Don't make fun of, criticize, or judge a topless dancer because you don't think a dancer is attractive or something about her looks turn you off. Dancers have a sixth sense about them and will pick up on the negative vibes you're sending her way. Just focus on her good points such as beautiful hair, sexy eyes, beautiful smile, or kissable lips. Find her other good qualities and concentrate on them. Don't think any negative thoughts towards her, period. She just may pick up on them and this will make a bad impression.