10 Top Reasons Single Women Reject Voice Personals

When you respond to a single woman's voice personal ad and you get no response, do you ever wonder what went wrong? You feel like you made a good recording on her voice mail box and you never hear back from her. You feel a little frustrated and rejected.

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To help you figure out what went wrong, here are the Top 10 reasons she did not try to get in touch with you after hearing your message in her voice mail box assigned by the personals publication:

1. Your message contained sexual overtones. This is a sure-fire way to scare women off.
2. The tone of your voice was too soft when replying. The system could not pick up your voice and cut you off. This caused your message to not be recorded, thus, she can not respond to you if there is no message.
3. Your voice turned her off. I'm sure you can relate to this. I'm sure you've heard women's voices that get on your nerves.
4. Your message was way too long. You really dragged it out to the point where it became monotonous and boring.
5. There was a long pause while making your message and the system thought you were through and cut you off.
6. You used too much slang in your message such as "You know," "You know what I mean," etc.
7. You stuttered and mumbled too much when making your message. This is a big turn-off!
8. Your message was too short and only contained one or two sentences such as "Hi my name is Don. Let's get together sometime and have some fun. Call me at 484-2424."
9. If you used your cellular phone to make your message, it may have faded out on you and the system did not pick up your message.
10. In your message, all you did was brag about yourself and your material possessions. In other words you came across as stuck on yourself. This is a big no no!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Warning Signs for Marriage Problems

Guys, I just can't express to you how serious marriage is and your choice of the right mate is critical to your happiness. I want you to succeed in marriage and it's a wonderful feeling spending the rest of you life with someone you love, get along with, and share common goals and interests with.

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This week I want to alert you to some warning signals to look for that may potentially lead to a divorce, if you're planning on getting married:

1. How do her parents treat each other? Do they disrespect each other and are they always arguing and showing no love for each other? Our personalities are influenced by our parents. The way her parents treat each other can be an indicator of how she will treat you when you're married. If it's negative, watch out.
2. Find out about her work history. If she has drifted from one job to another, this could indicate she has a problem getting along with others. And if she can't get along with others she might not be able to get along with your friends and relatives, which can lead to marital friction.
3. If you don't drink and are turned off by people who drink, don't marry a woman who drinks a lot. This can cause major problems.
4. Does she have financial problems? Does she mismanage her money, in debt, overspends and shops all the time with no thought whatsoever if she can afford it? When you get married, things will be no different. She will most likely be the same way financially. If you are frugal and good with money, then money is going to be a major source of conflict in your marriage.
5. Do her parents object to you getting married? If they do, then cool it for awhile. Put off the wedding until they have your blessings.
6. I'm not trying to preach religion to you, but it's a known fact that the family that prays together stays together. Sharing your religious beliefs is a very strong foundation for a successful marriage. So, if you want a Christian home, you should not marry a nonbeliever. Also, keep in mind that marriages with different faiths can cause problems.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Conversation Tips on How to Talk to Women

When you're out on your first date with a single woman, it's quite natural to ask questions to get to know her better. However, there's an art to asking questions and I will teach you how.

Here's what not to do, which will make a bad impression on your date. Whatever you do, don't ask one question after another. This will make her feel like she is being interrogated or interviewed for a job.

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The best way to ask questions is to let her answer, then add additional comments and conversation around her answer. In other words, make her answer a topic of conversation. Then you can weave in some more questions using the same technique.

Using this technique will be non-threatening and not so obtrusive. Plus, she will admire your conversational skills by you expressing interest in her answers.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Places for Meeting, Dating, Seducing Women

First of all, I would like to thank you for your site. I discovered it by accident and it has been an exceptional help in my never-ending endeavor to meet incredibly desirable, single(<---usually) women. Although I have not had much trouble in this area, your tips of the week and newsletters have offered valuable insight to keep my advances exciting and new, instead of using the same old lines or routines. You're great!

A couple of excellent places to meet women, in my experience, have been:

Tanning spas - Women are their biggest clientele, and since they go there to "improve" their appearance/image, it only makes sense that you can easily start a conversation with a gorgeous woman by letting her know how much you appreciate the fact that she is looks as good as she does and how her tan really compliments her beauty, or hair, or whatever you notice about her at the time. Since women love compliments on the success of their efforts to make themselves desirable, a particularly sincere compliment can go a long way. You might even get her to rub the tanning lotion onto your back for you.

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The local theater or youth theater - Women love going to plays. And, I have found, I actually enjoyed it too, once I gave it an honest effort. So, if you attend a couple of them, it makes a great conversation opener to discuss the show you last went to, especially if you remember seeing that gorgeous brunette or redhead at the last play you came to, and she really appears single. Usually, women will go to these together, and also as usual, there will likely be only one or two married women in their groups, which increases your chances of finding an available cutie to talk to. The youth theater is great if you have a young sibling or niece or nephew to take along. The act of taking a child that is not yours to the play shows her that you are a great, caring guy and she will find these characteristics appealing. And chances are, she is spending time with children that are not hers, because she is just waiting for a fantastic guy like you to come along and spend some time with her!

Also, with both of these places, it indicates to her that you have something in common - like to tan and like watching plays. You should be a shoe-in!

Avoiding Depression When You Have No Relationships

Are you aware that you're hurting your chances at finding love with single women when you get down on yourself and get depressed because your love life has been real slow or your love life has come to a complete halt for quite some time?

Guys, we all experience what I call "droughts" in our love life. It's part of the dating game and nothing to get depressed about because you never know when that special lady you've been dreaming about will appear in your life. It can happen quite suddenly and then you won't be depressed anymore.

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Don't let your mind play tricks on you by thinking that just because you haven't found any good single female prospects for love and romance, that things are getting worse and you'll never find anyone. These are just feelings with no merit because a new love can come into your life tomorrow and if you're too frustrated and depressed you won't even notice her.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Are Single Women Rejecting a Dance Not Interested in You

This is an unproductive belief that a woman, upon first meeting her, must show complete interest in you by verbal and non-verbal communication.

This is a perfect example of this misconception. You ask a single woman to dance and she readily accepts. After the dance is over she accepts another mans invitation to dance. You get all upset and you say to yourself, "If she was really interested in me, she would have found some excuse not to dance with that guy when he asked her."

What this guy doesn't know is that in the majority of cases like this, is that when interest is not immediately shown to the other, this doesn't mean that the possibility of liking you may not be there.

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So, don't give up on a woman if she accepts another guys invitation to dance. Just keep on pursuing her.

In conclusion, a lot of times a woman will not show her interest in you following a brief initial meeting. Prolonged communication and conversation are necessary before she can feel comfortable in showing her interest in you.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Smoking Guide to Dating Single Women

This week I want to discus smoking around single women. Do you smoke? If you do, I want to give you a few tips to help overcome womens' objections to dating smokers.

It really doesn't seem fair, but a lot of single women are turned off by people who smoke. They have their reasons, which I will get into later.

Please follow these rules that will make it easier for your date to tolerate your smoking:

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1. Women are very turned off by smokers breath. You may not notice your breath because you are so used to smoking, but to women who don't smoke she finds it very offensive. Also, she may refuse to kiss you because of your smokers breath.

So, what's the cure to this problem? Be sure and use a strong mouthwash before you go out on your date. And if you smoke during your date, be sure and use breath mints. I just can't express enough to you how important this is.

2. Never assume that it's ok to light up a cigarette in front of your date. Always ask her permission first. She may not want you to smoke at all and may be very offended if you light up without asking her first.

3. If you do light up, whatever you do, don't blow smoke in her direction. And even worse, don't light up a cigar on your date. The odor is offensive to others as well as your date.

4. Do you smoke a lot in your apartment or house? If you do it leaves an odor offensive to women who don't smoke on your upholstery, curtains, carpet, furniture, etc. So, before you have your date over be sure and spray your place with air fresheners and light some scented candles when you first come in the door with your date.

Why go to all this trouble? Because, a lot of single women find the odor of cigarette smoke very offensive. You may not smell it, but I can assure you that women are like blood hounds when it comes to picking up scents and odors. Plus, some women have allergic reactions to smoke. It can clog up their lungs, make their eyes burn and water, make their sinuses run, upset their stomach, etc.

Let me recommend a product that eliminates smoke odors completely in your apartment or home. It's called EASY 1-2-3 Odor and Fragrance. It will remove all smoke smells from all sources. To find out where you can buy it in your area, call 214-EASY123.

5. And last, please show some respect for single women who don't smoke. Don't take the attitude of, "If she doesn't like me smoking, then tough shit! I'll smoke when and where I damn well please." With this attitude she may not want to date you.

In closing, what I'm about to say is not a lecture on quitting smoking. I just want to tell you about what happened to my very best friend:

He is only 37 years old and has been smoking between 2-3 packs of cigarettes a day since he has 16 years old. Also, he drinks 5-6 cans of Coke a day. And to make matters worse, he eats a high-fat diet and has a high-strung personality.

I've known him for over 11 years and I've always been worried about him smoking too much and his diet. I've always feared he would pay the price someday for not living a healthy lifestyle.

And sure enough, my worse fears for him became true. He recently had a stroke. Thank God he is not paralyzed, but it affected his speech. His speech is slow and slurred. With therapy maybe he will get his speech back. What's so sad is he made his living as a salesman and now with his speech problem, he'll have a hard time finding work.

Now, let's get to the worse part. The damned idiot is still smoking! He can't quit. I'm afraid he is setting himself up for another stroke which will be more severe or fatal.

In closing, for health reasons please quit smoking if you do. If you can't quit on your own, please seek professional help. Plus, if you don't smoke you can get more dates, because some single women refuse to date smokers.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com