This tip is very important. Don't get drunk before you go to a topless club and don't get drunk while you're at a topless club. Why? This will impair your judgment in meeting topless dancers. You need to be mentally coherent to plan your strategies and take advantage of opportunities. Also, the dancers are turned off by drunks. They have to tolerate drunks, because it is part of the job, but I can assure you that it doesn't make a good impression on them.
When meeting a dancer and she asks you if you go to topless clubs very often. Here's your answer even if you have to lie: Just tell her "sometimes," or "very rarely." If you tell her otherwise, she may get the impression that all you do is cruise topless bars trying to pick up topless dancers. This will get you off on the wrong foot with her.
How many times have you seen a girl thumbing for a ride? At least once and probably many times.
Like most guys, you probably just passed these girls and kept right on going. Well my friend, you just passed up a potential golden opportunity.
So the next time you see a female hitchhiker, by all means, pick her up. If she's going the opposite direction, make a U-turn and go back and pick her up.
I know what you're thinking already. It's too dangerous to pick up women thumbing for a ride. The majority of female hitchhikers are not dangerous. I'll leave it up to you if you want to take advantage of this opportunity to meet women.
You are probably wondering now what to do after you have picked her up. The first thing to do is ask her where she's going. This will give you an idea of how far she intends to ride with you and you'll know how much time you'll have to make your approach to get to know her better.
If you'll follow my conversational guidelines outlined in my chapter on how to talk to a woman, you'll establish a warm rapport. After you've established some friendly contact, just ask her, "Why don't we drive over to my place and have a drink? If she declines, tell her, "I'd like to see you again. Would you mind if I give you a call sometime?" Hopefully she will give you her phone number and you can follow up on her later. If you're traveling out of town and pick up a woman on the highway, ask her if she'd like to stop and get something to eat so you can talk and get to know her better.
In conclusion, I'd like to offer you some words of wisdom. A lot of female hitchhikers are young. So, keep in mind that they may be jailbait and you may get in trouble with the law if you try anything physical. Also, when you pull over and pick up a girl and she gets inside and sits down you might ask her, "Why don't you sit next to me, I don't bite."
Take It or Leave It
Men sometimes do pull off a "moving" pick-up line, with just a few words like, "Hi! Do you want to go to a party?" and other similarly direct approaches. But we feel you will ruin a lot of good opportunities that way, even if you might be successful sometimes. But it is up to you, the reader, to decide. Maybe you want to try such direct approaches a few times and see how you do. At least it is very simple and easy to do.
We think that the chance of success of a direct approach depends more on the appearance of the man than other approaches. If a girl is very impressed by a man's appearance, she may well go along with it. But if a man is more ordinary looking, she may not. Such a man would do better to build up his case more slowly, in the more conventional way.
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