Don't make fun of, criticize, or judge a topless dancer because you don't think a dancer is attractive or something about her looks turn you off. Dancers have a sixth sense about them and will pick up on the negative vibes you're sending her way. Just focus on her good points such as beautiful hair, sexy eyes, beautiful smile, or kissable lips. Find her other good qualities and concentrate on them. Don't think any negative thoughts towards her, period. She just may pick up on them and this will make a bad impression.


In University towns, the libraries are excellent meeting places for soon to be lawyers and doctors and other assorted professional types. Ideally, you should be in the University library as opposed to the public one. This could necessitate enrolling in one course to get the card entitling you to use the library. Take something fun and easy.

There are loads of opportunities to meet eligible, well-to-do women while working as dental assistants, receptionists to doctors and attorneys, businessmen and the like. The pay isn't always the highest but it affords you the opportunity to meet a lot of different people including female executives, etc. Salesmen in prestigious car dealerships like Mercedes, Cadillac, etc. meet a lot of well-to-do women looking for cars and maybe you. There's also the opportunity here to make a good living. Real estate is always a good avenue to follow in pursuit of a good career and chances to meet well-to-do women. You will meet successful women looking to buy a home. The economy is currently not as generous to realtors as it once was but this too will pass. For the moment, get to night school and get that realtors license so you'll be ready to meet those women looking for a home when that market starts to loosen up. Airline stewardesses meet a great many successful women. Airline ticket persons meet the same people but usually don't have the time to start a relationship because of the lines and the need to get these people out. A stewardess can get more exposure to the well-to-do passenger and perhaps start a relationship that will continue after the plane has landed.

Top waiters in better restaurants meet a lot of successful types who would love to get married and take care of you in a style you'd love to get accustomed to. Male hair stylists in styling salons and other types of women's beauty care centers will invariably meet the well-to-do women.

The basic idea behind meeting a well-to-do woman is to be where they are in one capacity or another. If they see you with a certain amount of frequency, things will take their natural course. You will never at work if you work on an assembly line, in a man's clothing store or as a telephone oper-ator. In short, you need exposure either at work or at one of the previously mentioned clubs, golf courses, etc. The more familiar you become to them as when you're seen in their office, club, hair salon, etc., day after day, the better. The most important single thing is for YOU to be seen by them. Familiarity breeds relationships! Good luck


We believe this is one of the most important preparations a man should make if he is interested in girls.

At times when you might be likely to meet a new girl, you should always have some activities in which you might ask her to join you ready for right then, or later on a date. Suitable restaurants, coffee shops and ice cream parlors are a good start. It is a good idea to know the location of these in advance. Other places (according to taste) might be discos, bars, gyms, concerts, sporting events, swimming pools, skating rinks, beaches, etc. You might ask her to drive somewhere with you. Or, if you are involved in sports or athletics, you can invite her to participate with you. Tennis, bowling, golf, skiing, skin diving, boating, jogging, horseback riding, and surfing are all likely suggestions. Amateur theatricals. musical activities, art groups, photography, cinematography, car clubs, and all types of flying are also very good.

In fact, many men take up one or more of these activities largely for the social opportunities they offer, both as a place to meet girls, and as an outing to take dates they have met elsewhere.