Answers to Why Your Dating Life Sucks

Sometimes your dating life will get tough and you will find yourself constantly failing to succeed with single women. It seems like everything that you do turns to crap.

When this happens, you need to look inward and do a self-analysis of what's going on in your life and why you keep striking out with single women. You need to ask yourself some hard questions as to why your personality and behavior is turning women off. After all you are accountable as to what is happening or not happening in your love or sex life.

Don't fall into the trap of denying or placing blame on others as to why your dating life is in the doldrums. Don't keep saying to yourself, "This shouldn't be happening to me. I'm such a great guy and women should be falling all over me."

Accept the fact that it is happening and map out a strategy to correct it. Deal with it!

Chances are, it's your negative behavior that is turning women off. You're doing something to scare them away. I'm sure if you will do a self-analysis and take a long hard look at yourself, you will discover these negative personality and behavior traits that are turning women off. Once you discover what these are, you can take steps to eliminate them from your life. Replace them with positive traits that attract single women and you will be succeeding with women beyond your wildest dreams.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Method to Meet Single Using a Friend

Are you a bit shy when it comes to approaching single women? Don't feel lonesome, this is a very common problem among lots of men.

I want to tell you about a method of approaching single women that will eliminate the pressure of approaching women that you are attracted to and would like to meet.

Before I reveal this method, keep this very important fact in mind. Single women want to meet you just as much as you want to meet them. And the best way to meet them is to do it in a way that doesn't appear to them that you are trying to pick them up.

Here's a good way to accomplish this:

You will need a friend to help you do this. Wherever you happen to be and you see a woman you would like to meet, have your friend walk over to her and say, "I have a friend who thinks you are very pretty and would like to meet you. May I introduce him to you?"

Most likely she won't object to meeting you and your friend will simply escort her over to you to introduce you. Then you turn on your charm and take it from there.

In closing, try this system of using a friend to help you meet women. It works!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Guide to Kissing on First Dates

I want to talk about women who dodge kisses, especially on a first date.

Let me give you an example of what I mean about women dodging kisses:

You're on your first date and at some point during the date or at the end of the date you make an attempt to kiss her on the lips. However, she turns her head away and your attempt fails. At this point, don't keep trying, because you will only make her feel uncomfortable and angry with you.

So, why is she rejecting your attempt to kiss her?

- It can be as simple as her rule to not kiss on the first date. Respect her rule if this is the case.

- She may not want to kiss you because she is not attracted to you yet.

- She may think you are moving too fast for her for kissing so soon.

- She may want to get to know you better before she will allow you to kiss her.

To sum it up, if she turns her head when you try to kiss her, don't force the issue, especially on a first date. Just try and kiss her again on your next date.

Be patient guys, once you develop some chemistry, there will be lots of kissing and intimacy. Nature will take its course.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Awesome System for Scoring with Single Women

This week I want to focus on a system to help you succeed with women.

I'm a firm believer in monitoring and keeping track of every area of my life. What I suggest you do is keep a "Success Journal."

Buy you a notebook and label it, "My Success Journal." Then record in it your successes with women such as:

1.What techniques and methods that worked for you in meeting, attracting, and seducing women.

2. How you did it in detail, step-by-step.

3. What happened?

By keeping records you will be able to see a pattern of methods and techniques that worked for you to score with women. Once you find a system for meeting, attracting, and seducing women that works for you, you can repeat these techniques on an ongoing basis to guarantee your success with women.

Also, you can keep track of methods and techniques to score with women that are not working for you. This way you can avoid using the strategies that are leading to failure with women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Avoid These Conversation Blunders When Talking to Single Women

When talking to single women on your first few dates there are going to be some subjects that she will not want to discuss. These can be topics that bring back bad memories, causes her pain, things she's trying to forget about, or just plain thinks it's none of your business.

Trust me guys, when a woman says that she doesn't want to talk about a certain subject, that's exactly what she means. Just change the subject and respect her wishes.

As an example, you ask her if she has ever been married before and you start asking her questions about her marriage and she says she doesn't want to talk about it. You ignore her request and all during your date you go on and on questioning her about her previous marriage. And she continues to tell you that she doesn't want to talk about.

At some point she is going to be pissed off at you for trying to pry information out of her on a subject she does not want to discuss. You make a fool of yourself and she does not care to see you again. It's just not worth it guys. Just shut up when she says she does not want to talk about something.

In my opinion you should avoid talking about highly sensitive and personal issues on your first date few dates, especially previous relationships.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Avoid Talking About Sex on First Dates

This week I want to focus on talking about sex on first dates.

I can't think of a better way to turn single women off, have her lose respect for you, and make her not want to see you again.

I know you probably think about sex most of time and you may not see any harm in expressing your feelings about sex while on a date.

Once you get to know a girl she may feel more comfortable talking about sex, but doing this on your very first date is taboo.

Here are some examples of questions and comments pertaining to sex you must never ask or discuss on a first date:

• How are you in bed?
• How many sex partners have you had?
• How many one-night stands have you had?
• Do you believe in having sex on the first date?
• Are you horny tonight?
• Can I spend the night with you?
• Will you make love to me?
• Talk about what a strong sex drive you have.
• Talk about what a great lover you are.

Trust me guys, single women don't like it when you get too sexually aggressive on a first date. Even worse is all during the date; all you can talk about is sex or things of a sexual nature. When you do this, she will get the impression that all you want to do is use women for sex and you treat women like a piece of meat.

When you focus too much on sex, it shows that you don't have much respect for her. You'll make a much better impression on her by being a complete gentleman and keep your hormones in check (being romantic is just fine, just don't get too sexual).

In closing, I can almost guarantee you that if you come on too strong sexually on your first date; you really hurt your chances for a second date.

Your best strategy is to take things slow and let nature take its course. It takes time to develop a relationship and when you both develop chemistry and attraction towards each other, intimacy follows.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Kissing Tips for First Dates with Single Women

This week I want to talk about that awkward moment at the end of a date when you're not sure on how to go about getting a kiss.

First of all, it's very important to know that some single women have a rule that they don't kiss on the first date. I don't agree with this rule and think a kiss would be a nice way to end a date. But, you must play by and respect her rules.

Sometimes you can just tell by the chemistry between you that you are going to kiss at the end of the date, if not before. Other times you will have to use your own judgement and read her body language.

If you start to kiss her lips and she turns away, offers her cheek, or offers to give you a hug instead, don't take it personally. She may not feel comfortable enough with you to kiss you. She may have the no kissing on the first date rule, she may have a cold, or she just may not feel any attraction towards you.

Lastly, don't try to force a kiss. This will only piss her off. And she may not even want to date you again because you did not respect her wishes of not wanting to be kissed for whatever reason.

In closing, I hope you don't hold it against a woman if she will not kiss you at the end of your first date. There will be plenty of time for kissing and intimacy on later dates once you get to know each other and establish some physical chemistry.

It's really sad that some guys won't ask a girl out again if she won't give him a kiss at the end of the first date. Give romance a chance! Don't give up so early in the game! First dates are normally just for getting to know each other and not for intimacy. There are exceptions to the rule (one-night stands and sex on the first date comes to mind).

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com