There are often situations where people find that they are attracted to someone at work. This is not something that can be helped. We do not determine who we are going to be attracted to or fall in love
with. However, there are certain things that need to be kept in mind and considered before entering into a relationship with a co-worker.
The first thing that you need to do is find out what your companies policy is on dating among co-workers. Read your employee manual and see what it says. If you cannot find information there, you may need
to go to a supervisor for information. The only problem with this is that the person is going to wonder why you are asking. If interoffice relationships are forbidden, you could be putting yourself into a bad situation before
you have ever done anything. You will be under the microscope just for asking. So, if you can find the information any other way, it is best to avoid going to higher ups.
As we cannot control our feelings and desires, there is really no way to avoid falling for a co-worker if that is what is meant to be. However, there are often risks and complications involved. You could
end up losing your job once the relationship is out in the open. You could also have problems with other co-workers who may not approve of the relationship. Your boss could start treating you differently due to the fact that
you are involved in a relationship within the office. There are numerous possible consequences of pursuing a relationship at work.
Talk with the person that you are interested in to determine what the best way to deal with the situation is. If you are both attracted to each other, you need to decide how to tell people. You will also
want to discuss how you will handle any problems that arise. If there is a rule about not dating, you need to decide if the relationship is worth losing your job over. In some cases one person could switch to a different office
or department. At other times, one person may need to quit their job in order to have their love and happiness. There are many possibilities and you both need to know how to deal with them before they come up.
Do not try to hide the relationship if you both decide it is what you want. You will often find that honesty is the best policy. If you are open and upfront with everyone from the beginning, you are more
likely to get a more favorable response. If you try to hide it, then when it is found out, there could be much worse ramifications of your behavior and denial. Everyone needs to be made aware as soon as the relationship has
begun. Tell your boss how you plan to deal with the relationship and the possible problems.
No matter what you do, it is important to avoid letting your relationship interfere with your work. This is the most common reason for a relationship to be frowned upon at work. It is also likely to result
in negative repercussions. Keep work and personal life separate from each other at all costs.
Compliments are something both men and women desire and enjoy getting. From "Gee, you smell great!" to "Thanks - just for being you," compliments make us feel good
about ourselves ... especially when they come from those we care about the most.
It is kind of strange to think the biggest and best comment you could possibly give someone is also most often overlooked. In fact, some would think it an insult at first blush, though
it is so much more than that.
What is the greatest compliment you could give or receive? Simple.
It is I don't need you.
Now hold on a second. Don't go off thinking I've completely lost it. I realize you may be thinking I'm nuts, but give me two minutes to explain and I promise you'll change
your mind.
Yes, I know someone somewhere said "All people want to feel needed," but that isn't exactly true. The truth is, all people want to feel wanted.
See, a "need" is something a person *must have* in order to live, to survive. And while I get that many of us sometimes feel we wouldn't be able to make it through the days
and weeks without that special someone by our side, the truth is - we could.
Now think of this: are you with your current partner because you feel you couldn't survive without them because they take care of things you can't or won't do or provide things
you don't feel you can get on your own?
Or are you with your partner because although you know you could and would survive without them, you want them in your life simply because you love them?
In the first example, it is possible your partner might soon begin to think you only wanted them around for what they could bring or give - such as a paycheck.
I couldn't tell you how many men I've heard say their wives only stayed with them for the money.
Or sex. Again, I've heard many, many women complain that their partner only kept them around for sex.
Which would you rather have in your life? Someone who wanted you for what you could give/bring? Or someone who wants you for *you* - no strings, no conditions?
That's why I say the biggest, most grand compliment you could give or be given is to love for love's sake and nothing else.
I don't need you but I love you.
What do you think?
This is a prayer from my book, "How to Use the Power of Jesus to Help You Meet, Date, Attract Women" at: www.getgirls.com/power.htm
Compliments are something both men and women desire and enjoy getting. From "Gee, you smell great!" to "Thanks - just for being you," compliments make us feel good
about ourselves ... especially when they come from those we care about the most.
It is kind of strange to think the biggest and best comment you could possibly give someone is also most often overlooked. In fact, some would think it an insult at first blush, though
it is so much more than that.
What is the greatest compliment you could give or receive? Simple.
It is I don't need you.
Now hold on a second. Don't go off thinking I've completely lost it. I realize you may be thinking I'm nuts, but give me two minutes to explain and I promise you'll change
your mind.
Yes, I know someone somewhere said "All people want to feel needed," but that isn't exactly true. The truth is, all people want to feel wanted.
See, a "need" is something a person *must have* in order to live, to survive. And while I get that many of us sometimes feel we wouldn't be able to make it through the days
and weeks without that special someone by our side, the truth is - we could.
Now think of this: are you with your current partner because you feel you couldn't survive without them because they take care of things you can't or won't do or provide things
you don't feel you can get on your own?
Or are you with your partner because although you know you could and would survive without them, you want them in your life simply because you love them?
In the first example, it is possible your partner might soon begin to think you only wanted them around for what they could bring or give - such as a paycheck.
I couldn't tell you how many men I've heard say their wives only stayed with them for the money.
Or sex. Again, I've heard many, many women complain that their partner only kept them around for sex.
Which would you rather have in your life? Someone who wanted you for what you could give/bring? Or someone who wants you for *you* - no strings, no conditions?
That's why I say the biggest, most grand compliment you could give or be given is to love for love's sake and nothing else.
I don't need you but I love you.
What do you think?
What's one of the best investments you can make to improve your love and sex life? Buy a hot tub. Why? This is one of best inventions ever created for seducing hot sexy women. Here's how I used my hot tub to seduce tons of sexy beautiful women:
1. Keep a stock of pink champagne and margaritas on hand.
2. Also, buy some extra bathrobes for women and pairs of women's shorts (she can wear this with a T-shirt in case she doesn't have a bathing suit or doesn't want to skinny-dip).
3. The next step is to invite single women over for a date. I would suggest inviting her over for a steak dinner in which you do all the cooking and by all means have a candlelight dinner with romantic and sexy music in the background (if you really want to get her to crave you sexually, order our subliminal seduction tapes at: http://www.getgirls.com/sublim.htm) to create a romantic atmosphere.
4. Your next step is to offer her champagne or margaritas throughout the evening to warm her up and make her lose her inhibitions when you seduce her in your hot tub.
5. Start your seductive routine with kissing her tenderly to get some chemistry going (don't go any further than kissing her lips, neck, and shoulders - you'll get down to business later in the hot tub).
6. Your next step is to give her a massage. When you feel the time is right and you have worked her into a state of arousal tell her, "Let's go relax in the hot tub." If she says, "I don't have anything to wear." Reply, "I've got an extra bathrobe you can wear out to the hot tub if you prefer to skinny-dip or I can give you a pair of shorts and a T-shirt to wear."
7. If she prefers to skinny-dip then I can assure you you're going to score. If she does prefer to skinny-dip then you need to do likewise, otherwise if she prefers to wear shorts and T-shirt, then wear your bathing suit in the hot tub because she may become paranoid if you jump in the hot tub naked.
8. Now, we get to the good part! You're both in the hot tub and the combination of the heat, the jets of water massaging your bodies, the steam rising off the water, and being under the influence of alcohol will act as a natural aphrodisiac to put both of you in a state of heated passion and horniness. P.S. - Be sure and bring your iced bucket of champagne or margaritas out to the hot tub to drink while you're there to put her in a romantic mood.
9. All you gotta do now is make your moves. Bring her in close to you and start kissing her all over, working her into a heated frenzy. If she has clothes on, start to remove them when she is warmed up with lots of foreplay.
In conclusion, I guarantee you that you will seduce and make love to more single women if you buy a hot tub. Single women really lose their inhibitions and get real horny when they get in a hot tub, especially under the influence of alcohol. Hot tubs make it so much easier to seduce women. Believe me, I know and I have so many wonderful and lustful memories of the fun times and sex I had in my hot tub.
Also, be sure and make your hot tub area very private and discreet. Surround it by a lattice fence, bamboo fence, wood fence, or trees and shrubs. Some women will not want to make love if she thinks the neighbors can see you.
P.S. When you go to nightclubs or topless clubs, ask women if they want to come over for a "hot tub" party. I got some extra action with this method and a lot of interesting things can happen when you get some naked topless dancers in the hot tub with you - they really love to party!
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