Spiritual Advice: Dating can be so frustrating with all the ups and downs, rejections, broken romances, heartaches, etc. You may not be happy with where you are at in your dating life, but you would not be there unless Jesus had a purpose for it. Always remember that he is in control.
I want to warn you about falling into the trap of forming an image in your mind of the perfect woman for you.
For example, you're only attracted to tall blondes with long hair, blue eyes, and a perfect body. Your mind and eyes are closed to all other women who don't fit your "perfect mate" image. You block them out.
This is really sad if you adopt this philosophy of only being attracted to certain types of women. You will bypass so many opportunities to meet single women that could be just perfect for you.
First of all, it's not fair to judge a person on how they look on the outside anyway. Their inner beauty is what counts. Tell me, is it worth it having a girlfriend with looks that could kill and be a "bitch from hell" on the inside. I can't begin to tell you how many women I've dated like this.
While we are on the subject of looks, don't fall into the trap of only limiting yourself to dating only beautiful single women. Trust me, women that seem to be average-looking when first meeting them can become beautiful to you once you get to know them. What they don't have in looks they make up with their good personality, warm heart, ability to please you sexually, enthusiasm for life, affections, willingness to do anything to please you, etc.
From my experience of dating a lot of model types of women, I can tell you that a lot of them were self-centered, obsessed with their looks, used to getting their way, and spoiled rotten. Also, they were very high maintenance. They were used to dining in fancy restaurants, having men buy them expensive gifts, going on expensive trips out-of-town, etc.
In other words they had to be constantly wined and dined to make a good impression on them. So take it from me, dating an extremely beautiful single woman can turn out to not be all that great. But, you still can get lucky sometimes and meet a lovely woman who is beautiful on the outside as well as on the inside.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
Advice About Going on First Dates with Women
At last, you have reached the point in your blossoming relationship where you will be going out on a date. Your first date, a milestone, yet a bottomless pit of uncertainty. It's like being on a roller coaster, with the alternating surges of soaring giddiness and fright, the conflicting emotions of "can't wait" and "not yet". While overjoyed that you will be going out with *her*, there is still the gnawing anxiety that you will somehow "blow it". Not to worry. It will certainly be something of an adventure, something to reminisce and laugh about (Oh, no! Not another learning experience!,) and you would not miss it for the world.
If possible, get plenty of sleep the night before, or at least take a short nap during the day. Shower and put on fresh clothes. Brush your teeth and shave, as necessary. Cologne and mouth wash are optional. Rely on those comforting little rituals that affirm your identity, and this will launch you on your journey, well rested, relaxed, clean, and feeling reasonably confident.
Be on time. You promised to be there at a certain time. Call ahead if circumstances will keep you from showing up as arranged. The trust between the two of you is still very new and fragile, and arriving late on a first date creates uncertainty and strains that trust.
On the way there, pick or buy a small bouquet of colorful wildflowers. It will not deplete your finances much, and will show how much you cherish her company. Flowers from your hand to hers... her happy little gasp of surprise, the warm flood of her smile, her smile for you alone.
The "classic", or generic date, not to be confused with the unconventional creative / inventive date, consists of entertainment, followed by a meal, then a walk under the stars, and finally the leave taking. The entertainment usually defaults to a movie, though a live performance, a play or a concert, makes for a richer experience. There is no need to spend "big bucks" in an expensive restaurant. A simple meal in an "atmospheric" neighborhood cafe, the scarred wooden table covered by a stained, checkered cloth, with a guttering candle in an old wine bottle between the two of you as you scoop up forkfuls of pungently spiced, chewy spaghetti, occasionally catching shy glimpses of each other's eyes... all this will do just fine. Then the walk home, the time for quiet reflection and expressing feelings by glances and occasional words, this tops off a satisfying evening.
As you walk with her, by her side, matching your step to hers, in cadence, in harmony, she has the opportunity to take your hand... if she is so moved. Holding hands comes naturally, if it comes at all. Do not force unwanted attentions on her! "Making a move on her" is neither required of you, nor desirable.
She will touch you if she has been touched by your presence. If she wants to be touched, she will touch you.
Time for parting. "Goodbye. I enjoyed the evening and the pleasure of your company." You may take her hand, if she is amenable, for a goodbye hand squeeze. If she offers her cheek, you may kiss it, likewise her lips... if she offers.
Respond, rather than initiate. Physical closeness is her gift to you, given if and when the time is right, and a first date is rather soon. "It was a wonderful evening. May I see you again?" It is the end of an evening... and a beginning.
This article contributed by Leo Cooper at http://personal.riverusers.com/~thegrendel/cover.html.
Spiritual Inspiration: With Jesus, new beginnings with dating a special lady are in my future and the rest of the year will be the best of my life.
I'm a firm believer in self-talk, using affirmations. I am going to give you a list of affirmations to repeat over and over in your mind throughout the day to help you meet, date, attract, and seduce more single women.
Say these affirmations with feeling and emotion. Actually see yourself in your mind's eye doing these things. You can even say them in front of a mirror to give them more power and impact.
The purpose of all this self-talk and repetition is for these affirmations to work on your subconscious mind to make them a self-fulfilling prophesy.
Here is the list of affirmations to use (pick the ones that apply to you) to help you succeed with single women:
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
How to Improve Your Relationships Like Crazy
Whenever you are balancing the needs of more than one person it can be a challenge, this is especially true in long term relationships. The reason that a long term relationship can present additional challenges is because a lot of small things that have occurred over the years can build up and create a lot of resentment, when that happens, it doesn't take much to upset the whole balance. Use these 5 relationships tips to help get back the balance, and love, your relationship might be missing.
1. It's so easy to let everyday life to get in the way of your intimacy. It can easily seem like too much effort to dress up and go out on a date. It happens all the time. The good news is that even though this can be a common problem, it's also a fairly easy problem to overcome.
Take time for the two of you, even if that means spending some money on a babysitter. When the two of you are out together, make any conversation about finances, kids, or work completely off limits, just enjoy each others company and have some fun. It's important for the overall health of your relationship and the kids will actually benefit in the long run from having two parents who aren't overworked, overstressed and fighting all the time. Invest a few bucks in a sitter now so you don't end up splitting up later.
2. No matter who you are, you can only give your attention to so many things. Some people can divide themselves up more than others, but everyone has a limit. Instead of parceling out your time and attention to your partner, make suer that you find a way to give them your uninterrupted attention. Everyone wants to feel loved and heard, don't make your spouse feel like they're competing for your time, let them feel like they're important to you and that no matter how crazy things get you care enough about them that you will make the effort to make time for them.
3. Learn to talk, really talk. This doesn't mean nag, or whine, or complain, or insult, it means taking turns talking and listening. Give your partner a safe haven to talk about whatever is on their mind without making them feel ridiculed or like their concerns aren't really important.
4. If your partner has a criticism about some aspect of your behavior, don't just get angry. Instead try to objectively look at the situation from your partners point of view. Try to make simple changes if it will make your partner happy.
5. Don't be afraid to tell your partner what you want or need. It's not about making demands, it's about letting someone who cares about you know what they can do that will make you happy.
10 Qualities That Make Men Winners With Single Women
1. Winners play the dating game to win with women. They know there's no time to lose and take massive action to meet and attract the women they desire.
2. Winners focus on there past successes with women and forget their failures.
3. Winners focus on self-improvement when it comes to their dating and love life. They pay more attention on improving their appearance and personal habits. They know the better you look and act are going to attract a lot of women.
4. Winners have high self-esteem. They always act confident around women and I can assure you that women are very attracted to men who act confident.
5. Winners practice smiling every single day. They know what a powerful influence you can have over a woman with a warm, friendly, and sincere smile. It's true that you can literally melt a woman's heart with a warm smile.
6. Winners do not procrastinate. When they see an opportunity to meet a woman they don't stall and ponder on whether to approach her. They take action and approach her immediately!
7. Winners take 100% responsibility for what happens in their love life. They know they are responsible for what happens to them both positive and negative.
8. Winners don't dwell on their failures and rejections from single women. They learn a lesson from each experience and move on.
9. Winners have a positive mental attitude. They go on dates to have fun and don't think about what can go wrong on a date.
10. Winners always have a game plan for succeeding with women. They know what they are going to do and how to do it when it comes to scoring with single women.
There you have it. If you will make these ten qualities a part of your personality, you will succeed with women beyond your wildest dreams.
P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com
