Advice on Being Rejected by Topless Dancers

Being Rejected by Topless Dancers/Boob Jobs

It happens to us guys in all areas of life when dealing with women. It's no different in topless clubs. Not all dancers are going to be receptive to you trying to pick them up. Some may be sitting with you and it seems like you're really hitting it off and suddenly she gets up and leaves. If this happens, be sure and tell her to come back and party with you. You may mistake her leaving as rejecting you. It could be that she's leaving to entertain a high-paying customer who's buying a lot of dances from her. Don't take this personally, she's only doing her job and that's to make money and make it as fast as she can.

At other times you may be with a dancer that hardly talks to you and acts like she's not interested in you. Maybe she doesn't feel well or maybe she's just turned off by you.

If you feel you're being rejected by a dancer, don't waste anymore time or money on her. Move on to another dancer or another club. Don't hang around where you're not wanted. If you practice your charm and seduction techniques, eventually you'll find a dancer who is receptive to you.

Boob Jobs

If you go to topless clubs, you will see a few "boob jobs." I hope this doesn't turn you off. For you guys that haven't made love to a woman with a boob job, I can assure you that it's quite a turn on. Their breasts are firm and just as enjoyable as regular breasts. They look great too, if the surgeon did a good job.

Some men are turned off by boob jobs because their breasts aren't natural. I say, "don't knock the knockers until you've tried them." Then maybe you'll change your mind.

Advice on Listing What You Like in Personal Ads

Be Careful What Things You Say You Like in Personal Ads

Most people put something in their personal ad about their hobbies or what they like to do. It is important for you to find other people with common interests and to avoid people who don't like, or may even hate, doing what you love to do. WARNING: Unless you really do love to downhill ski and eat sushi, do not say in your ad that you do just because downhill skiing and sushi eating are popular activities that sound good in an ad and will impress people. People may respond to your ad because they really do love to ski and eat sushi and are looking for someone to do them with. If that happens, you had better be a quick learner, be ready to wear a fake cast next ski season, or hope that they can overlook your mis-statement. If you hate sushi, I don't know what to tell you to help you fake even liking sushi, much less to help you learn to love shushi. You might try claiming that you developed a sudden deadly allergy to fish, particularly raw fish.

This warning about being honest about what you like applies equally when you respond to an ad. If you read an ad that you really liked but the person said that they love camping and hiking and you are a city boy, do not assume that you can pull the wool over their eyes.

Be Careful What Things You Say You Like in Personal Ads

Most people put something in their personal ad about their hobbies or what they like to do. It is important for you to find other people with common interests and to avoid people who don't like, or may even hate, doing what you love to do. WARNING: Unless you really do love to downhill ski and eat sushi, do not say in your ad that you do just because downhill skiing and sushi eating are popular activities that sound good in an ad and will impress people. People may respond to your ad because they really do love to ski and eat sushi and are looking for someone to do them with. If that happens, you had better be a quick learner, be ready to wear a fake cast next ski season, or hope that they can overlook your mis-statement. If you hate sushi, I don't know what to tell you to help you fake even liking sushi, much less to help you learn to love shushi. You might try claiming that you developed a sudden deadly allergy to fish, particularly raw fish.

This warning about being honest about what you like applies equally when you respond to an ad. If you read an ad that you really liked but the person said that they love camping and hiking and you are a city boy, do not assume that you can pull the wool over their eyes.

It's a lot better to tell them that you haven't been camping or hiking since your parents made you go to summer camp and that you now know what poison oak looks like. If you really are interested in trying camping and hiking again, just tell them so. If that isn't good enough for them, you probably saved yourself a lot of time. You also might be living in an area that doesn't have poison oak, but does have poison ivy. They don't look similar at all. I found out the hard way.

It's a lot better to tell them that you haven't been camping or hiking since your parents made you go to summer camp and that you now know what poison oak looks like. If you really are interested in trying camping and hiking again, just tell them so. If that isn't good enough for them, you probably saved yourself a lot of time. You also might be living in an area that doesn't have poison oak, but does have poison ivy. They don't look similar at all. I found out the hard way.

Dating Tips on What to Put in Your Personal Ads

Advice on What to Put in Your Personal Ads

Listed here are some very important tips if you are going to play the personals:

1. If you're marriage minded, don't hesitate to specify that. If you're gentle, affectionate, conservative, religious, a one-woman man, include this information. If you don't believe in divorce, it can't hurt to mention it. Anything that will get across what a thoughtful, loving and responsible, husband you'll be will help your case. But be honest! Don't say any of these things unless they're actually true.

2. If you don't have any good points you can honestly refer to, then you shouldn't be using the personals in the first place...unless you're only looking for a pen pal and aren't too choosy about who you get.

3. When you specify the age range you want to hear from, don't limit it to the ages of the ladies you think will be interested in you. Leave that up to them to decide. If you think only ladies 45-55 will answer, but you're willing to consider interested 25 year olds, then say you'd like to hear from ladies any age up to 55. You might be surprised at some of the responses you'll receive.

4. I recommend that you include any information about yourself which might be hard for some ladies to accept. For example, the fact that you are handicapped, or divorced, or unwilling to have children. This will cut down the number of replies you can expect, but there's no point in wasting everyone's time. You're better off to know that any ladies who contact you find your circumstances acceptable. Just be sure to stress your strong points. If your handicap has provided you with a disability pension for life, mention that. If you divorced your wife for infidelity or alcoholism, or if it was she who divorced you, say so.

A List of Things to Turn Off Your Date

More Dating Tips on How Not to Act on a Date with Single Women

Listed here are some very important dating tips on how not to act when out on a date with women:

1. Please do not chew with your mouth open while talking to your date. This really turns off women and people in general. Nobody want to watch you chew your food. It's gross looking too.
2. If you have to belch when on a date, excuse yourself and go where she can't here you. It's such a turn off to women to listen to a man belch or fart.
3. When you are seeing a movie with a date, whatever you do don't laugh at the sad parts. This will come across as you being insensitive and not make a good impression on her.
4. When you are at a movie theatre, concert, symphony, etc. you should not put your feet up on the back of the chair in front of you. This is not the proper thing to do in front of your date.
5. Also, when at a movie theatre during the movie don't narrate the movie for her. Just let her relax and enjoy the movie. Also, don't talk loud and disturb others. And it goes without saying, please turn your cell phone off and don't check your messages during the movie. This is rude to her and the other people around you.

A List of What Not to Wear on a Date with Women

What Not to Wear on a Date with Single Women

Here's a list of what not to wear when going out on a date with single women and especially your first date:

1. Wearing sandals with socks.

2. Wearing your hair combed to the front or side if you don't hardly have any hair on top of your head.

3. Wearing your cell phone on your waist.

4. Wearing Hawaiian shirts.

5. Wearing gold chains.

6. Wearing a baseball cap sideways.

7. Wearing your hair with highlights or frostings.

8. Wearing mandanas.

You may not agree with some of these tips, but trust me, you don't want to take a chance on turning off your date. First impressions are very important and you may not think it is fair, but you will be judged by the way you look for a date.

This is just a short list and there are many other things that you don't want to do or wear on a date. I have tons of tips on my dating tips archive to help you out on these issues. Take a look at them to help you out.

Free ebook on How to Pick Up Women in Nightclubs

Contents of the book, "How to Pick Up Women in Nightclubs"

• Introduction
• Chapter 1 - Selecting a Nightclub
• Chapter 2 - The Nightclub Women
• Chapter 3 - The Nightclub Ego Man
• Chapter 4 - How to Attract Women With Your Looks
• Chapter 5 - What to Wear At Nightclubs
• Chapter 6 - Getting Ready and Psyched Up
• Chapter 7 - A Few Words About Drugs
• Chapter 8 - Nightclub Hot Spots
• Chapter 9 - How to Flirt
• Chapter 10 - How to Use Body Language to Attract Women Like Crazy
• Chapter 11 - How to Recognize Body Language That Says She's Available
• Chapter 12 - Body Language That Means She's Interested in You
• Chapter 13 - How to Recognize Negative Female Body Language
• Chapter 14 - How to Successfully Approach Women
• Chapter 15 - Nightclub Fast-Dancing
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• Chapter 16 - Nightclub Slow-Dancing
• Chapter 17 - How to Talk to Women
• Chapter 18 - How to Pick Up Women Using Self-Hypnosis
• Chapter 19 - How to Pick Up Women Using a Hypnotic Sleep Tape
• Chapter 20 - How to Pick Up Women Using a Mirror
• Chapter 21 - How to Pick Up Women Using Mental Pictures
• Chapter 22 - How to Pick Up Women Using Astrology
• Chapter 23 - How to Pick Up Women Using Autosuggestion
• Chapter 24 - How to Use Telepathy to Meet Women
• Chapter 25 - For Shy Guys Only
• Chapter 26 - Misconceived Beliefs of Shy Men
• Chapter 27 - How to Overcome Your Shyness in Nightclubs
• Chapter 28 - Drive Women Wild for Sex with New Scientific Discovery
• Interviews with Nightclub Women

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