This tip is very important. Don't get drunk before you go to a topless club and don't get drunk while you're at a topless club. Why? This will impair your judgment in meeting topless dancers. You need to be mentally coherent to plan your strategies and take advantage of opportunities. Also, the dancers are turned off by drunks. They have to tolerate drunks, because it is part of the job, but I can assure you that it doesn't make a good impression on them.

When meeting a dancer and she asks you if you go to topless clubs very often. Here's your answer even if you have to lie: Just tell her "sometimes," or "very rarely." If you tell her otherwise, she may get the impression that all you do is cruise topless bars trying to pick up topless dancers. This will get you off on the wrong foot with her.

What's one of the best investments you can make to improve your love and sex life? Buy a hot tub. Why? This is one of best inventions ever created for seducing hot  sexy women. Here's how I used my hot tub to seduce tons of sexy beautiful women:

1. Keep a stock of pink champagne and margaritas on hand.

2. Also, buy some extra bathrobes for women and pairs of women's shorts (she can wear this with a T-shirt in case she doesn't have a bathing suit or doesn't want to skinny-dip).

3. The next step is to invite single women over for a date. I would suggest inviting her over for a steak dinner in which you do all the cooking and by all means have a candlelight dinner with romantic and sexy music in the background (if you really want to get her to crave you sexually, order our subliminal seduction tapes at: http://www.getgirls.com/sublim.htm) to create a romantic atmosphere.

4. Your next step is to offer her champagne or margaritas throughout the evening to warm her up and make her lose her inhibitions when you seduce her in your hot tub.

5. Start your seductive routine with kissing her tenderly to get some chemistry going (don't go any further than kissing her lips, neck, and shoulders - you'll get down to business later in the hot tub).

6. Your next step is to give her a massage. When you feel the time is right and you have worked her into a state of arousal tell her, "Let's go relax in the hot tub." If she says, "I don't have anything to wear." Reply, "I've got an extra bathrobe you can wear out to the hot tub if you prefer to skinny-dip or I can give you a pair of shorts and a T-shirt to wear."

7. If she prefers to skinny-dip then I can assure you you're going to score. If she does prefer to skinny-dip then you need to do likewise, otherwise if she prefers to wear shorts and T-shirt, then wear your bathing suit in the hot tub because she may become paranoid if you jump in the hot tub naked.

8. Now, we get to the good part! You're both in the hot tub and the combination of the heat, the jets of water massaging your bodies, the steam rising off the water, and being under the influence of alcohol will act as a natural aphrodisiac to put both of you in a state of heated passion and horniness. P.S. - Be sure and bring your iced bucket of champagne or margaritas out to the hot tub to drink while you're there to put her in a romantic mood.

9. All you gotta do now is make your moves. Bring her in close to you and start kissing her all over, working her into a heated frenzy. If she has clothes on, start to remove them when she is warmed up with lots of foreplay.

In conclusion, I guarantee you that you will seduce and make love to more single women if you buy a hot tub. Single women really lose their inhibitions and get real horny when they get in a hot tub, especially under the influence of alcohol. Hot tubs make it so much easier to seduce women. Believe me, I know and I have so many wonderful and lustful memories of the fun times and sex I had in my hot tub.

Also, be sure and make your hot tub area very private and discreet. Surround it by a lattice fence, bamboo fence, wood fence, or trees and shrubs. Some women will not want to make love if she thinks the neighbors can see you.

P.S. When you go to nightclubs or topless clubs, ask women if they want to come over for a "hot tub" party. I got some extra action with this method and a lot of interesting things can happen when you get some naked topless dancers in the hot tub with you - they really love to party!

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When you first meet a topless dancer, do these important steps to create a bond. Be the first to extend your hand during your initial greeting. While shaking hands, give her a warm friendly smile and say, "Hi, my name is _____." That's the best way to open the channels of communication between you and the dancer. She will be impressed by you shaking her hand also because most men don't.

You are showing her respect and making her feel special. It shows that you're a warm & friendly person and it helps to lower her defenses. It creates an atmosphere of receptivity between you and the dancer.
 

When you shake hands, be sure your hand acts as your private diplomat. Use a firm grip to show strength and friendliness. A grip that's too hard seems aggressive. A grip that's too soft suggests that you're weak, retreating or indifferent. As soon as you feel her grip relax, break the handshake. If it's a very quick handshake it indicates an obligatory handshake. I'll bet you didn't think handshaking was such an art.

 

Getting Ready and Psyched Up

Psyching yourself up and making preparations before you go out to topless clubs is very important. You need to feel at your best, so get a good nights sleep before you go out. Prior to leaving, eat a good healthy meal to put a lining on your stomach if you are going to be drinking. A couple of hours before you leave, put on some music that you are likely to hear in the topless clubs. The purpose of this is to get you in the mood for the topless club scene. Also, you need to prepare your subconscious mind for meeting and picking up topless dancers.

 Here’s how you do it. Make yourself a drink and sit down in your favorite easy chair, sofa, recliner, etc. Now, close your eyes and relax and picture in your mind meeting some hot & sexy topless dancer. See yourself talking to her, becoming intimate with her, her sitting in your lap and being all over you, see the glow in her eyes that says that she's attracted to you and desires you sexually. See yourself leaving the topless club with her after she gets off work and going to your place or hers or just meeting her somewhere for lunch or dinner.

You may think all of this is silly and what in the hell do I need to create all these images in my mind for? The purpose is to register all these images in your subconscious mind so that when you get to the topless club your subconscious mind will give directions to your conscious mind to act them out. Don't get discouraged if this does not work the first time because it takes a lot of repetition for this to be absorbed by the subconscious mind. Also, all day long on the day you're going to a topless club, keep telling yourself over and over "I'm going to meet and score with a very special topless dancer tonight." You will be amazed at the results you can have by psyching yourself up. There's another benefit to this by helping you develop a positive mental attitude and build up your self-confidence around the dancers.

 

The key to successfully meeting topless dancers is to not come on to them all hot & horny and wanting to jump their bones. Become their friend and exude warmth and friendliness. The worst thing you can do is treat them like a sex object. Make her feel special and appreciated.

Believe me; you will stand out in her mind as a special guy that's different than the rest of the men who come in the club. After all, the name of the game is to get her truly interested in you and attracted to you.

Be sure and flirt with the topless dancers in every situation. She can be walking by, sitting at your table, on the stage, etc. Let her know you noticed her and are attracted to her. Develop a very sexy looking gleam in your eye along with a warm smile as described above. Literally try to melt a dancer with your eyes. Practice this special look in your mirror and use it to meet dancers.

If you make eye contact with a dancer across the way and she turns away, don't get discouraged. Keep trying to make eye contact and smile at her. If she smiles back, motion for her to come over and join you. If she comes over after smiling at you, this could indicate that she's interested in meeting you. Make sure that when you're flirting that you do not stare. This is rather impolite and most people don't like to be stared at. The dancers don't mind when you stare when they're dancing because this is to be expected. Otherwise, they would feel uncomfortable by you staring at them.

 

Let's talk about smiles during your first meeting with a topless dancer. A warm and sexy smile can do wonders in getting a dancer attracted to you. A smile is your best way to break the ice with a dancer. It shows that you are a positive person. It lifts the spirits of the dancer and indicates that you're open to conversation. A warm smile communicates to her that you've noticed her in an approving way. Your smile says to her, “You look nice. Let's get to know each other." Be sure and examine your smile. You need to make sure that you're sending the right message when you smile at the dancers. Stand in front of a mirror. Smile naturally as if you were smiling at a dancer and check:

 1. Does your smile look warm, friendly, and sexy?

2. Are your teeth shiny and white?

Work on the areas that need improvement and beware of a smile that looks more like a forced grin. You probably need to relax your face more. Watch out for half-hearted smiles. This may be caused by shyness but they come across as not very warm. Also, if you smile comes across as phony, it may have been on your face too long. After smiling for a minute or so your lips begin to get tired and freeze into a glazed look. To cure this and freshen your smile, rest a moment. When you're not smiling, don't let your mouth give off negative messages. Tightly pursed lips can suggest anger and you certainly don't want to come across as angry when meeting a dancer. Also a turned down mouth communicates sadness or disapproval.

 

 

First Meeting

When you first meet a topless dancer, do these important steps to create a bond. Be the first to extend your hand during your initial greeting. While shaking hands, give her a warm friendly smile and say, "Hi, my name is _____." That's the best way to open the channels of communication between you and the dancer. She will be impressed by you shaking her hand also because most men don't. You are showing her respect and making her feel special. It shows that you're a warm & friendly person and it helps to lower her defenses. It creates an atmosphere of receptivity between you and the dancer.

When you shake hands, be sure your hand acts as your private diplomat. Use a firm grip to show strength and friendliness. A grip that's too hard seems aggressive. A grip that's too soft suggests that you're weak, retreating or indifferent. As soon as you feel her grip relax, break the handshake. If it's a very quick handshake it indicates an obligatory handshake. I'll bet you didn't think handshaking was such an art.

First of all, put yourself in a favorable position to meet topless dancers by following my guidelines in Chapter Two on the "hot spots" in topless clubs. Your main objective in meeting topless dancers is to not become a customer or let her treat you like a customer. You don't want to be someone that she just makes money off of. If you follow my advice in this book, you can become her lover and a friend and not just another customer she manipulates for money. That's what this book is all about and that is to give you an edge on meeting and picking up topless dancers.

Your game plan in meeting topless dancers is to establish a friendship and conversation. Get to know the girl first. And you must act different than the other guys that come in the club. Most men act like a bunch of horny animals around the dancers. They show the girls no respect, proposition them for sex, and treat them like whores. I can assure you the dancers are turned off by this behavior. They just put up with it because it's part of the job.

Mate-Seekers

 This is my favorite type of topless dancer and the easiest to score with.  This is a topless dancer who is actively seeking a lover or boyfriend.  She's un-attached and looking for a meaningful relationship.  Maybe in the back of her mind she wants to settle down and get married and do something else for a living. 

 

Unfortunately, a topless club is not the best place in the world to look for a long-term relationship or marriage partner.  The men that frequent the topless bars can be pretty seedy characters and immature men.  Not to mention all the married men that frequent topless clubs.  Plus, topless clubs attract horny men just looking for some sex.  Of course there are some decent men who frequent topless clubs too.  But, they too may not have much respect for the dancers and think they are nothing but whores.

This type of dancer is highly desirable because she's very friendly and easy to make contact with.  You can make a very strong impression on her by making her feel special.  Treat her with respect and don't treat her like a piece of meat.  Gain her trust and treat her like a queen, and if she's attracted to you, you shouldn't have any problem getting her phone number or getting her to meet you for lunch or breakfast when she gets off work on the night shift.   Also, if you play your cards right she may even go home with you after she gets off work. P.S.  Upon meeting a topless dancer for the first time, be sure and ask her if she is single and unattached. If she says she's single and unattached, perhaps she's the mate-seeker type and this is very favorable for you.                                                            

Irresponsible Topless Dancers

If you hang out in topless clubs and try to pick up topless dancers, this is the type you will most likely date. They will frustrate and disappoint you. 

                                                      
I'm not saying you have to accept it, but if you want to date these girls you're going to have to tolerate it.  What I'm trying to say is topless dancers are some of the most irresponsible and undependable women you will ever meet in your life.

           
This has happen to me many times in my encounter with topless dancers.  You give them your phone number and they never call or they forget to call.  She gives you her phone number, but you can never get a hold of her.  She says she will meet you for lunch, but never shows up.  She says she will meet you after she gets off work to go party, but disappears.  She makes plans with you, but constantly cancels the date.  So, what's a guy to do with all these frustrations and disappointments?  There's not much you can do.  It's their nature.  Just be patient and don't take her irresponsible nature to seriously.  Accept the fact that most topless dancers aren't very dependable.
          
Too much alcohol, drugs, and partying can take its toll on a dancer mentally and make her irresponsible.  This can certainly explain why some of these girls act like bimbos and airheads.  The body and mind can only take so much abuse.

These are the topless dancers right out of the pages of Playboy that you would die for and the kind of bodies men drool over.  I'm sure when you look at these girls you have all kinds of fantasies and your hormones are raging out of control.  Can you score with these dancers?  Yes.  Will it be easy?  No.  You're going to have to have something these dancers want and need.  And what can that be?  Material things, money, gifts, trips, something to further her career, cars, pay her rent, etc.

      
Will she date you if you have a lot of charm, good personality, and good looks or average looks, but not a man of financial means or material things to offer?  Well, maybe.  The main thing is to give it your best effort to get a date with these centerfolds.  So what if you get rejected.  It's not the end of the world.  Just move on to the next beautiful playmate.  Just look at it as a numbers game.  The more times you come to bat, the more chances you have to hit a home run.

Party Animals

This girl really likes to party, drinks heavily and loves to get high on drugs.  Is this good for you?  It can be to your advantage because of her being a free spirit she may go party with you after she gets off work.   She's not likely to just party with any guy.  She's got to be attracted to you and feel safe with you.

If all you do all night is make sexual advances towards her, it's unlikely she will go party with you.  These girls are just like any other normal girl in that they don't want to be used for sex.

So many men get the wrong impression about topless dancers.  They think that just because she takes her clothes off in front of men that she will be an easy lay.  Nothing could be further from the truth.  I know their occupation is considered sleazy, but the girls do have their dignity.

The party animal is one of the most fun to be with.  She's very open-minded and very friendly.  Your chances of getting a date with this type of dancer is more favorable too.  If you do date her, don't be the possessive and jealous type.  She may date a lot of men, being that she's loose and carefree and loves to party.  You're going to have a problem with this if you're the jealous type, so be forewarned!  If you determine that she's the party animal type, this should be your strategy: Buy her drinks and get her loaded.  She will be more receptive to your advances.  If she's loaded enough she may even give you free table dances.  If not, perhaps you could negotiate a buy one get one free offer.

TIP- If she's loaded, always ask her to show you her bush while she's dancing.  Being that she's drunk, she just may do it for you.  When a dancer is loaded she may do things she would not normally do.  Always remember this and use it to your advantage.

This is a topless dancer with a lot of experience and has been dancing for ten or more years.  She's more mature mentally, physically, and emotionally.  She knows all the ropes and is a seasoned veteran.  She's an expert at manipulating men for drinks and table dances and she's rather aggressive.  She can be every seductive and make you want to reach for your wallet.

           

Your best strategy for trying to score with veteran dancers is establishing a friendship first.  She's heard all the pick-up lines, men offering her gifts, trips, etc.  Hitting on her right out of the gate probably won't work well with this type of woman.  Gain her trust and friendship first and take it from there.  A word of advice - I'm not saying don't pursue veteran dancers, but you'll have a lot better luck with the young and inexperienced dancers.  There's one advantage to the veteran dancer and that is she is likely to give you a very seductive and sexually stimulating table dance.

P.S.  Remember to always ask a dancer when you first meet her, "How long have you been dancing?"

Centerfolds

These are the topless dancers right out of the pages of Playboy that you would die for and the kind of bodies men drool over.  I'm sure when you look at these girls you have all kinds of fantasies and your hormones are raging out of control.  Can you score with these dancers?  Yes.  Will it be easy?  No.  You're going to have to have something these dancers want and need.  And what can that be?  Material things, money, gifts, trips, something to further her career, cars, pay her rent, etc.

           

Will she date you if you have a lot of charm, good personality, and good looks or average looks, but not a man of financial means or material things to offer?  Well, maybe.  The main thing is to give it your best effort to get a date with these centerfolds.  So what if you get rejected.  It's not the end of the world.  Just move on to the next beautiful playmate.  Just look at it as a numbers game.  The more times you come to bat, the more chances you have to hit a home run.

This topless dancer really likes to party, drinks heavily and loves to get high on drugs.  Is this good for you?  It can be to your advantage because of her being a free spirit she may go party with you after she gets off work.   She's not likely to just party with any guy.  She's got to be attracted to you and feel safe with you.

If all you do all night is make sexual advances towards her, it's unlikely she will go party with you.  These girls are just like any other normal girl in that they don't want to be used for se

 

So many men get the wrong impression about topless dancers.  They think that just because she takes her clothes off in front of men that she will be an easy lay.  Nothing could be further from the truth.  I know their occupation is considered sleazy, but the girls do have their dignity.

The party animal is one of the most fun to be with.  She's very open-minded and very friendly.  Your chances of getting a date with this type of dancer is more favorable too.  If you do date her, don't be the possessive and jealous type.  She may date a lot of men, being that she's loose and carefree and loves to party.  You're going to have a problem with this if you're the jealous type, so be forewarned!  If you determine that she's the party animal type, this should be your strategy: Buy her drinks and get her loaded.  She will be more receptive to your advances.  If she's loaded enough she may even give you free table dances.  If not, perhaps you could negotiate a buy one get one free offer.

TIP- If she's loaded, always ask her to show you her bush while she's dancing.  Being that she's drunk, she just may do it for you.  When a dancer is loaded she may do things she would not normally do.  Always remember this and use it to your advantage.

Veteran Dancers

This is a topless dancer with a lot of experience and has been dancing for ten or more years.  She's more mature mentally, physically, and emotionally.  She knows all the ropes and is a seasoned veteran.  She's an expert at manipulating men for drinks and table dances and she's rather aggressive.  She can be every seductive and make you want to reach for your wallet.

Your best strategy for trying to score with veteran dancers is establishing a friendship first.  She's heard all the pick-up lines, men offering her gifts, trips, etc.  Hitting on her right out of the gate probably won't work well with this type of woman.  Gain her trust and friendship first and take it from there.  A word of advice - I'm not saying don't pursue veteran dancers, but you'll have a lot better luck with the young and inexperienced dancers.  There's one advantage to the veteran dancer and that is she is likely to give you a very seductive and sexually stimulating table dance.

P.S.  Remember to always ask a dancer when you first meet her, "How long have you been dancing?"

 Yes, some topless dancers do drugs or drink alcohol to get high and use it as a crutch to make her more comfortable in taking her clothes off.  The topless club scene lends itself to the drug scene.  There are guys trying to score with topless dancers by offering them drugs, dancers sharing drugs with other dancers, undercover agents trying to sell drugs, etc.

 Some clubs monitor the dancers for drugs and they will fire you if you're caught.  Other clubs just don’t care what the dancers do.  Should you reject a dancer that appears to be drunk or high on drugs?  No, because she may be feeling rather loose and perhaps even horny and this can be to your advantage by making your prey easier to catch.  Plus, you may be able to talk her into a free table dance.

 

That's why it's better to go to topless clubs just before closing time.  Later in the night the dancers may be drunk or high and under these influences they may shed their inhibitions.  Also, if they appear to be drunk or high while giving you a table dance, be sure and ask her to show you her bush.  Legally she's not supposed to do that in a topless club, but being that she's under the influence she just may do it.

One final word of advice.  If it's obvious that she's drunk or high don't come on real strong and be sexually aggressive with her.  She may think you're trying to take advantage of her because she's loaded.  Just be friendly with her and treat her with respect.

Yes, there are shy topless dancers.  Some feel very uncomfortable stripping.  Why do they do it then?  For the money!  It all revolves around money.  These girls really don't enjoy stripping and their hearts are not really not into it.  They are relieved when the dance is over.  Also, these girls can have a shy personality.  They are not very talkative and don't have much to say.  You will have to do all thetalking.  They are very introverted and you may deceptively think that she is not interested in you.

     
Don't give up on these types and get discouraged.  Accept the fact that she's a little shy and pursue her.  Once you break the ice and get them warmed up, they can certainly make your night worthwhile.  In my experiences, the best sex I had been with women who had shy personalities.

The Young and Inexperienced Topless Dancers

Concentrate all your efforts on trying to meet and pick up the young and inexperienced dancers.  They are a little more naive and more receptive to your advances.  The older dancers have heard all the come-on lines, propositions, repetitive techniques and they really get tired of having to put up with all the bullshit.

At least the young and in-experienced are new to what is going on in topless clubs and haven't developed a hardened attitude towards men.  These girls will be much easier to meet and get a date with.  Just be sure and ask her when you meet her, "How long have you been dancing?"  So you can get a feel for how inexperienced she is.  Of course, it will be obvious if she's a young or older dancer.