Spiritual Advice: When you fumble for words to say when you are on a date rely on the spirit of Jesus to intercede for you when you are at loss for words to say. He will tell you what to say if you have faith in him and listen for his voice.
A Single Man's Guide to Getting Over Relationships
Break-ups in relationships are never easy and it's worse when you are the one who gets dumped.
So, what's the best way to get over someone and get back in the dating scene? Here are some tips:
- I highly recommend taking a dating break. Stay away from romance and the dating scene for awhile. Give yourself time to heal your wounds and keep busy to occupy your mind instead of brooding or feeling sorry for yourself.
- Focus heavily on your career and become a workaholic temporarily. When not dating heavily, you will have more time to focus on your career. This is a good way to divert your attention away from focusing on a love that didn't last.
- Go on a scavenger hunt throughout your apartment or house and remove anything that reminds you of your lost love. Throw them away, put them in storage, or hide them in the attic. This is a good way to bury the past and get on with your life.
- Spend more time with your buddies and renew old friendships. During this transition time from being a couple to being single and free again is a good time to bond with friends to take your mind off of your old girlfriend.
- Keep physically active - join a health club or local softball team, join a bowling league, take tennis lessons, take up jogging, etc.
In closing, please don't jump back into the frying pan right away by looking for love on the rebound. Take a break and let your wounds heal and make a fresh start when you feel like you're over her and ready to start to dating again.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
How to Tell When Your Date is Not Working Out
This week I want to focus on how to tell when you're date is not working out. When your date is not interested in you she will leave clues.
What are the clues? Look for these tell-tell signs that your date is not going well:
- She does not smile at you and doesn't find anything you say to be funny.
- She does not make any eye contact with you. She's always looking away or down when she talks to you. Also, she may be constantly looking at other guys.
- Her entire conversation focuses on herself and she asks nothing about you. She shows no interest in getting to know you.
- She is very silent and says very little to you. Her responses to your questions are mostly, "yes," "no," and "I don't know."
- You feel no chemistry towards her and you can sense that she feels the same way.
When a date doesn't work out don't lose any sleep over it. It's all part of the dating game. Sometimes dates work out and sometimes they don't. The main purpose of the date besides having fun, is to get to know each other to see if you would be interested in dating each other.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
Advice on Flowers for First Dates with Single Women
Do single women love flowers? You bet they do! And one of the best ways to impress a woman romantically on a first date is to bring her flowers.
Let me give you some advice about buying flowers for your date. Whatever you do, don't go out and blow a bunch of money on a dozen roses or expensive flower arrangement. Let me tell you why:
You can make just as good impression by buying her a single rose with a card (nothing too mushy). Even though it's a single flower, it's the thought that counts. She will deeply appreciate it and it gets the date off to a good start.
There's another disadvantage to spending lots of money on flowers on women for your first date. What if the date doesn't work out? What if you have nothing in common, no chemistry, and one or both of you are turned off by each other?
I'm sure you get the point now. You've just thrown $30-50 down the toilet. You work hard for your money. Don't throw it away foolishly on a date that may not even work out.
After you have had a few dates and developed a relationship, then buy her a dozen red roses.
In closing, guys, I just can't tell you enough how single women are very impressed when they are given flowers by a man. In their heart it's a very sweet and romantic gesture. Also, don't think for a minute that giving flowers is guaranteed to get you laid.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
A Few Pitfalls in Dating, Meeting Single Women
Why You Must Avoid Getting Involved with the Wrong Women
Meeting and dating women may be hazardous to your health, and in particular, your emotional well-being. Risks include making a fool of yourself, subjecting yourself to humiliation and ridicule, being exploited, and, of course, heartbreak. Worse yet, you may be done in by your very success and end up in a bad relationship. As a shy man, you are especially vulnerable, due both to your very lack of experience in the dating arena and your romantic nature. Proceed with caution.
"Here there be tigers."
Predators stalk the shadows. Here lurk "users" and "players", schemers who would take advantage of you, who would betray your trust, who would profit from your painful loneliness and desperate need for affection, who would turn your deepest longings against you, who would manipulate you for their own purposes. Women, even sweet gentle women, alas, bear within them the same sickness, the same depths of rage, the same capacity for corruption and depravity... as you and I.
- Cruelty, viciousness, as expressed in mockery, putdowns.
- Immaturity, as expressed in "games playing", blame laying, whining.
- Superficiality, as expressed in vanity, flightiness, pettiness.
- Lacking in intelligence.
- Lacking in wisdom and common sense.
- Lacking in integrity and basic honesty.
- Lacking in compassion and generosity.
- Lacking in inner strength (courage).
Becoming involved with the wrong person equals a prescription for unhappiness. The adage that "it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all" is scant comfort to the man courting a woman who does not return his affections. This is the dreaded "one-way love" scenario. Nearly as nerve wracking to deal with is the woman who is not quite sure that she loves you, who plays up to you when you start to distance yourself, yet pulls away when you want closeness. Every variety of games playing, every deviation from honesty and integrity undermines a relationship at its very foundations and diminishes the people involved.
In the mirror image situation, should you not wish to pursue a relationship with a woman who is attracted to you, be kind to her. Show her compassion, remembering all the times you were in her place. By all means, be honest about your intentions, but respect her feelings, and let her down easy. While you do not owe her your company, at least treat her with respect.
Avoid entanglements with married women, for very common sense reasons. Not only might you be poisoning a family relationship, perhaps hurting children in the process, but you run the risk of encountering an angry, and possibly armed husband. While adultery is no longer a punishable offense in most jurisdictions, it remains immoral, unethical, and certainly dangerous conduct.
A woman on the rebound from a failed relationship presents a ticklish problem. True enough, she is needy of affection, of healing, and will be grateful for your presence, your solace. Still, her feelings for you will be flickering and tenuous, her moods changeable, her attachment to you shaky. She will alternately cling to you and push you away. She will sweeten your existence... and bring you misery. You will constantly be asking yourself whether it is worth it.
If you are over age 18, stay away from young girls. It is a crime for an adult male to consort with an underage girl, as well it should be.
In all your loneliness, take care in awarding your affections. You will find your partner and mate, your intended... in time, and likely after weathering disappointments and collecting a few bruises. Beware of imposters.
This article contributed by Leo Cooper at http://personal.riverusers.com/~thegrendel/cover.html.
A Card Method for Meeting, Dating Single Women
The Card Method for Meeting and Dating Single Women
How many times have you been attracted to women, let's say in public places, a sales clerk, a beautiful girl alone in a restaurant, a hot and sexy single lady getting off an airplane alone, a gorgeous babe standing in the checkout line?
Well I have come up with a get acquainted card for those occasions where you don't have much time or the place is not appropriate for getting acquainted. This card breaks the ice and works like a charm. I've used it and my male friends have used it very successfully to meet women.
Here's what it says and you just take this to your printer and have it printed on a business card and on the back have your name and phone number printed. It reads:
I've been carrying this card for a long time hoping to meet someone like you. Bars & pickup lines are just not my style, so I hope to meet you using this card. I'd really like to find out who you are and tell you exactly what it was about you that attracted me. My name and phone number are on the back of this card. The option of calling will be yours, but I'll really be sorry if you don't call. Let's spend some time together. Please call and let me know who you are.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
10 Top Negative Body Languages Signs that Single Women Give to Indicate That She is Not Interested in You
10 Top Reasons Single Women are Not Interested in You
- You lean towards her and she leans back away from you.
- She starts turning away from you.
- She doesn't make eye contact with you.
- She folds her arms across her chest.
- Double crosses her legs at the ankle.
- She touches her nose often while she's with you.
- A limp or hanging hand can indicate boredom with you.
- When talking to you, her eyes keep glancing at other guys around her.
- She makes no effort to talk to you. She doesn't reply to any of your comments, doesn't answer your questions, and doesn't ask any questions about yourself. Unless she just doesn't feel good or is moody this could indicate that she's not interested in you and you will be wasting your time.
- And last, she just come out an tell you to get lost, go away, go to hell, or ever worse, to fuck off!
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P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
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