Advice for Men on Pursuing Single Women

What is it? It's called the, "I Love You Too Soon Method."

Let me explain how this failure with women tactic will drive women away from you. In the beginning you start calling them names like, sweetheart, darling, or honey. (Don't call any woman these names in the beginning of dating someone - they are reserved for when you have established a relationship. Women don't like to be called these names by someone they don't know yet).

Then after only 2-3 dates you tell the girl that you love her. Trust me guys, love takes time to develop. It just doesn't happen after only 2-3 dates. What you've really fallen in is lust, especially if she is pretty and or has a beautiful body.

Also, women are more cautious in affairs of the heart. They want to take time to get to know you before committing to an exclusive relationship. So, when you profess your love for them so prematurely, they just want to run. They feel like you are putting too much pressure on them so early in the relationship. Coming on too strong early in a relationship is too overwhelming for her and she is going to want to dump you.

Some good advice is to take things slow and let love develop on it's own pace and time table. Don't rush her or it will backfire by scaring her away.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Attitudes That Prevent You From Meeting Single Women

This week I would like to focus on bad attitudes when going to bars and nightclubs to pick up single women. I know there are a lot of guys out there that hate going to bars and nightclubs. I leave home with a bad attitude and when they get to the bar or nightclub they stand around all night with a glum look on their face. They keep saying to themselves, "I hate this place and I wish I didn't have to be here, but this is the only place I can meet some women."

I will admit myself that bars and nightclubs are not the best places to go to find the woman of your dreams. But, you never know you just might get lucky and meet someone special. Don't give up hope and give yourself a chance.

Anyway, let's get right to the point of this article. It's very important that when you are at a bar or nightclub, to look like you are having a good time. If you look lonely, desperate, and depressed, women will pick up on this. It's like they have a sixth sense about picking up negative vibes.

So, wear a smile on your face and act happy, even if you have to fake it. And if you are standing near the dance floor, act like you are really getting into the music and ready to dance. Women pick up on this and may actually ask you to dance. It's happen to me many times.

And here's another tip that will really help you to attract single women. If you are going to a bar or nightclub with a buddy, be sure and go with a guy that's a lot of fun to be with. Don't go with guys who have negative attitudes and always bitching and complaining about how women are such bitches, there's no women to meet, bars and nightclubs suck, and they stand around all night and take no action to meet women. Plus, they are boring, don't laugh, and act like they are at a funeral.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Single Women that Use You for Free Drinks

This week I want to warn you guys about a certain type of single woman you may meet in bars and nightclubs. I call them, "Drinkaholic Women."

This is a single woman who uses men to support a drinking habit. She may even come right out and ask you, "Would you buy me a drink?" upon meeting you. Most guys won't say no, especially if she is attractive. After she finishes her drink she will say, "Can I have another drink?" One drink leads to another and before you know it, you have dished out a lot of money on buying her drinks.

This all can sure be to your advantage or disadvantage. On the positive side, she may go home with you in exchange for buying her drinks. She may even get so drunk it may be necessary to take her home and put her to bed. Of course, on the negative side, she may just use you to buy her drinks and then blow you off and leave the nightclub or even move on to the next fool who will buy her drinks.

In conclusion guys, use your better judgement before you start dishing out a lot of money on buying a woman drinks. You could be taken for a ride. Fortunately, you won't run into the "Drinkaholic Woman" very often.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Great System to Use for Meeting Women

Here's a system you can use to successfully meet tons of single women. I call it the "Dare System." It works really great using it with you buddies. Here's how it works:

When you are out with your male friends, what you do is dare each other to approach a hot & sexy babe. For instance, let's just say that you are with your friends at a bar or nightclub. There's this really gorgeous girl across the way and you and your friends are a little shy about approaching women. What you do is pick out a member of your group and say, "Don, I bet you don't have the balls to go over to that knockout sexy blonde over there and meet her and get a date with her. I dare you to do it!

This will put Don on the spot and he will not want to feel like a wimp. This will motivate him to take action. And what's great about this system is that you can take turns in your group daring each other.

I like this system because it is such a good motivational tool to get a guy off his ass to take action to meet and approach women.

So, what I want you to do now is get together with your male friends and tell them about this surefire system to meet new women and put it into action. You'll be glad you did and you will thank old Don for turning you on to this new way of meeting and succeeding with single women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Plan to Succeed with Single Women

Well, here it is another year has gone by and my birthday is coming up next month. Looking back on my life, I just can't believe all the years that have gone by. And it's been such a good life. I have done so much in my life and been all over the world and most of the States. Enough about me, let's talk about succeeding with women.

To succeed with single women you must have a plan. You just can't leave things to chance and hope some gorgeous babe is going to drop out of the sky and jump your bones. You've got to come up with strategies to meet and approach single women. You can try all kinds of plans. Dating services, meeting women through friends or at work, personal ads, going to nightclubs, concerts, volunteer work, church, chat rooms, etc. just to mention a few plans for meeting new women.

Find the plan that works for you. If your first plan fails, try another plan. If that plan fails, try another and so on and so on. Keep trying until you find a plan that works.

Right here is where a lot of guys fail to succeed with women - because of their lack of persistence in creating new plans in the place of those that fail. Some guys just give up and say to themselves, "What's the use, I'm just a total failure when it comes to meeting women."

There's nothing wrong with temporary failure in meeting the women you desire. This is just a learning lesson in teaching you that what you're doing is not working.

And you must never get down on yourself when things are not working out in your dating life. No guy is ever defeated in the dating game unless he quits in his own mind. Never, never give up in your pursuit of love and romance with all those hot & sexy honeys that you desire!

We all go through a lot of trials and tribulations before we find someone special to love. Love doesn't come easy and sometimes it doesn't come at all, as the old saying goes. We must be patient and turn our defeats into victories in the game of love.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Solution to Overcoming Worry

Let's focus this week on something we all fall victim to at some point in our love life or pursuit of single women. What is it? Worry.

This is probably the most useless activity to occupy your mind with. I liked the way humorist Will Rogers described worry as, "Worry is like a rocking chair. It keeps you busy, but it doesn't get you anywhere." How very true this statement is.

Will worry help you to solve your problems in getting a woman? No it won't solve a damn thing. It will only place additional pressure on yourself. Worrying over things will just create a vicious cycle of creating more worry. Before you know it, you will get yourself into a rut.

The best way to worry is to do it constructively with a positive approach. Think of potential problems in meeting, dating, and attracting single women advance and develop solutions to them. Develop an action plan for each problem that may develop.

When you've mapped out strategies and plans in advance of every possible problem, then you don't have to waste your time with useless worrying. You'll know exactly what to do.

In closing, keep in mind that your mind can be your worst enemy at times. You can exaggerate things that you think that you should be worrying about. You can actually trick your mind into thinking things are much worse than they really are. Your perception of reality can be distorted by your own mind, which can cause needless worry.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Solution to How to Have More Energy

Has this ever happened to you? You've got an important date with this hot & sexy girl you've been dying to go out with. You want to make a good impression on her and win her heart. You want to look and act your best.

The day of the date finally comes, but you've got a problem. You feel like crap! You've had a hard week at work and you haven't been getting enough sleep. You feel tired and have no energy. You're not in the mood to go out on a date much less trying your best to make a good impression on her.

What can you do? Should you cancel the date you've been looking so forward to?

The answer is no...no...no! There's no need to do that and I'll tell you why.

There's a high-energy drink on the market called, "Choline Cocktail" made my TwinLabs that is available from GNC Health Food stores. It's a powder you simply mix with water or fruit juice. All you have to do is drink it just before going out on your date and I'll guarantee you that you'll have more energy than you know what to do with and you'll be in such a good mood that you'll swear that you're high on drugs.

What's great about this stuff is that it's legal and 100% natural with no side effects.

So, the next time you're feeling tired and exhausted before going out on a date, take a Choline Cocktail. You'll be feeling at your best and this will help you to seduce more women.

Try it guys. I use this stuff myself whenever I need a super-charged boost of energy.

In closing, keep in mind if you go on a date feeling tired and exhausted, the woman you're with is going to pick up on this. You may even come across as boring to her because you're tired and don't have much to say because of your mood. If you're feeling like a zombie, it can interfere with you making a good impression on her. And in the dating game you must make a good impression on women.

P.S. I have no affiliation whatsoever with the company that makes Choline Cocktail. I just wanted to share this information with you to help you do better with women and that's what this newsletter is all about.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com