Becoming physically intimate too soon can be fatal to a relationship. It can shatter the slowly developing friendship and trust between the two of you. It magnifies and distorts feelings, clouds judgment, and superimposes cruel reality on hopes and dreams ("Is that all there is?"). It narrows options and introduces tensions and pressures into what was a joyous and carefree acquaintanceship. It damns you for
lack of respect for the woman, and for lack of discipline on your part. It is begging for trouble.

Getting to know a woman, "touching" her is critically important in a relationship. Physical contact at the wrong time can intrude, hinder real understanding, block communication.

You can learn more about each other by joining your voices in song, by becoming one in music and lyrics and poetry, than by sleeping together. You can get a deeper sense of communion by sharing a meal than by sharing a bed. Just holding hands or a gentle kiss can easily be more explosively effective in linking the two of you than having sex.

Physical intimacy implies commitment, responsibility, a sense of permanence. It is a promise. The two of you should be fully committed to each other before you seal the bond with lovemaking. Sex should never be undertaken lightly, without a full understanding of its implications...and consequences.

I'm getting a lot of compliments on this blog and I want to thank all my subscribers. It's really a jungle out there in the dating world and us men need all the help we can get. Plus, us men need to gain a competive edge in dating women. There's a lot of men out there vying for the affections of the same woman. You've got to be unique, stand out from the other guys she's dating, and learn ways to attract her. That's why I founded this blog to help men do better with women.

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So. what does a million dollar bill have to do with meeting single women? Well here's just a few ideas to use the million dollar bill on women:

See a hot & sexy single woman you're attracted to - approach her and say, "You look like a million dollars. Here, have a million dollars on me" and hand her a million dollar bill.

Proposition single women with, "I'll give you this million dollar bill if you will have lunch with me."

If you're attracted to the hot & sexy waitress that serves your table, do this: With your tip, leave a million dollar bill with a note or on the back of your business card that says, " Thanks a million for the great service - Let's get together for lunch. Call me at __________(your phone number). I'll be disappointed if you don't call. Looking forward to seeing you again, Don Diebel

Really want to impress a single woman? Buy her a romantic card and put a million dollar bill inside of it and sign it "You are worth a million dollars to me."

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Here's an article I found on the usenet that was posted by an anonymous author which will open your eyes to some head games single women play on men:

Another typical female behavior is to test you at the very beginning of your relationship to see if you are going to put up with her garbage. Actually, she is testing you for two reasons:

First, she needs to find out the limits of what you will view as "her acceptable behavior." She does not know you well enough yet, she is in unfamiliar territory. And that can be very "scary." So, she needs to find out what behavior is expected or accepted of her. The uncertainty makes her feel very uncomfortable, totally out of her, "Comfort Zone."

Second, she needs to find out, she must find out how strong and sure of yourself you really are. Some women can be very insecure. The very last thing a woman really wants and needs is an insecure and weak nice guy who is easily manipulated and controlled by her.

Therefore, she really wants and needs a strong man who will control and dominate her and tell her what to do, a man confident enough to stand up to her when she needs it, a man who will make her feel secure, a man who will give her that sense of security she so desperately needs.

She sometimes cannot get that sense of security from herself because she may have so little self-confidence and self-esteem. She may even believe that she has very few talents and abilities - except for her physical features and beauty. It can be very frightening. Therefore, she tries to get that sense of security "by osmosis" from you. Plus the added benefit that she won't have to worry about the hard decisions. You will make them for her.

WARNING! If you are tolerant and patient (like all nice guys) you will not pass her test, she will walk all over you, she will leave you and go after another jerk because he looks so uncontrollable, so untamable, so strong and therefore, so desirable to her.

I was kind of hesitant about posting this article because I don't like to focus on anything negative, but I need to make you aware of head games that single women will play on you.

Goal-setting is a powerful system in getting what you want, and this is, scoring with hot, sexy beautiful women. "As you think, so you become." If you focus on a goal with determination, backed with a burning desire, you'll experience it. Setting a goal to meet and pick up women is acknowledging to your conscious and subconscious minds that where you stand as far as scoring with women is not where you want to be. Having a goal creates positive pressure on yourself, which is necessary to move you forward and motivate you to pick up women.

Now, I will explain the following steps to goal-setting to meet and pick up women.

Step 1- The first step in goal-setting is desire. Desire is the great motivator, the powerful force that drives you toward your goal.

Step 2- The second step is belief - you must believe with all your heart and no doubts that you have the ability to achieve your goal.

Step 3 - The third and most important step is to write your goal of meeting and picking up women in complete detail, exactly as you wish to have it. Until your goal is committed to paper by you, it is not a goal; it is simply a wish backed by perhaps a lot of sexual fantasies.

Step 4 - The forth step is to determine all the benefits you will receive by achieving your goals of scoring with women. Write out on paper all the benefits you will enjoy by accomplishing your goal. You should really enjoy this step. Just let your imagination run wild and put it on paper.

Step 5 - Step number five is to set a deadline- decide exactly when you are going to accomplish your goal of picking up women and put it on paper.

Step 6 - Step number six is to identify the obstacles you will have to overcome to achieve your goal of picking up women. You will discover that any major obstacles lingering in your mind and preventing you from picking up women will become small when you write them down on paper.

Step 7 - Step number seven is to clearly define the knowledge you need to learn in order to accomplish your goal.

Step 8 - Step number eight is to take all the details that you have identified in step 6 and 7 and make a plan. Be sure and make it complete in every little detail, with all the things you need to do to accomplish your goal.

Step 9 - Step number nine is to get a clear mental picture of your goal as already attained. Picture in your mind over and over seeing yourself scoring and picking up women. Just let your imagination run wild. Become completely obsessed with picking up women in your mind.

Step 10 - Your final step is to back your plan with determination, persistence, and a burning desire to never, never give up until you have achieved your goal.

Here's an example of a written goal:

By ___________(insert date) I will pick up and score with a hot & sexy beautiful woman. I am now going out often and pursuing a relationship with women by every means possible until this goal is accomplished. I'm now taking action when I see an opportunity to pick up a woman. When I go to nightclubs to meet women now, I don't just sit there being passive and just watch other men meet and pick up women. I'm aggressive with women now and move into action quickly and easily. It is extremely easy now for me to meet and talk with women, get their phone number, date, seduce and become intimate with women.

Signed___________(your name) Date ____________


This is just an example of what to write for your goal. You can write whatever you want, this is just a guideline. This is very important. Write your goal on a 8 1/2 x 11 piece of paper, preferably blank with no lines. Now, you need to get copies of the popular womens' magazines featuring pretty women.

Cut out pictures of the pretty models and paste them all around your written goal. When reading your goal look at these pictures and visualize yourself picking up women.

Looking at these pictures will work on your subconscious mind and motivate you to reach your goal. Read your goal and look at the photos twice daily. Once when you get up in the morning and once when you go to bed. These are the best times to do this because your subconscious mind is more receptive to suggestions at this time.

Additional Tips To Help You Achieve Your Goals

1. Focus all of your attention, desire and energy in accomplishing your goal at hand. Forget completely about any consequences of failure with women. Remember that you usually get what you think about most.

2. When you start on your goal, concentrate all of your energy without any distractions on the successful completion of your goal. Make reaching your goal an all-consuming obsession.

3. Develop a self-talk vocabulary to reach your goal of scoring with single women. Make it a habit to repeat again and again to yourself, "I want to - I can" in regards to scoring with women.

4. Substitute the word "Try" with the word "Will" in your vocabulary associated with scoring with women. This is a form of semantics and creates a new attitude of concentrating on things that you "Will do," instead of things you plan to "Try," with a built-in excuse in advance for possible failure.

5. Substitute the word "Can't" with the word "Can" in your daily vocabulary too. Always tell yourself you "Can" do things you set your mind to.

In conclusion, set your goals and go for it! Happy Hunting!

TIP #1 - Three Basic Attitudes Which Form a Golden Key in All Human Relationships if Practiced and Lived: Every woman wants, unconsciously yearns for, three basic attitudes from the man she will love. But for that matter, every human being needs and deserves and will grow in power when he receives these feelings from another person. The formula is: Give a woman you desire faith, acceptance and respect. Believe in her, trust her, find the good, beautiful and uniquely admirable within her. Search for it. It is always there!

Accept her as she is. This does not mean accepting her pretensions, false fronts or unrealistic goals and dreams. But accept her as she is deep down in her own best and most natural self. Respect her completely in your motives, manners, speech, actions, plans. If you can truly develop and cultivate these attitudes in yourself, the most desirable lovelies in the world will be eagerly available to you!

TIP #2 - Get Your Circle of Friends and Acquaintances to Help: This, often takes nerve, but is very effective. Ask all your friends, acquaintances, associates, relatives, and neighbors to give you the names, addresses and phone numbers, if not direct introductions, to any and every single, young woman that know. Then call them up or write them, introduce yourself, start a conversation and ask for a date.

Be friendly, warm and informal as you can manage. Try it with persistence. Don't get discouraged if you flop five dozen times. By the time you are starting on your sixty-first, you will be getting great results!

TIP #3 - Individual Differences...Every Man is Attractive to Some Women: Both men and women who might be considered unattractive to the average person succeed in attracting and winning highly desirable dates every day, everywhere. Your own experience will suggest many such cases. Taste and preference in love is infinite.

Here is an important fact for you. Believe it and act on it. There is no man who would not be attractive and desirable to at least some women, including some gorgeous hot & sexy women who would knock your eyes out, and who you ordinarily...though quite foolishly...wouldn't dare to approach!

I highly recommend that you play the personal ads for dating, love, intimacy, and romance. And when you answer a woman's ad for the first time here's a great letter to use. Just edit it to use for yourself. This letter will really make a good impression on single women and make her want to write you back. Try it, it works!:
Dear...
Let's become good friends, then...Hope for a beautiful relationship.
I feel that before we can have a good relationship, we must put forth the energy and time it takes to first become good friends. Friendship is one of the most important building blocks of a good relationship. To me, friends are like flowers in the garden of life.
My desire is to meet a beautiful, sensitive, sensuous, warm, assertive single lady who wants a friend. My interpretation of a friend is one to whom you can pour out all the contents of your heart, chaff and grain together, knowing that the gentleness of hands will take it all, sift it, keep that which is worth keeping and, with a breath of kindness, blow the rest away. I thank you in advance for allowing me to be that kind of friend to you.
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If you feel it would be good for us to meet, write and tell me more about yourself. And please have good thoughts about our further relationship, for thoughts are like seeds. All the flowers of all the tomorrows are in the seed of today.
Let me tell you about myself. I am divorced (five years ago), Caucasian, dark brown hair, blue eyes, 6' 3", trim 175 lbs., clean-cut and a healthy gentleman. I am self-sufficient, handsome, self-employed (businessman), happy, secure, self-confident, psychologically aware, emotionally and financially secure.
I love poetry, books, walks on the beach and cozy candlelight dinners. I enjoy movies, television, music, traveling, the desert, the quietness of the mountains, the ocean, sunrises and sunsets.
I am comfortable in jeans or a nice Italian suit. A nonsmoker/drinker, not into drugs (don't need them; I live in a natural high). I believe in enjoying the good life and am high on it. I have a healthy attitude about God and the Bible.
I am not a game player. I never want personal happiness at the expense of someone else. If we have a single date or a lifetime together, I will never lie to you, try to manipulate you or use you in any way. I am an incurable romantic who treasures, cherishes and appreciates sincerity, integrity, honesty and warmth. I enjoy picnics, laughing, talking, touching, affection and physical closeness. A good listener who enjoys mutual spoiling and also I am a one-woman man.
I am looking for a special, loving relationship with a unique lady who is affectionate, beautiful, slender, with a shapely figure, sincere, easygoing, with interests and characteristics similar to mine...someone who wants a meaningful, serious, long-term relationship...not just a few dates. Are you that special lady?
Well, what do you think? Isn't this a great letter! You could also use this for online personals too. The next step is up to you...Try the personals, they sure worked for me!