A Few Misconceptions About Mailorder Brides

Probably the most common misconception is the idea that what all these single foreign women want is to come to America.

The truth is that, while coming to America has a attraction for some women, this is not the main motivation for most foreign women seeking American husbands. Probably the majority of single foreign women are attracted to American men simply because they see them as better than the men at home. In many countries the lot of a woman is not very pleasant. They are not treated well by the men in their own cultures and they see Americans as men who treat their wives quite well.

In comparison with the men found in most countries, American men are a pretty good lot. They are certainly the most sought after men in the world by women seeking husbands. A lot of people jump to the conclusion that the main reason for this is that the women are all primarily interested in coming to America and that's their main motivation. This is untrue.

For the most part, the single foreign women looking for American husbands are simply seeking a good husband, first and foremost. For those living in poor countries the prospect of coming to America is a factor, but it's usually never the primary one. Most women are simply looking for good husbands. They want husbands who will provide good homes for them, who will treat them well and not beat them or run around on them. They get all too much of that at home and are seeking something better.

In the light of the O. J. Simpson case, sensation-seeking media paint the picture as though wife abuse is a far greater problem in the US than it really is. The truth is that, while there is a problem, it's not nearly as bad in America, as a percentage of total population, as it is in many other cultures. Foreign women know this. That's the major reason why so many of them are interested in finding an American husband.

The main reason why American men are so highly sought after as husbands is because American men, as a whole, treat women far better than do the men in most other countries. American men treat their wives extremely well, by world standards. In contrast to American women, who are widely viewed as the world's worst wives, American men are widely viewed as the world's best husbands. This is what makes them so attractive to single foreign women.

This week's contribution is from Gary Clark, the author of, "Your Bride Is In The Mail."

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Avoid Treating Single Women Like One of the Guys

I'm sure that you are aware of how you act when you're around your buddies. You tend to joke around with each other, tease each other with insulting comments that are meant to be humorous, get involved in horseplay, etc. This is all done in fun and not meant to offend anyone. It's just a guy thing.

It's ok to act this way when you're around your buddies, but don't do it when you're on a date. One surefire way to ruin a potential relationship is to treat her like one of the guys. Don't do it!

When you tease, poke fun at, degrade, make offensive remarks all in fun at your date guess what happens? If she's the sensitive type, she will get very offended. You may think this behavior is no big deal because you're used to acting this way around your buddies, but trust me guys, she won't appreciate it and hold it against you.

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You see, while you're making all these meant to be funny comments, she is keeping score. And the score is not in you favor my friend. She will remember all your teasing and insults and take it personally.

In closing, I just can't stress to you enough how important it is to not treat single women you date like one of the guys. You will just end up hurting her feelings.

Do this instead: Make her feel good about herself and be as romantic and affectionate towards her as possible. You will have much, much more success with single women if you will take this approach.

P.S. Also, don't treat your date like one of the guys when you're on a double date. This makes matters much worse because you will be offending her in front of others and this will really alienate her. Plus, the other girl won't appreciate it either.

And when they go to the restroom together they may make comments to each other about what a creep you are. By being labeled a creep, this sure isn't going to help you get a second date. Wouldn't you agree?

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How Being a Porcupine Causes Dating Problems with Single Women

I'm sure that you are familiar with the animal porcupine. They have sharp prickly needles all over their bodies and you just can't get close to them.

Are you acting like a porcupine when you're around single women? Does this describe you:

• Do you have a chip on your shoulder?
• Are you oversensitive and tend to analyze everything someone says as directed to you in a negative say?
• When you're on a date do you expect to be offended and rejected?
• When on your date do you focus all your attention on trying to find faults with your date?
• Do you reject a woman's advances to try and get to know you intimately?
• Do you think all women are cold, stuck-up, self-centered, and standoffish?

These are all classic symptoms of being a human porcupine. And ,what is sad is that you may not even be aware of it. And being this way can cause you to be a failure with single women.

I'm sure you've heard the old saying, "What goes around come around." Well, if you treat women coldly and don't let anyone get close to you, guess what happens? Women will respond in kind and treat you the say way.

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What you want to do to break this porcupine curse is to act just the opposite. Be friendly, kind, warm, affectionate, caring and loving towards single women and they will tend to treat you the same way. In other words you've got to give love to receive love.

In closing, it would be helpful to consult with a very close friend or relative to have them give you their honest opinion to whether you have any of the symptoms of being a human porcupine. If you do have any of these symptoms, go to work on yourself right away to eliminate these negative traits that can play hell with your love life.

You may be scaring away women and not even be aware of it. And the reason might just be because you're acting like a porcupine.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Avoid These Mistakes When Dating Single Women

Nobody likes a whiner and complainer. So, when on a date avoid the tendency to bitch and moan about how the world is treating you unfairly. Hold your tongue about how you were mistreated by your ex-girlfriend or wife. Trust me, one of the best ways to ensure that you don't get a second date with a woman you're trying to impress, is to bitch and gripe about everything while on your first date.

When on a date with single women your best strategy is to be upbeat and positive. You'll make a much better impression on her this way instead of acting negative.

Now let's talk about the second thing you must try to avoid when on a date. That is arguing. Some people just by their nature, want to argue and disagree about everything. Don't do it guys! This will turn your date off and I'll explain why.

When you are arguing with a woman you're on a date with you are in a sense telling her that her opinions, thoughts, ideas, and things that she's learned in a lifetime don't make a damn bit of sense and she's totally wrong. Believe me, people don't like to be told they are wrong. This puts them in a defensive mode and they will resent you and make them angry.

So, do you want your date pissed off at you? If you consistently insult her intelligence and disagree with her, do you really think that she's going to want to see you again and expose herself to being mistreated and disrespected again? I think not!

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Avoid arguing if at all possible while on a date. If she is obviously wrong about something and you can't bite your tongue, then create a third party to do your arguing for you. How do you do this? Let me explain:

Make a comment that such and such said (another person, what you heard on the radio or TV, what you read in a magazine, newspaper, or book, etc.). I think you get the picture here. She won't be arguing with you directly, she will be disagreeing with a third party and in this way it let's you off the hook.

This is kind of a sneaky way of arguing, but it works! Try it.

In closing, if you're the type of guy who enjoys arguing and trying to prove people wrong about everything they say just to boost your own ego, you will become a very unpopular person. People will go out of their way to avoid you and this unfortunately includes the women that you date.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on How to Get Single Women to Like You

This week I want to focus on the secrets to getting single women to like you.

When you first meet a woman you tend to focus on getting her interested in you and to like you. And a lot of guys make the mistake of trying too hard to impress women. Let me explain...

They spend most of their conversation focusing on their interests, material possessions, who they know, accomplishments, wealth, professional status, etc. This is the wrong approach, guys. The best way to impress single women is to be impressed by them and not spend all your time trying to impress them. Focus on how impressed you are with their:

• Interests
• The way they look and dress
• Knowledge and intelligence
• Sense of humor
• Cute smile
• Luscious and kissable lips
• Career
• Communication skills
• Goals and aspirations
• Love nature
• Nice apartment or house
• Cooking skills
• Nice furnishings and decor
• Etc.

I'm sure you get the picture now. Just direct all of your conversation away from yourself and focus on her and how impressed you are with her. This will really make a good impression on her and get her to like you.

The philosophy in this article works wonders when you want a woman to become interested in you. To get her interested in you, you must first become interested in her. Try this philosophy and you will be amazed at how much more successful you will be with women.

I also want to make some comments on the importance of establishing friendships with the women you date. Friendship and romance go very well together. There's nothing like having a mate who is both your best friend and a lover. So, I highly recommend that you focus all your energies on becoming a close friend to a woman you are starting to date. Building a close and strong friendship will go a long way in creating a happy relationship with a very strong emotional bond between you.

And, remember that to be a friend, you must first be a friend. You must reach out and initiate a friendship.

In closing, I recommend that you adopt my strategy that has helped me seduce more women than I could handle: Become friends first, lover second. Get into her mind first before you get into her pants.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice for Overcoming Rejection from Single Women

Are you limiting your chances for finding love and romance because of your fear of rejection when trying to meet single women or approaching them? This is a common fear and a big obstacle in taking action to meet those women you desire.

The problem is that you build up so much anxiety that it creates fear. The actual rejection is actually not that big of a deal. It's the self-induced fear and anxiety created by your own mind is the problem. Sometimes our mind is our worst enemy.

Put things in perspective. So what, if you're rejected by someone that you hardly know. Chances are you'll never see her again anyway. Just put the rejection behind you and not take it seriously and don't dwell on it...get over it! If you're going to play the dating game, getting rejected is just part of the game whether you like it or not.

Not every woman you meet or approach is going to be receptive to your advances. The main thing, is to keep on trying and never give up! Sooner than you think you'll meet a woman who likes you and will be receptive to your advances.

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There's another disadvantage of being afraid that women will reject you. And that is giving women power over you. They have the upper hand over you and ruling your emotions. You must not let this happen! You are the captain of your own ship. You are in charge of everything that happens to you. You have the power to react or choose not to react when you get rejected. You're much better off not reacting at all.

You must keep another fact in mind when you get rejected. She has every right to say no to you. And you have the right to say no to others. It's your choice. We all have the freedom to accept or reject anyone.

In closing, accept rejection as the price you have to pay until you meet someone who likes you and is attracted to you. Rejection is just a risk that you have to take if you want to succeed with women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Single Man's Guide to Balding

This week I want to discuss the sensitive subject of balding. I know a lot of you guys freak out when you start losing your hair. So, what can you do about it? What I recommend is that you bald gracefully. And, you'd be surprised how many single women are turned on by bald men.

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I'm going to give you some tips to make you more attractive to single women if you are balding:

• If you have just a few strands of hair on top, don't comb them over to the side or forward. This looks silly! Just go ahead and shave your head on top. It will look much, much better.
• If you are bald on top, don't wear your hair thick on the sides. Just wear your hair real short and trimmed on the sides. It will look much, much better and give you that clean-cut look that single women like.
• Consider growing a mustache or goatee to draw attention to your face rather than your head where you are bald or balding.
• You know, a lot of guys are shaving their heads and going completely bald. This style is in and lots of women like it. Shave your head as an experiment and wear it around women and ask them how you look. Some men really look sexy when completely bald.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com