Advice on Taking Single Women to Motels, Hotels for Romance

This week I want to give you some valuable advice about taking single women to motels/hotels.

At some point in your pursuit of romance you will have opportunities to take women on out of town trips or just to a local motel for some lovemaking.

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I want you to be aware that it's very critical to a woman what the motel looks like and more importantly what the room looks like. A lot us men could care less if a motel looks like a dive. However, it's very important to the ladies.

The most important advice I can give you is to never pay for a room without looking at it first because the room may be a real turn-off for the woman you are with and I'll tell you why:

1. It may smell musty and trust me, women have very strong sense of smell.
2. Have see-through curtains which will make her feel uncomfortable thinking that someone could see what is going on in the room.
3. A hard or lumpy mattress.
4. Stains on the carpet.
5. Walls that need painting.
6. A room that's old and outdated and needs to be remodeled.
7. Mold or leak stains on the ceiling tiles.
8. Cracks in the walls.
9. Ugly bedspreads, etc.

I'm sure you get the picture. With the reputable motel and hotel chains you usually don't run into these problems. In my experience, motels that are run by individuals and not chains can really be dumps on the inside. Also those motels that have discount coupons in travel publications can be very disappointing. They use discount coupons to lure you to their motels. In this case there's a lot of truth to old saying, "You get what you pay for."

To make the best impression on the woman you take to motels or hotels, take them to a reputable motel or hotel chain. They have a reputation to uphold and want to give you a nice room and amenities so you will come back. Go ahead and spend the extra bucks for a quality place to stay because it will be worth it.

Here's some more tips on selecting a place to impress the ladies:

1. Offers Continental Breakfast.
2. Hair dryers in the room so she can dry her hair after taking a shower.
3. Coffee maker in the room.
4. Nice swimming pool and jacuzzi.

Also, don't let them give you a room next to an elevator. People make noise when waiting for the elevator or when coming out. Also, some elevators make a beeping noise when they stop at your floor (This can awaken you when you are trying to sleep).

Even worse, don't let them give you a room next to a ice-maker. The machines can be noisy and people are always going back and forth at all hours and this can make a lot of noise that can interfere with you getting a good night's sleep.

There you have it. Some rules to follow when selecting a motel or hotel to impress the lady you are with. You certainly want them to be happy with your selection to keep them in a romantic mood. If they are disgusted and turned off by their environment this can make her uncomfortable and spoil your chances for romance.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice to Make Your Restroom Ready for Single Women

This tip is very important. Make sure that you're bathroom is immaculate. Single women will judge you on how your bathroom looks. If your bathroom looks like a gas station public restroom with piss splattered on the floor or toilet seat, rings around the commode, pubic hair stuck to the seat, pungent smell, you're in big trouble. Women are turned off by a dirty toilet and this will make a bad impression on her. It could even cause her not to want to date you.

Here's some tips on bathroom decorating that will really make a good impression on her. Always have good brands on display of colognes, salon purchased shampoo, Clinique men's products, hair sprays, etc. Single women really relate to this stuff. Also, keep on hand big fluffy terry-towels, two robes, extra new toothbrush (still in the package), etc.

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A final word on your bathtub and shower. Make damn sure they are spotless. Women will check it out while they're using your restroom to see if you have clean habits. Rings around the tub, algae on the sides of the shower, dirty shower curtain, pubic hairs, are going to turn her off and make you look like a slob.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice About Cell Phones, Littering, Smoking on Dates

This week I want to focus on three things you must never do while on a date, especially first dates. These topics are:

• Littering
• Cigarette Throwing
• Cell Phones

Let me explain how these things can turn your date off and make a bad impression on her:

Littering - I'm sure you have seen litter on the roads, highways, parking lots, etc. How did it get there? Mostly from litter bugs.

Are you a litter bug? This is one bad habit you're going to have to break if you want to succeed with single women. If you really want to turn off women while on a date, just throw your trash, cups, fast food wrapping, soda and beer cans, beer bottles, etc. while you are driving.

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She may be so repulsed that she may not want to see you any more. So, guys be sure and dispose of your trash in a trash can. Don't throw it out the window while you are driving while on a date. Even better, carry a litter bag in your car

Cigarette Throwing - Do you smoke? If you do, unfortunately some single women don't like to date smokers or even be around people who do. But, if she doesn't mind if you smoke or if she smokes too, then you must follow a couple of rules on what not to do with your cigarette after you are through smoking it:

When on a date when you are in any type of vehicle, don't flick your lighted cigarette out the window into the street, sidewalk, grass, etc. This is very rude and makes a bad impression and labels you a guy with no class. Besides, it's dangerous and you could catch something on fire. Also, while on a date don't stomp your cigarette out on streets, sidewalks, floors, etc. This is considered bad manners in front of a lady.

Cell Phones - I've covered this topic before, but I want to remind you to never take your cell phone on a date. This is considered bad manners and women don't like it, especially if you have to answer calls while on your date. And, it would be very rude to make phone calls also. Even worse, don't wear a cell phone on your belt. This is not the proper thing to wear while on a date with single women.

Advice on Responding to Voice Mail Personals of Single Women

I'm sure you have seen singles magazines featuring personal ads of single women looking for romance. In the old days you responded to these ads by writing a letter. Now they have switched over to using a fee-based voice mail system for people to make contact. You respond to a woman's ad by calling her voice mail and leaving a message.

When you find an ad that captures your attention you really need to plan in advance what your script is going to be when you leave a message. It's very critical that you make a favorable impression when you leave a message. You will be judged on first impressions and what you say and how you say it can make or break you.

I have made a list of steps to take to make a good impression when calling her voice mail:

1. Read all the personal ads of single women in the magazine very carefully. Circle the ones that capture your attention.
2. Before you call her voice mail make some notes about what you are going to say. I highly recommend that you don't read your script over the phone. It just won't sound natural and will not sound sincere.
3. Be sure and speak very clearly, don't stutter, and do not end each sentence with "ah" or "um."
4. Do not speak with a boring and monotone voice. Make your voice sound lively and energetic.
5. Start off your message by telling her why her ad attracted your attention.
6. Then describe yourself honestly (be sure and don't lie): your age, height and physical characteristics, your educational background, occupation, and personality traits.
7. Next, talk about the things that you like to do, your interests, hobbies, etc.
8. Now, express the type of woman you are looking for and don't be afraid to mention that you are looking for a serious relationship.
9. Leave her your phone number and be sure to say it clearly and slowly so she won't write down the wrong number.
10. End your message with, "I look forward to talking to you soon. I'd love to hear from you so we can get to know each other better."

There you have it. This advice will help you plan in advance so you can make a good impression on her. Good luck and I hope you get lots of calls back from the single ladies who placed their personal ad.

Art of Attracting Single Women Using Sympathy

Let's just say you're on a date and she starts discussing a problem that's really bothering her. It's really bothering her emotionally and she shares her problem with you. So what do you do? What do you say to help her?

Most men make the mistake of immediately offering solutions. This is exactly what you must avoid doing and I'll explain why:

By sharing her problem with you she is not really looking for solutions. She's really quite capable of figuring out what to do on her own. What she really wants is for you to hear her out, understand her feelings, and lend a sympathetic ear.

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You will make quite an impression on her by just listening to her, let her vent out all of her feelings, and expressing sympathy toward her problem.

The best response you can say is, "I feel your pain" or "I understand how you feel." By being a good listener and understanding her feelings this will make her feel closer to you and make a lasting impression on her.

Sometimes you just have to abandon you "macho" image and think like a woman. Women want you to be supportive and understand their feelings in regards to problems that they are having. Men just want to find the perfect solution to problems.

So, in closing guys, if a woman brings up problems she's having, don't offer solutions unless she asks for them. Just offer sympathetic understanding and you'll make a lot of bonus points with her. And guess what happens when you make a lot of bonus points? You score!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Answers to How Often to Date Single Women

Seeing a single woman that you have just started dating more than once a week is pushing it a little too far, too soon. Seeing her more than once a week makes you appear to be over anxious and you certainly don't want to project this image. There are no exceptions to this rule even if she is the one calling on you to see you more often. Stick to your guns and just see her once a week in the beginning.

By her calling on you, this puts you in the driver's seat and you should milk it for all it's worth. Play hard to get with her and make her work at it for your time. She will appreciate you more when she does have time with you. Her anticipation to be with you will work in your favor.

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Don't go on a guilt trip about having to turn her down for a get-together. Simply say, "I'd love to but I'm busy tonight." Don't give her any further explanations. Let her sweat it out. However, you need to turn her down in the proper manner by expressing that you want to see her and do things with her, but you are just too busy with prior commitments to see her that night.

10 Questions You Must Never Ask on First Dates

There are certain questions that you just can't ask when on a first date. Some are just too personal and too sexual and they are just about guaranteed to turn your date off and some single women will be so offended that they will not want to go on a second date with you.

I know it doesn't seem fair, but a lot of women will judge you by what you say on your first date. First impressions are very critical and you can really blow it by asking the wrong questions. Listed here are questions that are sensitive to single women and will get you into trouble by asking them:

1. What is the weirdest place you have ever had sex?
2. Are you a virgin?
3. How much money do you make? (This is really none of your business until you get to know each other better).
4. Do you have any children? (She may think that you are trying to eliminate her from seeing you again because you don't date women with children).
5. How many sex partners have you had?
6. How long has it been since you had sex?
7. At the end of the date you ask: Do you mind if I spend the night? (This will give her the impression that you just want to use her for sex).
8. Do you do drugs?
9. Have you ever had a one-night stand?
10. How much do you weigh? (You must never ask this because single women are very sensitive about their weight).