Speak this: The same spirit that raised Christ from the dead lives inside of me at this very moment and this gives me the “can do” power to meet and attract any women I desire.
A Single Man's Guide to Love and Relationships
This week let's talk about love. It's one of the most wonderful experiences on earth. It has its positives and its negatives and it's not all roses sometimes.
I want to give you some advice about love and how to handle love.
Let's get one misconception about love out of the way first of all. Don't fall into the trap thinking that love will solve all your problems and make your life perfect. And don't get into the rut of thinking that your life is incomplete without love and you must be involved in a relationship to be happy. Nothing could be further from the truth.
Some guys make the mistake of thinking that being single is terrible and being in a relationship is the only way to feel complete and happy. This is just not true. You can be just as happy single as you can being coupled. It's entirely up to you!
Some more love advice is to not look at love through rose-colored glasses thinking a good relationship is only characterized by walks along the beach, gazing into each other's eyes, wild and intense sex all the time, holding hands all the time, romantic dinners, kissing all the time, etc.
What I'm trying to say is to not get too worked up and overly romantic about love. If you do, you could be in for a rude awakening about love when it does finally come your way. You see, all this heavy romance in the soap operas and movies. Well my friend, in real life it's just not that way most of the time.
After the initial infatuation wears off, then the reality of love sets in. Things aren't as intense and once you get to know each other, your faults and bad habits come out. And of course, you now have to work at maintaining your relationship. You have to keep the fires burning so to speak. During the infatuation stage things happened so naturally and you were in another world. Now, you have to put in a lot of effort to keep that love strong.
In closing, love is what makes the world go around. Cherish it when it comes around and while it lasts. If it doesn't last, then bury it in your past and move on. I'm a firm believer in this statement: "It is better to have loved and lost at love than to have never loved at all." Memorize this statement and make it your own personal creed.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
Spiritual Advice: Here is a song of praise that I would sing when I was looking and praying for a woman to spend the rest of my life with:
It’s a beautiful life I’m living,
It’s a beautiful life you’ve given me Lord,
And I just want to thank you Jesus,
For giving me such a beautiful life,
And soon to be a beautiful wife.
God heard my song of praise and brought into my life my beautiful wife of 26 years who I love and cherish with all my heart. She is a Godly woman and Jesus is the center of our marriage. Sing this song and see if it works for you.
Using Women For Decorating Your Home
Using Women to Decorate and Furnish Your Home
Take a woman with you when you plan on furnishing and decorating your home. I just bought a new home and really had very little clues on how to decorate it. If you have the money to do so, take a female friend with you shopping. We all know how women love to shop…especially if she's spending someone else's money. She'll let you know what she thinks looks good (hopefully you've chosen someone with good taste), then when you take her recommendations she'll be oh so happy.
An added bonus is that she'll enjoy coming over to your place, since she helped decorate it. One warning on this though, you may not want to take your girlfriend if you guys are really close. What happens when you buy all this stuff and you end up breaking up with her a few months down the road? Well, you walk through your place and everything you see reminds you of her.
So…choose your shopping partner wisely. I had a great time letting someone else decorate my house, plus I made them happy by letting them do what they do best - shop!
Spiritual Advice: With your walk and trust with Christ you can know with absolute certainty that no matter what occurs in your dating and relationships that through Christ you can handle it.
A Letter for Attracting Single Women From Personal Ads
Here's a letter I used to respond to personal ads to successfully meet and attract women like crazy:
Hi!
This letter is in response to your recent "personal" ad. Your ad really captured my attention and you sound like someone I would like to really like to get to know better. In order for you to get to know me better, here's a little bit about myself:
I am a single financially secure businessman, 1947 model, low mileage, high performance. Bumped a few times, but never wrecked. Proven ability to hug the road and not wander off course. Exterior in mint condition, warm, affectionate, sensitive interior, never soiled. Factory equipped package includes stereo, humor, depth, imagination and intelligence. Radio picks up all kinds of rock and classical. Spacious seats with plenty of room for passenger...runs on high-octane fun and romance, lifetime supply included.
Available for inspection by female drivers only, prefer affectionate woman, no dependents, eye-catching exterior, self-confident, intelligent, warm, sincere with sense of humor and full set of tools.
I come from a close solid family, would like to have little Toyotas some day. Equipped with nice endowment. Only driven once a week by little old lady to/from church. To arrange test drive, please write or call me at 802-484-2425 (anytime). HAPPY MOTORING!
P.S. Feel free to modify this letter to use for yourself. Try it...it works like crazy!
A Few Datings Tips on How to Succeed With Single Women
- Regarding "pick-up lines," unless the lines are well-executed, no pick-up line in the world will achieve the desired results. Timing and demeanor are critical factors. You need to keep girls guessing. Don't give them too much, too quickly about yourself.
- Be aware that some single women will play hard-to-get intentionally, because they don't want to appear to be too easy.
- Always do everything you can to make a women feel special. Also, tell her she's very special. Single women love to feel wanted, respected, and appreciated.
- The more you try to pick up single women the more used to it you'll become. This will help you gain confidence and practice makes perfect.
- Don't ever assume because a woman looks like she's right out of the pages of Playboy that she has a boyfriend. This is not necessarily true and if she is seeing someone, maybe it's not serious or she's not happy with him.
- Don't overlook average-looking single women. They are a lot of fun and they can become quite beautiful in your own eyes once you get to know them. Always remember that "beauty is in the eye of the beholder."
- Attractive single women get complimented all the time about how beautiful they are. Be a little different and compliment her on things she's not used to hearing such as: eyebrows, nose, ears, kissable lips, eyes, dimples, fingernails, etc.
- Remember that single women get horny too. Some single women are looking for sex too. If they haven't had sex in awhile they crave sex. Maybe you'll be the luck guy that satisfies their sexual needs!
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