Expecting Sex from Single Women Too Soon Can Backfire

One of the most common complaints I hear from single women is that men want to go to bed right away. They complain that the men have their brain between their legs. Sex is a private and delicate event for many women.

Expecting sex immediately after just meeting puts unnecessary pressure on yourself. It pays in the long run not to rush or expect sex too quickly or easily.

Of course, there are women out there who will go to bed with you at the drop of a hat, but with the threat of aids and other diseases, a lot of women are particular with who they go to bed with.

So take your time and offer sex with gentleness and quietness. Don't force or demand sex. Let it happen naturally, with the two of you exchanging willing bodies. Don't call me a prude, but if you are a man of God, you must wait until you are married to have sex.

If possible, use your hands, and particularly the tips of your fingers, when talking to a woman. The light touch of your fingertips transmits electrifying signals to the other person, which will support your thought messages with physical touch.

When touching her while you're talking, be sure it's in a subtle way. Don't do it in a way that would indicate a sexual advance because it may work against you. Just do it casually, like a touch over her hand or on her knee. She will notice these little gestures and slight touches and this will make her feel closer to you.

Finally, your voice is very important when talking to a woman. Don't talk in a boring monotone voice. Put emotional emphasis on each and every word you say. Be sure and speak up and don't mutter your words quietly.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

A Couple of Great Places to Meet Women

This week I would like to pass along a couple of great places to meet single women suggested by one of my subscribers:

A couple of excellent places to meet women, in my experience, have been:

Tanning Spas - Women are their biggest clientele, and since they go there to "improve" their appearance/image, it only makes sense that you can easily start a conversation with a gorgeous woman by letting her know how much you appreciate the fact that she is looks as good as she does and how her tan really compliments her beauty, or hair, or whatever you notice about her at the time. Since women love compliments on the success of their efforts to make themselves desirable, a particularly sincere compliment can go a long way. You might even get her to rub the tanning lotion onto your back for you.

The Local Theater or Youth Theater - Women love going to plays. And, I have found, I actually enjoyed it too, once I gave it an honest effort. So, if you attend a couple of them, it makes a great conversation opener to discuss the show you last went to, especially if you remember seeing that gorgeous brunette or redhead at the last play you came to, and she really appears single. Usually, women will go to these together, and also as usual, there will likely be only one or two married women in their groups, which increases your chances of finding an available cutie to talk to. The youth theater is great if you have a young sibling or niece or nephew to take along. The act of taking a child that is not yours to the play shows her that you are a great, caring guy and she will find these characteristics appealing. And chances are, she is spending time with children that are not hers, because she is just waiting for a fantastic guy like you to come along and spend some time with her!

Also, with both of these places, it indicates to her that you have something in common - like to tan and like watching plays. You should be a shoe-in!

How to Impress Women, Turning Women Off Being Too Anxious

This week I want to focus on the subject of how to treat your date's friends.

It's very important that you make a favorable impression when introduced to your date's friends. Let me explain why:

Later after you have been around her friends, you can bet on it that she will ask her friends what they think of you. And you want to make damn sure it's a positive response and opinion. If her friends talk bad about you it may influence her not to date you anymore.

It's a fact of life that people are influenced by the opinions of those close to them.

I realize that we can't like everybody that we meet, but when you meet her friends make it a point to be friendly, cordial, and talkative. Whatever you do, don't ignore her friends. They are important to her.

So, make it a point to get on the good side of her friends. It will pay off for you and help you win her over in the romance department.

Gee, you know I'd be rich if I had a dime for every time a guy blows it with women, even after his first date is a success. The problem is that men become too over-anxious.

Here's the typical chain of events: The first date goes real well and she seems to be interested in him. He calls her all the time to get together and comes on strong, thus becoming a pest. She gets the impression that the guy is getting way too serious. This turns her off and the guy becomes history.

You must avoid this scenario and do just the opposite. Be elusive, hard to get, mysterious, exciting and non-committal in the beginning. Keep her in doubt about your intentions and this will keep her interested in you and she won't feel pressured or smothered by you. Don't be so easy, be a challenge for her. Make her work to gain your affections. Try this new attitude, guys. It works like a charm!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Answering Questions About Your Employment

This week I want to talk about a common question that will come up when you first meet a single woman or while you're out on a date. That popular question is "What do you do for a living?"

So, what do you say if you have a low-paying job that you're too embarrassed to tell her about? For example: Flip burgers at Dairy Queen, parking lot attendant, janitor, grocery sacker, bellhop, waiter, buss boy, etc. I'm sure you get the picture.

Well, here's what I recommend that you do if you're with a real classy single lady that you don't want to scare off. Just don't tell her what you do for a living. In other words tell her a white lie. Why can't you just be honest with her? Because if she is real classy, ambitious, and articulate she may lose interest in you initially if she discovers that you're on a different educational, social, and economic level than her.

Eventually you will have to tell her what you do for a living. You will get caught. Be sure and explain why you were too embarrassed to tell her. Simply say, "If I told you what I did for a living I felt like I wouldn't have a chance in hell with a lovely and classy lady like you." This should do the trick and hopefully she will forgive you.

You can also explain that your chosen job is only temporary until you figure out what career you want to pursue.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to Use Will Power to Succeed with Women

Isn't it amazing how some guys have all the advantages in life such as a good education, experience, knowing the right people, etc. - but with all this going for them they never amount to anything in life.

Then there are guys who have to struggle for everything they get in life and reach incredible heights in life. What sets them apart? It's determination and the will to succeed.

And it's the same principle at work in succeeding with single women. If you have the will, backed with faith, desire, and persistence, you will find a way to meet, date, attract, and seduce any woman you desire no matter what obstacles you encounter.

It's going to be up to you though to create that burning desire deep within your soul to succeed with women. I can't create it for you. All I can do is motivate you to get up off your ass and take action. And if you don't set the seduction wheels in motion, your love life is going to suffer and the competition is going to be having all the fun and romance with women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Art of Using Focus and Concentration to Pick Up Single Women

This week I want to talk about focus and mental concentration when it comes to picking up single women.

And for addressing this issue I will use bars and nightclubs for an example. Ok, you're all ready to go to a local bar or nightclub and meet some single women.

When you get there, focus all of your attention on meeting and picking up a woman. Think of nothing else and tell yourself over and over that you're not leaving the place without picking up a woman or at least getting a phone number.

To give you an idea of how I want you to focus on meeting single women think of it this way: Have you ever watched a tennis match? Well, like a lot of other sports, it takes a lot of focus and mental concentration. You must focus on where the ball is at all times. If you lose your concentration even for a split second the ball can fly past you and cause you to lose points.

And so it goes when you're out looking for women to meet. You must be completely focused on your goal of meeting someone that night. Don't let your guard down, don't get distracted, don't stand around with your thumb up your ass waiting for something to happen, and just go for it when you see a woman that you are attracted to.

Make your moves and take advantage of every single opportunity you see to meet a woman. Keep your eyes roving like radar to lock in on another woman's eyes who shows interest in you. If you lock eyes and she gives you a smile, that's your cue to approach her immediately and don't even give it a second thought to stall or ponder.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Avoid Conversation Bloopers When on Dates with Single Women

This week I want to give you a tip to help you avoid sticking your foot in your mouth when on a date:

Let's say you're out on a date and she asks you what kind of a woman you're attracted to. You have to be careful about what you say. Here are a couple of examples of what not to say:

1. Let's just say that you say that you really love brunettes and redheads. She happens to be a blonde. Guess how this is going to make her feel? Do you get my point?

2. Let's just say you say that you are extremely attracted to tall single women. She just happens to be very petite and only 5 feet tall. How do you think is going to make her feel? You just stuck your foot in your mouth.

To be on the safe side, I would just say that I'm attracted to _________________(describe her features).

Or you could just say that you are attracted to blondes, brunettes, redheads, and black-headed women. And you could say you really love short, tall women, and all women in between. These statements will cover all your bases.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com