Goal Setting System for Scoring With Women:  Goal-setting is a powerful system in getting what you want, and this is, scoring with hot & sexy beautiful women. "As you think, so you become." If you focus on a goal with determination, backed with a burning desire, you'll experience it. Setting a goal to meet and pick up women is acknowledging to your conscious and subconscious minds that where you stand as far as scoring with women is not where you want to be. Having a goal creates positive pressure on yourself, which is necessary to move you forward and motivate you to pick up women.

Now, I will explain the following steps to goal-setting to meet and pick up women. Step 1- The first step in goal-setting is desire. Desire is the great motivator, the powerful force that drives you toward your goal. Step 2- The second step is belief - you must believe with all your heart and no doubts that you have the ability to achieve your goal. Step 3 - The third and most important step is to write your goal of meeting and picking up women in complete detail, exactly as you wish to have it. Until your goal is committed to paper by you, it is not a goal; it is simply a wish backed by perhaps a lot of sexual fantasies. Step 4 - The forth step is to determine all the benefits you will receive by achieving your goals of scoring with women. Write out on paper all the benefits you will enjoy by accomplishing your goal. You should really enjoy this step. Just let your imagination run wild and put it on paper.

 Step 5 - Step number five is to set a deadline- decide exactly when you are going to accomplish your goal of picking up women and put it on paper. Step 6 - Step number six is to identify the obstacles you will have to overcome to achieve your goal of picking up women. You will discover that any major obstacles lingering in your mind and preventing you from picking up women will become small when you write them down on paper. Step 7 - Step number seven is to clearly define the knowledge you need to learn in order to accomplish your goal. All the knowledge you need for meeting, attracting and seducing women is right in my tips of week archive located at: http://www.getgirls.com/archive.htm - Study it and put it into action. Also, our books at our website will help you gain all the knowledge you need. Step 8 - Step number eight is to take all the details that you have identified in step 6 and 7 and make a plan. Be sure and make it complete in every little detail, with all the things you need to do to accomplish your goal. Step 9 - Step number nine is to get a clear mental picture of your goal as already attained. Picture in your mind over and over seeing yourself scoring and picking up women. Just let your imagination run wild. Become completely obsessed with picking up women in your mind. Step 10 - Your final step is to back your plan with determination, persistence, and a burning desire to never, never give up until you have achieved your goal.

Here's an example of a written goal:

By ___________(insert date) I will pick up and score with a hot & sexy beautiful woman. I am now going out often and pursuing a relationship with women by every means possible until this goal is accomplished. I'm now taking action when I see an opportunity to pick up a woman. When I go to clubs now, I don't just sit there being passive and just watch other men meet and pick up women. I'm aggressive with women now and move into action quickly and easily. It is extremely easy now for me to meet and talk with women, get their phone number, date, seduce and become intimate with women.

Signed___________(your name) Date ____________

This is just an example of what to write for your goal. You can write whatever you want, this is just a guideline. This is very important. Write your goal on a 8 1/2 x 11 piece of paper, preferably blank with no lines. Now, you need to get copies of the popular womens' magazines featuring pretty women. Cut out pictures of the pretty models and paste them all around your written goal. When reading your goal look at these pictures and visualize yourself picking up women.

Looking at these pictures will work on your subconscious mind and motivate you to reach your goal. Read your goal and look at the photos twice daily. Once when you get up in the morning and once when you go to bed. These are the best times to do this because your subconscious mind is more receptive to suggestions at this time.

Additional Tips To Help You Achieve Your Goals

1. Focus all of your attention, desire and energy in accomplishing your goal at hand. Forget completely about any consequences of failure with women. Remember that you usually get what you think about most. 2. When you start on your goal, concentrate all of your energy without any distractions on the successful completion of your goal. Make reaching your goal an all-consuming obsession. 3. Develop a self-talk vocabulary to reach your goal of scoring. Make it a habit to repeat again and again to yourself, "I want to - I can" in regards to scoring with women. 4. Substitute the word "Try" with the word "Will" in your vocabulary associated with scoring with women. This is a form of semantics and creates a new attitude of concentrating on things that you "Will do," instead of things you plan to "Try," with a built-in excuse in advance for possible failure. 5. Substitute the word "Can't" with the word "Can" in your daily vocabulary too. Always tell yourself you "Can" do things you set your mind to.

In conclusion, set your goals and go for it! Happy Hunting!

If I Ask a Woman to Dance and She Turns Me Down or If I Talk to a Woman and She Ignores Me, It's Because I'm Not Worthwhile or Good Enough For Her.

This irrational belief causes shy men to fear approaching a woman and produces low self-esteem when they are rejected. This fear of being rejected and turned down prevents shy men from making contact with single women.

If you're turned down for a dance, it doesn't mean that you're not worthwhile or not good enough for her. She just may not feel like dancing at the moment. She may just be tired. She may not even dance.  There can be a number of reasons. So don't take it personally. However, what to do in a case like this is to use this pick up line to ask her, "Would you like to dance later?" If she says yes, just ask her again later. Even better, just ask her, "Well, can I join you for some conversation?" In the mean time just ask other women to dance.

Also, I might add, a lot of guys get turned down to dance, so don't feel that you're the only man in the world that happens to. It happens to all men, even real good-looking men.

If you approach a woman and try to start up a conversation and she ignores you, don't take that personally either. She just may not feel like talking or being bothered. Perhaps she's tied down to a boyfriend or even married. Also, you just might not be using the proper social skills.

So if she ignores you, move on to the next single woman and you'll find someone who will respond to your advances.

As you  probably know, when someone is sitting or standing with their  arms crossed across  their chest, it  usually  means  a person  does  not  want  to  be approached and probably doesn't care to listen to what you  have  to  say.  This  is  how  most psychologist interpret the crossed arms.

Don't let this mislead you though. When you see a woman with her  arms crossed she  just may be  frustrated and lonely and just not having  a good time. However, if she has a stiff and tense look on her face and she is sitting  in  a  stiff  manner  with her  legs tightly crossed  and purposely averts her eyes when you try to catch them with your own eyes,  you're probably better off not even trying to meet this girl.

A limp or hanging hand usually means she is bored, restless, or just  tired.  It can  also  indicate frustration or disgust.

For various reasons,  some women do not  want to be noticed. They  may feel  unattractive or  even ugly or may not be dressed properly, lack self-confidence, and may feel  inferior. They will just  stand around shyly or bashfully on the sidelines staring at the ground or watching everyone  else have  fun. These women may have such  a bad  complex that  they purposely  do whatever they can  to make themselves less  noticeable, such as dressing plainly, wearing little or no makeup, and wearing a non-becoming hairstyle.  In  essence  these  women  are saying, "Just leave me alone, find someone else to talk to."

The really  sad part about women  like this is that some of them  are really attractive. They  just have a complex they can't get rid of. If you want to invest a little time you could help them get over this complex. It might be worth the effort.

Yes, there are shy topless dancers.  Some feel very uncomfortable stripping.  Why do they do it then?  For the money!  It all revolves around money.  These girls really don't enjoy stripping and their hearts are not really not into it.  They are relieved when the dance is over.  Also, these girls can have a shy personality.  They are not very talkative and don't have much to say.  You will have to do all thetalking.  They are very introverted and you may deceptively think that she is not interested in you.

Don't give up on these types and get discouraged.  Accept the fact that she's a little shy and pursue her.  Once you break the ice and get them warmed up, they can certainly make your night worthwhile.  In my experiences, the best sex I had been with women who had shy personalities.