A Few Negative Behaviors That Cause Dating Problems

If you have been reading my "Dating Tips of the Week" for the past five years, you may be wondering why do I always write about negative behaviors that turn single women off.

Well, it's for your own good. You need to know how to act around women when on a date. You need to make a good impression on her. If you have some behavior or personality traits that are offensive to her, then it can spoil your chances for future dates.

So, let's talk about some more negative behaviors you must avoid when dating single women:

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Don't act like a know-it-all on your dates and overanalyze everything. When you dissect everything that comes out of her mouth, she is going to get bored with you. And don't try to analyze every situation she brings up in her conversation. Share feedback on subjects that she brings up but don't overanalyze them.

What's bad too is when you dissect everything she says, you will tend to try to find problems with what she is talking about. You start lecturing her, giving her advice, and offering your solutions for her. You will come across as trying to control her life, her thoughts, and actions. Plus, you may come across as a parent figure and she is your child. These are all behaviors that can turn her off.

So, what I have just talked about describe you? You may act this way and not even be aware of it. You may think that your behavior is perfectly normal. Even worse, you may know you act this way and don't give a damn. You take the attitude of, "I am the way I am and if the women I date don't like it, then tough shit."

When you play the dating game to win with single women there are rules you have to abide by. When you don't, you risk scaring women away. You want to attract women and not scare the away.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

 

Spiritual Advice: Dating can be so frustrating with all the ups and downs, rejections, broken romances, heartaches, etc. You may not be happy with where you are at in your dating life, but you would not be there unless Jesus had a purpose for it. Always remember that he is in control.

A Perfect Single Woman Trap

I want to warn you about falling into the trap of forming an image in your mind of the perfect woman for you.

For example, you're only attracted to tall blondes with long hair, blue eyes, and a perfect body. Your mind and eyes are closed to all other women who don't fit your "perfect mate" image. You block them out.

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This is really sad if you adopt this philosophy of only being attracted to certain types of women. You will bypass so many opportunities to meet single women that could be just perfect for you.

First of all, it's not fair to judge a person on how they look on the outside anyway. Their inner beauty is what counts. Tell me, is it worth it having a girlfriend with looks that could kill and be a "bitch from hell" on the inside. I can't begin to tell you how many women I've dated like this.

While we are on the subject of looks, don't fall into the trap of only limiting yourself to dating only beautiful single women. Trust me, women that seem to be average-looking when first meeting them can become beautiful to you once you get to know them. What they don't have in looks they make up with their good personality, warm heart, ability to please you sexually, enthusiasm for life, affections, willingness to do anything to please you, etc.

From my experience of dating a lot of model types of women, I can tell you that a lot of them were self-centered, obsessed with their looks, used to getting their way, and spoiled rotten. Also, they were very high maintenance. They were used to dining in fancy restaurants, having men buy them expensive gifts, going on expensive trips out-of-town, etc.

In other words they had to be constantly wined and dined to make a good impression on them. So take it from me, dating an extremely beautiful single woman can turn out to not be all that great. But, you still can get lucky sometimes and meet a lovely woman who is beautiful on the outside as well as on the inside.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice About Going on First Dates with Women

The First Date

At last, you have reached the point in your blossoming relationship where you will be going out on a date. Your first date, a milestone, yet a bottomless pit of uncertainty. It's like being on a roller coaster, with the alternating surges of soaring giddiness and fright, the conflicting emotions of "can't wait" and "not yet". While overjoyed that you will be going out with *her*, there is still the gnawing anxiety that you will somehow "blow it". Not to worry. It will certainly be something of an adventure, something to reminisce and laugh about (Oh, no! Not another learning experience!,) and you would not miss it for the world.

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If possible, get plenty of sleep the night before, or at least take a short nap during the day. Shower and put on fresh clothes. Brush your teeth and shave, as necessary. Cologne and mouth wash are optional. Rely on those comforting little rituals that affirm your identity, and this will launch you on your journey, well rested, relaxed, clean, and feeling reasonably confident.

Be on time. You promised to be there at a certain time. Call ahead if circumstances will keep you from showing up as arranged. The trust between the two of you is still very new and fragile, and arriving late on a first date creates uncertainty and strains that trust.

On the way there, pick or buy a small bouquet of colorful wildflowers. It will not deplete your finances much, and will show how much you cherish her company. Flowers from your hand to hers... her happy little gasp of surprise, the warm flood of her smile, her smile for you alone.

The "classic", or generic date, not to be confused with the unconventional creative / inventive date, consists of entertainment, followed by a meal, then a walk under the stars, and finally the leave taking. The entertainment usually defaults to a movie, though a live performance, a play or a concert, makes for a richer experience. There is no need to spend "big bucks" in an expensive restaurant. A simple meal in an "atmospheric" neighborhood cafe, the scarred wooden table covered by a stained, checkered cloth, with a guttering candle in an old wine bottle between the two of you as you scoop up forkfuls of pungently spiced, chewy spaghetti, occasionally catching shy glimpses of each other's eyes... all this will do just fine. Then the walk home, the time for quiet reflection and expressing feelings by glances and occasional words, this tops off a satisfying evening.

As you walk with her, by her side, matching your step to hers, in cadence, in harmony, she has the opportunity to take your hand... if she is so moved. Holding hands comes naturally, if it comes at all. Do not force unwanted attentions on her! "Making a move on her" is neither required of you, nor desirable.

She will touch you if she has been touched by your presence. If she wants to be touched, she will touch you.

Time for parting. "Goodbye. I enjoyed the evening and the pleasure of your company." You may take her hand, if she is amenable, for a goodbye hand squeeze. If she offers her cheek, you may kiss it, likewise her lips... if she offers.

Respond, rather than initiate. Physical closeness is her gift to you, given if and when the time is right, and a first date is rather soon. "It was a wonderful evening. May I see you again?" It is the end of an evening... and a beginning.

This article contributed by Leo Cooper at http://personal.riverusers.com/~thegrendel/cover.html.

 

Spiritual Inspiration: With Jesus, new beginnings with dating a special lady are in my future and the rest of the year will be the best of my life.

 I'm a firm believer in self-talk, using affirmations. I am going to give you a list of affirmations to repeat over and over in your mind throughout the day to help you meet, date, attract, and seduce more single women.

Say these affirmations with feeling and emotion. Actually see yourself in your mind's eye doing these things. You can even say them in front of a mirror to give them more power and impact.

The purpose of all this self-talk and repetition is for these affirmations to work on your subconscious mind to make them a self-fulfilling prophesy.

Here is the list of affirmations to use (pick the ones that apply to you) to help you succeed with single women:

• "I can walk up to any woman and start talking to her."
• "I can move into action quickly and easily when I see a woman I would like to meet."
• "I realize that some women simply are not interested in men So if I get turned down by a woman, I quickly forget about it and move on to another woman."
• "When I go to a nightclub, I will now feel very relaxed and comfortable around women."
• "Each time I try to meet a woman is easier than the time before."
• "I close the door tightly on my past bad experiences with women and keep it closed."
• "Now I'm not standing around all night waiting for something to happen. Now I make something happen. I take action."
• " I realize that most women I meet are quiet anxious to have me ask them for a date. Knowing this, I am completely relaxed and self-confident whenever I ask a woman for a date."
• "If a woman rejects me, now I don't let it hurt my feelings. I get over it and move on."

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P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Improve Your Relationships Like Crazy

5 relationships Improvement Techniques

Whenever you are balancing the needs of more than one person it can be a challenge, this is especially true in long term relationships. The reason that a long term relationship can present additional challenges is because a lot of small things that have occurred over the years can build up and create a lot of resentment, when that happens, it doesn't take much to upset the whole balance. Use these 5 relationships tips to help get back the balance, and love, your relationship might be missing.

1. It's so easy to let everyday life to get in the way of your intimacy. It can easily seem like too much effort to dress up and go out on a date. It happens all the time. The good news is that even though this can be a common problem, it's also a fairly easy problem to overcome.

Take time for the two of you, even if that means spending some money on a babysitter. When the two of you are out together, make any conversation about finances, kids, or work completely off limits, just enjoy each others company and have some fun. It's important for the overall health of your relationship and the kids will actually benefit in the long run from having two parents who aren't overworked, overstressed and fighting all the time. Invest a few bucks in a sitter now so you don't end up splitting up later.

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2. No matter who you are, you can only give your attention to so many things. Some people can divide themselves up more than others, but everyone has a limit. Instead of parceling out your time and attention to your partner, make suer that you find a way to give them your uninterrupted attention. Everyone wants to feel loved and heard, don't make your spouse feel like they're competing for your time, let them feel like they're important to you and that no matter how crazy things get you care enough about them that you will make the effort to make time for them.

3. Learn to talk, really talk. This doesn't mean nag, or whine, or complain, or insult, it means taking turns talking and listening. Give your partner a safe haven to talk about whatever is on their mind without making them feel ridiculed or like their concerns aren't really important.

4. If your partner has a criticism about some aspect of your behavior, don't just get angry. Instead try to objectively look at the situation from your partners point of view. Try to make simple changes if it will make your partner happy.

5. Don't be afraid to tell your partner what you want or need. It's not about making demands, it's about letting someone who cares about you know what they can do that will make you happy.