What I do Not Want From Women in the Personals


Here is a suggestion of what to use in a personal ad:

DEATH OR DISEASE: This is my number one no-no. Listen, I've never had sex with a gay man, a bi-sexual man, a transsexual man or any kind of man at all. I hardly ever go near Santa Monica Boulevard and, when I do the only place I ever stop is Barney's Beanery.

And, even then, I never eat quiche.



In other words, I'm straight. Also, I'm not a hemophiliac. I've never had a blood transfusion. I'm not a junkie and I never stick needles into my body. I'm not promiscuous. I don't mess around with prostitutes (I tried it years ago and it was boring), and I've never even been close to Africa or Haiti.

What this means, of course, is with any kind of luck at all (knock on wood) I do not have AIDS. Also, to my knowledge, I do not have any other type of dreadful communicable disease including syphilis, gonorrhea, herpes, hepatitis, or even the bubonic plague.

If you can't say the same, please, please do NOT respond to this ad.

What I do Not Want From Women in the Personals


What I do Not Want From a Woman

Here is a suggestion of what to use in a personal ad:

DEATH OR DISEASE: This is my number one no-no. Listen, I've never had sex with a gay man, a bi-sexual man, a transsexual man or any kind of man at all. I hardly ever go near Santa Monica Boulevard and, when I do the only place I ever stop is Barney's Beanery.

And, even then, I never eat quiche.




In other words, I'm straight. Also, I'm not a hemophiliac. I've never had a blood transfusion. I'm not a junkie and I never stick needles into my body. I'm not promiscuous. I don't mess around with prostitutes (I tried it years ago and it was boring), and I've never even been close to Africa or Haiti.

What this means, of course, is with any kind of luck at all (knock on wood) I do not have AIDS. Also, to my knowledge, I do not have any other type of dreadful communicable disease including syphilis, gonorrhea, herpes, hepatitis, or even the bubonic plague.

If you can't say the same, please, please do NOT respond to this ad.

How to Stay Away from Married Women in Personals


How to Avoid Women Who Are Married

Married people do lie and use the personal ads. The anonymity of placing and answering personal ads is probably the biggest attraction for married people. It may have happened to me but I don't think so. If it did, I wasn't aware when it happened.

I wish that there was some advice that I could give you that would guarantee that you could avoid married people or those in committed in relationships. There just isn't any that I know of. If you have a theory or technique that has helped you spot married people in the past in other situations, use it.

Some married people will place a personal ad and admit in the ad that they are married and out for a few "thrills."Others plead that they just need some "understanding." Some ask to meet someone that is married.



Let your conscience (and common sense) be your guide if you choose to respond. I have seen very few ads by women that admitted that they were married. I do not have any idea if that is because married women are less likely to run ads or do not admit they are married in them.

Some publications that run personal ads have a section for married people with particular "hobbies." If you are married and you want to run an ad, I really think that you should say that you are married and put your ads in one of those sections if is available. I don't have any advice for those of you that are married and want to answer ads.

10 Top Chick Magnet Cars


10 Cars to Attract Women Like a Magnet

Here is a list of the top 10 chick magnet cars:

  1. Chevy Camaro ZL1 ($47,000)
  2. Dodge Challenger SRT8 ($43,585)
  3. Ford Mustang Shelby GT500 ($49,495)
  4. Cadillac CTS-V Sedan ($63,660)
  5. BMW Z4 sDrive35is ($62,000)
  6. Audi R8 ($114,000)
  7. Lexus IS F ($59,760)
  8. Audi A7 ($59,250)
  9. Mercedes SLK 350 Roadster ($53,300)
  10. Nissan GT-R ($89,950)

So, guys you need to start saving your money for these cars. I personally have had my best luck attracting women with my Corvette, especially at the beach.


Massage Tips for Men

Sunday, August 28, 2022 | 0 comments »

How to Massage a Girl


Massage Tips for Men

If your girl is receptive to the idea of a massage then I have one key tip to offer you. When giving a massage, use the pads of your fingers, not the tips. When you use the tips of your fingers, it often feels like someone is clawing into your back, and it can hurt quite a bit, especially the muscles are really tense.



When you use the pads of your fingers, it feels much more soothing and relaxing.

But hey, if your girl is into that kind of pain, then dig in :-) Most of the girls I've been with tend to prefer the soothing kind of massage, and shy away from the painful variety.

When massaging a girl's neck or back try running your fingers through her hair, up the back of his scalp, along the sides of her head, to her temples, all the while gently rubbing in a circular motion. This kind of "scalp massage" is a pretty unique experience for a lot of people, and I can tell you it feels wonderful.

If your partner is still fully clothed after you've worked on her neck and shoulders for awhile, and you want things to go a little further, try pulling her shirt out of her pants, or if it's already out slide your hands under her shirt.

It's a lot easier to give a girl a rub down without clothes in the way. If you have lotion in the house, ask if she'd like you to use it on her. Once she agrees she has to take her shirt off.

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How to Stay Away from Married Women in Personals


How to Avoid Women Who Are Married

Married people do lie and use the personal ads. The anonymity of placing and answering personal ads is probably the biggest attraction for married people. It may have happened to me but I don't think so. If it did, I wasn't aware when it happened.

I wish that there was some advice that I could give you that would guarantee that you could avoid married people or those in committed in relationships. There just isn't any that I know of. If you have a theory or technique that has helped you spot married people in the past in other situations, use it.

Some married people will place a personal ad and admit in the ad that they are married and out for a few "thrills."Others plead that they just need some "understanding." Some ask to meet someone that is married.



Let your conscience (and common sense) be your guide if you choose to respond. I have seen very few ads by women that admitted that they were married. I do not have any idea if that is because married women are less likely to run ads or do not admit they are married in them.

Some publications that run personal ads have a section for married people with particular "hobbies." If you are married and you want to run an ad, I really think that you should say that you are married and put your ads in one of those sections if is available. I don't have any advice for those of you that are married and want to answer ads.

10 Top Chick Magnet Cars


10 Cars to Attract Women Like a Magnet

Here is a list of the top 10 chick magnet cars:

  1. Chevy Camaro ZL1 ($47,000)
  2. Dodge Challenger SRT8 ($43,585)
  3. Ford Mustang Shelby GT500 ($49,495)
  4. Cadillac CTS-V Sedan ($63,660)
  5. BMW Z4 sDrive35is ($62,000)
  6. Audi R8 ($114,000)
  7. Lexus IS F ($59,760)
  8. Audi A7 ($59,250)
  9. Mercedes SLK 350 Roadster ($53,300)
  10. Nissan GT-R ($89,950)

So, guys you need to start saving your money for these cars. I personally have had my best luck attracting women with my Corvette, especially at the beach.


How to Give a Back and Leg Massage


Back and Leg Massage Tips for Men

When your girl is laid out on his stomach and you're massaging her back, in particular the muscles along her spine, turn one of your hands sideways, and cup it, so that the bottom of your palm is resting on one side of her spine, and the pads of your fingers on the other. Then place your other hand on top and apply steady even pressure as you massage the muscles along his spine using a circular motion.



Not only is this very soothing, but massaging this often overlooked part of the body can also release a tremendous amount of tension from your partner. Remember they're called "back rubs", if shoulders were the only part of the body to get tense they'd be called "shoulder rubs".

Try working your way down to the small of her back. If she hasn't got excited yet, then as your hands get closer to her butt, she's likely to get very excited.

If you have enough stamina and you're up for it, try rubbing down her legs. These can be a little tricky, as no two girl have the same build legs. Some women have really slender legs and there may not be too much to grab onto during a massage.

If you are rubbing down her legs, work your way up from her feet, along her calves, to the insides of her thighs. Try to get as close to her crotch as possible without touching it. This is a wonderful way to tease her, and crank up the sexual tension. If you have an affectation for butts, then rubbing, kneading, and squeezing her should be right up your (and her) alley.

Kisses Are But Preludes to Love

Thursday, August 25, 2022 | 0 comments »

Kissing Leads to Love


Kisses Are But Preludes to Love

Man and woman are born to love, marry and beget children. Woman is so physically constituted that she is the one who bears the child. Man, on the other hand, is given the duty of being the protector of his wife and, after they are born, of his children. Therefore, he must always be the one who takes the initiative. He must be strong, he must be willing, he must be physically able to take care of his charges, He must be the aggressor.



It is, therefore, necessary that the man be taller than the woman. The psychological reason for this is that he must always give the impression of being his woman's superior, both mentally and especially physically. The physical reason, with which we are more concerned, is that if he is taller that his woman, he is better able to kiss her.

He must be able to sweep her into his strong arms, and tower over her, and look down into her eyes, and cup her chin in his fingers and then, bend over her face and plant his eager, virile lips on her moist, slightly parted, inviting ones. All of this he must do with the vigor of an assertive male. And, all of these are impossible where. the woman is the taller of the-two.

For when the situation is reversed, the kiss becomes only a ludicrous banality. The physical mastery is gone, the male prerogative is gone, everything is gone but the fact that two lips are touching two other lips. Nothing can be more disappointing.

2 Styles of Dating, Online Dating or Traditional Dating


Traditional Dating and Internet Dating - The Pros and Cons

If you are currently single and you want to position yourself for the dating circuit, you must first reflect on what type of dating you prefer to attempt. In this contemporary and technological age, there are two styles of dating to choose from. Traditional dating and internet dating.



What does online dating and traditional dating have to offer?

1) If you are successful in catching promising dates on a routine basis, utilizing a traditional dating approach, you may not need to try online dating. However, if you often have difficulty getting a date in real time, you may find success by using an internet dating service.

2) Time is Precious. The majority of single people consider their time to be very valuable. If a busy and stressful daily life captures you, you will not have much time to go out to social events and meet new people. Internet dating saves you time and energy by serving as a filter prior to you even meeting anyone directly.

3) Trouble with location. Location will never be a complication for traditional dating, because most of the time, you get acquainted with your date at parties, social events, and other activities throughout the city. Although internet dating gives you the chance to meet up with new individuals from all parts of the globe, it could be a hassle trying to get you and your date together, especially when both of you are located on opposite sides of the planet.

4) A blind date from Hell. Have your friends, at any time, attempted to set you up on a date that you had no hint or clue who the person was? If you are numbered along with the many others who dislike this form of traditional dating, you would probably appreciate using an online dating service. By way of the internet, you have the opportunity to get to know someone prior to meeting them face to face. By becoming acquainted with your date ahead of time, you would be able to determine the likelihood of a smooth dialogue and compatibility when you make contact with the person.

5) Discovering Your dream partner. Normally ,when you meet a person in a bar, party or social event, the chief feature that attracts you to them are their physical characteristics. You may not know their place of birth, their goals in life or personality upon the first introduction. In internet dating, you maintain the priviledge to search for credible and reliable dates who have the same interest, religion, location, temperament, and situation as yourself. There is a greater possibility that you will find that special mate who would complement you the most for a lifetime.

6) Cost efficient. Unlike meeting your date for a dinner meal or coffee tea outing, online dating can be more cost effective than traditional dating. However, some make the mistake of spending too much time on long distance telephone calls which could also become very costly for those practicing internet dating or traditional dating.

In whatever style of dating you determine is more appropriate for you, always be cautious in giving out personal and private information to a person who is, in all honesty, still a stranger. Be certain that your date is genuinely safe and all right. He could either be the person of your dreams - or your worst nightmare and enemy.

Marvin Perry is the author of "Traditional Dating and Internet Dating Pros and Cons" and he maintains an informative site on dating tips and resources about online dating services. To visit this site go to Marvin's Online Dating Tips [http://www.free-dating-resource.com] website.

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Smoking and Drinking in Personal Ads


Should You Mention Smoking or Drinking in Personal Ads?

Face it, smokers are the social pariahs and lepers of today. They get cut no slack. Many people absolutely refuse to date a smoker. If smoking is a big issue with you, you will be doing yourself and smokers a big favor if you state in your ad or response that you don't smoke and don't want to meet someone that does. If you are running an ad and you smoke, I strongly suggest that you say so in your written ad. There is no good way to sugar coat the fact that you smoke. I also know that it will dramatically cut the number of responses that you get. At the very least, say very clearly that you smoke in your voice message. If you smoke and are responding to an ad, say that you are a smoker. If people are warned up front that you smoke it won't be a rude shock when you pull out a Marlboro and light up.



The same advice applies if you have strong feelings about drinking and/or drugs. If you had an alcoholic ex-spouse or parent and hate alcohol, specify in your ad or response that you are only interested in meeting someone who is a non-drinker. There are plenty of available people who don't drink and who share your sentiments. It is probably too much to expect that a drug addict or an alcoholic would "fess up to their addiction in an ad or response. But if you drink a lot, do not claim to be a "light social drinker." Your habit will become obvious after you order your sixth rum and Coke at your first meeting.

How to Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend


How to Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend When She Is Being Cold

It's never easy for a man to deal with a woman who is being cold, but when that wan just happens to be an ex girlfriend that you want to win back, well that can be downright hard. You want to be able to have one of those conversations that leads to her looking back at you with a longing in her eyes, but you know that's not going to happen when she is more frigid than an Alaskan winter. How are you going to be able to win back your ex girlfriend when she is being cold to you?



First off, you should probably try and identify exactly why she is giving you the cold treatment. Cause if you don't have a clue about why she is acting that way... it's almost impossible to come up with a way to get her warmed back up. So, that should be the first thing that you do. Once you have identified why she is acting that way, then you can start to put together a plan to win back your ex girlfriend:

And here is what you need to do:

1) If she has been cold for a while, then you really have to be sly about your intentions on winning her back.

Don't come right out and say that you still love her. Don't come right out and tell her that you want to date her again. When a woman is cold, she can shoot you down without giving it a second thought. So, if you approach your ex girlfriend while she is still in that state, you are going to be sealing your fate and ending any hopes that you have of getting that next opportunity to date her again.

2) You are going to have to turn up the charm and charisma a little more than usual.

The best way to warm up a woman, so to speak, is to use your charm to get on her good side again. Instead of her acting frigid, you want to see a bright smile on her face when she sees you. That way, she will begin to associate feeling good to being around you. This is where you really need to turn up both the charm and charisma, even when you don't want to.

3) You are going to have to show her that she can let go of that attitude around you.

This is another big piece to the puzzle. You need to use action to get her going, words alone are not going to cut it. She's going to have an attitude around you, that's a given. You have to be able to handle that attitude without getting all freaked out about it. If you do this, then you can easily warm her back up to you and THEN you can suggest that the two of you get back together again.

It might seem complicated, but it can actually be EASY to win back your ex girlfriend when you have a PROVEN system to make it happen...

Avoiding the Stigma of Meeting Through a Personal Ad


Should You Tell People You Met Through the Personals?

A few years ago I was visiting my parents with a woman that I met through a personal ad. My mom asked us how we had met. She wasn't prying. She was just curious. Neither of us was embarrassed that we had met through the personal ads, but it hadn't occurred to me that my mom might ask that question or how surprised she would be when we told her that we met that way. People in their 70's, especially if they have been married for 50 years, sometimes don't realize how creative you need to be.



I also went out with a woman who said that her daughters did not know how we had met. She told me that she would kill me if I ever told them. I didn't tell them for fear that she wasn't kidding. I also didn't see her many more times.

If you feel that you need to make up a lie about how you met, make it a very simple lie. Coordinate your story and get the facts straight. "We met in a checkout line at the supermarket" is simple and hard to mess up, unless your mom wants to know what her son was buying and you say broccoli and chicken and she tells the truth, you were buying Twinkies and Nestle's Quik.

Advice About Married Women Using Personal Ads


How to Avoid People Who Are Married in Personal Ads

Married people do lie and use the personal ads. The anonymity of placing and answering personal ads is probably the biggest attraction for married people. It may have happened to me but I don't think so. If it did, I wasn't aware when it happened.



I wish that there was some advice that I could give you that would guarantee that you could avoid married people or those in committed in relationships. There just isn't any that I know of. If you have a theory or technique that has helped you spot married people in the past in other situations, use it.

Some married people will place a personal ad and admit in the ad that they are married and out for a few "thrills." Others plead that they just need some "understanding." Some ask to meet someone that is married. Consider the following ads:

WANTED: MARRIED WOMAN FOR discrete, romantic relationship. DWM, 29...been described as gorgeous.

"GOLF" Tall, dark, handsome married man, average golfer, seeks lady golfer to burn up the links.

Let your conscience (and common sense) be your guide if you choose to respond. I suspect that the golfer has a lot of trouble with his "putter" at home. I have seen very few ads by women that admitted that they were married. I do not have any idea if that is because married women are less likely to run ads or do not admit they are married in them.

Some publications that run personal ads have a section for married people with particular "hobbies." If you are married and you want to run an ad, I really think that you should say that you are married and put your ads in one of those sections if is available. I don't have any advice for those of you that are married and want to answer ads. This article is an excerpt from our book, "Effective Personal Ads - How to Write Personal Ads or Respond to Personal Ads."

How to Massage a Girl With Your Fingers


How to Seduce Girls Using Your Fingers

If your girl, however, is receptive to the idea of a massage then I have one key tip to offer you. When giving a massage, use the pads of your fingers, not the tips. When you use the tips of your fingers, it often feels like someone is clawing into your back, and it can hurt quite a bit, especially the muscles are really tense.



When you use the pads of your fingers, it feels much more soothing and relaxing.

But hey, if your girl is into that kind of pain, then dig in :-) Most of the girls I've been with tend to prefer the soothing kind of massage, and shy away from the painful variety.

When massaging a girl's neck or back try running your fingers through her hair, up the back of his scalp, along the sides of her head, to her temples, all the while gently rubbing in a circular motion. This kind of "scalp massage" is a pretty unique experience for a lot of people, and I can tell you it feels wonderful.

If your partner is still fully clothed after you've worked on her neck and shoulders for awhile, and you want things to go a little further, try pulling her shirt out of her pants, or if it's already out slide your hands under her shirt.

It's a lot easier to give a girl a rub down without clothes in the way. If you have lotion in the house, ask if she'd like you to use it on her. Once she agrees she has to take her shirt off.

How to Use Massage as a Ice Breaker


Massage is the Best Ice-Breaker to Use on Women

It's true! How many times have you found yourself in a situation with a woman that you really wanted but you weren't sure what your first move should be, or even if you should make a first move.

Try offering her a back rub or a massage, or imply that you would like to get one from her. A massage can be non sexual just by itself, and it lets her, or you decide if you want to take things further. I know it's cheesy, but it works.



If it's someone you don't know very well, sometimes you don't even need to ask her. If you think that she's going to be receptive to it, then find an opportune moment where you can get behind her and put your hands on her neck and shoulders. Most people can't resist a back or neck rub.

This doesn't always work though since there are some women only allow a CMT (certified massage therapist), or their chiropractor to work on their back, and they will tell you that they don't want a massage. If that kind of a prissy attitude doesn't turn you off you may want to ask her if she's willing to give you a back rub even if she won't accept one.

Advice on How to French Kiss


How to French Kiss and Making Kissing Count with Women

French kissing involves the use of your tongue when kissing, often inside the mouth of the other person. They, in turn, use their tongue as well. Many people make the mistake of moving their tongue around too fast inside the mouth of the other person, being too aggressive, hard, sloppy or impatient. It is best to alter your pace and pressure over time. At times, follow the lead of the other person while at other times take control. Be careful, as heavy, passionate kissing can lead people to want or expect more in terms of physical intimacy or sex. It often creates desire in people that they may or may not be ready for or may or may not be able to control.



The problem that most people have is that they see kissing as a means to an end not a separate activity or entity unto itself. Men especially are often too rough, too fast and lack knowledge of the five P's of kissing: Patience, Passion, Pacing, Pressure and Practice.

A successful kisser has an innate sixth sense when it comes to being appropriately passionate. They react to their partner's lead and don't feel the need to dictate or control the action, but will if the situation dictates. They exhibit the perfect balance between tenderness and aggressiveness, between spontaneity and consistency, between sweetness and sensuality.

A passionate person does not begin by kissing or caressing the most sensitive locations first (such as the neck and ears). Rather they end up there after focusing adequate attention on areas that are often overlooked such as the corners of the mouth, lips (individually), temples, eye lids, fingertips and palms of the hand. Your tongue can be used during these kisses as well, just don't become get too sloppy. Plus, they refrain from over-stimulating other parts of the body while kissing as not to divert their partner's attention away from the kissing.

How to Surprise a Girl with a Kiss


The Surprise Kiss

A most charming manner of kissing is called the "surprise kiss." This is performed when one of the parties has fallen asleep, on the sofa, let us say. On entering the room, when the other sees his lover asleep, he should tip-toe softly over to her. Then, lowering his head slowly, he should implant a soft, downy, feathery kiss squarely on her lips. This first kiss should be a very light one. -But, thereafter, the intensity of the kisses should increase until the sleeping one has awakened. and, of course, even beyond that. The effect of such an awakening to a sleeper is almost heavenly. For, while in the midst of a dream, a pleasant one, most likely, for it will concern the other half of the couple, she feels vaguely, faintly, as though it were the touch of a butterfly's wing, a subtle kiss on her lips. Naturally, in the depths of her sleep, she imagines that it is part of her dream and the result. is a pleasant sensation, indeed.



Then, gradually, although still asleep, she feels the kisses continue. And the pleasantness continues. Then, as she starts to come out of her sleep, she realizes that the kisses are to real for a dream. But she is sure that she is dreaming. And so, immediately, a relapse from the happiness sets in and a twinge of sadness comes over her because she knows that', instead of being with her lover, she is only dreaming of him. Imagine, then, her extreme gratification, when, while thinking these drab thoughts, she feels the actuality of an intense, ardent kiss on her lips. Her heart flutters wildly. Her pulse runs riot. Perhaps she is not asleep, she argues to herself. Then she opens her eyes. And she sees the darling face of her beloved bending over her. And she feels the sensuous touch of his lips on hers. Truly, no awakening can be more pleasurable!

How to Approach a Girl and Kiss Her


How to Approach a Girl for Kissing

In kissing a girl whose experience with osculation is limited, it is a good thing to work up to the kissing of the lips. Only an arrant fool seizes hold of such a girl, when they are comfortably seated on the sofa, and suddenly shoves his face into her's and smacks her lips' Naturally, the first thing he should do is to arrange it so that the girl is seated against the arm of the sofa while he is seated at her side.



In this way, she cannot edge away from -him when he becomes serious in his attentions. This done, on some pretext or another, such as a gallant attempt to adjust the cushions behind her, he manages to insinuate his arm, first around the back of the sofa and then, gradually, around her shoulders. If she flinches, don't worry. If she flinches and makes an outcry, don't worry. If she flinches, makes an outcry and tries to get up from the sofa, don't worry. Hold her gently but firmly, and allay her fears with kind, reassuring words.

Remember what Shakespeare said about "a woman's no! However., if she flinches and makes an outcry, a loud, stentorian outcry, mind you, and starts to scratch your face, then start to worry or start to get yourself out of a bad situation. Such girls are not to be trifled with ... or kissed. It is such as they, in most cases, who still believe the story of the stork which brings babies because of the consequences of a kiss.

But if your arm is comfortably reposed across the girl's shoulders and "all's right with the world)" then your next step is to flatter her in some way. All women like to be flattered. They like to be told they are beautiful even when the mirror throws the lie back into their ugly faces.

Flatter her! Tell her she is beautiful!

Then, take a deep sniff of the perfume in her hair and comment on it. Tell her that the odor is like "heady wine." Tell her that her hair smells like a garden of roses. Tell her anything, but be sure to tell her something complimentary. This done, it is only a natural thing for you to do to, desire to sink your nose deeper into her hair so that you can get the full benefit of its bouquet.

5 Pick Up Lines to Use in Restaurants


5 of my Favorite Restaurant Pick Up Lines

Has this ever happen to you? You go out to eat and you see a gorgeous girl that you'd give your left testicle to meet and get to know better. But, you don't know what to say and how to approach her. Well here's some opening lines to help you meet those "dream girls" you keep running into at restaurants:



  1. "Would you like to have a drink after dinner?"
  2. "Pardon me, are you on the menu?"
  3. "Would you like to share a bottle of wine with me?"
  4. "Excuse me, I've never eaten here before and I was wondering if you could recommend something good to eat?"
  5. "I need some company. Can I join you?"

5 Dating Tips for Single Men


5 Great Dating Tips to Help You Succeed with Women

  1. When on a date and eating soup do not slurp. The slurping sounds will turn your date off.
  2. When using your cell phone on a date do not talk loud.
  3. When on a dinner date do not talk with your mouth full.
  4. When on a date in a restaurant do not flirt with the waitresses.
  5. If you take your kids on a dinner date do not let your kids run wild in the restaurant.


Good One-Liner to Use on Women

Wednesday, August 17, 2022 | 0 comments »

How to Meet Women Using One-Liners


Good One-Liner to Use on Women

A very common one-liner to start a conversation with a woman in a bar or a dancing is: "Don't I know you from somewhere? You seem familiar...". But it is one VERY BAD one-liner. Because a woman obviously doesn't want to look "familiar". She wants to look "special". And because this one-liner is so old and not in the least original. And what to do if she says NO? Then you are left with the suggestion that, even IF you two had ever met, you are obviously not a man for her to remember. Not a good thing for your confidence...



A much better variant to this one-liner would be: "I don't think I've ever seen you. Because I would surely remember a nice looking woman like you". In this case you stay in charge. You started a conversation and made her a compliment in one single move. That shows balls. And you're not dependent of her answer.

Most of the women will say: "thank you". Then you can immediately offer her a drink. NEVER EVER say: "You're welcome". Because that shows that you where merely making her a compliment and that you don't mean it.

Some women will turn themselves away from you, or hide their face, or start laughing. That's really scary at first. You get the impression that you made a fool of yourself. But NO man is EVER a fool to a decent woman if he made her a nice compliment. In most cases it just means that she is shy and not used to getting compliments. Just apologize with a friendly voice for making her feel uncomfortable. Give her a few seconds time and she will come back to you. Then offer her a drink. DON'T put your hand on her back or her shoulder to comfort her. It will make things worse!

If she shows no sign at all of coming back to you, just leave her alone without saying a word. And don't start thinking that everyone around has been watching you while you were turned down. If it's crowded, no one has seen a damn thing! Don't leave the bar feeling ashamed. Have a drink and try another woman. Convince yourself as soon as possible that not every woman reacts the way she did.

5 Dating Tips for First Dates


5 First Dates Mistakes You Must Never Make

  1. Chewing your food with an open mouth.
  2. Passing gas while on your date which causes an offensive odor.
  3. Showing up for your date with wrinkled clothes.
  4. Cutting down your ex girlfriend or wife.
  5. Bringing a friend on your date without consulting her first.

Guys, don't make any of these mistakes or you may not get a second date with her.


Survey About First Dates

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Survey About First Dates


Survey About First Dates

It's Just Lunch Dating Service did a survey about first dates and here are the results:

  • 50% of women say they would ask a man out on a first date.
  • 13% of people have walked out on a first date.
  • 66% of people decide in the first half hour if there will be another date.

I hope this gives you some insight into first dates with women


Advice for Men on Using Personal Ads to Meet Women


Excerpt from the Publication, Effective Personal Ads - How to Write Personal Ads or Respond to Personal Ads

We've all heard horror stories about personal ads. Lonely women who placed personal ads and were ripped off (or worse) by smooth-talking con artists. Perhaps the woman who responded to man's personal ad and developed a Fatal Attraction-type obsession about him. It can and does happen. You might meet one of those types of people through the personal ads...but the odds are at least as good that you'll meet someone like that in a bar, at school or at church.



Some of are old enough to remember when the only personal ad we had ever heard about were in The Berkeley Barb or The Village Voice and were placed for the purpose of meeting people with, well, unusual "hobbies." Personal ads have come a long way. You can still read an ad from a professional man who has tattoos, rides a Harley motorcycle and wants to meet an Asian transsexual who likes classical music, romantic dinners and long sensual walks along the beach. For God's sake, how else are two people like that going to meet except through a personal ad? You can also read an ad from a man with a good education who has a heart of gold but doesn't meet many women because he's a very busy urologist.

Do some people lie about themselves in their ads or when they respond to an ad? Of course they do. The people who write and respond to personal ads are a cross-section of the general population. No better, no worse. My experience, and the experience of many people that I've talked to, is that you meet the good, the bad, the ugly, the honest and the dishonest through the personal ads.

I'm here to give you some ideas about how you can write an ad or pick out ads to respond to and increase your chances of meeting the good and minimize your chances that you'll meet the bad or the ugly. Unfortunately, I can't guarantee that even if you take my advice you'll meet the perfect person for you.

I don't have any gimmicks, magic words or canned phrases for you to use that will make people respond to your ad or like your response to their ad. There are none that I know of - except for those men who advertise that they're filthy rich and generous, especially in their headline, always seem to get a lot of responses from women. Women who say that they're beautiful and sexy always get a lot of responses from men. You didn't need me to help you figure that out. You probably rejected taking one of those approaches because either (a) it isn't true, or (b) if it is true, you don't want to rely on such shallow attributes, or (c) you don't want to attract the types of people that would respond to such shallow attributes.

Of course you can always just keep doing whatever you've been doing to meet people. You women can keep hoping that the next time your friends set you up with a man that they've known for a couple of weeks that he has a job and that his divorce really is final. You men can stand around looking puzzled by the yams and sweet potatoes in the vegetable section at the supermarket and hope that a beautiful woman comes over and offers to explain the difference between them to you. If you're really lucky, she might offer to go over to your place and cook them for you. Right. That will happen when donkeys levitate.

This article is an excerpt from our publication, "Effective Personal Ads - How to Write Personal Ads or Respond to Personal Ads."

Advice on Using Personals to Meet Women


Should You Use the Personals to Meet Women?

Admit it...meeting people and dating now is the pits. It doesn't matter where you live, how young or how old you are, what you do for a living or what sex you are. Finding another person to date, much less a mate, just isn't as easy as it used to be - at least as easy as we think it used to be.



We've all heard about men who have rented billboards and put personal ads on them. We've seen daughters go on TV talk shows to try to find dates for their mothers from a studio made up of eligible men. It is a jungle out there. Between the fear of AIDS and all of the just plain weird people that there are in the world, many people have just about given up and are trying to find the positive aspects of celibacy and the monastic life.

Most of us don't consider celibacy or the monastic life to be viable options. Most of us can't afford to rent a billboard. Sally and Oprah don't want to hear our sad stories. There are just too many of us. Joining a dating service is usually too expensive. Some of us do the next best thing, we turn to answering or writing personal ads.

The personal ads are a lot like supermarket tabloids. Everyone jokes about them. Everyone makes fun of people that read them. Everyone is skeptical of what is written in them. Everyone wonders who writes them. And everyone reads them.

You've been tempted to either answer a personal ad or to write a personal ad yourself or you wouldn't be reading this right now. If you haven't responded to a personal ad, you probably worry that only losers and weirdos place them. You may worry that you'll only meet people who can't get a date any other way other than through personal ads. Even though you aren't a loser and you're thinking about placing or responding to an ad, you still aren't convinced that it's a safe or sane way to connect with safe or sane people.

Using the personals ads to meet people seems like such a desperate step to take. Its like you're admitting to the whole world that you can't meet people any other way. So you put down the personal ads, go out to the kitchen and make stir-fry for one and watch TV alone again.

Is it possible to meet attractive and compatible people through a personal ad? Absolutely. My younger brother met the woman that he married through a personal ad. It didn't happen overnight. He had to put in quite a few personal ads and went on a lot of dates that didn't lead anywhere. He finally found his sweetie though. I haven't found my perfect match yet, but I have met a lot of really nice women and had a number of very satisfying long-term relationships. I'm still friends with some of the women that I've met through personals ads. I also have a lot of stories to tell. You probably have friends who are dating or may have even married people that they met through personal ads, but are too ashamed to admit how they met.

This article is an excerpt from our publication, "Effective Personal Ads - How to Write Personal Ads or Respond to Personal Ads."

Tips for Men to Turn Your Love Life Around


Time to Pull Up the Stakes to Your Tent

Where have you pitched your tent today when it comes to thoughts about your dating and love life? Just what are you expecting to happen in your love and dating life this year?

Are you hopeful and optimistic about someone new coming into your life and filling your heart with lots of love, happiness, and contentment?



If things are not working out in your love life and you feel hopeless, lonely and you are constantly thinking about what's wrong and what is not working, then I would suggest that it's time to pack up your belongings in the land of discouragement and pull up your tent stakes.

It is time for you to move out of the subdivision of lonelyville. Make up your mind now to pack your bags in your mind and move into a new subdivision called hope, faith, and expectations to turn your love and dating life around.

Chose to set your mind free of all negative thoughts that are holding you back from finding love again and someone new. Also, chose to release your past experiences in dating that did not work our for you. It's time for a fresh start.

A Few More Awesome Dating Tips for Men


Some Great Dating Tips to Help You Succeed with Women

The Long View - What about when you are dating (searching)?

The trick is to balance your hormones with your gray matter. You should be thinking as much as you are feeling. The feeling part is very easy. It almost takes care of itself. Look. Be honest. It would be possible for you to work up some heat for a very wide variety of women. Every single woman has some level of charm and sexuality.



The hard part is thinking about the other factors - matching value systems, an equal interest in the relationship and the ability to relate intellectually. It will take time and thought to uncover this information. You are seeking potential. However, sometimes you can tell right away. The problem is that it is easy to overlook red flags when your testosterone is controlling the show.

Don't forget that it goes the other way. Dating is a true marketplace. You must exhibit potential as a partner in order to start the process. You will both be evaluating each other.

The Odds - Fairy Tales and Love Songs

The reality is that there are thousands, perhaps millions of single women who would work out just fine as dates or long term commitments. It is a matter of compromise, readiness, need and circumstance. You must realize that you don't end up with the absolute best choice available for a girlfriend or a wife.

If you look at it in statistical terms, there must be thousands of single women who have more to offer. You just don't have the time and resources to meet them all. Picture it as a major event like a college football game. You have one afternoon and about 20,000 available women. How many can you get to know well enough to ask out for Saturday night? OK, all analogies leak, but you get the point.

So with luck, you could hope to date less than 100 single girls during your bachelor-hood. (We're being generous.) With luck, the average Joe will experience a dozen or so "relationships" lasting more than a couple weeks. One or two of these will result in marriages. Maybe. Are you depressed? Don't be - these are just the facts. Check with your older friends and relatives for verification. (By the way, don't forget that single women are also out there meeting, rejecting, accepting, dating and marrying guys constantly - just to add to the confusion!)

P.S. - These are article excerpts from the book, "A Man's Field Guide to Women."

10 Things Don't do on First Dates with Women


Never Do These 10 Things When on a First Date with Women

  1. Bragging on yourself. Keep the conversation focused on her and her interests.
  2. Pretending to be someone you are not. Just be yourself.
  3. Picking your nose. If you must pick your nose, excuse yourself and go to the restroom to do it.
  4. Trying too hard to impress your date.
  5. Talking about sex or anything sexual.
  6. Cutting down your ex or past girlfriends.
  7. Chewing food with an open mouth.
  8. Bringing a friend along on your date.
  9. Passing gas. Please hold it in.
  10. Wearing wrinkled clothes on your date.


How to Talk to Women Using Good Speech Delivery


Speech Delivery When Talking to Women

Don't talk too fast. When feeling the emotional pressures of talking with a strange girl, men sometimes become a little flustered and excited. They speak carelessly, too fast, blurring their words. Your words should be spoken clearly and at a leisurely pace. You should be continually on guard for this.



Watch and listen to someone who speaks well, either in real life or a professional performer on TV, or in a play or film. Delivery is improved by dramatic emphasizing of words and phrases. It is very effective to pause after a statement, to allow your words to be digested, even though it feels more natural to rush on to your next statement. This requires some discipline on the part of the speaker.

Another effective feature of speaking is the upbeat sentence ending. You sound much more positive and dynamic if your voice rises in tone and sharpens in tempo at .the end of important sentences. By contrast, if your sentence drops in tone at the end, and trails off, the effect is one of indecision and vagueness.

The upbeat tone tends to urge your listener on to agree with you. It is like adding an imperative "Come on!" to the end of your sentence. You can practice speaking some sentences out loud and hear this effect.

Try to improve your speech as much as possible. A well-paced speech style is always much more effective than a hurried, nervous one. P.S. This article is an excerpt from our best-selling book called, "How to Talk to Women."

Great Pick Up Lines to Meet Women in Museums


Museum Pick Up Lines to Use on Women

Museum Pick-Up Lines - What a great place to meet cultured women with an appreciation for the arts. So, head for your local art museums and try some of these conversation starters and best pick up lines to use on women:

"Doesn't it seem like all these paintings look alike?"



Stand in front of a painting and when a woman comes up, make a comment on the painting. Then say, "Would you mind if I tour the gallery with you?"

"Your pretty face sure would make a beautiful painting."

"See that painting? I'd buy it for you if I had a million dollars."

"You know, I keep seeing a portrait of you and me meeting for a cup of coffee. Can we meet somewhere tomorrow?"

"Have you ever posed nude?"

Stand in front of a painting and comment to women, "Do you understand what the artist is trying to say with his paintbrush in this painting?"

"I would love to draw you. Would you pose for me? Then set up a date and bring a note pad and pencil and draw her. Don't know how to draw? Just fake it and you both can have a good laugh when you show her your finished work.

Old Men That are Dating Younger Women


The trend of old men dating younger women by Javedpk

There was a time when dating was considered as an immoral thing but now the era has changed and it is considered as the need of the time. People do what their heart says. Heart is given privileged over the mind as it guides through the passage of love and that is what a person desires. According to their own desire, it is usually seen that most of the old men do not try to find the date of their age mate but they go for the younger girls who can give them a reminder of their previous years they have passed as golden period of their lifetime.



Research has revealed that this is not only the case with men. Even young girls try to seek the company of older men who can guide them perfectly and take a good care of them. This task of finding the partner of your own choice has been made easy by the arrival of online dating websites where you can find your desired partner in a nice and easy manner. For the sake of dating, you do not have to dress up properly. You can just switch on your computer and you can have a date with your loved one. The ease with which a person can find his date online has revealed many things including the choices of youngsters. On the basis of the results of different surveys that were conducted by such websites, it is said that mostly couples having younger girl and old men enjoy good time as compared to age mates.

People find it really awful if they get to know about a marriage in which a 20 years girl has married to a man of 40 years age. But this is a fact that girls find old men more attractive as compared to their age mates and it has been seen that in most of the cases such couples live a pretty happy life. Hence, it will be unwise to say that this is an unhealthy trend. The youth body and charming looks of a young woman also attracts the older men and that’s why they love to find a young lady. Hence as a result of their mating, a strong relationship can be built that is long lasting and is sincere. However some cases can give deviating results also.

Tips for Men on Meeting Women Through the Personals


Listen to That Little Voice Inside You

Everyone has a little inner voice that tells them when something just doesn't seem right and warns them to beware. Listen to your little inner voice and act accordingly. If you call to respond to an ad and you don't feel comfortable with the person on the other end of the phone, hang up. Do not let yourself be pressured or cajoled into meeting someone that you feel uneasy with. If you go to meet someone and you don't like or trust them, make up an excuse, any excuse, and leave.



Meeting people through personal ads is no more or less risky than meeting people any other way. It may even be safer. Consider this:

If you answer an ad, the publication should have the information from the person who placed the ad: name, address, phone number, credit card number, etc. Yes, they could have made up false information, but it isn't likely.

You should always ask anyone that you are going to meet through a personal ad for their phone number. Find an excuse to call them before you meet them. If you call the number that they gave you and the person who answers the phone has never heard of the person that you are supposed to meet, that is probably a warning that you should heed. They may have given you the wrong number by accident, you may have written the number down wrong, or you may have dialed the wrong number. Listen to that inner voice.

If you place an ad, the person that responds usually gives you a phone number that you call to contact them the first time. Whether you placed the ad or are responding to an ad, you should at least have some information about them that is accurate even if everything else that they tell you is a lie.

The people that you meet through the personal ads are no more or less honest than the general public. Depending upon how cynical or optimistic you are, that may or may not be a very comforting thought. This article is an excerpt from our publication, "Effective Personal Ads - How to Write Personal Ads or Respond to Personal Ads."

Advice for Men on Meeting Women Using the Personals


Advice About Meeting Women Using the Personals

Everyone has a little inner voice that tells them when something just doesn't seem right and warns them to beware. Listen to your little inner voice and act accordingly. If you call to respond to an ad and you don't feel comfortable with the person on the other end of the phone, hang up. Do not let yourself be pressured or cajoled into meeting someone that you feel uneasy with. If you go to meet someone and you don't like or trust them, make up an excuse, any excuse, and leave.



Meeting people through personal ads is no more or less risky than meeting people any other way. It may even be safer. Consider this:

You should always ask anyone that you are going to meet through a personal ad for their phone number. Find an excuse to call them before you meet them. If you call the number that they gave you and the person who answers the phone has never heard of the person that you are supposed to meet, that is probably a warning that you should heed. They may have given you the wrong number by accident, you may have written the number down wrong, or you may have dialed the wrong number. Listen to that inner voice.

If you place an ad, the person that responds usually gives you a phone number that you call to contact them the first time. Whether you placed the ad or are responding to an ad, you should at least have some information about them that is accurate even if everything else that they tell you is a lie.

The people that you meet through the personal ads are no more or less honest than the general public. Depending upon how cynical or optimistic you are, that may or may not be a very comforting thought.

How to Meet Women on a Bus or Train


How to Meet Women Using Transportation

If you commute by train, bus, plane, subways, etc., there's going to be golden opportunities to meet women. These places are filled with eligible, pretty women.



The whole trick to meeting them is to make it a point to take a seat next to them. This way you've got her pinned in and she's not going anywhere unless you scare her off. If you're on a train or plane, she doesn't have much choice.

All you've got to do when sitting next to her is to just start talking to her. Talk to her about anything and turn on that charm of yours.

If you take a bus or train to work or school, pick out any female riders you'd like to meet. Select one and make it a point to sit near or close to her. Do this each time you see her and after seeing you a few times you'll practically be old friends, even if you haven't spoken to each other.

Advice for Men on Dating After 40


Dating After the Age of Forty By Tammy M Fletcher

"I'm single again and I don't remember how to go on a date!"

"We spent the whole dinner talking about my ex-husband and his late wife. Needless to say, we didn't exactly spark."

"What do women want these days? I haven't dated since 1985!"



Sound familiar? If you are over 40 and find yourself in the dating pool again, it might feel like you can't remember even how to dog paddle in the shallow end. Baggage, history, exes, kids....how can you wade through all this to find a connection with a new love interest? Here are some do's and don'ts to help you navigate unfamiliar waters:

DO:

* Show an interest in your date. Ask about her work, or about his hobbies. Movies, books, music, travel, food - all are great icebreaker topics and a way to get to know the person you are spending time with.

* Give your undivided attention. Put the iPhone on vibrate, resist the temptation to update your Facebook status while waiting for the appetizer to arrive ("Having a great first date!"), make eye contact, and listen.

* Put your expectations aside and enjoy yourself. Even if there is no love connection right away, look at the date as a chance to get to know someone new and have fun.

* Leave your baggage at the door. A date is a fresh chance to meet someone, get to know them, and spend a pleasant time together. We all have baggage, but there is no need to bring it along to weigh down your time together.

DON'T:

* Spend the date talking about your ex. Whether you are sharing the scoop on why the relationship fell apart and all the ways you were done wrong, or describing your ex in glowing terms, this time is about you and your date.

* Expect a love connection on the first date. Expectations create static in your thoughts that can distract you from having a good time. Be in the moment and see how things unfold.

* Feel pressured to move any faster than you feel comfortable with. Even a first kiss may feel like you are rushing things. When the moment is right to move things along, you'll know. Remember when you were young and holding hands for the first time made you feel giddy with excitement? There is something to be said for taking it slow.

* Feel like damaged goods because you are divorced, older, or have experienced pain or sadness. Your life experiences have made you who you are today.

The most important thing to remember is - if you feel good about yourself, it will come across to everyone you meet. Dating is a fun way to explore new relationships, but it is not the ultimate goal in your newly single life.

Tammy Fletcher, M.A., IMF, CFT works with individuals and couples in the San Diego area. Her website is http://www.fletchertherapy.com.

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