you.

When you first meet a woman you tend to focus on getting her interested in you and to like you. And a lot of guys make the mistake of trying too hard to impress women. Let me explain...

They spend most of their conversation focusing on their interests, material possessions, who they know, accomplishments, wealth, professional status, etc. This is the wrong approach, guys. The best way to impress single women is to be impressed by them and not spend all your time trying to impress them. Focus on how impressed you are with their:

  • Interests
  • The way they look and dress
  • Knowledge and intelligence
  • Sense of humor
  • Cute smile
  • Luscious and kissable lips
  • Career
  • Communication skills
  • Goals and aspirations
  • Love nature
  • Nice apartment or house
  • Cooking skills
  • Nice furnishings and decor
  • Etc.
I'm sure you get the picture now. Just direct all of your conversation away from yourself and focus on her and how impressed you are with her. This will really make a good impression on her and get her to like you.

The philosophy in this article works wonders when you want a woman to become interested in you. To get her interested in you, you must first become interested in her. Try this philosophy and you will be amazed at how much more successful you will be with women.



I also want to make some comments on the importance of establishing friendships with the women you date. Friendship and romance go very well together. There's nothing like having a mate who is both your best friend and a lover. So, I highly recommend that you focus all your energies on becoming a close friend to a woman you are starting to date. Building a close and strong friendship will go a long way in creating a happy relationship with a very strong emotional bond between you.

And, remember that to be a friend, you must first be a friend. You must reach out and initiate a friendship.

In closing, I recommend that you adopt my strategy that has helped me seduce more women than I could handle: Become friends first, lover second. Get into her mind first before you get into her pants.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice for Overcoming Rejection from Single Women


Are you limiting your chances for finding love and romance because of your fear of rejection when trying to meet single women or approaching them? This is a common fear and a big obstacle in taking action to meet those women you desire.

The problem is that you build up so much anxiety that it creates fear. The actual rejection is actually not that big of a deal. It's the self-induced fear and anxiety created by your own mind is the problem. Sometimes our mind is our worst enemy.

Put things in perspective. So what, if you're rejected by someone that you hardly know. Chances are you'll never see her again anyway. Just put the rejection behind you and not take it seriously and don't dwell on it...get over it! If you're going to play the dating game, getting rejected is just part of the game whether you like it or not.

Not every woman you meet or approach is going to be receptive to your advances. The main thing, is to keep on trying and never give up! Sooner than you think you'll meet a woman who likes you and will be receptive to your advances.

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There's another disadvantage of being afraid that women will reject you. And that is giving women power over you. They have the upper hand over you and ruling your emotions. You must not let this happen! You are the captain of your own ship. You are in charge of everything that happens to you. You have the power to react or choose not to react when you get rejected. You're much better off not reacting at all.

You must keep another fact in mind when you get rejected. She has every right to say no to you. And you have the right to say no to others. It's your choice. We all have the freedom to accept or reject anyone.

In closing, accept rejection as the price you have to pay until you meet someone who likes you and is attracted to you. Rejection is just a risk that you have to take if you want to succeed with women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Single Man's Guide to Balding


This week I want to discuss the sensitive subject of balding. I know a lot of you guys freak out when you start losing your hair. So, what can you do about it? What I recommend is that you bald gracefully. And, you'd be surprised how many single women are turned on by bald men.

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I'm going to give you some tips to make you more attractive to single women if you are balding:

  • If you have just a few strands of hair on top, don't comb them over to the side or forward. This looks silly! Just go ahead and shave your head on top. It will look much, much better.
  • If you are bald on top, don't wear your hair thick on the sides. Just wear your hair real short and trimmed on the sides. It will look much, much better and give you that clean-cut look that single women like.
  • Consider growing a mustache or goatee to draw attention to your face rather than your head where you are bald or balding.
  • You know, a lot of guys are shaving their heads and going completely bald. This style is in and lots of women like it. Shave your head as an experiment and wear it around women and ask them how you look. Some men really look sexy when completely bald.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Method to Pick Up Single Women With Teddy Bears


This is a unique way to meet, attract, and pick up single women using what I call the, "Teddy Bear Method." This involves bringing a small teddy bear with you to bars and nightclubs. You can buy these little teddy bears at any toy store.



All you have to do is set it on your table and it will attract women's curiosity. I guarantee it! They will approach you and ask, "Who's the teddy bear for?" You will reply, "I'm giving it to the first lady who will meet me for lunch or dinner. Would you be interested?"

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Try this method and eventually some attractive single woman will take you up on meeting for lunch or dinner and she will get the teddy bear as a gift from you. She will admire you, too, for your unique approach in getting a lunch or dinner date with her.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

10 Top Reasons Single Women Reject Voice Personals


When you respond to a single woman's voice personal ad and you get no response, do you ever wonder what went wrong? You feel like you made a good recording on her voice mail box and you never hear back from her. You feel a little frustrated and rejected.



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To help you figure out what went wrong, here are the Top 10 reasons she did not try to get in touch with you after hearing your message in her voice mail box assigned by the personals publication:

  1. Your message contained sexual overtones. This is a sure-fire way to scare women off.
  2. The tone of your voice was too soft when replying. The system could not pick up your voice and cut you off. This caused your message to not be recorded, thus, she can not respond to you if there is no message.
  3. Your voice turned her off. I'm sure you can relate to this. I'm sure you've heard women's voices that get on your nerves.
  4. Your message was way too long. You really dragged it out to the point where it became monotonous and boring.
  5. There was a long pause while making your message and the system thought you were through and cut you off.
  6. You used too much slang in your message such as "You know," "You know what I mean," etc.
  7. You stuttered and mumbled too much when making your message. This is a big turn-off!
  8. Your message was too short and only contained one or two sentences such as "Hi my name is Don. Let's get together sometime and have some fun. Call me at 484-2424."
  9. If you used your cellular phone to make your message, it may have faded out on you and the system did not pick up your message.
  10. In your message, all you did was brag about yourself and your material possessions. In other words you came across as stuck on yourself. This is a big no no!
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Warning Signs for Marriage Problems

Guys, I just can't express to you how serious marriage is and your choice of the right mate is critical to your happiness. I want you to succeed in marriage and it's a wonderful feeling spending the rest of you life with someone you love, get along with, and share common goals and interests with.



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This week I want to alert you to some warning signals to look for that may potentially lead to a divorce, if you're planning on getting married:

  1. How do her parents treat each other? Do they disrespect each other and are they always arguing and showing no love for each other? Our personalities are influenced by our parents. The way her parents treat each other can be an indicator of how she will treat you when you're married. If it's negative, watch out.
  2. Find out about her work history. If she has drifted from one job to another, this could indicate she has a problem getting along with others. And if she can't get along with others she might not be able to get along with your friends and relatives, which can lead to marital friction.
  3. If you don't drink and are turned off by people who drink, don't marry a woman who drinks a lot. This can cause major problems.
  4. Does she have financial problems? Does she mismanage her money, in debt, overspends and shops all the time with no thought whatsoever if she can afford it? When you get married, things will be no different. She will most likely be the same way financially. If you are frugal and good with money, then money is going to be a major source of conflict in your marriage.
  5. Do her parents object to you getting married? If they do, then cool it for awhile. Put off the wedding until they have your blessings.
  6. I'm not trying to preach religion to you, but it's a known fact that the family that prays together stays together. Sharing your religious beliefs is a very strong foundation for a successful marriage. So, if you want a Christian home, you should not marry a nonbeliever. Also, keep in mind that marriages with different faiths can cause problems.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com


A Few Conversation Tips on How to Talk to Women


When you're out on your first date with a single woman, it's quite natural to ask questions to get to know her better. However, there's an art to asking questions and I will teach you how.



Here's what not to do, which will make a bad impression on your date. Whatever you do, don't ask one question after another. This will make her feel like she is being interrogated or interviewed for a job.

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The best way to ask questions is to let her answer, then add additional comments and conversation around her answer. In other words, make her answer a topic of conversation. Then you can weave in some more questions using the same technique.

Using this technique will be non-threatening and not so obtrusive. Plus, she will admire your conversational skills by you expressing interest in her answers.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Places for Meeting, Dating, Seducing Women


First of all, I would like to thank you for your site. I discovered it by accident and it has been an exceptional help in my never-ending endeavor to meet incredibly desirable, single(<---usually) women. Although I have not had much trouble in this area, your tips of the week and newsletters have offered valuable insight to keep my advances exciting and new, instead of using the same old lines or routines. You're great!

A couple of excellent places to meet women, in my experience, have been:

Tanning spas - Women are their biggest clientele, and since they go there to "improve" their appearance/image, it only makes sense that you can easily start a conversation with a gorgeous woman by letting her know how much you appreciate the fact that she is looks as good as she does and how her tan really compliments her beauty, or hair, or whatever you notice about her at the time. Since women love compliments on the success of their efforts to make themselves desirable, a particularly sincere compliment can go a long way. You might even get her to rub the tanning lotion onto your back for you.

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The local theater or youth theater - Women love going to plays. And, I have found, I actually enjoyed it too, once I gave it an honest effort. So, if you attend a couple of them, it makes a great conversation opener to discuss the show you last went to, especially if you remember seeing that gorgeous brunette or redhead at the last play you came to, and she really appears single. Usually, women will go to these together, and also as usual, there will likely be only one or two married women in their groups, which increases your chances of finding an available cutie to talk to. The youth theater is great if you have a young sibling or niece or nephew to take along. The act of taking a child that is not yours to the play shows her that you are a great, caring guy and she will find these characteristics appealing. And chances are, she is spending time with children that are not hers, because she is just waiting for a fantastic guy like you to come along and spend some time with her!



Also, with both of these places, it indicates to her that you have something in common - like to tan and like watching plays. You should be a shoe-in!