Advice on Rejection by Topless Dancers

What to do When You get Rejected by a Topless Dancer

It happens to us guys in all areas of life when dealing with women. It's no different in topless clubs. Not all dancers are going to be receptive to you trying to pick them up. Some may be sitting with you and it seems like you're really hitting it off and suddenly she gets up and leaves. If this happens, be sure and tell her to come back and party with you. You may mistake her leaving as rejecting you. It could be that she's leaving to entertain a high-paying customer who's buying a lot of dances from her. Don't take this personally, she's only doing her job and that's to make money and make it as fast as she can.

At other times you may be with a dancer that hardly talks to you and acts like she's not interested in you. Maybe she doesn't feel well or maybe she's just turned off by you.

If you feel you're being rejected by a dancer, don't waste anymore time or money on her. Move on to another dancer or another club. Don't hang around where you're not wanted. If you practice your charm and seduction techniques, eventually you'll find a dancer who is receptive to you.

10 of My Favorite Places to Take a Date

Ten of my Very Favorite Places to Take a Date

1. BEACH OR LAKE -This is one of my favorite places to take a date, especially at night: There's nothing more romantic than taking a moonlight stroll along the beach or lake.

2. BEACH HOUSE RENTAL -Great for getting away from the hectic life in the city for some rest and relaxation.

3. BED & BREAKFAST INNS -For a change of pace from regular motels and hotels, try a bed & breakfast inn where you will be treated like royalty. They offer rooms where you feel like you're at home instead of a dreary motel room. Also, you will be treated to a tasty, elegant breakfast and have the option of many other amenities.

4. BILLARD PARLORS (POOL HALLS) -Do you like to play pool? This is a great place to go to have a good time, shoot a few rounds of pool, have a few drinks, and some offer food.

5. BINGO -This is one fun date you can go on and come home with some extra cash in your pocket.

6. BOAT RENTAL -This makes for a unique experience and it's so relaxing and enjoyable. You can charter a boat with captain and crew or rent a powerboat for skiing, fishing, or just for cruising.

7. BOAT SHOW -If you live near a large city, this makes for an interesting date. You will get to see all the latest boats, sailboats, and yachts on the market.

8. BOOGIE BOARDS -Can't go surfing or don't have a desire to? Well, boogie boards are just as much fun and don't require any skill. A boogie board is a body board that's less than half the size of a surfboard and is used for body surfing. You just lay on this board and ride the waves. They are tons of fun and you can buy them at any Toys R' Us stores. At some seashores they are available for rent.

9. BOWLING -What a great way to have some fun and exercise at the same time. The best time to bowl is during the day on weekends and weekdays. The lanes are usually taken up by bowling leagues in the evenings. Just be sure to call ahead of time to make sure some lanes are available.

10. BRUNCH -Here's your opportunity to have a breakfast and lunch feast. Just be sure and go on an empty stomach. Most brunches are held on Sundays, with a few on Saturdays. Here in Houston, a lot of the major hotels offer brunches.

Share3

Advice for Dating When You Are a Senior

Senior Dating - What You See is What You Get

If you are single and in the midlife stage then most probably the majority of people around you are "pressuring" you to find a true love and start living. This pressure can really takes it toll sometimes because you get to feel there is something wrong with you for not having that eagerness and drive to have what they want for you. The truth of the matter about senior dating is it will come if it will come. Trying too hard to have it or find it really feels off. Senior dating is all about finding the right person for companionship and friendship.

It is all about taking it easy and not wasting your time to people who you can't jive and are just too heavy to carry- emotionally and mentally that is. It is all about getting real and not about playing around anymore. With all the things that you have been through being with someone that you can truly connect and bond is what you truly deserve. The lack of eagerness and enthusiasm is not a sign that you have totally given up on romance, on the contrary it is about having faith that by being yourself and doing the things that interests you, the person that you are looking for will come along.

Some baby boomer visit senior dating sites to seek the person they are looking for. This can actually be a good idea to visit senior dating sites because you can do it the comfort of your own home. There is also a clear and mutual line or understanding that you are considering a relationship so you don't need to blurt out in the site that you are looking for romance making it easier and less awkward and more casual about your goals and intentions. When you reach the age of midlife, you just want things to work out well and good.

Midlife is the stage where you have proven yourself already that's why you don't need to play the "trivial" things in meeting someone. This is actually the great time and age to date and meet people. You are stable and more secure. You know what you want and how to get it, that's why you are more relaxed when it comes to waiting for the right person. You go on doing the things you love and hopefully if destiny will allow it, the person you are waiting for will come along. The great thing about today's era is that most girls or women go for men that are more emotionally and mentally established, that's why men who are in their fifties still have a vast market share in dating.

For senior dating, here are some few things to remember. First is to continue what you're doing, be yourself. Eventually if you meet someone through your interest it will not be as hard to connect with each other. Next is to keep it casual. It's quite a good idea that before going to a real first dinner date, have a few coffee dates first to see if you really hit it off together without the effects of date stress. Another is to be transparent about your intentions. If you have no plans to be exclusive tell your date so and if you do but your potential lover seems to disagree don't be upset.

Give her the credit for being honest and enjoy each other's company and what you and your date have to offer for the meantime. Senior dating all about taking it your pace and enjoying every minute you have, to take things at it is, to enjoy what you have and what you don't have, to make the most out of the moment.

The author of this article Ruth Purple is a Relationships Coach who has been successfully coaching and guiding clients for many years. Ruth recently decided to go public and share her knowledge and experience through her website http://www.relazine.com. You can sign up for her free newsletter and join her coaching program.

Dating Seasons and How to Cope with Them

Dating Seasons in Your Love Life

We all go through what I call "Dating Seasons." Things can be going great in your love life and you're meeting, dating, and seducing lots of single women.

Then you go through a season where you have bad luck with women. You are getting rejected, single women ignore you, you have trouble getting dates, women are not receptive to your physical advances, you get stood up, etc. Just nothing seems to be going right.

You may be tempted to just throw in the towel, lose your enthusiasm for women, and just be tempted to give up.

Don't make the mistake of thinking that this is just the way things are going to be.

Trust me, another season will come when things turn around for you. You must stay in faith that this temporary season of bad luck will pass. Better times are just around the corner.

No matter how difficult the bad times may seem, keep believing that the good times with single women are soon to come.

10 Ideas for a Date to Impress Single Women

Places I like to Take Single Women on a Date

1. JET SKIS -This is like riding a motorcycle on the water and your date can ride on the back. Take my word for it; this is the ultimate joy ride while having some great fun on the water. You can rent them for about $20 for a half hour.
2. JOGGING -Do you like to jog? Well, it really doesn't matter. Just take your date to the local jogging trails and I'm sure you will learn to like jogging when you see her cute little ass bouncing in front of you.
3. KITE FLYING -Stop by any toy store and pick up a kite and go on a kite date. Head for your local park, beach, or any wide-open space. Kites are not just for kids. It's a fun experience for all ages and it's kind of romantic. So, get your date and go fly a kite.
4. LIMOUSINE DATE -When you want to tell someone they're special, what better way to do it than with the unexpected. Sending flowers is nice, but sending flowers with a limousine is unforgettable. This is a great way to celebrate a birthday, an anniversary or just let someone know they make a difference to you.
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
5. LITTLE LEAGUE BASEBALL - This will be a date filled with lots of entertainment and laughter. These little guys are so much fun to watch, especially when they make errors and mistakes.
6. LIVE MUSIC -This will put you and your date in a good mood, especially if the band is good. Check out your area for places that offer live music.
7. MALLS -Take your date to the mall and she will love you for it. They just love to go to shopping malls even if they don't buy anything. They just love to look around and browse.
8. MODEL HOMES -Do you like to look at beautiful homes? This is a fun thing to share. Check out any new subdivisions in your area for model homes. My favorite ones to look at are the mansions. Even if you can't afford one they are still interesting to look at.
9. MOONLIGHT STROLLS -When there's a full moon and clear skies, head for any lake or seashore. It's so romantic to take your shoes off and wade along the shore with the full moon gleaming on the water.
10. MUSEUMS -These are great places to take a date no matter what kind of museum they are. My personal favorite is art museums.

How to Conquer Your Fear of Women

The Enemy Called Fear That Prevents You From Meeting Women

I want to talk about what I call the "enemy of fear" that holds you back from meeting women.

When you see a pretty woman you would like to meet, do you freeze up and fill your mind with fear when it comes to approaching her to meet her?

If you allow your mind to dwell on all the reasons to not approach women then you are going to develop a negative mind set that is going to prevent you from making the first move when it comes to meeting women. This is going to hold you back from meeting more women.

You just can't sit on the sidelines when it comes to dating and meeting women. Don't allow this "enemy of fear" to hold you back anymore. Make a commitment today that you're not going to give in to fear anymore when it comes to approaching and meeting women.

Just because you feel fear doesn't men you have to act on it. Be bold, be brave, and step out of fear and approach women.

If you allow your mind to dwell on all the reasons to not approach women then you are going to develop a negative mind set that is going to prevent you from making the first move when it comes to meeting women. This is going to hold you back from meeting more women.

You just can't sit on the sidelines when it comes to dating and meeting women. Don't allow this "enemy of fear" to hold you back anymore. Make a commitment today that you're not going to give in to fear anymore when it comes to approaching and meeting women.

Just because you feel fear doesn't men you have to act on it. Be bold, be brave, and step out of fear and approach women.

10 Great Pick Up Lines to Use on Strippers

Top Ten Pick Up Lines to Use on Topless Dancers

1. "Have you been on any out-of-town trips lately?"
2. (After she does a dance for you), "Did you get turned on as much as I did?"
3. Compliment her eyelashes, nose, ears, lips, eyes, legs, dimples, or fingernails.
4. "Do you know any good jokes?"
5. "Did you ever dream that you'd become a dancer?"
6. If you're with two dancers, ask them how did they get to know each other?
7. "Do you even get nervous when you're up on stage?"
8. "Is this your only job?"
9. "Where do you like to shop for clothes?"
10. "Where do you like to go on vacation?"