The Book Method

What I'm about to describe to you is the best way in the world to attract women to you in bars and nightclubs. It's guaranteed to work and never fails! Women will literally flock all over you. You're probably saying to yourself, "That's a bunch of bull."

Let me explain the method. What you're going to be doing is reading in bars and nightclubs. Sounds crazy doesn't it? Now just place yourself in a woman's shoes and you see this man reading a book in a bar. Your curiosity is going to be killing you and you've just got to find out what he's reading and why in a bar. Get the picture now?

This is a highly successful method of attracting attention from women. Some women will even leave their dates to talk to you. You'll have a big edge on the other men because you're doing something unusual and different.

What should I be reading you ask? Well I'd recommend self-improvement, motivational and get rich books.

When you're asked why you're reading, you can go into detail about you wanting to improve yourself and you wanting to become financially independent. You tell them you're reading these books to motivate you and improve your life.

OK, now what to do when a woman approaches you:

Most likely she's going to say, "What are you reading?" or "Why are you reading in a bar?" Then you close your book and you say, "Why don't you sit down and let's talk about it." Explain why and then follow up on your conversational skills. After you've made contact and talked to her for awhile, invite her to dinner the following day.

If for some reason you get interrupted before you can ask her out, I would suggest saying, "Susan, this is very interesting, please call me tomorrow and we will discuss this further." Then give her a business card or personal card with your phone number on it. As a suggestion, you can use a folded business card and on the inside it reads, "I like you very much and I want to see you again! Please call me!

In the beginning you may find it difficult concentrating on reading with all the noise and commotion. With practice you can learn to block out the background noise. You will be interrupted frequently by people's curiosity but that's the main objective.

So why not give it a try. I guarantee you that It works like crazy!

Leading Up to the Proposal

Sometimes the girl may be a little slow to make up her mind about agreeing to your proposal. You may want to let her think about it for a while. One way is to suggest the private rendezvous at a time a few days hence, but don't require an answer until the next day. Allow at least 24 hours for her to consider the idea. A girl's romantic imagination will usually make the idea more attractive as she thinks more about it. You can arrange to phone her for her answer.

This is a good time to tell the girl you love her. But be careful not to say that unless it is true as it could cause future complications. A good alternative is to say, "I'm feeling very close to you right now," or "I just want to be near you," or anyone of a thousand other statements of affection.

Another smooth way to propose a sexual adventure is by oblique reference. You might say:

“You know! A lot of single couples are booking in as roommates for vacation weekends now. A buddy of mine and his girlfriend did it last weekend. It worked out great."

If she says, "Sounds cozy," or makes some approving remark, you have laid the groundwork for a similar proposal to her. You can surely think of plenty of variations on this theme. The idea, of course, is to describe another couple doing the things you want to do with her. Approval of their actions by her indicate that she is probably accepting the idea for the two of you.

1. On the first get-together, talk only about her - not yourself. By talking about her, you learn more about her which will be valuable to you in planning strategy. Also, it is a subject she will be comfortable with. By not talking about yourself, you let your image speak for itself. And don't forget, the less women know about you, the more women want to know about you. Be a man of mystery.

2. Finally, when you first get to know a girl, it would be better if she suspects that you are seeing other women as well as her. It makes you more attractive to her and she knows she will have to work hard to get you.

How do you suggest that there are other women in your life? Just doing all the things we suggested in this section will accomplish that: Playing hard to get; not rushing into sex; not calling every night; not always being available; and being unpredictable.