Art of Using Focus and Concentration to Pick Up Single Women


This week I want to talk about focus and mental concentration when it comes to picking up single women.

And for addressing this issue I will use bars and nightclubs for an example. Ok, you're all ready to go to a local bar or nightclub and meet some single women.

When you get there, focus all of your attention on meeting and picking up a woman. Think of nothing else and tell yourself over and over that you're not leaving the place without picking up a woman or at least getting a phone number.



To give you an idea of how I want you to focus on meeting single women think of it this way: Have you ever watched a tennis match? Well, like a lot of other sports, it takes a lot of focus and mental concentration. You must focus on where the ball is at all times. If you lose your concentration even for a split second the ball can fly past you and cause you to lose points.

And so it goes when you're out looking for women to meet. You must be completely focused on your goal of meeting someone that night. Don't let your guard down, don't get distracted, don't stand around with your thumb up your ass waiting for something to happen, and just go for it when you see a woman that you are attracted to.

Make your moves and take advantage of every single opportunity you see to meet a woman. Keep your eyes roving like radar to lock in on another woman's eyes who shows interest in you. If you lock eyes and she gives you a smile, that's your cue to approach her immediately and don't even give it a second thought to stall or ponder.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Avoid Conversation Bloopers When on Dates with Single Women


This week I want to give you a tip to help you avoid sticking your foot in your mouth when on a date:

Let's say you're out on a date and she asks you what kind of a woman you're attracted to. You have to be careful about what you say. Here are a couple of examples of what not to say:

1. Let's just say that you say that you really love brunettes and redheads. She happens to be a blonde. Guess how this is going to make her feel? Do you get my point?

2. Let's just say you say that you are extremely attracted to tall single women. She just happens to be very petite and only 5 feet tall. How do you think is going to make her feel? You just stuck your foot in your mouth.



To be on the safe side, I would just say that I'm attracted to _________________(describe her features).

Or you could just say that you are attracted to blondes, brunettes, redheads, and black-headed women. And you could say you really love short, tall women, and all women in between. These statements will cover all your bases.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

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Address Books That Cause Problems in Dating and Relationships


I would like to warn you about something you should keep hidden from women who come over to your place for a date or just someone you have picked up at a nightclub, bar, etc. What is it?

It's your little black book filled with phone numbers of girls that you have met, ex-girlfriends, ex-wives, etc. This is personal and private information not to be shared with any woman.



If you're like me, I have my little black book filled with girls phone numbers, being that I was a player. And trust me, if a girl finds your little black book by snooping around your place and it's filled with phone numbers of women, she will get the impression that you're a player and perhaps use women. The last thing you want a woman to think is that you're a player. This turns them off. They want to feel special and not just another one of your conquests or another notch on your bedpost.

So, be sure and hide your little black book in a place where it is not likely to be found by prying eyes.

Some women, when you have them over will snoop around your place while you're in the restroom, while you have left to pick up something to eat to bring back home, while you have left to get some more liquor, etc. If you leave them alone in your place they may be tempted to snoop through your personal belongings. So, that's why I recommend hiding your little black book. Also, I would highly recommend hiding all your pornographic magazines, videos, or DVD's. At least until she gets to know you better and you can find out if she is offended by pornography.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Magic Trick to Use to Meet Single Women


This week I want to talk about how to meet and attract single women using magic. Magic tricks are a great way to impress women and are excellent to use for ice-breakers. Here's my favorite magic trick to use to impress women which is called, "How to Read Her Mind Magic Trick."

You will need a small box of crayons that contain only 8 colors. When you're with a woman you're attracted to, simply ask her, "Can I show you a magic trick?" She will ask, "What is it?"



Hand her the closed box of crayons and tell her to select a crayon when you turn your back towards her. With your back turned towards her and your hands behind your back, tell her to put the crayon in your hand. Now turn around and face her with your hands still behind your back.

Now, tell her to think of the color of the crayon. As she's thinking Of the color, scrape the crayon with your right thumbnail. Then tell her you need to touch her head to "read her thoughts." Now, simply look at your right thumbnail to see the color of the crayon. Now, tell her the color of the crayon she picked. After you tell her, rub the crayon off your thumbnail with a finger. I guarantee you that she will be amazed. Now, you've opened the door to get better acquainted that can lead to intimacy.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Method on How to Pick Up Women in Nightclubs


I wanted to pass along a technique I used very successfully to pick up single women in bars and nightclubs. Try it and see how it works for you. You've got nothing to lose and lots of hot & sexy women to gain.

I call this technique, "The Birthday Method" of meeting and seducing women in bars and nightclubs. Here's how it works:

Remember back when you were a kid and how excited you got when it was your birthday because you knew you were going to get some gifts and you could hardly wait to open them. I remember I could hardly sleep the night before my birthday party.



What I did was use this excitement and anticipation from my birthday childhood memories to help me meet and pick up women at bars and nightclubs.

Here's what I would do: Before I went out to bars and nightclubs I would pretend it was my birthday and my birthday party was at the particular bar or nightclub I was going to that night. And I was going there to pick up my gifts.

Guess what the gifts were? It was the women that were there that I was attracted to. I would pretend all the single women in there were my gifts. I just had to choose the ones I desired to unwrap my gift, so to speak (if you know what I mean).

This method gave me confidence to approach women, knowing that they were my gifts. After all, it was my special night held in my honor and these women were my gifts. If you think about it, all women are God-given gifts to men.

Try this method and see if it works for you. It may seem a little bit silly to you, but trust me, you can work miracles just by using the power of your mind to pick up and seduce women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com