Advice for Men on Running Personal Ads

Have you ever thought about using the personals to meet and attract single women? I, Don Diebel used the personals for many years successfully to meet hot & sexy beautiful women from all over the United States.

For those of you that are confused as to whether you should just run a personal ad or just answer the ads of the women you are attracted to, let me give you some valuable advice:

It's best to run your own ad instead of replying to women's ads and here's why:

1. It really builds up your confidence and makes you feel special when single women are seeking you out. It's a great feeling checking your email or postal mail and discover all these women wanting to get to know you.

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2. There are a lot of single women out there that read the personals of men. And these same women would never think of running their own ad due to feeling embarrassed, but they think nothing of reading your ad and responding to your ad if they are interested.

3. Women tend to get tons of responses to their ad by men. All these men are vying for her attention. There's just too much competition. It's better to run your own ad.

4. It's such an easy way to meet single women. They are seeking you out. It's nice to have women make the first move for a change. Us guys get tired of having to do all the work to meet women.

5. When you place a photo in your ad and a woman responds, this indicates that she finds you attractive physically. This is a good ego-booster to know someone finds you to be desirable physically.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

 

Spiritual Inspiration: When you need help in dating – Even when our situation appears to be impossible, our work is to “hope in God.” Our hope will not be in vain, and in the Lord’s own timing, help will come. - By George Mueller

Best Way to End Relationships with Single Women

Many women defy the laws of gravity: they are easy to pick up and though to drop. This is especially the case of those with deep affection dependency (and therefore often smokers).

Often, it will take you a long time to make up your mind, to make the decision to leave her and then to put it into effect. However, once you have made up your mind, do not procrastinate. Most women have hard-wired psychological perception and they will know your loss of interest long before you actually allow it to show, all the more so once you have made the decision to part. Some may make a last chance attempt to keep you or try to exact vengeance. Expect anything!

So discretely plan ahead and leave them no time to react in an aggressive or desperate way. If need be, make a checklist of the items you will need to collect - you may not be given another chance! If you live separately, pick up the things you left at her place (not necessarily all at once but in a few moves), surreptitiously collect your home key if she's got a copy (or be ready to change your locks). If you live together, consider leaving her the home if possible. Have then a place ready where you can move at any time and live for a while. If not, be ready to be a gentleman and to cover the unexpected expenses she will inevitably meet. Don't ever, ever think of such brutal and rude actions such as locking her out or moving while she's away!! Be very aware that some of these actions move you past the no-return frontier!

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When you think you're ready - and at any cost before she finds out what's coming - explain your decision to her in a very clear, calm, unassertive way. Make it short. Don't be lured into giving an explanation, it will usually lead to misinterpretation and more agressiveness on her part. Just say she's not the woman of your life.

Don't feel guilty for what you're doing. Don't make her feel guilty either (refrain from saying such sententious things as "only a fool could love you", "you would make a bad mother/wife", "I never told you how stupid/ugly you are", "I wonder how I could fall in love with you", which will deeply harm her and make her want to strike back - and these statements also are double edged knives).

However, guilt is one of the weapons a woman is likely to use to keep you. "Knowing the trap is the first step in avoiding it" (Sun Tzu). If she manages to make you feel bad, know that it's probably a trick to bring you back (or maybe you have a genuine reason to feel bad!). If she threatens suicide to blackmail you, stay with her as long as you can, watch her, alert one of her friends to stay with her, but don't take your decision back. Never say you don't care, never claim she won't do it anyway (she may want to prove you wrong), never offer to move back (it makes you an instant looser and very likely to get the boot in the near future), just let her cool her temper, then leave.

Then comes the one thing you should always try to avoid: Sex. You can play it cool, have dinner in a restaurant (you pay) but having sex is definitely incoherent with your decision. It sends a very wrong message that all you loved was sex with her and she can still have you back this way. Or that you're just a pig concerned only with sex. What more, in a crazy attempt to keep you, a woman can "forget" her pill. Sure, you can always use condoms, but if you never did before with her, it will be as deep a sign of distrust and contempt as one can imagine (it makes her fall from girlfriend to hooker status).

Remember: These are difficult circumstances don't make them worse. Be a gentleman, it will make her less likely to strike you back (all the more since you may not see vengeance coming until it's too late). Maybe after a while you can be just friends again. Leaving someone is integral part of the love game; harming and messing up is not. Just think of how you would like to be treated for you will not always be the one who quits. Think also of your male counterparts: if you harm her unnecessarily, she may not be able or willing to find a new partner before long, and you could also find yourself having a hard time wooing a girl who has been messed up by her previous partner.

In a nutshell, be firm, be careful, be a gentleman.

Thomas (thomas.M@bigfoot.com)

 

Spiritual Advice: Ok, so you decide it’s time to settle down and get married. So you start searching for the perfect mate on your own instead of relying on Jesus and waiting for him to bring you a divine connection. You might make a mistake on your own by becoming so desperate that you settle for someone that is not the right woman. It’s much better to trust Jesus to bring you the right woman for you to marry.

Advice of Getting Car Ready for Romance with Single Women

It's important to prepare your car for seduction and romance with single women. And you want to do all you can to impress your date with your car. Here are a few tips to help prepare your car:

1. Women have a very strong sense of smell. It's amazing the scents they can pick up. If you have stale food under your seats or on the floorboard the smell will turn her off. And a big pet peeve of a lot of women is the lingering smell of tobacco smoke in your car. You must eliminate these odors so they don't spoil your chances for romance.

So, what's the solution? Obviously, it's very important to keep your car clean and smelling good. Air fresheners for your car are a must? I would suggest using a strawberry scent. If you smoke, before you pick up your date, spray your car with an air freshener to get rid of the smoke odor.

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2. Always keep a clean blanket and a couple of pillows in your trunk. This is for those times that you are really hitting it off romantically and you want to make out on the beach, at the park, or in the woods.

3. Always open the car door for your date. This is a romantic gesture and makes her feel special.

4. Get rid of any evidence of other women in your car. Make sure there aren't female items laying around in your car such as jewelry, lipstick cases, hair and makeup accessories, strands of another woman's hair, lingering perfume odors from what your previous date was wearing, etc. Don't forget to check your glove box also.

5. Keep a good selection of romantic music in your car. Play these while you're on your dates to relax her and get her in a romantic mood. I highly recommend buying the romantic subliminal seduction music at: http://www.getgirls.com/sublim.htm

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Using Women For Decorating Your Home

Take a woman with you when you plan on furnishing and decorating your home. I just bought a new home and really had very little clues on how to decorate it. If you have the money to do so, take a female friend with you shopping. We all know how women love to shop…especially if she's spending someone else's money. She'll let you know what she thinks looks good (hopefully you've chosen someone with good taste), then when you take her recommendations she'll be oh so happy.

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An added bonus is that she'll enjoy coming over to your place, since she helped decorate it. One warning on this though, you may not want to take your girlfriend if you guys are really close. What happens when you buy all this stuff and you end up breaking up with her a few months down the road? Well, you walk through your place and everything you see reminds you of her.

So…choose your shopping partner wisely. I had a great time letting someone else decorate my house, plus I made them happy by letting them do what they do best - shop!

 

Spiritual Advice: You are probably naturally inclined when anxious about dating issues to focus on yourself or your problems. Don’t do this! When you do this you are forgetting to go to your Savior for all the help he can supply.