Answering Questions About Your Employment

This week I want to talk about a common question that will come up when you first meet a single woman or while you're out on a date. That popular question is "What do you do for a living?"

So, what do you say if you have a low-paying job that you're too embarrassed to tell her about? For example: Flip burgers at Dairy Queen, parking lot attendant, janitor, grocery sacker, bellhop, waiter, buss boy, etc. I'm sure you get the picture.

Well, here's what I recommend that you do if you're with a real classy single lady that you don't want to scare off. Just don't tell her what you do for a living. In other words tell her a white lie. Why can't you just be honest with her? Because if she is real classy, ambitious, and articulate she may lose interest in you initially if she discovers that you're on a different educational, social, and economic level than her.

Eventually you will have to tell her what you do for a living. You will get caught. Be sure and explain why you were too embarrassed to tell her. Simply say, "If I told you what I did for a living I felt like I wouldn't have a chance in hell with a lovely and classy lady like you." This should do the trick and hopefully she will forgive you.

You can also explain that your chosen job is only temporary until you figure out what career you want to pursue.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Use Will Power to Succeed with Women

Isn't it amazing how some guys have all the advantages in life such as a good education, experience, knowing the right people, etc. - but with all this going for them they never amount to anything in life.

Then there are guys who have to struggle for everything they get in life and reach incredible heights in life. What sets them apart? It's determination and the will to succeed.

And it's the same principle at work in succeeding with single women. If you have the will, backed with faith, desire, and persistence, you will find a way to meet, date, attract, and seduce any woman you desire no matter what obstacles you encounter.

It's going to be up to you though to create that burning desire deep within your soul to succeed with women. I can't create it for you. All I can do is motivate you to get up off your ass and take action. And if you don't set the seduction wheels in motion, your love life is going to suffer and the competition is going to be having all the fun and romance with women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Art of Using Focus and Concentration to Pick Up Single Women

This week I want to talk about focus and mental concentration when it comes to picking up single women.

And for addressing this issue I will use bars and nightclubs for an example. Ok, you're all ready to go to a local bar or nightclub and meet some single women.

When you get there, focus all of your attention on meeting and picking up a woman. Think of nothing else and tell yourself over and over that you're not leaving the place without picking up a woman or at least getting a phone number.

To give you an idea of how I want you to focus on meeting single women think of it this way: Have you ever watched a tennis match? Well, like a lot of other sports, it takes a lot of focus and mental concentration. You must focus on where the ball is at all times. If you lose your concentration even for a split second the ball can fly past you and cause you to lose points.

And so it goes when you're out looking for women to meet. You must be completely focused on your goal of meeting someone that night. Don't let your guard down, don't get distracted, don't stand around with your thumb up your ass waiting for something to happen, and just go for it when you see a woman that you are attracted to.

Make your moves and take advantage of every single opportunity you see to meet a woman. Keep your eyes roving like radar to lock in on another woman's eyes who shows interest in you. If you lock eyes and she gives you a smile, that's your cue to approach her immediately and don't even give it a second thought to stall or ponder.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Avoid Conversation Bloopers When on Dates with Single Women

This week I want to give you a tip to help you avoid sticking your foot in your mouth when on a date:

Let's say you're out on a date and she asks you what kind of a woman you're attracted to. You have to be careful about what you say. Here are a couple of examples of what not to say:

1. Let's just say that you say that you really love brunettes and redheads. She happens to be a blonde. Guess how this is going to make her feel? Do you get my point?

2. Let's just say you say that you are extremely attracted to tall single women. She just happens to be very petite and only 5 feet tall. How do you think is going to make her feel? You just stuck your foot in your mouth.

To be on the safe side, I would just say that I'm attracted to _________________(describe her features).

Or you could just say that you are attracted to blondes, brunettes, redheads, and black-headed women. And you could say you really love short, tall women, and all women in between. These statements will cover all your bases.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Address Books That Cause Problems in Dating and Relationships

I would like to warn you about something you should keep hidden from women who come over to your place for a date or just someone you have picked up at a nightclub, bar, etc. What is it?

It's your little black book filled with phone numbers of girls that you have met, ex-girlfriends, ex-wives, etc. This is personal and private information not to be shared with any woman.

If you're like me, I have my little black book filled with girls phone numbers, being that I was a player. And trust me, if a girl finds your little black book by snooping around your place and it's filled with phone numbers of women, she will get the impression that you're a player and perhaps use women. The last thing you want a woman to think is that you're a player. This turns them off. They want to feel special and not just another one of your conquests or another notch on your bedpost.

So, be sure and hide your little black book in a place where it is not likely to be found by prying eyes.

Some women, when you have them over will snoop around your place while you're in the restroom, while you have left to pick up something to eat to bring back home, while you have left to get some more liquor, etc. If you leave them alone in your place they may be tempted to snoop through your personal belongings. So, that's why I recommend hiding your little black book. Also, I would highly recommend hiding all your pornographic magazines, videos, or DVD's. At least until she gets to know you better and you can find out if she is offended by pornography.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com