Advice on How to French Kiss

How to French Kiss and Making Kissing Count with Women

French kissing involves the use of your tongue when kissing, often inside the mouth of the other person. They, in turn, use their tongue as well. Many people make the mistake of moving their tongue around too fast inside the mouth of the other person, being too aggressive, hard, sloppy or impatient. It is best to alter your pace and pressure over time. At times, follow the lead of the other person while at other times take control. Be careful, as heavy, passionate kissing can lead people to want or expect more in terms of physical intimacy or sex. It often creates desire in people that they may or may not be ready for or may or may not be able to control.

The problem that most people have is that they see kissing as a means to an end not a separate activity or entity unto itself. Men especially are often too rough, too fast and lack knowledge of the five P's of kissing: Patience, Passion, Pacing, Pressure and Practice.

A successful kisser has an innate sixth sense when it comes to being appropriately passionate. They react to their partner's lead and don't feel the need to dictate or control the action, but will if the situation dictates. They exhibit the perfect balance between tenderness and aggressiveness, between spontaneity and consistency, between sweetness and sensuality.

A passionate person does not begin by kissing or caressing the most sensitive locations first (such as the neck and ears). Rather they end up there after focusing adequate attention on areas that are often overlooked such as the corners of the mouth, lips (individually), temples, eye lids, fingertips and palms of the hand. Your tongue can be used during these kisses as well, just don't become get too sloppy. Plus, they refrain from over-stimulating other parts of the body while kissing as not to divert their partner's attention away from the kissing.