Spiritual Advice: These are the two most important prayers to say when you are dating:
1. When something good happens in your dating life say, “Thank you Jesus.”
2. When things are going wrong in your dating life say, “Help me Lord.”
Are You Getting Too Personal With Single Women
Most single women expect to answer easy, straight-forward questions when they first meet guys. Such questions are part of the ritual of becoming acquainted. What's more, she's likely to be complimented by your show of genuine interest. From initial, impersonal topics, you can go on to discuss personal backgrounds and interests. By exchanging details about yourselves, you can get to know each other quickly - and determine if you'd like to pursue the contact, perhaps.
I would advise you to not ask too many questions. You are not interviewing her and if you continuously ask one question after another, she will tire of your questions and lose interest in you. Just keep your conversation with her flowing and after you ask her a question, focus your conversation towards her answers. Don't follow it up with just another question.
When might a question be too personal? Practice will help you develop sensitivity to what sort of questions single women are glad to answer in various stages of a relationship. If you have any doubts about whether a question is appropriate, preface it with a statement like: "May I ask if....?" or "If you don't mind telling me...." or "I hope I'm not being too personal...." If she doesn't feel pressured to reply, they'll usually respond cordially to the extent they're comfortable.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
Spiritual Advice: Pray every day for someone special to come into your life so Jesus can lead the way and chart your course.
A Few Misbeliefs About Mailorder Brides
The idea that most of these women are poor, poorly educated, or come from the bottom of the social heap in their own countries is also a misconception.
The truth is that, with a few exceptions, exactly the opposite is true. If you look at the biography of these women you will find that the overwhelming majority are college graduates. More than a few are professionals such as doctors, dentists and the like. If you think about it this makes a lot of sense. Most of the women seeking husbands in the international bride market have to do so using a language other than their own... English. For this reason alone, most of the poorly educated women in the world are unable to play the game. In fact, this is true for virtually all countries except one. That country is the Philippines.
The Philippines is the one country where even the very poor and often poorly educated woman can still participate in the bride-by-mail game. The reason is that English is a required subject in Philippine schools beginning at a very early age. In fact, all courses in Philippine schools from high school onward are taught in English. This gives Filipinos, even the very poor ones at the bottom of the social ladder, the ability to participate in the process necessary to pursue a husband via letter writing. This is not true of other countries.
Virtually all the women from other non-English speaking countries who become involved in seeking husbands by this method are well educated. The ones who lack sufficient English language ability are usually not successful in finding a husband if they try. Most don't ever try.
The reason why the women with the best educations are often the ones seeking foreign husbands is because these are the women who have the greatest difficulty finding husbands at home. In most of the countries where these women come from, men do not want wives who are either more obviously intelligent or better educated than they are. The better educated a women becomes, the less likely she is to find a husband at home.
It has never been true that all the women who marry American men in this way are Asian. Even before the collapse of worldwide communism there were a significant number of them coming from Latin America. The reason for the misconception that they are all Asian is because, prior to the fall of the iron curtain, and the opening of east-west travel, the vast majority of these women came from the Philippines. In fact, if you look at all the available women who are Asian, even today half of them are Filipinos.
Today, however, the fastest growing segment of the bride-by-mail movement involves Caucasian women from Russia and other countries of Eastern Europe. There are many matchmaking companies whose sole business involves women from there and which do not handle Asian women at all.
This week's contribution is from Gary Clark, the author of, "Your Bride Is In The Mail."
Spiritual Advice: When you fumble for words to say when you are on a date rely on the spirit of Jesus to intercede for you when you are at loss for words to say. He will tell you what to say if you have faith in him and listen for his voice.
A Single Man's Guide to Getting Over Relationships
Break-ups in relationships are never easy and it's worse when you are the one who gets dumped.
So, what's the best way to get over someone and get back in the dating scene? Here are some tips:
- I highly recommend taking a dating break. Stay away from romance and the dating scene for awhile. Give yourself time to heal your wounds and keep busy to occupy your mind instead of brooding or feeling sorry for yourself.
- Focus heavily on your career and become a workaholic temporarily. When not dating heavily, you will have more time to focus on your career. This is a good way to divert your attention away from focusing on a love that didn't last.
- Go on a scavenger hunt throughout your apartment or house and remove anything that reminds you of your lost love. Throw them away, put them in storage, or hide them in the attic. This is a good way to bury the past and get on with your life.
- Spend more time with your buddies and renew old friendships. During this transition time from being a couple to being single and free again is a good time to bond with friends to take your mind off of your old girlfriend.
- Keep physically active - join a health club or local softball team, join a bowling league, take tennis lessons, take up jogging, etc.
In closing, please don't jump back into the frying pan right away by looking for love on the rebound. Take a break and let your wounds heal and make a fresh start when you feel like you're over her and ready to start to dating again.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
How to Tell When Your Date is Not Working Out
This week I want to focus on how to tell when you're date is not working out. When your date is not interested in you she will leave clues.
What are the clues? Look for these tell-tell signs that your date is not going well:
- She does not smile at you and doesn't find anything you say to be funny.
- She does not make any eye contact with you. She's always looking away or down when she talks to you. Also, she may be constantly looking at other guys.
- Her entire conversation focuses on herself and she asks nothing about you. She shows no interest in getting to know you.
- She is very silent and says very little to you. Her responses to your questions are mostly, "yes," "no," and "I don't know."
- You feel no chemistry towards her and you can sense that she feels the same way.
When a date doesn't work out don't lose any sleep over it. It's all part of the dating game. Sometimes dates work out and sometimes they don't. The main purpose of the date besides having fun, is to get to know each other to see if you would be interested in dating each other.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
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