Attracting Single Women by Helping Them Deal with Stress

This week I want to focus on helping singe women deal with stress. Having stress in your life is just a fact of life. There is just no escaping it. We all have problems and stress.

Women and men deal with stress and problems differently. And if you know the secrets of helping single women deal with stress, you will attract more women because you know how to soothe their emotions.

Let me explain the secrets to attracting single women by helping them deal with stress:

Women like to deal with their problems by talking about them repeatedly. Therefore, if you're on a date or in a relationship and she starts venting her problems, here's how to deal with it to make a good impression on her:

1. Listen...listen...listen! Let her vent and get things off her chest. Just listen and look at her right swear in the eyes. Act like you're truly concerned about her problems. Fake it if you have to. She needs you to listen to help her deal with her stress.

2. While she's venting her problems, don't interrupt her with your solutions. All she wants is for someone to listen to her and sympathize with her.

3. Whatever you do, don't tell her:

"Get over it." "It's no big deal." "Calm down." "Chill out."

This is not what she wants to hear and may ever piss her off.

There you have it. If you will follow these three important steps you help her deal with stress and you will be a lot more popular with single women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

5 Senses to Use to Attract and Seduce Single Women

This week I want to talk about the five senses. I'm sure you're aware of them. They are:

• Sound
• Touch
• Sight
• Taste
• Smell

So, what in the hell do the five senses have to do with succeeding with single women? A lot, my friend. To make yourself attractive to single women and help you to seduce them you must try to appeal to their senses. All five at one time if you can.

Let me give you some good examples of how to use the five senses to help you score with single women. Let's use this scenario: You're on a date and you invite her back to your place. Here's how to appeal to her senses:

Sound - Play soft and romantic music in the background.

Touch - Stroke her hair. Even better, give her a back massage.

Sight - Gaze into her eyes. Give her that, "I want to make love to you" look.

Smell - Buy a single rose in advance of your date. When at your place give her the rose and make sure that she smells it. Also, be sure to wear an expensive, good-smelling cologne.

There you have it. Appealing to all of her senses to get her warmed up and ready so she will be receptive to your romantic advances for intimacy. Now it's up to you. Go for it! Make your moves!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Great Ways to Ask Single Women for a Date

This week I want to focus on some unique ways to ask single women for a date. Try these methods to get a date. They work much better than using the direct approach of just saying, "Would you like to get together sometime?"

Here are some scripts I used successfully to get dates:

Let's say that you just met a single woman and you would like to ask her out to lunch, dinner, attend a function, or go to the beach. Ask her out this way:

• "Next week I'm having lunch at (name a very popular place to eat). Which day can you meet me there for lunch - Monday or Wednesday?"
• "Next week I would like to take you out for dinner at (name a very popular place to eat). Which day would you like me to come by and pick you up - Tuesday or Thursday?"
• "Next week I'm buying a couple of tickets to the (symphony, circus, Broadway play, opera, etc.). Which day would you like to go - Friday, Saturday, or Sunday?"
• "I'm driving down to the beach this weekend to take a walk in the sand. Which day would you like to take a walk with me along the beach - Saturday or Sunday?"

I think you are getting the point now. You are giving her options and putting her on the spot with the above scripts. These scripts work much better than asking her with a question that she can respond with a rejection. Example: "Would you like to get together sometime? Or, "Would you like to go out for dinner?" She can simply respond with, "No."

Guys, use these strategies for asking for a date. You will get a lot more dates instead of turndowns.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Happiness When Pursuing Single Women

This week I want to focus on falling into what I call the, "I'll be happy trap."

Let me explain: You're lonely and in a dating rut. You keep telling yourself over and over, "I'll be so happy when I find a new girlfriend." In the mean time, you're so depressed waiting for this girl to come into your life and change your life for the better.

Well, finally this dream girl comes into your life. Initially, things go pretty well and you experience happiness in this relationship (this is quite common when you first start dating and you're hitting it off).

So, you're dating for awhile and you still feel like something is missing in your life. You're not feeling happy, as you would like. You thought by having someone special come into your life would make you feel like a new person and happy. You might even be tempted to look for another woman who can make you happier.

So, what's wrong with this picture? The reason is so simple. You just can't look for things outside of ourselves to make us happy. Happiness is an inside-out experience. You are responsible for your own happiness.

Don't depend on someone or any material things to bring you happiness. If you adopt this belief and attitude, you will be on a never-ending treadmill for the rest of your life.

Let me end this article with this thought for you to remember: Life is a journey, not a destination. Go after all those single women you desire, but enjoy the trip. Don't get caught up in the trip of waiting for someone to make you happy.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Tips on Recognizing a Bitch

This week I want to talk about what I call the, "Once a bitch, always a bitch syndrome." Let me explain:

When you're dating a woman, her negative behaviors leaves clues to what her personality is going to be long-term. Let's say for instance, you've dated a girl a few times and she always acts like a bitch. She's mean and hateful towards you and treats you like a dog.

This behavior is very consistent right from the first date. You keep wondering when she's going to change. Well, guess what? She's not going to change. It's a pure case of "Once a bitch, always a bitch."

Guys, if you find yourself in this situation, get out of it! Let her go. It's not worth it to be miserable all the time in a relationship.

Let me tell you about my experiences: I've fallen for single women who were bitches from hell. The women were so beautiful and had such nice bodies I thought I could overlook their negative behavior and bitchy ways.

After awhile I just couldn't take it anymore no matter how hot and sexy they looked. I got tired of being treated like crap and fussing and arguing all the time.

So, guys take my advice and don't get involved with bitches. I learned the hard way and kept staying in abusive relationships, hoping they would change. They never did change and they were hardcore cases of "Once a bitch, always a bitch."

Of course, the roles can be reversed too. Some guys are real assholes and they will always be assholes. They make women miserable. Hopefully, you will never become an asshole or jerk. You will do a lot better with single women by treating them with respect and treating them like a queen.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Tips on Kissing Women at the End of Date

This week I want to talk about end-of-the-date body language. I want to give you some very important tips on observing how a woman acts at the end of your first date.

First of all, let's discuss what happens at the end of a first date. At the end of your fist date is a very awkward time for the both of you. You are nervous about whether you should try to kiss her. She is nervous about what to do if you try to kiss her (especially if she is not attracted to you and doesn't care to date you again).

Anyway, you are walking her to her door. It's time to say goodbye. She may offer a handshake to thank you for the date, she may offer to hug you, and hopefully may move her head towards you to kiss you.

Before I go any further, please keep in mind that some women have a hard and fast rule that they don't kiss on the first date no matter how much she is attracted to you. If she turns away if you try to kiss her, don't hold it against her. She just may not kiss on the first date or she doesn't feel any chemistry towards you to allow you to kiss her.

Let me get back on track to the main point I want you to observe: If you end up hugging at the end of the date, observe her reactions during the hug. If she pats you on the back during the hug, this is what I call, "The Kiss of Death." Why? Because when she pats you on the back it means that she's sorry, but she's not attracted to you romantically and could only just be friends.

However, on the other hand if she clings to you while giving you a hug with no patting you on the back, this is a good sign that she enjoyed the date and is attracted to you.

So, on all of your first dates be sure to observe and analyze those end-of-the-date hugs.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Few Great Tips for Men on How to Talk to Women

This week I want to offer the following tips on how to talk to women:

Discover the Big Events in Her Life

One sure-fire way to keep a conversation rolling is to discover the big events in her life - the things that are meaningful to her, and which she is anxious to talk about. I call such areas of interest "hot buttons."

A hot button is a subject that really interests you and her and that you can talk about for an extended period of time. A hot button can be a lifelong interest, a passing fancy, or a current fascination - whatever turns you on!" Hot buttons can be work, a new job, a hobby, a career goal, an upcoming trip, a sporting activity, new movies playing at the theatre, music, going to concerts, whatever.

Finding Her Hot Buttons

In conversations with new women you meet, try to find their hot buttons as soon as you can.

These strong interests are extremely fertile areas for sustained conversations, particularly if you discover that you share some strong interests.

To find her hot buttons, fish around subject areas with ritual questions. When you receive an unusually enthusiastic response, chances are you've hit on a particular interest. Pursue the subject by showing some interest in it.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com