How Watching Sports can Ruin Your Dating Life

This week I want to talk about guys who are "Sports Potatoes." I know you're thinking, "What in the hell is a Sports Potato?"

Let me explain. I'm sure that you have heard of a "Couch Potato," which is a person that spends most of his time sitting on the couch watching TV. Well, a "Sports Potato" is a guy who spends all of his time watching sports on TV. He literally spends his whole weekend watching sports on TV.

So what does this have to do with succeeding with women? A whole lot and I'll explain why:

Let's face it guys, most single women are not obsessed with sports and they don't spend their weekends on the couch watching sports on TV.

When you first start dating she might not mind or rather I should say, put up with you wanting to spend all your time watching sports. But, eventually and sooner than you think, she's going to get pissed at you wanting to spend all your time watching sports instead of spending quality time with her.

This conflict of interest could even cause her to dump you and find someone else who can fulfill her needs that you are neglecting.

So, what's the solution if you refuse to change your habits? Try to find a woman who is just as obsessed with sports as you are? (Good luck on this one).

Or, the smart thing to do is to cut back on watching sports and spend more time taking her places and spending quality time with her. I'm not suggesting that you give up your interest in sports. Just balance your time to include her. That's all.

There's another drawback for men when they are watching sports on TV that turns women off. Men don't want to be bothered when they are watching sports and if a woman tries to talk to them, they don't listen very well or not at all. And this upsets women when you ignore them and don't listen to them.

What would be ideal is to be dating a woman who is understanding and accepts the fact that some men are obsessed with sports. After all it's no different in women being obsessed with watching soap operas. If you try to talk to them while they are trying to watch their soap opera, they won't be listening to you while you're trying to talk to them and they really don't want to be bothered.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Technique to Turn Single Women Off

This week let's talk about what I call the "smothering technique" to turn women off and drive them away from you.

This is how I describe this technique: After first meeting a girl, you call her all the time, sometimes twice or more a day at her work and at home. And when you can't reach her, you get all upset.

You keep thinking to yourself, where in the hell is she? Is she seeing someone else, is she trying to avoid me, has she lost interest in me, etc. You just keep worrying and worrying. When you do get in touch with her you ask her, "Where have you been, I've been trying to get in touch with you!"

And you keep repeating this pattern of calling her all the time to where it reaches the point where you become a pest. She is totally turned off and needs her space and all you are doing is driving her further away from you.

Please, guys don't do this! It's only going to backfire when you try to smother her. How often should you call? Just call her every other day will be just fine and don't linger on the phone for hours as if you had nothing better to do with your life and your whole world revolves around her. Just keep it brief and say what you have to say.

By not calling so often this will make her think about you. She will be wondering what you're doing and she might even wonder why you haven't called and that's good because it gets her to thinking about you.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Advice on How Not to Talk to Single Women

This week I would like to focus on a couple of deadly conversation sins that will cause you to strike out with women. You must never commit these deadly sins:

SIN #1 - Bragging about yourself and your accomplishments. There's no faster way of driving single women away from you than by constantly talking about yourself and your own great accomplishments.

Forget about yourself. The whole art of conversation with a woman is to become interested in her rather than trying to get her interested in you. Remember that most people are interested in themselves morning, noon, and night. Never forget this fact. After all, why should a woman be interested in you unless you are interested in her first? Just put your ego aside and concentrate solely on her and her interests.

SIN #2 - Talking too vulgar and crudely. In the beginning, when you meet a woman and you start talking sexual and making vulgar remarks, you are going to turn her off and you will get nowhere with her.

Don't tell her things like, "You sure have a great set of tits." or "I'd love to lick your pussy." This is showing her lack of respect and she won't appreciate it. They want to be treated like a lady and not some whore.

Another mistake is propositioning her for sex in a crude manner with statements like, "Let's go f--k," or "I sure would like to f--k you." Treat her like a lady and don't act like a horny dog with uncontrollable hormones. You'll make a lot better impression on her by keeping cool and calm and non-sexual and non-threatening. You will stand out favorably from the other guys she's used to being around that act like animals.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Great Date Idea Involving Golf

Do any of you guys play golf? If you, do have you ever considered taking a date to a golf driving range to hit a few balls?

Most single women don't play golf, but most would be willing to give it a try with a little coaxing.

The reason I'm writing about a golf date has a special meaning and advantage for you. Being that most likely your date does not know how to play golf, you will be able to be her teacher!

What's great about this is that there will be a lot of physical contact while teaching her to hit the ball. You will have your arms around her from behind showing her how to grip and swing the club. This can be a very erotic experience for you if you know what I mean! I don't know about you, but I just love the feeling of my crotch up against a woman's butt, even with clothes on.

If you don't have your own set of golf clubs, that's no problem. A lot of driving ranges and golf courses with driving ranges has clubs available for rent.

So in closing guys, consider going on a date to the driving range. It's a lot of fun!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

The Power of Positive Thinking to Get Single Women

Why do some men succeed with single women while others fail time and time again? You should know the answer by now. What's the major difference between the man with all the beautiful girls and the guy with none? What's the difference? The way the man thinks! That's the difference.

Start Thinking Right and You'll Succeed with Women Beyond Your Wildest Dreams

The man who is successful with women thinks in terms of 100% success at all times. While the guy who fails with women thinks in terms of failure most of the time.

Perhaps, in your case, you've been having a hard time meeting, dating or seducing girls (or all three) because you subconsciously expect to have a hard time! When you try to meet a girl, you fail. Why? Because you subconsciously expect to fail. When you ask a girl for a date, you get turned down. Why? Because you subconsciously expect to get turned down. And it's the same story all the way into the bedroom.

Women easily sense this lack of confidence in you and react accordingly. Actually, you are beaten before you even start!

So, guys it's time to change your attitude. Think positive and expect to succeed with every woman you meet or approach. It will make a world of difference in your love life.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Action Strategies for Meeting Single Women

This week I want to focus on opportunities to meet new single women. If you will just open your eyes, you will see numerous opportunities to pursue women. Here are a few tips to help you take advantage of those precious opportunities: 1. Will every opportunity to meet single women be successful? No, but when you develop the attitude of refusing to allow temporary setbacks to defeat you, you have what it takes to successfully meet and attract women. Persistence always prevails in the end when it comes to scoring with women. 2. Never, never wait for something to happen to help you meet women - You make it happen! You take action! Always be prepared to take action when you see an opportunity to meet girls. You will be amazed at how your luck will change when you have this mindset. 3. Success with women always involves risks. You must take that chance in approaching women. Doesn't let shyness or fear of rejection holds you back. Go for it! You can do it! You must actively seek opportunities to make a love connection! 4. This last tip is the most important one of all: You've got to be prepared to act as soon as you recognize opportunities to meet single women. Don't put it off. Approach all those hot and sexy honeys as soon as the opportunity presents itself. In closing, I know this has probably happened to you. You see this gorgeous babe you'd love to get to know better, but you can't get up your nerve to approach her. Then she disappears and you could kick yourself in the ass for not having the balls to approach her. Well, don't let this happen again. Make a personal commitment that from now on when you see a woman that you'd love to meet, you will take action and meet her. No more procrastination! P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com Share2 Gemini Publishing Co., PO Box 57931, Webster, TX 77598Phone: (281) 741-4424...Fax (281) 316-1024...Email: Click Here Copyright © 2004 by Gemini Publishing Company

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Advice for Men on Pursuing Single Women

What is it? It's called the, "I Love You Too Soon Method."

Let me explain how this failure with women tactic will drive women away from you. In the beginning you start calling them names like, sweetheart, darling, or honey. (Don't call any woman these names in the beginning of dating someone - they are reserved for when you have established a relationship. Women don't like to be called these names by someone they don't know yet).

Then after only 2-3 dates you tell the girl that you love her. Trust me guys, love takes time to develop. It just doesn't happen after only 2-3 dates. What you've really fallen in is lust, especially if she is pretty and or has a beautiful body.

Also, women are more cautious in affairs of the heart. They want to take time to get to know you before committing to an exclusive relationship. So, when you profess your love for them so prematurely, they just want to run. They feel like you are putting too much pressure on them so early in the relationship. Coming on too strong early in a relationship is too overwhelming for her and she is going to want to dump you.

Some good advice is to take things slow and let love develop on it's own pace and time table. Don't rush her or it will backfire by scaring her away.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com