Advice on How to Deal with Single Women Sexual Behavior

Are You Sometimes Confused by Women's Sexual Behavior?

This week I would like to focus on women's behavior:

For example, has this ever happened to you? You meet this really hot & sexy single girl at a nightclub and the sexual chemistry between you is incredible. While slow-dancing you are rubbing each others back, grinding your crotches, kissing each others neck, kissing, etc. I'm sure you're getting the picture. It's getting late and you invite her over to your place for a drink.

Then after she comes over you sit on the couch and start making out. Things really start to get hot and heavy. You start to undress her and she reluctantly pulls back and says, "not tonight." This really frustrates you after getting all worked up and you're totally confused about what's going on here. You're wondering why she seemed ready to make love but got cold feet.

Before you jump to conclusions and consider her a prude or a prick-teaser, these are the most likely reasons why she chickened out:

1. Mother Nature has made her monthly call and she's on her period.
2. She is concerned that if she has sex with you so soon in the relationship you will think she is nothing but a promiscuous cheap whore and you won't see her again.
3. She is concerned that she might get pregnant or even worse, contract a sexual disease.
4. She only has sex with someone that she is in love with and being that you have just met she has not had time to get to know you and feel love for you.
5. When she has had casual sex in the past she feels empty and ashamed of herself the next morning. So, she feels uncomfortable repeated the same empty and unfulfilling experience.

So, what is the lesson to be learned from this? First of all, single men and single women are different when it comes to hoping in bed with someone. Men will go to bed with women at the drop of a hat, even if they have only known each other a couple of hours. Single women are different. Most of them aren't into casual sex. They want to get to know you and develop feelings for you before they give their body to you.

So, my advice is to take things slow with a single woman. Take time for you to get to know each other and develop chemistry, communication, and feelings for each other. You really don't even have to rush sex. If sex is going to happen, it's going to happen naturally anyway. Believe me, the woman will really respect you and admire you for not rushing her into a sexual relationship. Plus, you will really make a favorable impression on her because you're different than the other men she's used to who come on all hot and horny acting like a dog in heat.

In conclusion, if a woman continues to reject your advances, be sure and have a heart to heart talk with her about you are not getting your needs met in the relationship. If she refuses to compromise, then it's a simple choice. Live with it or move on someone who can meet your physical needs

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Single Man's Guide to Flirting with Single Women

How to Flirt with Single Women in Bars and Nightclubs

This week I would like to focus on how to flirt with women in bars and nightclubs:

While you are cruising the nightclub, keep your flirting eyes out for the woman that is alone. She is usually the easiest to meet and attract. She is there for a reason and you can be the lucky man to fulfill that reason.

Also while walking, keep that sexy-looking gleam in your eye. Literally try to melt women with your eyes. If you make eye contact with a woman, make sure you give her a friendly smile and if she is close enough to you, simply say,"Hi." That is all it takes and with practice it will come easy.

If you make contact with some woman across the way from you and she turns away, don't give up on her. Try to make eye contact again and smile at her. If she smiles back, approach her immediately! This is an opportunity that must not be passed up because it's an open invitation for you to come over and introduce yourself or ask her to dance.

Whatever you do, don't stare at a woman. This is impolite and nobody likes to be stared at. Just look at her long enough to make it quite clear that you see her and then immediately look away. What you are saying with your eyes when you look at her this way is, "I know you are there and I would not dream of invading your privacy." Just keep looking at her off and on until you establish some meaningful eye contact and exchange smiles. So, there you have it, the art of flirting.

What really amazes me is these guys at the nightclubs that don't even flirt with women. They just stare into space or look down at the floor. If they do accidentally catch the eye of a woman, they look away as quickly as possible and let it go at that. They just don't know what they are missing and what they are missing out on is meeting women the easy way.

So my friend, if you're like this, make it a point to stop staring into space and start flirting with women. Flirt with every woman in sight. It's a lot of fun and you will be attracting more women than ever before.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Air Mattress for Picking Up Women in Swimming Pools

How to Pick Up Single Women with an Air Mattress

This week I would like to focus on a method I used to successfully meet, attract, and pick up sexy beautiful single women at swimming pools. This easy technique I used in the summer got me lots of dates filled with love, sex, and romance.

I call this technique the "air mattress" method. Here's how it works:

Sit your ice chest on the edge of the swimming pool to where you have access to it while laying on your air mattress in the pool. Now, get on your air mattress with a can of beer or mixed drink in hand (I might add that it would be a good idea to try and keep your hair dry. This way you'll look more attractive. With wet hair, you just won't look at your best).

Now, maneuver your air mattress around the pool and park it across from a female you're attracted to that's near the pool or sitting on the edge. Then simply remark, "You sure are getting a nice tan today." This breaks the ice and then you follow up with, "I've got an extra air mattress. Would you like to join me?"

Then you offer her a drink from your ice chest (stocked with beer, mixed drinks in a can, soda, etc.) Then you simply get acquainted and ask her out.

This technique will really work for you successfully and I highly recommend that you try it. Also, if there are other females in the pool on air mattresses, pull up beside them and feed them the same opening lines about her tan and offering her a drink.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Why Bad Breath Can Cause Dating Problems and What to Do About It

Are You Aware That Bad Breath Can Prevent

You From Scoring with Single Women?

If you have bad breath, this can be a major turn-off when you are trying to meet and pick up single women. And the main problem is that you may not even be aware that you have bad breath which can instantly ruin your chances of attracting and dating all those hot & sexy single women of your dreams. At the end of this article I will show you how to test your breath.

"Over a 24-hour period, everyone has bouts of bad breath," said Carol Meyer, a dental hygienist and president of Personal Breath Consultants Inc., based in Long Island, NY.

The American Dental Association estimates that 40 percent of adults - 85 million Americans - have chronic bad breath. The most common cause of bad breath is bacteria, trapped food between the teeth, and poor dental hygiene.

Today, Americans spend more than $1 billion each year on rinses, mints and gums to make their breath fresher. Unfortunately, these are only short-term fixes. "They temporarily help," said Dr. Richard Haydon, a University of Kentucky ear, nose and throat specialist. Mouthwashes, for instance, will last less than an hour. Haydon also cautions that most mouthwashes contain alcohol, which can irritate the tissues of the mouth.

Ironically, excess alcohol also causes bad breath, so people who use excessive amounts of mouthwashes with alcohol might end up with worse breath than they started with.

There's only one way for most people to control bad breath: "Immaculate oral hygiene," Dr. Ted Raybould, a University of Kentucky dentist said. That includes brushing twice daily for at least two minutes each time, making sure to hit all areas of every tooth. "And flossing's the biggest one," Raybould said. "Food gets stuck between the teeth and starts to rot."

Tongue cleaning is also important in eliminating bad breath. Toothbrushes aren't really designed to clean the tongue, especially the back areas of the tongue, where offensive bacteria collect. The best way to clean the tongue is by using tongue cleaners you can purchase from your dentists, drug store, and other outlets. A University of Toronto study found that tongue cleaning reduced sulfur gases and offensive odor by 75 percent - 50 percent more than just brushing.

It is also recommended while brushing your teeth that you gently brush inside the cheeks and gums and the roof of the mouth.

Using the advice contained in this article should eliminate any bad breath problems that can affect your dating and love life. If you follow this program for good dental hygiene and you still have bad breath, then perhaps you have a medical problem that causes bad breath and you should see your doctor.

So, how can you tell if you have bad breath? There are three easy ways, according to Meyer, a leading breath consultant:

Lick your wrist and take a whiff of it.

Swab the inside of your cheeks or tongue with a piece of gauze or cotton swab and sniff.

Floss with unscented dental floss and smell the floss.

Trust me, this is the most accurate method of testing your breath. Breathing into your cupped hands and taking a whiff is not accurate.

I just can't stress to you enough how important it is to not have bad breath when you're trying to meet, attract, date, and seduce single women. I know you may think it's a pain in the ass to take care of your teeth and tongue, but it's worth it because you certainly don't want to become a failure with women because of something that you can easily correct.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Adult Education Classes, University Courses for Meeting Single Women

Meeting Single Women for Love, Romance, and Relationships

Using Adult Education Classes and University Extension Courses

Most good-sized communities in the United States offer adult education courses. The courses are varied and offer something for everyone. The classes are held at convenient times for full time workers and are available at no cost or for a small fee. A good example of these courses are the ones sponsored by the organization called Leisure Learning which are located in most large cities in the United States.

These courses are an excellent channel for meeting single women. The key to it all is to take courses that appeal to women. Let me offer some suggestions of courses that will be made up of mostly women: Interior decorating, arts and crafts, cooking, ballet, astrology, handwriting analysis, tarot, tennis, writing, etc. By taking these courses you will be one of the few men in the class. You will be surrounded by single women and you will get all the attention and you will be in demand. The women will be literally fighting amongst themselves for your attention.

Let me tell you about my friend Bill who took a cooking class at my urging. This is what he told me about the class: "Well, there were fifteen women in the class and I was the only guy. Most of them were single and most of them were around my age. Now, I've only been to three of the classes and have three more to go and I've already dated four of the women...and I'm becoming a great cook on top of it. You know Don, this was a really great idea of yours. Probably none of these single women would have talked to me if I had approached them in a supermarket or on the street, but no woman refuses to talk to you over a pasta."

A word of advice. Arrive at the classes early. Everyone sits around and shoots the bull and the atmosphere is very relaxed and there's no pressure to meet someone like in a singles bar. By arriving early you can make the rounds and converse with the women before class.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Warning About Women Afraid of Getting Involved

The Dark Side of Meeting the Wrong Type of Single Women

This week I want to discuss the subject of should you date commitaphobic women.

I want to alert you to a certain type of single woman that can cause you problems. I call this type of woman, "The Commitaphobic." Let me describe The Commitaphobic to you:

The Commitaphobic single woman is confused. She really has little idea of what she wants from a relationship, and often breaks up and then comes back only to break up again. She hates being alone, but likewise is incapable of making a solid commitment.

There is nothing wrong, or evil about her, she is simply undecided as to what part she wants you to play in her future. She is happy to "coast" along, for months or even years if you let her, but as soon as you do or say anything that looks like tying her down, she runs a mile, only to come back and ask for one more chance.

The problem here develops when you keep taking her back. This tells her that she can treat you like a doormat, come and go as she pleases, and only ever give you dribs and drabs of her love. The longer and longer it goes on the less she understands what, or who it is she wants in her life, if anyone.

The only possible solution is to not take her back next time she leaves. That way she can get the experience she needs with other people to eventually come to a decision about the kind of person she can really commit to. If you aren't it, then it's better to know now rather than after she's taken years of your youth. Years that in the meantime you can use to find someone who does know what they want.

I never really intended to focus on the negative aspects of meeting single women for my Dating Tips of the Week. But, I feel that single men need to be exposed to the dark side of meeting the wrong type of women. I want you to be happy and be able to recognize when women may be playing head games with you.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Secrets to Getting Single Women to Fall for You

Secrets to Getting Single Women to Fall in Love with You

This week I want to discuss how to charm any woman into falling in love with you:

There are men who have such winning personalities, such conquering charm, that they can practically seduce a "blind date" over the phone. By analyzing both men who most, and men who least, possess the vital ingredient of "sex appeal" charm, we can present a few of the principles by which it is done. However, this doesn't mean you can equal their charm overnight merely by reading about it. You will have to find your own ways, develop your own brand of charm, and utilizing these principles in a manner which is both polished, and convincing for you. Here are some suggestions to make single women fall for you:

1. Make the woman feel that she's the most important person in the world.
2. Make her feel like she's worth a million dollars.
3. Make her feel attractive, gorgeous, wanted, and sexy.
4. Shower her with attention and romantic gestures.
5. Keep talking to her about herself. Forget about yourself.
6. DON'T EVER LEAVE HER ALONE! Send her cards, flowers, candy, telegrams, gifts, phone her constantly, see her as often as possible until you achieve your objectives.
7. SHOW HER THAT YOU CARE, DEEPLY, INTENSELY, FOR ALWAYS by the way you look at her, talk to her, pursue her, and listen to her.
8. STRIVE TO MAKE HER FEEL GOOD whenever she is in your presence, when talking with you, and when out on a date. This means showing her a good time, telling her jokes and interesting anecdotes, expressing appreciation of her sense of humor, behaving as if everything she utters is a bright gem.
9. MAKE HER DEPENDENT UPON YOU. Make her miss you when you are not around. Teach her to find you more and more essential by being a real friend, an interesting and dependable companion, a reliable antidote to loneliness, and a continuous part of her life and thought.
10. MEET HER FAMILY as soon as possible and treat them as if they were royalty. Get her family on your side in persuading her of your charm and desirability.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

10 Top Colognes for Seducing Single Women

Best Colognes for Attracting and Seducing Single Women

Listen up guys! This is one of the most important tips listed so far in my newsletter on meeting, attracting, and seducing single women.

I just can't stress to you enough how important it is to smell good when you're trying to pick up girls. It's a proven fact that women are powerfully attracted to men that are wearing a good-smelling cologne.

It has a hypnotic and seductive effect. It can be so powerful; it can make her sexually attracted to you. So, this being the case, you must take advantage of this aphrodisiac.

So, what are these colognes that attract single women like a magnet? Well, we sent our research specialists out in the field and interviewed single women and sales clerks at prestigious department stores to find out the "Top 10 Colognes" that women find irresistible on a man.

Here are the "Top 10" Colognes in random order:

1. Our very own cologne called, "Liquid Magnet" which contains pheromones.
2. Tommy by Hilfiger.
3. Claiborne Sport by Liz Claiborne.
4. Eternity for Men by Calvin Klein.
5. Hugo.
6. Safari for Men by Ralph Lauren.
7. Polo Sport by Ralph Lauren.
8. Gucci Nobile
9. Weekend Burberrys
10. Fahrenheit by Christian Dior.

I would highly recommend that you buy them all and experiment to find out which works best for you in seducing single women.

In Closing, don't overlook this easy way to improve your love life and attract single women like a magnet. Try these girl-getting colognes! They work!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Dating Tips on Succeeding with Single Women

Awesome Dating Tips to Help You Succeed with Women

This week I will focus on a few tips to help you become more successful with single women:

In these days and times it's becoming harder and harder being a smoker. It's almost come to the point that you are a social outcast if you smoke. If you are a smoker, you might consider quitting smoking to help you attract more single women and I'll tell you why. There are many single women who will not be interested in you because you smoke. Yes, it's a sad fact of life that there are women who will not date men who smoke.

This is what I call the "Wolf Pack" method of meeting and succeeding with single women. This method works great at nightclubs, bars, beaches, etc. Here's how it works: You're going to be teaming up with a buddy to approach single women who are by themselves. Why does this give you an advantage? Because she's less likely to reject two men together than one guy approaching her alone. Then it's up to you and your friend which one is going to put the moves on her. Another factor in your favor is that women alone feel more comfortable approaching two men together than a guy alone, especially to ask for a dance.

Are you recently divorced or separated? If you are, keep it to yourself initially when first meeting single women. Why? A lot of women are leery of recently divorced or separated men. There's a stigma attached to this in thinking you're emotionally unstable or still have ties with your ex. So, when first getting to know her, don't volunteer any information about your status. If asked, be honest and don't lie. If you get caught in a lie, this really makes you look like a fool and makes a bad impression to say the least.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Awesome Gifts to Give Single Women to Make Them Fall for You

Great Gifts to Make Single Women Fall in Love with You

This week I want to talk about how to make single women fall in love with you with great romantic gifts:

The very best way to capture a woman's heart is to give her a romantic gift she will never forget. And I've come up with some fantastic gifts that will do the trick. Believe me, the key to dating, romancing, and seducing single women is to do something unique for her that will fill her heart with love for you. Try the following gift ideas to make single women want to get closer to you:

Name a star in the universe after her. The acclaimed company, International Star Registry will send her a 12 inch by 16 inch parchment (no more than 35 letters) and two sky charts showing its position in the galaxy, which is suitable for framing. The cost is $48.00 plus $9.00 for shipping & handling. Call 1-800-282-3333 to place your order.

Send her a telegram telling her how much you care about her, how pretty she is, what a terrific person she is, how much you enjoyed your date with her, etc. It's real easy to do this. All you have to do is call Western Union at 1-800-325-6000 and it will be delivered within 5 hours. You could really surprise her by having it delivered to where she works for maximum impact. The costs are 1-15 words is $17.95 plus a $13.95 delivery fee. 16-25 words are $24.95 plus a $13.95 delivery fee. Try this method of making single women fall madly in love with you guys. It works!

Have a bouquet of balloons delivered to her. Talk about a romantic gesture, this is it! Simply call this free hotline at 1-800-424-2323 for balloon delivery service almost anywhere in the country. Prices vary and can even include gifts delivered and even a costumed deliverer. Can you just imagine the impact on her if you had balloons delivered by a clown at her place of employment! She would probably want to make mad passionate love to you that very night!

Give her a newspaper published on her birthday or on your special anniversary date. Original newspapers from over 50 cities are available dating back to the year 1880. Each newspaper comes with a protective sleeve. This fantastic and memorable gift is available from Newspaper Archives at 1-800-221-3221. The cost is $39.50 plus $6.95 for shipping & handling.

I saved the classic romantic gift that always melts a single woman's heart for last. Send her flowers...it never fails to make a lasting impression on women. And it's so easy to do. All you have to do is call 1-800-FLOWERS to have flowers delivered anywhere in the country. Be sure and say something real sweet with the card that is delivered with the flowers.

I have no affiliation whatsoever with these companies. I'm only listing them as a service to you to help you win with single women in the game of love and romance.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

About Dating Single Women with a Lot of Mileage

Should You Pursue Single Women With Lots of Experience?

Here's an interesting article I ran across in one of the newsgroups by an anonymous author several months ago I wanted to pass along to you about dealing with single women:

MORE MILEAGE DOES NOT MEAN BETTER - Don't you ever believe any single woman who tells you that she really wants a nice guy. Even if she really meant it. When the time comes, she is at the COMPLETE MERCY of this ancient and useless MATING instinct that totally blinds her and she MUST go after the guys she cannot control, the guys who are hard to get. Or the guy who "knows" how to "ignite" those incredibly intense emotions in her.

Some single women never learn and will continue dating jerks, getting involved with jerks and even marrying jerks over and over again for the rest of their lives. A second group will get to the point where the pain caused by these jerks is so much greater than any pleasure obtained. When these women hit this THRESHOLD, their self-images experience an automatic shift. They had enough pain. They learned their lesson. No more jerks for them. Their genetic programming was changed. And now they decide to settle down and get married. And there is a third group who will be worried that their "biological clocks" are ticking away. So, they decide to settle down, get married and have children. And guess what?

Since a jerk will never stick around, ALL THESE WOMEN in the second and third groups will select a NICE GUY to have the DUBIOUS honor of being their husbands and the parents of their children. What a joke. After "spreading their legs around" and sleeping with one jerk after another, they select YOU, a nice guy, to protect them, take care of them and PAY FOR THEM.

The really SAD part is that there are so many NICE guys out there, with low self-esteems and lousy self-images, who will marry these women. You deserve much, much better than that. You deserve the best women on earth. It is your birthright to have any woman you want, not just LEFTOVERS. So, if you decide to get into a SERIOUS relationship, PLEASE, respect yourself enough that you will select a woman who has "VERY LITTLE MILEAGE" under her hood, someone young, fresh, full of life and who still has an APPRECIATIVE and LOVING attitude toward men. If you go to a dealer to buy a car, you would try to get either a "brand" new car or at least one with the least amount of mileage, wouldn't you?

When getting a woman you should be even more careful and cautious than when buying a car. More mileage doesn't make her any better, contrary to what you were told. Why? Simply because all these very "experienced" women ALLOWED themselves to be hurt, used and abused by so many guys in the past and they ERRONEOUSLY start to think that "all men are dogs". And these women will bring into any NEW relationship ALL THAT GARBAGE of their hurtful past. They will be resentful, frustrated, revengeful, vindictive and real BITCHES. There are some exceptions to this rule, but not very many.

A Guide to Getting Directions to Where to Pick Up Your Date

How to Find Out where Your Date Lives

Has this ever happened to you? You meet a really hot and sexy single woman that you consider to be the woman of your dreams and you look forward to making a good impression on her so you can become intimate.

You set up a date and she gives you directions to her place so you can pick her up. Well, your big day finally arrives and you're on you way to pick her up. But, you get lost and end up being late for your date. You are so embarrassed and perhaps she is pissed off. This is not a good way to start a date.

Who's at fault? Maybe she gave you bad directions or the wrong directions. Maybe you have a bad sense of direction.

What's the solution? I'm glad you asked. There's a great way to find exactly where your date lives and how to get there. Just visit: http://www.mapquest.com - they have a program where all you have to do is type in your address and her address, then like magic it will produce a map with turn-by-turn directions to her place. You can even print out a custom map to get to her place.

Now, you won't have an excuse for getting lost again. You can avoid all the embarrassment of being late for a date.

Also there's another site called: http://www.mapsonus.com which offers a similar service.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Best Way to Ask Women for Their Phone Number

How to Get Phone Numbers from Women

This week I want to focus on how to get phone numbers from single women and how to tell if she's giving you a phony number:

After you have made contact with a hot and sexy single woman you are attracted to and have talked and gotten to know each other, the best way to ask her for her phone is say, "Let's meet for lunch or dinner sometime, can I have your phone number?" Hopefully, you will get an immediate response.

Be aware that she might give you the old line of, "Why don't you give me your number?" A lot of times this turns out to be just a slick trick on her part. Because, she will just throw your number away. Also, you must be aware that she may give you a phony number. I can't tell you how many times this has happened to me in meeting women in nightclubs and topless clubs. Some girls, instead of just declining to give you their number, they give you a phony number for fear of hurting your feelings. Plus, they may live with a boyfriend or husband and would rather lie to you instead of saying no, which could hurt your feelings.

Here's a trick I play on women when they give me their phone number. After I write her number down I will pause while I'm writing and say, "Excuse me, could you repeat that number again?" If this number is different from the first number she gave me, I will know she's lying. If this happens, tell her you don't appreciate her giving you a phony number and ask her to leave or just walk away. Don't waste your time with her!

Before I forget, always carry a pen with you to write down her phone number. This is very important! Even better, carry around an expensive-looking pen to make a favorable impression on her.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Attract Single Women with Your Eyes

How to Attract Single Women Using Your Eyes

This week I want to focus on how to attract women with your eyes:

They say the eyes are the mirrors to the soul. And you can use the power of your eyes to influence single women to be attracted to you. You can even literally seduce single women with your eyes. Follow these guidelines to use your eyes to capture the hearts of single sexy women for love, sex, and romance:

Use your eyes to attract single women. Gaze into her eyes as you smile at her. It will make your message much more personal. When you see single women who look interesting, turn toward them and let your gaze linger a little longer. A suggestion of a wink while you're smiling gives an unmistakable come-hither look.

In conversation, look into the eyes of the woman you're talking with. Direct eye contact says, "I'm listening. I want to hear more." To show agreement and interest, occasionally raise and lower your eyebrows. When she's talking, listen with your eyes as well as your ears. If you look away, you may signify, "I'm bored" or "I don't agree." The result will usually be a short and unfulfilling conversation. However, to look away while speaking is natural. It's a sign that the topic is being shifted or that thoughts are being collected. A pause while glancing away usually means an uncompleted thought, signaling, "I haven't finished. Don't interrupt."

Are Your Eyes Right With Single Women?

Be cautious lest your eye gestures be misunderstood. Avoiding eye contact can make both parties feel uncomfortable. If you avert your eyes out of shyness, you may be interpreted as saying, "I'm dishonest" or "I'm ashamed" or "I'm not interested in you." Too much eye contact is as bad as too little. It's impolite to stare. As a cultural rule, a man should not look steadily at a woman for longer than a few seconds - unless she gives him license with a smile, a backward glance, or a direct meeting of eyes. When a man gazes without smiling, women may think, "He's looking right through me." If you narrow your eyes in a frown, you may inadvertently be saying, "I'm suspicious." If you roll your eyes upward, she could think you're yawning, "Ho hum!" If you glare at a woman under arched eyebrows, most women will hear you growl: "I'm angry."

Work Up To It

It can be difficult to gaze into a woman's eyes for some men. To get used to making eye contact, focus your gaze a little below or between her eyes. For a few seconds look into the pupils, and smile. To ease the tension, look into one eye at a time. To relax, let your gaze travel over the features of the face: the lips, cheeks, nose, ears and hair. After a few moments, go back to looking at her right in the eyes.

From time to time, ask yourself, "Where are my eyes?" Out of habit, you may find your gaze has drifted onto the floor or out in the audience. Increase the amount of time that you experience direct eye contact. As you become more practiced, you'll be able to look directly into her eyes without even being conscious that you're doing it.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Ads to Meet Single Women Online

How to Meet Single Women on the Internet

Here's some great advice on how to use Internet personal ads to meet single women:

Okay boys, we have a problem. We outnumber the women, and most of the ones out there don't like to post. So we have to overcome those odds.

How?

First off, if you're going to answer ads, remember one thing: responses, which offer no information, do not prompt most women to write back. If a woman gets a response that says nothing but, "Hi I'm interested write me," she will most likely toss it out; not only does such a response make you sound dull and uninteresting, but she's probably got a half-dozen other letters to answer. If your response doesn't communicate clearly who you are, what kind of guy you are, and why you're interested in her, why should she bother with you?

Keep in mind: women who post ads usually get a bunch of responses. To get the lady's attention, you're going to have to work hard to sound interesting.

Now, the fact is that I've heard from guys who've written and told me they had success answering ads. I heard from at least one guy who answered just one ad, and subsequently wound up getting engaged to the lady. But the fact of the matter is that your odds are an order of magnitude better if you actually post an ad.

Remember that most women don't post ads! So the most wonderful woman in the world may be out there scanning for ads looking for someone just like you, but because you never advertised, she will never find you. Most women don't post ads, and the girl of your dreams may be one of them. If you want her to find you, post an ad!

And when you do post an ad, try to keep the following in mind:

Follow all the advice I have given so far. It's all very important.

Don't sound desperate. This actually goes for both sexes, but especially for men. The old rule is very true: the harder you look for a girlfriend, the harder one will be to find. Be patient, and avoid sounding pathetic, excessively horny, or desperate. It will not help.

Be patient. One ad may net you no responses at all. If you're extremely lucky as a man, you may get as many as a dozen responses. More likely, you will get from one to three.

Post in more than one place. There are many venues out there on the Usenet and on the World Wide Web, which are free and easy to use. Use as many of them as possible! If you post your ad to the Usenet, be sure to post it in every group that might apply -- for straights, I recommend posting in alt.personals, alt.personals.ads, alt.personals.misc, and any regional news group nearby. And if you post an ad on the Web, be sure to place it in more than one service.

Remember, the more coverage you have, the more likely is that your special someone will see it: you are, on average, ten times more likely to get good responses if you place an ad in ten places than if you place it in just one.

Be prepared to post your ad repeatedly. Do NOT expect one ad to get you lots of responses. Instead, prepare yourself for a bit of a wait. Post your ad in several places, and then wait see what happens. Wait a couple of weeks, and post it again. You may want to "tweak" or fine tune it each time you re-post it. If you aren't getting many responses, you may want to re-write it. But in any case, keep posting it until you get a response.

When you do get a response, don't stop posting your ad. Remember, one response means nothing. Until you've gotten to the point where you're seeing each other regularly, or at least writing to each other daily and talking on the phone a lot, you should keep posting your ad. Never invest too much in any one person until you have a good reason to believe that it's going somewhere.

Don't post your ad too often in the same place. This may seem a contradiction, but it's not. If people see ad after ad from you, you may look desperate or stupid, or at least annoying. Also, if you're using the Usenet, it can take as long as two weeks for a message to be completely distributed to all Usenet sites, so don't post much more often than that. Posting a new ad once every ten to fourteen days seems the most reasonable schedule.

Ultimately, you need to remember that the audience for personal ads is not static, and no one response to an ad means much. An enormous number of women read personal ads, but some only do it once in a while. Even those who read regularly might not notice your ad the first few times it appears. A woman may be interested in your ad but not be able to work up the courage to answer it -- but if she sees your it enough times, she may finally work up the courage to respond. If she does answer, she may lose interest. This is just like any other way of meeting people -- keep exploring your options and trying, patiently and persistently, until you hook the right lady.

TO SUM IT ALL UP: write a good, creative, intelligent, and thoughtful ad that's specific about what you do and don't want. Take all the space you need to get it right, but don't ramble; remember that too long is as bad as too short. Post it every couple of weeks in several different places, tweaking it now and then, and trying various experiments to see what works and doesn't. Keep posting ads until you are positive you've got a serious relationship going with someone. And most of all, just be patient, with yourself and others.

This article is reprinted by permission - Copyright 1995 and 1996 by Dean Esmay.

A Social Networking System to Meet Single Women

Networking to Meet More Single Women

This week I want to show you how to use your friends, acquaintances, relatives and co-workers to help you meet, date, and seduce single women.

Here's a great networking system for you to meet, date, attract, and seduce more hot and sexy single women for some love, sex, and romance. Here's what you need to do to improve your love and sex life:

On an 8 1/2 x 11 sheet of paper, make a list of all your friends, acquaintances, relatives, and co-workers. The form for your list should look like this:

Friends.........Acquaintances.........Relatives.........Co-Workers

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Now, just fill in the blanks on this form and get in touch with these people and simply make this statement: "I am expanding my social circle of female friends. Could you introduce me to some of your single female friends?"

Try this networking system and you just might be surprised at all the new sexy single women you will meet for some love, sex, and romance. Lots of marriages have occurred by meeting the opposite sex through other people and you just may find the "love of your life" using this girl-getting system.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Tips to Help You do Better with Single Women

Here are some more great tips to help you succeed with single women:

YOU CAN NOT LEARN MERELY BY READING, YOU MUST GO OUT AND PRACTICE THIS: If you see a single woman on the street, looking in the window of a store, waiting for a bus, sitting on a train, in the next aisle of a movie, shopping in a department store, and for any reason this woman appeals to you, strike up a conversation, start talking to her about anything that comes to mind.

MAKE YOURSELF SENSITIVE TO HER NEEDS: Try to feel and understand just what makes her "tick." Try, occasionally, to put yourself in her shoes mentally and empathize with her attitudes and view of life. As you sense unfulfilled needs on her part, really try to satisfy them. Does she want tenderness? Companionship? Boldness? does she urgently want to get married and will an early subtle indication of serious intentions create the best impression?

WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A GOOD LISTENER: A good listener is not really passive. You have to give your fullest, most intense attention to her: physically, mentally, emotionally; by your facial expressions, posture, your voice and comments. You have to like her and be genuinely interested. Be sensitive enough to discover that every human being has beautiful, lovable inner qualities if you seek for them. Encourage and stimulate the continued flow of her conversation by asking questions, making comments, and expressing interest and appreciation for what she is saying. Be ready, too, to contribute your own feelings, experiences, and knowledge as it bears upon what she is expressing.

LIFE IS FOR NOW! Regardless of the frustrations, failures and grief you may have experienced in the past, there is no reason to permit yourself to be chained to the past, or for that matter, to be so concerned with dreams about the future that the present passes you by. Life is here, now, this moment...to live, to see and feel intensely, to enjoy, to make new starts, new beginnings, build a new life. You can begin actions this very moment which will begin to change you for the better, make you more attractive to, and successful with, the opposite sex. Act, within and without, with friendliness, confidence, and intense interest in others. Like people, even while remaining very open-eyed about their failings and shortcomings. Feel this affection for people inside you and act upon it and you will begin to change internally and externally in a direction which is infinitely more attractive and charming to single women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Best Way to End a Date with Single Women

Advice for Men on How to End a Date with Women

End the date before she does. Example: The evening is winding down. It's pretty obvious that you aren't going to "get lucky" this night for any love, sex, or romance, but you hang on 'till the bitter end hoping that the chance in a million shot will come through. Wrong! Instead you alertly perceive that he evening is still going well and is positive, so you politely explain that you have to go, assure her that you had a great time, and tell her you'll have to get together again sometime. Take her home and say, "Good-night."

Most men seem to think that if they prolong the date enough; they'll get the girl in bed for a hot night of passion, sex, and romance. As the evening drags on, the mood of the date starts to drop and the girl ends up having to announce it's time for her to go.

By ending the date before she does, you surprise her and set yourself apart from the other guys she's dated. You imply that you are hard-to-get and not desperate. And believe me, if the girl is interested in going to bed with you, you'll know it. She will make her interest known to you.

So, if she hasn't given you the signals, better for you to make your exit and beat her at her own game. She'll be giving you the signals someday soon.

P.S. This article is an excerpt from our best-selling book on meeting, attracting, dating, and seducing single women called, "A Man's Guide to Women."

Advice for Long Distance Relationships with Single Women

Are Long -Distance Relationships With Single Women Worth It?

Here are my experiences with long-distance relationships and why I prefer not to get involved in them:

1. Sooner or later, it's going to occur to the girls that she is missing out on a social life because of a spoken or implied commitment to you. She will subconsciously begin to resent you and trouble will follow.

2. You are probably passing up opportunities for involvement with other single women.

3. You are spending a fortune on phone bills and travel.

4. This invariably breeds aggravation, frustration, suspicion, anxiety and trouble. All this for a romance with less than favorable odds?

If you do become involved in a long-distance relationship with single women, then follow this advice:

Don't forget. Your fidelity does not insure hers. Continue to pursue your social life and sex life. See other single women. Make yourself available.

The more intensity there is in the long-distance romance, the higher the likelihood it will burn out. Keep it casual and friendly. Friendships by mail can last a long time and who knows? Someday, circumstances may bring you together. It never hurts to keep your irons in the fire.

If necessary, pay her way to visit you. Never travel to where she lives. If you go to where she lives, you lose the home-court advantage. You are in unfamiliar territory around people you don't know, and you are being judged by her family and friends. It is a difficult situation to be in when you're trying to present your best side.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Ask Women for a Date and Best Time

When to Ask Single Women Out for a Date

Here's some great advice: If possible, avoid asking a single girl out for the first time for a Friday or Saturday night date. Here's why:

1. The odds of her being busy are high so she may have to turn you down, which creates bad vibes right off the bat.

2. It tells her that you don't have a date for the weekend with someone else so you may have trouble getting dates.

3. The weekend implies formal dating, so the pressure is on.

4. If you do get the date, she may have to turn down other offers because of her commitment to you, and go into the evening regretting having to turn down others. After all, she has no way of knowing whether she is going to have a good time with you or not.

On the other hand, if you ask her out during the week:

1. You imply that you are busy on the weekend. In other words, you are involved with other girls.

2. The odds of her being available are greater.

3. Weeknights imply casual-no pressure, a good atmosphere to get to know her.

4. You have turned a dull weeknight into a good time for her - good vibes right off the bat.

This article is an excerpt from our best-selling book, "A Man's Guide to Women."

Are You Scaring Single Women Away with Your Ego

Don't Let Your Ego Cause You Problems with Meeting Single Women

This week we will focus on how your ego can prevent you from scoring with sexy single women in nightclubs and bars:

I will describe what I call the "Nightclub Ego-Man" that you will see at nightclubs and bars. If you're one of these men, resolve here and now that you're going to change your ways and discontinue being the Nightclub Ego-Man which can prevent you from meeting, dating, attracting, and seducing all those hot & sexy beautiful single women you are attracted to in bars and nightclubs.

This is the guy you will see standing around, depending on his looks to meet single women. He may be very handsome or he just thinks he is. He just stands around all night thinking that he's Gods gift to women and he waits for women to approach him. He just keeps on waiting and waiting, never making the effort or going out of his way to approach and meet women. I don't need to tell you that this type of man is not very successful at meeting or attracting single women.

Believe me, you can't depend on your looks to pick up single women. It just does not work that way. You have got to approach women and play the aggressor. You can stand around all night and most likely no woman is going to approach you and start up a conversation or ask you to dance. You have got to take the lead. I will agree that there are aggressive single women who will approach a man, but there are very few of them. I just wish there were more of them because I love being approached by a woman.

Don't Let Your Ego Cause You Problems with Meeting Single Women

This week we will focus on how your ego can prevent you from scoring with sexy single women in nightclubs and bars:

I will describe what I call the "Nightclub Ego-Man" that you will see at nightclubs and bars. If you're one of these men, resolve here and now that you're going to change your ways and discontinue being the Nightclub Ego-Man which can prevent you from meeting, dating, attracting, and seducing all those hot & sexy beautiful single women you are attracted to in bars and nightclubs.

This is the guy you will see standing around, depending on his looks to meet single women. He may be very handsome or he just thinks he is. He just stands around all night thinking that he's Gods gift to women and he waits for women to approach him. He just keeps on waiting and waiting, never making the effort or going out of his way to approach and meet women. I don't need to tell you that this type of man is not very successful at meeting or attracting single women.

Believe me, you can't depend on your looks to pick up single women. It just does not work that way. You have got to approach women and play the aggressor. You can stand around all night and most likely no woman is going to approach you and start up a conversation or ask you to dance. You have got to take the lead. I will agree that there are aggressive single women who will approach a man, but there are very few of them. I just wish there were more of them because I love being approached by a woman.

You'll pick up as many single women as you want by just being friendly and taking the initiative to meet them. It's really just that simple, so don't go walking around with your nose up in the air thinking you are so good-looking that women will literally fall all over you. I had this problem myself until I wised up and realized what a jerk I was and why I wasn't meeting and attracting very many women. When I cleaned up my act, it made a world of difference and I was meeting and attracting tons of sexy single women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

You'll pick up as many single women as you want by just being friendly and taking the initiative to meet them. It's really just that simple, so don't go walking around with your nose up in the air thinking you are so good-looking that women will literally fall all over you. I had this problem myself until I wised up and realized what a jerk I was and why I wasn't meeting and attracting very many women. When I cleaned up my act, it made a world of difference and I was meeting and attracting tons of sexy single women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Tips to Help You Succeed with Single Women

Some More Great Tips on How to Succeed with Single Women:

TIP #1 - THE POWER OF "RESPECTFUL AGGRESSIVENESS" IN LOVEMAKING. "He who hesitates is lost!" is often sadly true of the would-be lover. Aggressiveness, assertiveness, courage, and persistence are often essential in meeting the woman you want and in developing a satisfying love affair. This is not to say that brutal aggressiveness or boorish assertiveness is recommended. But you must be aggressive enough to start the action and pursue it, even if given little encouragement initially, unless you are definitely and decisively refused.

But that is rare. Don't look for rejection. Don't expect failure! You have to exercise enough assertiveness to keep moving forward, from asking a girl for a date, or beginning a conversation with a stranger, through all the successive stages.

TIP #2 - GET A PART-TIME JOB WHERE YOU ARE BOUND TO MEET A LOT OF SINGLE WOMEN! Even if you now have a very good job, consider trying this: Get yourself a temporary part-time job, evenings, weekends, or whenever you have spare time, regardless of salary or previous background, where you will come into contact with single women.

Department store sales jobs are ideal for this purpose, but almost any selling job, even canvassing can be helpful both in building up your confidence in meeting and dealing with people, and in actually giving you more opportunity to meet attractive single women from much wider horizons than your own neighborhood or job might provide. A job in a cafe, restaurant, or any job where you constantly meeting and dealing with the public is excellent for this purpose if you make it your business to use it in this way.

TIP #3 - THOUSANDS OF BEAUTIFUL SEXY SINGLE WOMEN ARE READY TO GIVE THEMSELVES TO THE FIRST MAN WHO IS SENSITIVE, SYMPATHETIC, UNDERSTANDING: Loneliness, feelings of inner emptiness, a yearning for a sense of personal importance are so universal that millions of lovely women, single and married, are psychologically ready to throw themselves, passionately and completely, at the first man who shows them tenderness, affection, devotion...at the first man who makes them feel wanted, loved, important, and lovable!

TIP #4 - AVOID FALLING INTO THIS RUT WHICH CAN PREVENT YOU FROM MEETING SINGLE WOMEN. Most men are defeated by ego-deflating imaginations before they have even begun: The fear that you will not be liked, that you haven't a chance, that it's no use even trying because "she" could never possibly go for you are your chief, self-imposed obstacles. You use your imagination to erect barriers and obstacles rather than help your cause!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.co

A Few Personal Ads to Attract Single Women

Use These Personal Ads to Attract Single Women Like a Magnet

This week I want to share with you some great personal ads to use to attract single women like crazy and increase your responses to personal ads that you place in singles publications, on the net, newspapers, etc. Try these ads (just fill in the blanks for your personal data and the kind of single women you are looking for) guys and I'm sure you will be pleased with the results:

Handsome SWM, 40, slender Hare seeking cute little bunny 25-35, romantic and slender to share my carrots with. Let's hop all over town and have some good times and have a hare-raising experience. If you like to lay in clover and nibble, a plus.

Good Morning My Lovely. My name is Don. I'm a SWM, 6', with a muscular build. I have been told that I am very nice-looking, sensitive, communicate well, and fun to be with. I feel 35 (but I'm not). I also act as though I enjoy single life (but I don't). What I am is 45 and tired of playing games. What I want is to be able to find someone to share those experiences in life, which are best when shared. It would be nice if you were as beautiful physically as you are emotionally. However, the important word is "sincerity" and a willingness to give 100% in a relationship (as I am). I hope that we can become friends, that you're a non-smoker, and that you'll be considerate enough to send a recent photo. In the meantime, smile, and remember: Happiness is something we do deserve.

Have Life Will Share - Have hands, will hold. Have arms, will cuddle. Have ears, will listen. Have mind, will communicate. Have imagination, will share. Have heart, will give. SWM, 40, slender, 6' 1", 200 lbs. In search of SWF, 25-35, slender, romantic and affectionate, who has as much to give.

'70 Coupe - Sports Sleek White Body. Comes with black flat top, looks great at 170, stands 5' 11" and loaded. One owner is non-smoking, degreed professional male. Seeking attractive female buyer, 25-35 who knows an exceptional deal. Lease/Purchase options available. Write for complete details.

Big-hearted Teddy Bear - DWM, 46, 6' 2", 240 lbs. Some of life's pleasures for me are cooking, working on cars, fishing, camping, and traveling. I love holding hands, sending flowers, good music of all kinds, and long talks by the fireplace. I'm looking for that one special lady who shares my respect for honesty, openness, and the need for communication. A lot of good loving is being wasted here.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Approaching Single Women on the Tennis Courts

This week I want to talk about how to meet women on the tennis court:

Take a look around at the tennis courts. What will you see? Plenty of hot and sexy single women. That's what. Tennis is very popular and attracts a lot of single women for you to date. Lots of single women go to the tennis courts to possibly meet men for love, romance, and relationships. Perhaps not openly, but subconsciously.

Tennis is a one-on-one sport and this allows for a lot of mental concentration between you and a woman. It sure is a good way of getting to know someone. Just the two of you having fun together. What's good too is that after you have played a match, it's quite natural to cool off and talk to each other and perhaps go and have a drink or get a bite to eat.

How do you approach single women at the tennis courts? There are a lot of different approaches. You can say, "Do you need a partner? Or you could reserve a court in advance and say to a woman, "Would you like to play on Court #9? My tennis partner didn't show up."

You might want to arrive early to shoot the bull before you play tennis. Just talk to any and every woman you see. This way you can meet women before you even make it on to the courts.

If you don't play tennis, by all means take lessons. This opens up another avenue for meeting those sexy single tennis honies. Tennis lesson groups are comprised mostly of women and you'll be in the limelight. Let me say that you don't have to become an expert. Basic skills will get you by because most of the women you'll be playing later won't be that good either.

I would suggest playing at public tennis courts. You'll see more of a variety of different women there. Tennis clubs are very expensive and you'll see the same old faces a lot.

A word about tennis attire. It would be worth it to invest in some nice pro-type tennis wear. It will make you look like a tennis pro and these outfits really turn some women on.

In conclusion, I want to tell you about a device to use to attract single women and makes you popular. When you play tennis, always bring a large jug filled with lemonade, Kool-Aid, or Gator-Aide. Also, you can even bring a small ice-chest and fill it up with cokes. All you have to do is ask a woman on the court, "Would you like something cold to drink?" After you've worked up a sweat or if it's a hot day, something cold to drink really hits the spot and is hard to turn down.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Seduce a Woman with Pheromone Cologne Spray

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Single Women Who Use Their Sexual Power

The power of seduction is perhaps one of woman's strongest instincts. This drive probably goes back to ancient times when a woman seduced a man to gain protection and food in order to survive. Over the centuries this drive has evolved to become more subtle, but certainly not weaker. We see today even pre-school girls "seducing" their fathers to get what they want. Girls learn at an early age that men can be manipulated with nothing more than a little female attention.

Of course, the attention that single women use translates to sexuality. But it doesn't even take a promise of sex - merely the hint or suggestion of sex is enough to manipulate or seduce a man into doing what a woman wants him to do. As a matter of fact, some women grow up finding so much success using their "charms" that seduction becomes second nature to them. Most often, they are not even aware that they are doing it. Usually these women grew up around men who were very susceptible to female attention, so that from an early age these women learned how to get what they wanted. So, if money is important to a man because with it he can get what he wants, in the same way, the power of seduction is important to a single woman because with it she too can get things she wants.

What all this means to you, the man trying to understand single women, is that women like to know they have that power of seduction. Single women are very stimulated by an opportunity to affirm that power. They love a chase. They love a man who is a "catch" - someone who is hard to get. A man who makes himself easy denies a woman her desire to prove her powers of seduction. She will be bored with this man and go after one who stimulates her desire for a challenge. This is something that every man must remember when dealing with single women. Later we will give some ideas and examples of how to appeal to this female drive. P.S. This article is an excerpt from our best-selling book, "A Man's Guide to Women."

A Great Letter to Use When Answering Personal Ads of Single Women

Here's a Great Letter I Used to Attract Single Women in the Personals:

I highly recommend that you play the personals for dating, love, sex, and romance. And when you answer a woman's ad for the first time here's a great letter to use. Just edit it to use for yourself. This letter will really make a good impression on single women and make her want to write you back. Try it, it works!:

Dear...

Let's become good friends, then...Hope for a beautiful relationship.

I feel that before we can have a good relationship, we must put forth the energy and time it takes to first become good friends. Friendship is one of the most important building blocks of a good relationship. To me, friends are like flowers in the garden of life.

My desire is to meet a beautiful, sensitive, sensuous, warm, assertive single lady who wants a friend. My interpretation of a friend is one to whom you can pour out all the contents of your heart, chaff and grain together, knowing that the gentleness of hands will take it all, sift it, keep that which is worth keeping and, with a breath of kindness, blow the rest away. I thank you in advance for allowing me to be that kind of friend to you.

If you feel it would be good for us to meet, write and tell me more about yourself. And please have good thoughts about our further relationship, for thoughts are like seeds. All the flowers of all the tomorrows are in the seed of today.

Let me tell you about myself. I am divorced (five years ago), Caucasian, dark brown hair, blue eyes, 6' 3", trim 175 lbs., clean-cut and a healthy gentleman. I am self-sufficient, handsome, self-employed (businessman), happy, secure, self-confident, psychologically aware, emotionally and financially secure.

I love poetry, books, walks on the beach and cozy candlelight dinners. I enjoy movies, television, music, traveling, the desert, the quietness of the mountains, the ocean, sunrises and sunsets.

I am comfortable in jeans or a nice Italian suit. A nonsmoker/drinker, not into drugs (don't need them; I live in a natural high). I believe in enjoying the good life and am high on it. I have a healthy attitude about God and the Bible.

I am not a game player. I never want personal happiness at the expense of someone else. If we have a single date or a lifetime together, I will never lie to you, try to manipulate you or use you in any way. I am an incurable romantic who treasures, cherishes and appreciates sincerity, integrity, honesty and warmth. I enjoy picnics, laughing, talking, touching, affection and physical closeness. A good listener who enjoys mutual spoiling and also I am a one-woman man.

I am looking for a special, loving relationship with a unique lady who is affectionate, beautiful, slender, with a shapely figure, sincere, easygoing, with interests and characteristics similar to mine...someone who wants a meaningful, serious, long-term relationship...not just a few dates. Are you that special lady?

All it will take to find out whether or not things might work between you and me is a 32-cent stamp and five minutes of your time to write me a letter. Physical attraction to me is as important as the other things I have mentioned. Please send a recent photo (not over one year old) of yourself. I will send my recent photo when I answer your letter. I would also appreciate you sending your phone number.

Well, what do you think? Isn't this a great letter! You could also use this for online personals too. The next step is up to you...Try the personals, they sure worked for me!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Get Women to Dance with You

This week we will focus on how to ask a woman in a group to dance with you:

Has this ever happened to you? You see the hot and sexy "girl of dreams" at a bar or nightclub and you're dying to ask her to dance. There's a problem though. She's with a group of her girlfriends and they are carrying on and laughing and talking and not really noticing anything else. They just seem to be absorbed with themselves. You know what I'm talking about. You've seen groups of girls and how they act.

Well anyway, you want to ask her to dance, but you kind of feel like a fool approaching her in a group of girlfriends. Here's the wrong approach a lot of guys use: You approach her and ask her to dance and she says no. Then you ask her friend, she says no. Then you go down the line and ask her other friends to dance and they say no. You have just made a complete fool of yourself and the girls are snickering behind your back. Don't set yourself up for rejection. Here's the approach to use:

Always remember this fact: It's hard to get one of the girls in a group to separate. But, there's a way around this; Walk up to all of them at once with a friendly smile on your face and say, "Would any of you girls like to dance?" There's a good chance one of them will dance with you and perhaps even the one that you were initially attracted to. This opens the door to dance with the other girls in the group also. Then you can determine which one you hit it off with and pursue her for a romantic encounter.

Does this method work 100% of the time? No, there are variables involved. Maybe they are not ready to dance yet, they all have boyfriends, or maybe they are just not attracted to you through no fault of your own. Sure, the whole group may reject you but you increase your chances of getting the girls to dance by asking them to dance as a group.

Personally, I always look for single women that are alone to ask to dance. If they are with just one girlfriend, I will ask a girl to dance and that's not usually a problem. Your best bet is to hit up on girls that are alone.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com