This tip is very important. Don't get drunk before you go to a topless club and don't get drunk while you're at a topless club. Why? This will impair your judgment in meeting topless dancers. You need to be mentally coherent to plan your strategies and take advantage of opportunities. Also, the dancers are turned off by drunks. They have to tolerate drunks, because it is part of the job, but I can assure you that it doesn't make a good impression on them.

When meeting a dancer and she asks you if you go to topless clubs very often. Here's your answer even if you have to lie: Just tell her "sometimes," or "very rarely." If you tell her otherwise, she may get the impression that all you do is cruise topless bars trying to pick up topless dancers. This will get you off on the wrong foot with her.

How many times have you seen a girl thumbing for a ride? At least once and probably many times.

Like most guys, you probably just passed these girls and kept right on going. Well my friend, you just passed up a potential golden opportunity.

So the next time you see a female hitchhiker, by all means, pick her up. If she's going the opposite direction, make a U-turn and go back and pick her up.

I know what you're thinking already. It's too dangerous to pick up women thumbing for a ride. The majority of female hitchhikers are not dangerous. I'll leave it up to you if you want to take advantage of this opportunity to meet women.

You are probably wondering now what to do after you have picked her up. The first thing to do is ask her where she's going. This will give you an idea of how far she intends to ride with you and you'll know how much time you'll have to make your approach to get to know her better.

If you'll follow my conversational guidelines outlined in my chapter on how to talk to a woman, you'll establish a warm rapport. After you've established some friendly contact, just ask her, "Why don't we drive over to my place and have a drink? If she declines, tell her, "I'd like to see you again. Would you mind if I give you a call sometime?" Hopefully she will give you her phone number and you can follow up on her later. If you're traveling out of town and pick up a woman on the highway, ask her if she'd like to stop and get something to eat so you can talk and get to know her better.

In conclusion, I'd like to offer you some words of wisdom. A lot of female hitchhikers are young. So, keep in mind that they may be jailbait and you may get in trouble with the law if you try anything physical. Also, when you pull over and pick up a girl and she gets inside and sits down you might ask her, "Why don't you sit next to me, I don't bite."

Take It or Leave It

Men sometimes do pull off a "moving" pick-up line, with just a few words like, "Hi! Do you want to go to a party?" and other similarly direct approaches. But we feel you will ruin a lot of good opportunities that way, even if you might be successful sometimes. But it is up to you, the reader, to decide. Maybe you want to try such direct approaches a few times and see how you do. At least it is very simple and easy to do.

We think that the chance of success of a direct approach depends more on the appearance of the man than other approaches. If a girl is very impressed by a man's appearance, she may well go along with it. But if a man is more ordinary looking, she may not. Such a man would do better to build up his case more slowly, in the more conventional way.

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There are often situations where people find that they are attracted to someone at work. This is not something that can be helped. We do not determine who we are going to be attracted to or fall in love with. However, there are certain things that need to be kept in mind and considered before entering into a relationship with a co-worker.

The first thing that you need to do is find out what your companies policy is on dating among co-workers. Read your employee manual and see what it says. If you cannot find information there, you may need to go to a supervisor for information. The only problem with this is that the person is going to wonder why you are asking. If interoffice relationships are forbidden, you could be putting yourself into a bad situation before you have ever done anything. You will be under the microscope just for asking. So, if you can find the information any other way, it is best to avoid going to higher ups.

As we cannot control our feelings and desires, there is really no way to avoid falling for a co-worker if that is what is meant to be. However, there are often risks and complications involved. You could end up losing your job once the relationship is out in the open. You could also have problems with other co-workers who may not approve of the relationship. Your boss could start treating you differently due to the fact that you are involved in a relationship within the office. There are numerous possible consequences of pursuing a relationship at work.

Talk with the person that you are interested in to determine what the best way to deal with the situation is. If you are both attracted to each other, you need to decide how to tell people. You will also want to discuss how you will handle any problems that arise. If there is a rule about not dating, you need to decide if the relationship is worth losing your job over. In some cases one person could switch to a different office or department. At other times, one person may need to quit their job in order to have their love and happiness. There are many possibilities and you both need to know how to deal with them before they come up.

Do not try to hide the relationship if you both decide it is what you want. You will often find that honesty is the best policy. If you are open and upfront with everyone from the beginning, you are more likely to get a more favorable response. If you try to hide it, then when it is found out, there could be much worse ramifications of your behavior and denial. Everyone needs to be made aware as soon as the relationship has begun. Tell your boss how you plan to deal with the relationship and the possible problems.

No matter what you do, it is important to avoid letting your relationship interfere with your work. This is the most common reason for a relationship to be frowned upon at work. It is also likely to result in negative repercussions. Keep work and personal life separate from each other at all costs.

 

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