This is very important! After you have finished dancing whatever you do, don't let her get away after thanking you for the dance. Just simply say, "Can I join you for a drink?" Also, you could say, "Can I talk to you about something?" After this statement, she will say, "Talk about what?" Then you say, "I'll tell you when you when we sit down." After this, just start mak-ing conversation. Also, if she doesn't have a table and she is just standing like yourself, just say, "Can I talk to you for a little while?"

So, what you do after you finish dancing can determine the future of your whole night and whether you're going to become intimate with a woman or not. What I can't figure out is these men that dance with a woman and don't even look at or talk to her while they are dancing and when they finish, he says, "Thanks" and just walks away. Needless to say, you don't meet any women this way.

So when you have finished dancing, move right in for the kill. Don't hesitate, just proceed immediately with determination that you're going to make contact with this woman.