Myths About Relationships

This week I want to focus on the myth of someone fulfilling 100% of your needs:

Are you aware that you're hurting your chances for finding true love if you're searching for a woman who can give you everything you need and you can be everything to her? You're looking at the world through rose-colored glasses if you believe that this is true.

Trust me, nobody will get 100% of all his or her needs fulfilled from one person. Consider yourself lucky if you're getting 50% of all needs met by one person.

And don't make the mistake of making your whole world revolve around being with one person. Be involved in a variety of activities apart from your relationship and don't give up your friends just because you're heavily involved in a hot romance.

We all need friends to make our life more fulfilling and happy. When committed to a relationship full-time you'll have less time to spend with your friends, but don't forget them and keep in touch. Your true friends will be able to understand that you don't have as much time to spend with them.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A few Prayers to Get Women

Did you know you could use the power of prayer to get a girlfriend or wife?

If you pray to God for someone to come into your life, he can make her appear. And this woman can be so special; it will seem like she was sent directly from heaven.

Will she appear in your life real soon after saying several prayers? Not necessarily. God has his own timetable. It could the next day, the next week, or even the next year.

Just be patient and believe that God will answer your prayers for someone special to come into your life. You must keep the faith and never give up hope!

The following scriptures from the Bible prove that the power of prayer works:

Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened. - Matthew 7:7-8

Again I say to you that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in heaven. - Matthew 18:19 (I would highly suggest praying for someone special to come into your life with a friend, relative, co-worker, pastor, friend from church, etc.).

In closing, my friend, try the power of prayer. It works!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Warning Signs of Untrustworthy Women

Let's talk about trust in a relationship. Mutual trust is very crucial in establishing a successful relationship.

If you get involved with a woman you can't trust, this can cause some serious problems in your relationship.

So, what are some of the warning signs that the woman you're dating may not be trustworthy? Here's a list of the major ones:

1. She's always late for dates and offers no apology or explanation. Or even worse, she makes up lousy excuses.
2. She's dishonest with you and you catch her telling you lies.
3. You keep asking her for her phone number at home and she refuses to give it to you. You would think that after a few dates, any normal woman that was sincerely interested in you wouldn't mind you calling her at home.
4. She won't look you straight in the eye when she talks to you.
5. Whenever you try to make plans with her to meet your family or get together with your friends, she makes up excuses to avoid meeting them. Also, she never brings up the subject of meeting her family or friends.
6. After you've been dating awhile she's hardly ever available. Most of the time you can't get in touch with her and she offers no explanation.
7. She constantly gossips about other people. Trust me on this one, if you tell her your deepest secrets, she's going to tell everyone she knows.
8. She's a very selfish person.

So, what do you do if you're dating someone with all or most of these warning signs? I don't know about you, but I don't care to date a woman I can't trust. It makes me lose respect for her.

I'm not advising you to dump every woman who is untrustworthy. I'm just offering you some warning signs so you can make good judgements for avoiding relationships with potential problems that will cause you unhappiness.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

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P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Using Opening Lines that Work on Women

A very common one-liner to start a conversation with a woman in a bar or a dancing is: "Don't I know you from somewhere? You seem familiar...". But it is one VERY BAD one-liner. Because a woman obviously doesn't want to look "familiar". She wants to look "special". And because this one-liner is so old and not in the least original. And what to do if she says NO? Then you are left with the suggestion that, even IF you two had ever met, you are obviously not a man for her to remember. Not a good thing for your confidence...

A much better variant to this one-liner would be: "I don't think I've ever seen you. Because I would surely remember a nice looking woman like you". In this case you stay in charge. You started a conversation and made her a compliment in one single move. That shows balls. And you're not dependent of her answer.

Most of the women will say: "thank you". Then you can immediately offer her a drink. NEVER EVER say: "You're welcome". Because that shows that you where merely making her a compliment and that you don't mean it.

Some women will turn themselves away from you, or hide their face, or start laughing. That's really scary at first. You get the impression that you made a fool of yourself. But NO man is EVER a fool to a decent woman if he made her a nice compliment. In most cases it just means that she is shy and not used to getting compliments. Just apologize with a friendly voice for making her feel uncomfortable. Give her a few seconds time and she will come back to you. Then offer her a drink. DON'T put your hand on her back or her shoulder to comfort her. It will make things worse!

If she shows no sign at all of coming back to you, just leave her alone without saying a word. And don't start thinking that everyone around has been watching you while you were turned down. If it's crowded, no one has seen a damn thing! Don't leave the bar feeling ashamed. Have a drink and try another woman. Convince yourself as soon as possible that not every woman reacts the way she did.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on How to Overcome Low Self-Esteem

Does this describe you?

1. You don't feel you're capable of love because you don't believe that you're good-looking enough, intelligent enough, successful enough, or interesting enough to meet or attract any single women.

2. If a woman shows interest in you, you believe yourself to be not worthy of her attention.

These characteristics are classic examples of low self-esteem. And low self-esteem can be a major roadblock to finding and experiencing romance.

In his book The Psychology of Love, the psychotherapist Nathaniel Branden makes an excellent point about low self-esteem: "It has been something of a cliche to observe that, if we do not love ourselves, we cannot love anyone else. This is true enough, but it is only part of the picture. If we do not love ourselves, it is almost impossible to believe fully that we are loved by someone else. It is almost impossible to receive love. No matter what our partner does to show that he or she cares, we do not experience the devotion as convincing because we do not feel lovable to ourselves."

So, to overcome your low self-esteem, you've got to learn to love yourself. It won't be easy in the beginning, but with a lot of practice and emotional support from friends, relatives, etc. you will gain self-confidence with single women and experience love and romance.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Whiners and Complainers Can Scare Women Away From You

Let's talk about one of the easiest ways to scare single women off and make them avoid you...

All you have to do is constantly whine, bitch, and complain about everything and anything. You feel like nobody pays enough attention to you, cares about you enough, and life is not fair to you.

You constantly over-analyze everything and try to find something wrong with everything. You look at everything from a negative point of viewpoint.

I can guarantee you that if you act this way, you will be a failure with women. Women will soon tire of this behavior and will be saying under their breath, "Why doesn't he just shut up and deal with it!"

To sum it up, nobody likes a chronic complainer. If you don't have anything good to say, to just shut up would be a good rule to follow. Think positive and be positive. See the good in every situation and person in your life.

And remember, women admire a guy who acts confident, positive, and has a healthy outlook on life.

If you're a negative person and a constant whiner and complainer, resolve here and now, from this point on, you will develop a better outlook on life and when you do, you will attract and date a lot more women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com