Spiritual Advice: When we pray for a mate the hardest part is waiting for her to come into your life. You are in a hurry but God is not. He has to line up the right circumstances to occur on his time table, not yours. In the meantime patiently wait in faith. He will come through for you.
Advice on Dating Single Women for Romance
I'm a firm believer in "variety is the spice of life" and you should not put all your eggs in one basket by pursuing and focusing all your efforts on one woman.
If you are looking for a permanent girlfriend, then fine, go for it! But, you can have a lot more romance and fun by pursuing casual, short-term relationships with a variety of single women.
Another advantage to having multiple relationships going on at the same time is that you will always have a back-up. If one relationship fizzles out, then you've always got another woman waiting in the wings. Plus, you have the luxury of dropping the women that are not working out, knowing that you have other single women to take their place.
Let me tell you about a disadvantage of being tied up with just one exclusive girlfriend. You will start ignoring other single women and golden opportunities that come up to score with women. It's your choice though, if you want to be devoted to one person only, then go ahead. I sure can't stop you.
There's another thing that will help you in your pursuit of scoring with single women when you already have some casual relationships going on on the side. You feel a lot more relaxed when you are approaching women. If a woman rejects your advances, it's no big deal because you know there are more fish in the sea and you already have a harem of girls.
Plus your attitude of being relaxed and feeling no pressure will attract single women like a magnet. Why? Because single women are very attracted to men who are confident and sure of themselves.
In closing, don't take this article the wrong way. I'm not against a one on one commitment. In my opinion, I think you will have a lot more fun playing the field until you have sown all your wild oats.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
Speak this: The same spirit that raised Christ from the dead lives inside of me at this very moment and this gives me the “can do” power to meet and attract any women I desire.
Why You Should Be Yourself When Dating Women
I need to caution you about putting on an act when you're on your first few dates with single women. What I mean by this is pretending to be someone you are not. And doing things that are not your true nature.
For instance, while on dates you are very romantic, caring, a good listener, love to laugh, complimentary, love doing different things on a date, etc.
All these things you are pretending to be really turn her on and she falls for the person you are pretending to be, not the real you.
So after you feel comfortable that you have hooked her, you revert back to being your true self:
So, do you see my point now? It's much better and fairer to your date to be yourself. Don't put on a phony act pretending to be someone you are not. If you do, you're going to have to maintain this phony image long-term because when the real you emerges, you may lose her or your relationship with her will be difficult.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
Speak this: The same spirit that raised Christ from the dead lives inside of me at this very moment and this gives me the “can do” power to meet and attract any women I desire.
A Single Man's Guide to Love and Relationships
This week let's talk about love. It's one of the most wonderful experiences on earth. It has its positives and its negatives and it's not all roses sometimes.
I want to give you some advice about love and how to handle love.
Let's get one misconception about love out of the way first of all. Don't fall into the trap thinking that love will solve all your problems and make your life perfect. And don't get into the rut of thinking that your life is incomplete without love and you must be involved in a relationship to be happy. Nothing could be further from the truth.
Some guys make the mistake of thinking that being single is terrible and being in a relationship is the only way to feel complete and happy. This is just not true. You can be just as happy single as you can being coupled. It's entirely up to you!
Some more love advice is to not look at love through rose-colored glasses thinking a good relationship is only characterized by walks along the beach, gazing into each other's eyes, wild and intense sex all the time, holding hands all the time, romantic dinners, kissing all the time, etc.
What I'm trying to say is to not get too worked up and overly romantic about love. If you do, you could be in for a rude awakening about love when it does finally come your way. You see, all this heavy romance in the soap operas and movies. Well my friend, in real life it's just not that way most of the time.
After the initial infatuation wears off, then the reality of love sets in. Things aren't as intense and once you get to know each other, your faults and bad habits come out. And of course, you now have to work at maintaining your relationship. You have to keep the fires burning so to speak. During the infatuation stage things happened so naturally and you were in another world. Now, you have to put in a lot of effort to keep that love strong.
In closing, love is what makes the world go around. Cherish it when it comes around and while it lasts. If it doesn't last, then bury it in your past and move on. I'm a firm believer in this statement: "It is better to have loved and lost at love than to have never loved at all." Memorize this statement and make it your own personal creed.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
Spiritual Advice: Here is a song of praise that I would sing when I was looking and praying for a woman to spend the rest of my life with:
It’s a beautiful life I’m living,
It’s a beautiful life you’ve given me Lord,
And I just want to thank you Jesus,
For giving me such a beautiful life,
And soon to be a beautiful wife.
God heard my song of praise and brought into my life my beautiful wife of 26 years who I love and cherish with all my heart. She is a Godly woman and Jesus is the center of our marriage. Sing this song and see if it works for you.
Using Women For Decorating Your Home
Take a woman with you when you plan on furnishing and decorating your home. I just bought a new home and really had very little clues on how to decorate it. If you have the money to do so, take a female friend with you shopping. We all know how women love to shop…especially if she's spending someone else's money. She'll let you know what she thinks looks good (hopefully you've chosen someone with good taste), then when you take her recommendations she'll be oh so happy.
An added bonus is that she'll enjoy coming over to your place, since she helped decorate it. One warning on this though, you may not want to take your girlfriend if you guys are really close. What happens when you buy all this stuff and you end up breaking up with her a few months down the road? Well, you walk through your place and everything you see reminds you of her.
So…choose your shopping partner wisely. I had a great time letting someone else decorate my house, plus I made them happy by letting them do what they do best - shop!
Spiritual Advice: With your walk and trust with Christ you can know with absolute certainty that no matter what occurs in your dating and relationships that through Christ you can handle it.
A Letter for Attracting Single Women From Personal Ads
Here's a letter I used to respond to personal ads to successfully meet and attract women like crazy:
Hi!
This letter is in response to your recent "personal" ad. Your ad really captured my attention and you sound like someone I would like to really like to get to know better. In order for you to get to know me better, here's a little bit about myself:
I am a single financially secure businessman, 1947 model, low mileage, high performance. Bumped a few times, but never wrecked. Proven ability to hug the road and not wander off course. Exterior in mint condition, warm, affectionate, sensitive interior, never soiled. Factory equipped package includes stereo, humor, depth, imagination and intelligence. Radio picks up all kinds of rock and classical. Spacious seats with plenty of room for passenger...runs on high-octane fun and romance, lifetime supply included.
Available for inspection by female drivers only, prefer affectionate woman, no dependents, eye-catching exterior, self-confident, intelligent, warm, sincere with sense of humor and full set of tools.
I come from a close solid family, would like to have little Toyotas some day. Equipped with nice endowment. Only driven once a week by little old lady to/from church. To arrange test drive, please write or call me at 802-484-2425 (anytime). HAPPY MOTORING!
P.S. Feel free to modify this letter to use for yourself. Try it...it works like crazy!
A Few Datings Tips on How to Succeed With Single Women
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Spiritual Advice: These are the two most important prayers to say when you are dating:
1. When something good happens in your dating life say, “Thank you Jesus.”
2. When things are going wrong in your dating life say, “Help me Lord.”
Are You Getting Too Personal With Single Women
Most single women expect to answer easy, straight-forward questions when they first meet guys. Such questions are part of the ritual of becoming acquainted. What's more, she's likely to be complimented by your show of genuine interest. From initial, impersonal topics, you can go on to discuss personal backgrounds and interests. By exchanging details about yourselves, you can get to know each other quickly - and determine if you'd like to pursue the contact, perhaps.
I would advise you to not ask too many questions. You are not interviewing her and if you continuously ask one question after another, she will tire of your questions and lose interest in you. Just keep your conversation with her flowing and after you ask her a question, focus your conversation towards her answers. Don't follow it up with just another question.
When might a question be too personal? Practice will help you develop sensitivity to what sort of questions single women are glad to answer in various stages of a relationship. If you have any doubts about whether a question is appropriate, preface it with a statement like: "May I ask if....?" or "If you don't mind telling me...." or "I hope I'm not being too personal...." If she doesn't feel pressured to reply, they'll usually respond cordially to the extent they're comfortable.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
Spiritual Advice: Pray every day for someone special to come into your life so Jesus can lead the way and chart your course.
A Few Misbeliefs About Mailorder Brides
The idea that most of these women are poor, poorly educated, or come from the bottom of the social heap in their own countries is also a misconception.
The truth is that, with a few exceptions, exactly the opposite is true. If you look at the biography of these women you will find that the overwhelming majority are college graduates. More than a few are professionals such as doctors, dentists and the like. If you think about it this makes a lot of sense. Most of the women seeking husbands in the international bride market have to do so using a language other than their own... English. For this reason alone, most of the poorly educated women in the world are unable to play the game. In fact, this is true for virtually all countries except one. That country is the Philippines.
The Philippines is the one country where even the very poor and often poorly educated woman can still participate in the bride-by-mail game. The reason is that English is a required subject in Philippine schools beginning at a very early age. In fact, all courses in Philippine schools from high school onward are taught in English. This gives Filipinos, even the very poor ones at the bottom of the social ladder, the ability to participate in the process necessary to pursue a husband via letter writing. This is not true of other countries.
Virtually all the women from other non-English speaking countries who become involved in seeking husbands by this method are well educated. The ones who lack sufficient English language ability are usually not successful in finding a husband if they try. Most don't ever try.
The reason why the women with the best educations are often the ones seeking foreign husbands is because these are the women who have the greatest difficulty finding husbands at home. In most of the countries where these women come from, men do not want wives who are either more obviously intelligent or better educated than they are. The better educated a women becomes, the less likely she is to find a husband at home.
It has never been true that all the women who marry American men in this way are Asian. Even before the collapse of worldwide communism there were a significant number of them coming from Latin America. The reason for the misconception that they are all Asian is because, prior to the fall of the iron curtain, and the opening of east-west travel, the vast majority of these women came from the Philippines. In fact, if you look at all the available women who are Asian, even today half of them are Filipinos.
Today, however, the fastest growing segment of the bride-by-mail movement involves Caucasian women from Russia and other countries of Eastern Europe. There are many matchmaking companies whose sole business involves women from there and which do not handle Asian women at all.
This week's contribution is from Gary Clark, the author of, "Your Bride Is In The Mail."
Spiritual Advice: When you fumble for words to say when you are on a date rely on the spirit of Jesus to intercede for you when you are at loss for words to say. He will tell you what to say if you have faith in him and listen for his voice.
A Single Man's Guide to Getting Over Relationships
Break-ups in relationships are never easy and it's worse when you are the one who gets dumped.
So, what's the best way to get over someone and get back in the dating scene? Here are some tips:
In closing, please don't jump back into the frying pan right away by looking for love on the rebound. Take a break and let your wounds heal and make a fresh start when you feel like you're over her and ready to start to dating again.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
How to Tell When Your Date is Not Working Out
This week I want to focus on how to tell when you're date is not working out. When your date is not interested in you she will leave clues.
What are the clues? Look for these tell-tell signs that your date is not going well:
When a date doesn't work out don't lose any sleep over it. It's all part of the dating game. Sometimes dates work out and sometimes they don't. The main purpose of the date besides having fun, is to get to know each other to see if you would be interested in dating each other.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
Advice on Flowers for First Dates with Single Women
Do single women love flowers? You bet they do! And one of the best ways to impress a woman romantically on a first date is to bring her flowers.
Let me give you some advice about buying flowers for your date. Whatever you do, don't go out and blow a bunch of money on a dozen roses or expensive flower arrangement. Let me tell you why:
You can make just as good impression by buying her a single rose with a card (nothing too mushy). Even though it's a single flower, it's the thought that counts. She will deeply appreciate it and it gets the date off to a good start.
There's another disadvantage to spending lots of money on flowers on women for your first date. What if the date doesn't work out? What if you have nothing in common, no chemistry, and one or both of you are turned off by each other?
I'm sure you get the point now. You've just thrown $30-50 down the toilet. You work hard for your money. Don't throw it away foolishly on a date that may not even work out.
After you have had a few dates and developed a relationship, then buy her a dozen red roses.
In closing, guys, I just can't tell you enough how single women are very impressed when they are given flowers by a man. In their heart it's a very sweet and romantic gesture. Also, don't think for a minute that giving flowers is guaranteed to get you laid.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
A Few Pitfalls in Dating, Meeting Single Women
Meeting and dating women may be hazardous to your health, and in particular, your emotional well-being. Risks include making a fool of yourself, subjecting yourself to humiliation and ridicule, being exploited, and, of course, heartbreak. Worse yet, you may be done in by your very success and end up in a bad relationship. As a shy man, you are especially vulnerable, due both to your very lack of experience in the dating arena and your romantic nature. Proceed with caution.
"Here there be tigers."
Predators stalk the shadows. Here lurk "users" and "players", schemers who would take advantage of you, who would betray your trust, who would profit from your painful loneliness and desperate need for affection, who would turn your deepest longings against you, who would manipulate you for their own purposes. Women, even sweet gentle women, alas, bear within them the same sickness, the same depths of rage, the same capacity for corruption and depravity... as you and I.
Becoming involved with the wrong person equals a prescription for unhappiness. The adage that "it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all" is scant comfort to the man courting a woman who does not return his affections. This is the dreaded "one-way love" scenario. Nearly as nerve wracking to deal with is the woman who is not quite sure that she loves you, who plays up to you when you start to distance yourself, yet pulls away when you want closeness. Every variety of games playing, every deviation from honesty and integrity undermines a relationship at its very foundations and diminishes the people involved.
In the mirror image situation, should you not wish to pursue a relationship with a woman who is attracted to you, be kind to her. Show her compassion, remembering all the times you were in her place. By all means, be honest about your intentions, but respect her feelings, and let her down easy. While you do not owe her your company, at least treat her with respect.
Avoid entanglements with married women, for very common sense reasons. Not only might you be poisoning a family relationship, perhaps hurting children in the process, but you run the risk of encountering an angry, and possibly armed husband. While adultery is no longer a punishable offense in most jurisdictions, it remains immoral, unethical, and certainly dangerous conduct.
A woman on the rebound from a failed relationship presents a ticklish problem. True enough, she is needy of affection, of healing, and will be grateful for your presence, your solace. Still, her feelings for you will be flickering and tenuous, her moods changeable, her attachment to you shaky. She will alternately cling to you and push you away. She will sweeten your existence... and bring you misery. You will constantly be asking yourself whether it is worth it.
If you are over age 18, stay away from young girls. It is a crime for an adult male to consort with an underage girl, as well it should be.
In all your loneliness, take care in awarding your affections. You will find your partner and mate, your intended... in time, and likely after weathering disappointments and collecting a few bruises. Beware of imposters.
This article contributed by Leo Cooper at http://personal.riverusers.com/~thegrendel/cover.html.
A Card Method for Meeting, Dating Single Women
How many times have you been attracted to women, let's say in public places, a sales clerk, a beautiful girl alone in a restaurant, a hot and sexy single lady getting off an airplane alone, a gorgeous babe standing in the checkout line?
Well I have come up with a get acquainted card for those occasions where you don't have much time or the place is not appropriate for getting acquainted. This card breaks the ice and works like a charm. I've used it and my male friends have used it very successfully to meet women.
Here's what it says and you just take this to your printer and have it printed on a business card and on the back have your name and phone number printed. It reads:
I've been carrying this card for a long time hoping to meet someone like you. Bars & pickup lines are just not my style, so I hope to meet you using this card. I'd really like to find out who you are and tell you exactly what it was about you that attracted me. My name and phone number are on the back of this card. The option of calling will be yours, but I'll really be sorry if you don't call. Let's spend some time together. Please call and let me know who you are.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
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P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
1st Dates with Topless Dancers
On your first date with a topless dancer, never make the first move and never ever try to get her in bed on the first date. Remember, that these girls see the same type of shitheads on a daily basis, so the trick is to be different than the 98% of the horny guys in heat that frequent the topless clubs. Not trying anything will give her a false sense of security knowing that you're not trying to hump them right out of the gate. You gain their trust and this is very important.
On your next date or two with her she will become so sexually aggressive that she's ready to screw your brains out. It all boils down to turning the tables on her, always keep her guessing and trying to figure you out, and being just out of her grasp. This becomes a game she's not familiar with, they don't know the rules and aren't smart enough to figure out that you're just as horny as all the other swinging dicks that see them, you're just more clever.
When playing games of the mind with these types of women, it's like taking candy from a baby, they have no frame of reference other then shaking their ass and squatting naked for dollar bills!
Advice on Understanding Single Women
Do you sometimes have a hard time understanding single women? How they act and how they think? Does it sometimes seem like they are from another planet?
Well, let me give you some advice to help you out in understanding single women and people in general. The first mistake you're making is expecting her to think like you do and be like you. You expect her to see the world as you do.
This is a big mistake! She will never be like you or think like you. She will not be a clone of yourself. We are all unique individuals and not alike. It would be a pretty boring world if we were all alike and thought alike. Don't you agree?
We all have different opinions of things and see the world differently. And don't make the mistake of trying to change a woman that you're dating into someone like yourself. Sorry, it just won't happen. Accept her as she is, faults and all.
People are resistant to change and if you're constantly trying to change her you are just going to end up alienating her.
So, in closing, remember this: Any single woman you meet will not think exactly like you or be like you. If you can accept this statement, it will go a long way in helping you to understand single women and people in general.
P.S. - I'm sure that you've heard the old saying that, "opposites attract." Well, I think this statement is misleading to have a good a good relationship. If you don't have a lot in common I think this hurts a relationship. You need to share common interests and if you disagree on everything, all this does is create friction and is detrimental to creating a strong and loving relationship.
P.P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
