How to Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend

How to Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend When She Is Being Cold

It's never easy for a man to deal with a woman who is being cold, but when that wan just happens to be an ex girlfriend that you want to win back, well that can be downright hard. You want to be able to have one of those conversations that leads to her looking back at you with a longing in her eyes, but you know that's not going to happen when she is more frigid than an Alaskan winter. How are you going to be able to win back your ex girlfriend when she is being cold to you?

First off, you should probably try and identify exactly why she is giving you the cold treatment. Cause if you don't have a clue about why she is acting that way... it's almost impossible to come up with a way to get her warmed back up. So, that should be the first thing that you do. Once you have identified why she is acting that way, then you can start to put together a plan to win back your ex girlfriend:

And here is what you need to do:

1) If she has been cold for a while, then you really have to be sly about your intentions on winning her back.

Don't come right out and say that you still love her. Don't come right out and tell her that you want to date her again. When a woman is cold, she can shoot you down without giving it a second thought. So, if you approach your ex girlfriend while she is still in that state, you are going to be sealing your fate and ending any hopes that you have of getting that next opportunity to date her again.

2) You are going to have to turn up the charm and charisma a little more than usual.

The best way to warm up a woman, so to speak, is to use your charm to get on her good side again. Instead of her acting frigid, you want to see a bright smile on her face when she sees you. That way, she will begin to associate feeling good to being around you. This is where you really need to turn up both the charm and charisma, even when you don't want to.

3) You are going to have to show her that she can let go of that attitude around you.

This is another big piece to the puzzle. You need to use action to get her going, words alone are not going to cut it. She's going to have an attitude around you, that's a given. You have to be able to handle that attitude without getting all freaked out about it. If you do this, then you can easily warm her back up to you and THEN you can suggest that the two of you get back together again.

It might seem complicated, but it can actually be EASY to win back your ex girlfriend when you have a PROVEN system to make it happen...