A Few Conversation Tips on How to Talk to Women

When you're out on your first date with a single woman, it's quite natural to ask questions to get to know her better. However, there's an art to asking questions and I will teach you how.

Here's what not to do, which will make a bad impression on your date. Whatever you do, don't ask one question after another. This will make her feel like she is being interrogated or interviewed for a job.

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The best way to ask questions is to let her answer, then add additional comments and conversation around her answer. In other words, make her answer a topic of conversation. Then you can weave in some more questions using the same technique.

Using this technique will be non-threatening and not so obtrusive. Plus, she will admire your conversational skills by you expressing interest in her answers.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Places for Meeting, Dating, Seducing Women

First of all, I would like to thank you for your site. I discovered it by accident and it has been an exceptional help in my never-ending endeavor to meet incredibly desirable, single(<---usually) women. Although I have not had much trouble in this area, your tips of the week and newsletters have offered valuable insight to keep my advances exciting and new, instead of using the same old lines or routines. You're great!

A couple of excellent places to meet women, in my experience, have been:

Tanning spas - Women are their biggest clientele, and since they go there to "improve" their appearance/image, it only makes sense that you can easily start a conversation with a gorgeous woman by letting her know how much you appreciate the fact that she is looks as good as she does and how her tan really compliments her beauty, or hair, or whatever you notice about her at the time. Since women love compliments on the success of their efforts to make themselves desirable, a particularly sincere compliment can go a long way. You might even get her to rub the tanning lotion onto your back for you.

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The local theater or youth theater - Women love going to plays. And, I have found, I actually enjoyed it too, once I gave it an honest effort. So, if you attend a couple of them, it makes a great conversation opener to discuss the show you last went to, especially if you remember seeing that gorgeous brunette or redhead at the last play you came to, and she really appears single. Usually, women will go to these together, and also as usual, there will likely be only one or two married women in their groups, which increases your chances of finding an available cutie to talk to. The youth theater is great if you have a young sibling or niece or nephew to take along. The act of taking a child that is not yours to the play shows her that you are a great, caring guy and she will find these characteristics appealing. And chances are, she is spending time with children that are not hers, because she is just waiting for a fantastic guy like you to come along and spend some time with her!

Also, with both of these places, it indicates to her that you have something in common - like to tan and like watching plays. You should be a shoe-in!

Avoiding Depression When You Have No Relationships

Are you aware that you're hurting your chances at finding love with single women when you get down on yourself and get depressed because your love life has been real slow or your love life has come to a complete halt for quite some time?

Guys, we all experience what I call "droughts" in our love life. It's part of the dating game and nothing to get depressed about because you never know when that special lady you've been dreaming about will appear in your life. It can happen quite suddenly and then you won't be depressed anymore.

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Don't let your mind play tricks on you by thinking that just because you haven't found any good single female prospects for love and romance, that things are getting worse and you'll never find anyone. These are just feelings with no merit because a new love can come into your life tomorrow and if you're too frustrated and depressed you won't even notice her.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Are Single Women Rejecting a Dance Not Interested in You

This is an unproductive belief that a woman, upon first meeting her, must show complete interest in you by verbal and non-verbal communication.

This is a perfect example of this misconception. You ask a single woman to dance and she readily accepts. After the dance is over she accepts another mans invitation to dance. You get all upset and you say to yourself, "If she was really interested in me, she would have found some excuse not to dance with that guy when he asked her."

What this guy doesn't know is that in the majority of cases like this, is that when interest is not immediately shown to the other, this doesn't mean that the possibility of liking you may not be there.

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So, don't give up on a woman if she accepts another guys invitation to dance. Just keep on pursuing her.

In conclusion, a lot of times a woman will not show her interest in you following a brief initial meeting. Prolonged communication and conversation are necessary before she can feel comfortable in showing her interest in you.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Smoking Guide to Dating Single Women

This week I want to discus smoking around single women. Do you smoke? If you do, I want to give you a few tips to help overcome womens' objections to dating smokers.

It really doesn't seem fair, but a lot of single women are turned off by people who smoke. They have their reasons, which I will get into later.

Please follow these rules that will make it easier for your date to tolerate your smoking:

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1. Women are very turned off by smokers breath. You may not notice your breath because you are so used to smoking, but to women who don't smoke she finds it very offensive. Also, she may refuse to kiss you because of your smokers breath.

So, what's the cure to this problem? Be sure and use a strong mouthwash before you go out on your date. And if you smoke during your date, be sure and use breath mints. I just can't express enough to you how important this is.

2. Never assume that it's ok to light up a cigarette in front of your date. Always ask her permission first. She may not want you to smoke at all and may be very offended if you light up without asking her first.

3. If you do light up, whatever you do, don't blow smoke in her direction. And even worse, don't light up a cigar on your date. The odor is offensive to others as well as your date.

4. Do you smoke a lot in your apartment or house? If you do it leaves an odor offensive to women who don't smoke on your upholstery, curtains, carpet, furniture, etc. So, before you have your date over be sure and spray your place with air fresheners and light some scented candles when you first come in the door with your date.

Why go to all this trouble? Because, a lot of single women find the odor of cigarette smoke very offensive. You may not smell it, but I can assure you that women are like blood hounds when it comes to picking up scents and odors. Plus, some women have allergic reactions to smoke. It can clog up their lungs, make their eyes burn and water, make their sinuses run, upset their stomach, etc.

Let me recommend a product that eliminates smoke odors completely in your apartment or home. It's called EASY 1-2-3 Odor and Fragrance. It will remove all smoke smells from all sources. To find out where you can buy it in your area, call 214-EASY123.

5. And last, please show some respect for single women who don't smoke. Don't take the attitude of, "If she doesn't like me smoking, then tough shit! I'll smoke when and where I damn well please." With this attitude she may not want to date you.

In closing, what I'm about to say is not a lecture on quitting smoking. I just want to tell you about what happened to my very best friend:

He is only 37 years old and has been smoking between 2-3 packs of cigarettes a day since he has 16 years old. Also, he drinks 5-6 cans of Coke a day. And to make matters worse, he eats a high-fat diet and has a high-strung personality.

I've known him for over 11 years and I've always been worried about him smoking too much and his diet. I've always feared he would pay the price someday for not living a healthy lifestyle.

And sure enough, my worse fears for him became true. He recently had a stroke. Thank God he is not paralyzed, but it affected his speech. His speech is slow and slurred. With therapy maybe he will get his speech back. What's so sad is he made his living as a salesman and now with his speech problem, he'll have a hard time finding work.

Now, let's get to the worse part. The damned idiot is still smoking! He can't quit. I'm afraid he is setting himself up for another stroke which will be more severe or fatal.

In closing, for health reasons please quit smoking if you do. If you can't quit on your own, please seek professional help. Plus, if you don't smoke you can get more dates, because some single women refuse to date smokers.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Are Cheating Single Women Worth Dating

No guys like to cheated on but it often happens, unfortunately. It is because the woman you are dating does not care about anyone except for herself. In other words they are selfish. For this reason you should never continue to date a woman who has cheated on you. This girl, your sweetheart who committed herself to your exclusive relationship, in one unfaithful moment didn't care enough about you, your well-being, or your feelings and succumbed to an hour of fun with another guy at your expense.

Always remember if they cheat once and get caught they won't stop, they'll just work harder not ot get caught the next time she cheats. There are over six billion people in this world and you certainly don't need your girlfriend sleeping around with other guys behind your back.

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The least thing that could happen is that you find out and get real depressed and angry. The worst thing that could happen is that this uncaring woman could transfer to you a sexually transmitted disease. God forbid if she gave you the AIDS virus!

You may be thinking, should I forgive her and give her a second chance? I highly recommend that use the one strike and you're out rule. I'll leave that decision up to you though. I just hope you don't make a fool of yourself when you find out that she was cheating again. Plus, when you catch someone cheating, you tend to lose faith in them. You don't trust them anymore. This is not good for a relationship.

Advice on Dating From Single Women Point of View

Subtle flirting. Single women are intuitive and can pick up on subtle hints. We know when a guy is looking at us because he thinks we are attractive. We know when men want to ask us out. We know when men want to kiss us. We can "feel" these things. Men who realize this, do not feel they need to pressure us with sentences like these: "I've been watching you. I think you're really pretty. Um, well, if you're not busy Friday night, uh, I was wondering if you'd, um, like to do something."

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Instead, assume the woman knows these things. Clearly if you walk up to a complete stranger and begin talking, you think this person is attractive. Duh! Say something like this: "Would you like to dance? Would you like to go to the movies Friday night? Would you like to meet for lunch tomorrow?" Don't be scared to death and don't be over-confident...(i.e. "Do you want ot have sex?"). Be specific and to the point.

As for the moment just before you kiss a woman, a simple, "I'm going to kiss you now" with a slight pause (so she can refuse, if she wants) is perfect. And just because a woman kisses you, it is not an invitation to grab her ass, her breasts, her anything else. Each part of a woman's body holds its own rules. Let the woman lead you when it comes to making out. In an age of date rape and feminism, you don't want to assume anything. If she wants you to touch her breast, she'll move your hand there or she will give you the go-ahead with what she does to you...if a woman rubs your ass, it's a pretty safe bet you can reciprocate.

If a woman is not assertive enough to lead the making out, you shouldn't be making out with her in the first place. If she doesn't lead you to anything other than a kiss, be okay with that. If it's at 3rd base that she decides to stop, be okay with that too. Again, this is not a rejection of you. It is the boundaries that she has set to protect her conscience. Respect that.