Let’s talk about men who stay in bad relationships with women. Some men think that it's better to have a woman - any woman - than no woman at all. My friend, nothing could be further from the truth.

By being trapped in a bad or unsatisfying relationship that doesn't satisfy your needs, you are in a sense preventing yourself from attracting other eligible women by projecting yourself as unavailable.

Also, by staying in a bad relationship just to have a woman can indicate that you are suffering from some underlying psychological problems, in that you are overly emotionally dependent on women, and that you may suffer from low self-esteem because that you feel that you are nothing without a woman.

Believe me, when I tell you that it's just not worth it to stay in a bad relationship until someone better comes along. The problem is that you could be waiting forever.

In conclusion, if you are stuck in a bad relationship, you owe it to yourself and her to find out why it's not working out - and if the relationship can't be improved, it's best to end the relationship and get on with your life. Life's just too short to spend all your time with someone who makes you miserable.

Another of the more difficult techniques is to approach the girl with a challenging attitude. This puts the girl into a defensive role. The man' 'takes charge" of the encounter. Many girls are impressed by men who can do this.

The man might challenge the girl with, "What's your name?" or, "Hey!

I haven't seen you around here before." And as they talk, continue to ask searching questions.

Some strong willed girls resent such an approach, and may answer, "None of your business."


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Men who use this technique are usually most interested in finding girls who will allow them to be dominant. So, their approach is also a selective process. They are not interested in the strong willed girls and are quite happy to back off when they encounter one. Luckily for them, there are plenty of girls around who actually prefer that the man take the stronger hand in a relationship.

Of course this type of approach requires that the man be very confident, self -assured, and able to handle the rejections he will get.

A girl walking or waiting for a bus can be offered a ride in your car. But it is better to talk a little before you make the offer.

Like, "Now, look! I know you may be a little afraid to accept a ride from a stranger, but I can assure you it is O. K. Where are you going?" Then if she accepts the ride, introduce yourself immediately.

With hitch hikers (if you are attracted) also introduce yourself immediately.

Here's an example of a national personal ad that was very successful for me:

I LOVE YOU DARLING! How long have you longed to hear these words? How often have you longed to be held in a man's arms, to be cuddled, caressed and kissed, warmly, sweetly, tenderly? Perhaps you are my sweetheart - who knows? Nice, attractive one-woman man, writer, author, publisher, 35, 6'1", 200 lbs., desires to meet attractive, loving, slender woman 20-40 who is interested in a meaningful relationship leading to marriage. Photo please.

In summation, include these items in your ad:

* Occupation.

* Age, height, and weight.

* What you're looking for in a woman.

* Age range of women you desire to meet.

* Your hobbies, interests, and things you like to do.

* Let her know you are a "one-woman man."

* You are interested in a meaningful relationship.

The following is a good-pulling ad that I ran in a local publication:

This is my favorite! Just run this ad and edit it to fit your description. You will get a lot of replies!

Single male, 1953 model with low mileage, and high performance. Bumped a few times, but never wrecked. Proven ability to hug the road and not wander off course. Exterior in mint condition, warm, sentimental, sensitive interior, never soiled. Factory equipped entertainment package includes stereo, humor, depth, imagination and intelligence. Radio picks up all kinds of rock and country. Spacious seats with plenty of room for passenger and runs on high-octane fun and romance, lifetime supply included. Available for inspection by female drivers only, prefer 20-40 eye-catching exterior, self-confident, affectionate, warm, sincere with sense of humor and full set of tools. Come from close solid family, would like to have little Toyotas someday. I come equipped with Marketing Degree. Only driven once a week by little old lady to/from church. To arrange test drive, please contact me. HAPPY MOTORING.

This is not so much a hint as a statement about relationships in general.

Relationships need energy to survive. Both parties have to want it to be strong and have to be willing to make the effort necessary to keep it strong. Many of the relationships that we have seen fail, did so because one or both of the parties involved did not really care if the relationship lasted. If it continued and they benefited from it - fine, they'll stick around. But make sacrifices or be inconvenienced to keep it going? No way. When, however, both parties really want a relationship to work, and then both parties will put the effort into making it work.

Remember, relationships are not always going to be a bed of roses. There will be problems. There will be times when you will have to bend and give for the continued well being of the relationship. But if both parties really want the relationship to survive and if they are willing to do what is necessary to keep it strong, then they will both benefit from a strong relationship.

The last bit of advice in this chapter is to repeat what we said at the beginning of the chapter. Stay on your toes. Don't be foolish enough to think that just because you are in a relationship you can relax and stop courting her, romancing her, and being the person she fell in love with at your first meeting.

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