Using Opening Lines that Work on Women

A very common one-liner to start a conversation with a woman in a bar or a dancing is: "Don't I know you from somewhere? You seem familiar...". But it is one VERY BAD one-liner. Because a woman obviously doesn't want to look "familiar". She wants to look "special". And because this one-liner is so old and not in the least original. And what to do if she says NO? Then you are left with the suggestion that, even IF you two had ever met, you are obviously not a man for her to remember. Not a good thing for your confidence...

A much better variant to this one-liner would be: "I don't think I've ever seen you. Because I would surely remember a nice looking woman like you". In this case you stay in charge. You started a conversation and made her a compliment in one single move. That shows balls. And you're not dependent of her answer.

Most of the women will say: "thank you". Then you can immediately offer her a drink. NEVER EVER say: "You're welcome". Because that shows that you where merely making her a compliment and that you don't mean it.

Some women will turn themselves away from you, or hide their face, or start laughing. That's really scary at first. You get the impression that you made a fool of yourself. But NO man is EVER a fool to a decent woman if he made her a nice compliment. In most cases it just means that she is shy and not used to getting compliments. Just apologize with a friendly voice for making her feel uncomfortable. Give her a few seconds time and she will come back to you. Then offer her a drink. DON'T put your hand on her back or her shoulder to comfort her. It will make things worse!

If she shows no sign at all of coming back to you, just leave her alone without saying a word. And don't start thinking that everyone around has been watching you while you were turned down. If it's crowded, no one has seen a damn thing! Don't leave the bar feeling ashamed. Have a drink and try another woman. Convince yourself as soon as possible that not every woman reacts the way she did.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on How to Overcome Low Self-Esteem

Does this describe you?

1. You don't feel you're capable of love because you don't believe that you're good-looking enough, intelligent enough, successful enough, or interesting enough to meet or attract any single women.

2. If a woman shows interest in you, you believe yourself to be not worthy of her attention.

These characteristics are classic examples of low self-esteem. And low self-esteem can be a major roadblock to finding and experiencing romance.

In his book The Psychology of Love, the psychotherapist Nathaniel Branden makes an excellent point about low self-esteem: "It has been something of a cliche to observe that, if we do not love ourselves, we cannot love anyone else. This is true enough, but it is only part of the picture. If we do not love ourselves, it is almost impossible to believe fully that we are loved by someone else. It is almost impossible to receive love. No matter what our partner does to show that he or she cares, we do not experience the devotion as convincing because we do not feel lovable to ourselves."

So, to overcome your low self-esteem, you've got to learn to love yourself. It won't be easy in the beginning, but with a lot of practice and emotional support from friends, relatives, etc. you will gain self-confidence with single women and experience love and romance.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Whiners and Complainers Can Scare Women Away From You

Let's talk about one of the easiest ways to scare single women off and make them avoid you...

All you have to do is constantly whine, bitch, and complain about everything and anything. You feel like nobody pays enough attention to you, cares about you enough, and life is not fair to you.

You constantly over-analyze everything and try to find something wrong with everything. You look at everything from a negative point of viewpoint.

I can guarantee you that if you act this way, you will be a failure with women. Women will soon tire of this behavior and will be saying under their breath, "Why doesn't he just shut up and deal with it!"

To sum it up, nobody likes a chronic complainer. If you don't have anything good to say, to just shut up would be a good rule to follow. Think positive and be positive. See the good in every situation and person in your life.

And remember, women admire a guy who acts confident, positive, and has a healthy outlook on life.

If you're a negative person and a constant whiner and complainer, resolve here and now, from this point on, you will develop a better outlook on life and when you do, you will attract and date a lot more women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice for Men on Dating Single Women

Let's discuss how overdoing it, when it comes to playing hard to get around women, can backfire.

I'm a firm believer in playing hard to get, making yourself a catch, and being elusive. This is important to do, but you can carry it too far. If you overdo it, a girl may start to decide that you are not interested in women in general or her specifically, or that you are asexual, or that you are uninteresting.

Playing hard to get is more an art than a science. You can't define exactly how to play each situation, but rather, have to take all the factors into consideration and play it the way you feel is best. You must make sure that you come off as being interested, but not over anxious; highly sexual, but still deciding; very open and approachable, but tough to nail down. Make sure that you don't come off as being a tease.

The main thing is that girls enjoy men that they have to chase and seduce, and are suspicious of men who are over anxious. Make it tough for her, but not impossible. Be elusive, but don't make her suspect you are gay.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

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How to Find Women for Lots of Love and Romance

This week let's talk about finding the right woman for you.

Do you have a strategy for finding the right woman for you? Or, are you just settling for any woman that comes along?

There's a lot of competition out there for what I call, "The Cream of the Crop" women. These are women who have it all: Good looks, brains, romantic, affectionate, good-hearted, good communicator, ambitious, caring, etc.

The woman I just described, you'd probably die for. Can you find her? Yes, you can. Will it be easy? No, it won't but it will be worth the effort when you do.

And to find this woman of your dreams, you need to have a plan. Don't chance it to fate. The winners in the game of love and romance know the rules of the game and have a plan.

Do you have a plan? Are you just sitting around complaining about how you don't have someone special in your life? Well, it's time to get off your dead ass and do something about it!

And, if you don't have a plan, just read my free dating tips.

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Then, if after reading the tips and using our products on succeeding with women, you can't come up with a plan to have a permanent relationship with that hot & sexy beautiful woman you've been dreaming about, then my friend, you are brain dead and beyond all hope.

And in that search for the right woman, be picky and don't just settle for the first woman who comes along (this is especially tempting when you're lonely and horny). It's not fair to you or her. Find someone who can meet your needs and you are truly compatible with mentally, physically, and spiritually.

In closing, when it comes to women, don't settle for second best, go for the best!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Tips on How to be a Winner with Single Women

Let's talk about winners and losers in the game of love and succeeding with women.

Do you know what the difference is between the guys who are winners and losers? The guys who are winners with women do the things losers don't want to do to take action to meet, attract, and seduce women.

Guys who succeed with women don't just think about it, they take action to meet and attract women. They do what it takes! When they see a woman they are attracted to, they pull the trigger. They don't procrastinate, stall, ponder, or make excuses; they approach her right then and there. They don't put it off.

Always remember that to have that woman you want, you have to do whatever it takes. Also, nothing in your love and sex life will change until you begin to do something about it.

The bottom line is that if you do nothing to meet women, you're going to be a very lonely and frustrated man. That woman of your dreams is not going to just drop out of the sky. You've got to pursue her!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com