This is very important! After you have finished dancing whatever you do, don't let her get away after thanking you for the dance. Just simply say, "Can I join you for a drink?" Also, you could say, "Can I talk to you about something?" After this statement, she will say, "Talk about what?" Then you say, "I'll tell you when you when we sit down." After this, just start mak-ing conversation. Also, if she doesn't have a table and she is just standing like yourself, just say, "Can I talk to you for a little while?"
So, what you do after you finish dancing can determine the future of your whole night and whether you're going to become intimate with a woman or not. What I can't figure out is these men that dance with a woman and don't even look at or talk to her while they are dancing and when they finish, he says, "Thanks" and just walks away. Needless to say, you don't meet any women this way.
So when you have finished dancing, move right in for the kill. Don't hesitate, just proceed immediately with determination that you're going to make contact with this woman.
If the girl is working, like a waitress, receptionist, salesgirl, etc. several different situations can occur. First, if she is not busy or occupied with someone else, you can use a fairly basic approach, like, "Hi! looks like you have time on your hands! Aren't you usually busy this time of day?"
Then after she replies, you can get right down to business. Say, "You know, when I was walking past, I noticed you, and I decided I’d like to meet you. My name is. ..., what's yours?" If the girl has a co-worker nearby, within earshot, don't worry - just proceed as if they weren't there.
If she is busy, and you can't get to talk to her without other customers hearing, about the best thing you can do is say, "I'd like to see you later. Would that be possible? What would be a good time?" Then the girl won't be too embarrassed, since the customer doesn't know whether you already know her or not. A date can be made then, or later.
Being seen with women is probably the single most important thing you can do to help your image. Women are very willing to take another woman's word for it. In other words, if you are with a girl you must have something going for you.
When you are seen with a woman, it says all this without you uttering a single word:
1. You must have things going for you.
2. You must know how to treat a woman.
3. You are going to be hard to get. After all, there is more than one girl vying for your time.
4. You are something she can't have. People are afraid of commitments so who better to fall in love with than someone she can't have?
5. You appeal to her powers of seduction. Women love the chase while men are more interested in the trophy. If a woman sees two men at a party - one with a date and one stag, she will be most attracted to the one with a date. He is the one that stimulates her powers of seduction, and her competitive nature to prove her superiority over other women.
This is an excerpt from our best-selling book, "A Man's Guide to Women."
Psyching yourself up and making preparations before you go out to topless clubs is very important. You need to feel at your best, so get a good nights sleep before you go out. Prior to leaving, eat a good healthy meal to put a lining on your stomach if you are going to be drinking. A couple of hours before you leave, put on some music that you are likely to hear in the topless clubs. The purpose of this is to get you in the mood for the topless club scene. Also, you need to prepare your subconscious mind for meeting and picking up topless dancers.
Here's how you do it. Make yourself a drink and sit down in your favorite easy chair, sofa, recliner, etc. Now, close your eyes and relax and picture in your mind meeting some hot & sexy topless dancer. See yourself talking to her, becoming intimate with her, her sitting in your lap and being all over you, see the glow in her eyes that says that she's attracted to you and desires you sexually. See yourself leaving the topless club with her after she gets off work and going to your place or hers or just meeting her somewhere for lunch or dinner.
You may think all of this is silly and what in the hell do I need to create all these images in my mind for? The purpose is to register all these images in your subconscious mind so that when you get to the topless club your subconscious mind will give directions to your conscious mind to act them out. Don't get discouraged if this does not work the first time because it takes a lot of repetition for this to be absorbed by the subconscious mind. Also, all day long on the day you're going to a topless club, keep telling yourself over and over "I'm going to meet and score with a very special topless dancer tonight." You will be amazed at the results you can have by psyching yourself up. There's another benefit to this by helping you develop a positive mental attitude and build up your self-confidence around the dancers.
So now you're out on the dance floor dancing to a fast song at a nightclub. While you're dancing with her, make eye contact. Just catch her eye and hold it momentarily, then look away. Repeat this process until you start getting a smile out of her or at least a look of interest. Of course, now some women won't look at you while you are dancing. They don't focus their eyes on anyone in particular and just look at their feet, the floor, or they're busy trying to show off in front of everyone else. Some women are self-conscious about everybody watching them, so they don't make much eye contact. Anyway, try to establish as much eye contact as possible. This will be to your advantage.
Learn How to Attract and Seduce Women With Our Books, CD's, DVD's, ebooks, Pheromone Products and Cassettes
While you're dancing this first dance together, be sure and make some verbal contact no matter how loud the music is. The first thing you should say is, "What's your name?" After she tells you her name, tell her yours. Now you have become formally introduced, just by dancing. Also, make a comment on how nice she looks or compliment her clothes, jewelry, smile, etc.
So now this first song is coming to an end. When it ends don't hesitate and look at her to see if she wants to dance to the next record. Just turn away from her while continuing to dance and look at her out of the corner of your eye to see what she is going to do. You see, by hesitating at the end of a song, you force a direct confrontation on whether to dance to the next song. If you just keep on dancing into the next song, taking it for granted that she wants to dance again, you'll be more successful in keeping her out on the dance floor. The longer you dance with her the better your chances of getting to know her.
If you are with another man it usually makes it a little easier to approach a girl (or girls). This is particularly workable in places like boardwalks, piers, carnivals, or in any type of hangout, where people go for the specific purpose of leisure. In these situations everyone tends to be more relaxed. They usually stroll along quite slowly, stopping here and there, looking at things. The opportunity for mingling is very good in these circumstances.
Amazing Subliminal Music CD's Seduce Women and Make Them Want to Have Sex!
Having a buddy along gives a little moral support, but going solo is no great problem either. The opening lines used should be similar to other situations: Comments on an interesting observation, requests for help and invitations to join, etc. Kidding around can be used very effectively as a means of breaking the ice in these places.
A very effective tactic for two or more men to pick up girls on a boardwalk, street, etc. (in a leisurely situation) is for the men to fall in behind the girls as they stroll along. They then can make playful remarks to the girls, or to each other, loud enough for the girls to hear them. The girls will usually join in the fun, and the men can invite the girls to join them, to walk along with them.
TIP #1 - Maintain a certain amount of mystery about yourself. The less the girl knows the better. As a rule, the more she knows about you, the more boring you become. There is an attraction to the unknown. By not telling her everything, or by her not knowing everything that you do, you show her that you have other interests and activities that she must compete with for your time.
PLAYING HARD TO GET
By being hard to get and not appearing too anxious, you accomplish a lot:
1. You set yourself apart from all the other guys.
2. You suggest there must be other women in your life.
3. You don't threaten her independence.
4. You appeal to her powers of seduction.
Free Dating Tips on How to Meet, Attract, Seduce Women
TIP #1 - End the date before she does.
TIP #2 - Don’t be calling her every night.
TIP #3 - Don't be telling her she is the only girl in your life.
TIP #4 - Don't discuss the future or commitments. People are afraid of being trapped or tied down. Better to remain aloof.
TIP #5 - Don't always be available to do something with her.
This article is an excerpt from our best-selling book, "A Man's Guide to Women."
Your game plan in meeting topless dancers is to establish a friendship and conversation. Get to know the girl first. And you must act different than the other guys that come in the club. Most men act like a bunch of horny animals around the dancers. They show the girls no respect, proposition them for sex, and treat them like whores. I can assure you the dancers are turned off by this behavior. They just put up with it because it's part of the job.
The key to successfully meeting topless dancers is to not come on to them all hot & horny and wanting to jump their bones. Become their friend and exude warmth and friendliness. The worst thing you can do is treat them like a sex object. Make her feel special and appreciated. Believe me, you will stand out in her mind as a special guy that's different than the rest of the men who come in the club. After all, the name of the game is to get her truly interested in you and attracted to you.
At Last!...A Human Sex Pheromone with Androstenone That Really Works to Help
You Meet, Attract, and Seduce Women Instantly!
When wearing our powerful Pheromone X human sex pheromone, women will not be aware that her inhibitions are being blocked to make her feel very friendly towards you and may even make her wet, horny, and ready for action (You lucky guy).
Drive Women Wild for Sex with Powerful Pheromone Cologne
When you get close enough for women to smell your Pheromone X, hot, sexy, and attractive women may have this insatiable desire to touch your body, act like she's known you all of her life even though she may be a total stranger, have a wild and uncontrollable desire to be with you, and be irresistibly sexually attracted to you.
She won't even know why all this happening to her, but you will know why…it's the power of Pheromone X formulated with the maximum strength concentration of human sex pheromone.
For more details and ordering information please click here.
If you don't dance, you'd better learn because a lot of women go to nightclubs to dance and have a good time. You don't have to invest a lot of money in private dancing lessons either. Many cities offer inexpensive dance classes with groups, or perhaps you have a female friend who will teach you.
You don't have to learn fancy dance steps. Just basic free-style dance steps will be sufficient. Besides, in a lot of nightclubs the dance floor is so crowded, there's just not enough room to do any of the sophisticated dance steps, especially on the weekend.
When approaching a woman to ask her to dance, whatever you do don't fondle her, paw at her body, or put your arm around her shoulders or waist. This turns most women off when a stranger starts pawing at her body. It degrades her and makes her feel like a piece of meat. Just simply walk up next to her and say with a smile, "Would you like to dance?" If she says, "No" just say, "OK." You might also say, "Thanks anyway" or even better, "Could I join you for some conversation instead?" Don't stand there and aggravate her by arguing with her as to why she won't dance with you. Just go on to the next girl and so on until you find someone to dance with.