Your  hair is very important  to your looks. Most women like a  man  with  well-groomed  hair.  I  wouldn't advise you to wear your hair real long either. This is out of style and turns most women off.  Seek professional  help  to  deter­mine  which hairstyle is becoming  to  you.  Try  a  perm  if  you like. It can attract women like  crazy, especially if it's  thick and full. So, be daring and get a permanent and see if you don't  get  more looks from  women.

A word about  jewelry. Jewelry is in, so do  wear attractive jewelry to make yourself more becoming and attractive. Just don't overdo it. The multiple gold chains and medallions around the neck are definitely out now, so don't look like a fool by wearing them thinking it makes you look like a "Macho Man." Just one gold chain around your neck is sufficient and quite attractive. Just make sure it looks expensive and not cheap and tarnished.

A word about watches. Invest some money in an attractive watch. It makes a bad impression when you wear a cheap and ugly watch.

If you really want to  turn a woman off, go  out in public  with your  hair uncombed,  stringy, and dirty, unshaven and wearing wrinkled,  dirty clothes. Some  men just don't take enough pride in  their appearance and think they can  pick up women  looking like a bum.  Well it just doesn't work that way because  a woman likes a man  to be well-groomed. In public is certainly no place for a shoddy-looking man.

If you  happen to be obese,  resolve here and now that you're going to get rid of all those ugly pounds. With  the  proper  diet and  exercise,  you  can trim yourself  down  to  where  you won't be embarrassingly fat.

It's a known fact that if you're a fat slob, your chances of meeting women are pretty slim. Obesity  turns most women  off.   This doesn't have  anything to do with  looks but it's worth mentioning. Be  sure to  take a  shower or bath regularly.

Veteran Dancers

This is a topless dancer with a lot of experience and has been dancing for ten or more years.  She's more mature mentally, physically, and emotionally.  She knows all the ropes and is a seasoned veteran.  She's an expert at manipulating men for drinks and table dances and she's rather aggressive.  She can be every seductive and make you want to reach for your wallet.

Your best strategy for trying to score with veteran dancers is establishing a friendship first.  She's heard all the pick-up lines, men offering her gifts, trips, etc.  Hitting on her right out of the gate probably won't work well with this type of woman.  Gain her trust and friendship first and take it from there.  A word of advice - I'm not saying don't pursue veteran dancers, but you'll have a lot better luck with the young and inexperienced dancers.  There's one advantage to the veteran dancer and that is she is likely to give you a very seductive and sexually stimulating table dance.

P.S.  Remember to always ask a dancer when you first meet her, "How long have you been dancing?"