Advice on Overcoming Fear of Approaching Single Women

How to Overcome Fear of Approaching Single Women

So many guys these days are missing out on meeting and attracting single women because they keep giving in to their fear of approaching women they are attracted to. They keep thinking back to their failures in approaching women in the past and they are afraid of failing again in the future.

Trust me guys, you don't have to live this way or feel this way anymore now or in the future. I challenge you today to deal aggressively with your fears of approaching single women and your fears of failure with women. If you keep being passive then nothing is going to change for you.

The best course of action and what I consider the only way to conquer your fears is to confront them head on. If you just keep running from your fears and keep ignoring them then things are just not going to get better to conquer your fears in approaching single women that you are attracted to and are not going away by refusing to deal with them.

I want you to decide today that you are finished with your fears in approaching and meeting women. Promise me that you are going to face all these fears head on and eliminate them from your life. From now on when you see a pretty girl you would like to meet you will approach her immediately with lots of confidence. No more pondering or stalling.

A Few Tips on How to Meet More Women

Tips to Help You Meet More Women

If you make it your goal to constantly go where and be where many women congregate, and if you put all your efforts into trying to meet and pick up as many women as possible, you will sooner or later meet a woman who will fulfill all your dreams. A woman capable of intimacy, not afraid of commitment, communicates, and will fall in love with you exactly as you are.

Don't put all your eggs in one basket. A good example of this are men who only go to nightclubs to meet women. Date many women and date often! Set a goal to meet and go out with a hundred women. Long before you have met your one hundredth woman, in most cases, you will have found at least one, but more probably, many women who will be right for you.

To sum it up, you need exposure and visibility. One of the major reasons you may not be finding a special lady is simply because you're not meeting enough women.

Most women have the inability to make the first move because of shyness, fear of rejection, and thinking that the man must make the first move. You to need to go after what you want and become aggressive. Believe me, women want you to make the first move. It is expected that you make the first move.

This article is an excerpt from our best-selling book which was featured in the Playboy Catalog called, "The Complete Guide to Meeting Women."

Dealing with Good, Bad Nights at Topless Clubs

Good and Bad Nights at Topless Clubs

Trying to score with topless dancers can be very frustrating at times. You will have good nights and you will have off nights when no matter how hard you try, all you do is get rejected. Getting rejected happens to all men. It just comes with the territory. Just move on to another dancer. You will find one that takes a liking to you.

Each night that you go out to a topless club has its own personality. One night you can be attracting dancers like a magnet and the next night it can be slow and you don't attract much attention from the dancers. Plus, there will be times when you go to a club feeling tired, hungover, and feeling at your worst and the dancers will be all over you.

Each time you go to a club can be a different experience. Sometimes you get lucky and sometimes you don't. Just keep trying to pick up topless dancers and no matter what happens to you, don't take it personally.

This article is an excerpt from our best-selling book which was featured in the Playboy Catalog called, "How to Pick Up Topless Dancers."

Advice on Being Rejected by Topless Dancers

Being Rejected by Topless Dancers/Boob Jobs

It happens to us guys in all areas of life when dealing with women. It's no different in topless clubs. Not all dancers are going to be receptive to you trying to pick them up. Some may be sitting with you and it seems like you're really hitting it off and suddenly she gets up and leaves. If this happens, be sure and tell her to come back and party with you. You may mistake her leaving as rejecting you. It could be that she's leaving to entertain a high-paying customer who's buying a lot of dances from her. Don't take this personally, she's only doing her job and that's to make money and make it as fast as she can.

At other times you may be with a dancer that hardly talks to you and acts like she's not interested in you. Maybe she doesn't feel well or maybe she's just turned off by you.

If you feel you're being rejected by a dancer, don't waste anymore time or money on her. Move on to another dancer or another club. Don't hang around where you're not wanted. If you practice your charm and seduction techniques, eventually you'll find a dancer who is receptive to you.

Boob Jobs

If you go to topless clubs, you will see a few "boob jobs." I hope this doesn't turn you off. For you guys that haven't made love to a woman with a boob job, I can assure you that it's quite a turn on. Their breasts are firm and just as enjoyable as regular breasts. They look great too, if the surgeon did a good job.

Some men are turned off by boob jobs because their breasts aren't natural. I say, "don't knock the knockers until you've tried them." Then maybe you'll change your mind.

Advice on Listing What You Like in Personal Ads

Be Careful What Things You Say You Like in Personal Ads

Most people put something in their personal ad about their hobbies or what they like to do. It is important for you to find other people with common interests and to avoid people who don't like, or may even hate, doing what you love to do. WARNING: Unless you really do love to downhill ski and eat sushi, do not say in your ad that you do just because downhill skiing and sushi eating are popular activities that sound good in an ad and will impress people. People may respond to your ad because they really do love to ski and eat sushi and are looking for someone to do them with. If that happens, you had better be a quick learner, be ready to wear a fake cast next ski season, or hope that they can overlook your mis-statement. If you hate sushi, I don't know what to tell you to help you fake even liking sushi, much less to help you learn to love shushi. You might try claiming that you developed a sudden deadly allergy to fish, particularly raw fish.

This warning about being honest about what you like applies equally when you respond to an ad. If you read an ad that you really liked but the person said that they love camping and hiking and you are a city boy, do not assume that you can pull the wool over their eyes.

Be Careful What Things You Say You Like in Personal Ads

Most people put something in their personal ad about their hobbies or what they like to do. It is important for you to find other people with common interests and to avoid people who don't like, or may even hate, doing what you love to do. WARNING: Unless you really do love to downhill ski and eat sushi, do not say in your ad that you do just because downhill skiing and sushi eating are popular activities that sound good in an ad and will impress people. People may respond to your ad because they really do love to ski and eat sushi and are looking for someone to do them with. If that happens, you had better be a quick learner, be ready to wear a fake cast next ski season, or hope that they can overlook your mis-statement. If you hate sushi, I don't know what to tell you to help you fake even liking sushi, much less to help you learn to love shushi. You might try claiming that you developed a sudden deadly allergy to fish, particularly raw fish.

This warning about being honest about what you like applies equally when you respond to an ad. If you read an ad that you really liked but the person said that they love camping and hiking and you are a city boy, do not assume that you can pull the wool over their eyes.

It's a lot better to tell them that you haven't been camping or hiking since your parents made you go to summer camp and that you now know what poison oak looks like. If you really are interested in trying camping and hiking again, just tell them so. If that isn't good enough for them, you probably saved yourself a lot of time. You also might be living in an area that doesn't have poison oak, but does have poison ivy. They don't look similar at all. I found out the hard way.

It's a lot better to tell them that you haven't been camping or hiking since your parents made you go to summer camp and that you now know what poison oak looks like. If you really are interested in trying camping and hiking again, just tell them so. If that isn't good enough for them, you probably saved yourself a lot of time. You also might be living in an area that doesn't have poison oak, but does have poison ivy. They don't look similar at all. I found out the hard way.

Dating Tips on What to Put in Your Personal Ads

Advice on What to Put in Your Personal Ads

Listed here are some very important tips if you are going to play the personals:

1. If you're marriage minded, don't hesitate to specify that. If you're gentle, affectionate, conservative, religious, a one-woman man, include this information. If you don't believe in divorce, it can't hurt to mention it. Anything that will get across what a thoughtful, loving and responsible, husband you'll be will help your case. But be honest! Don't say any of these things unless they're actually true.

2. If you don't have any good points you can honestly refer to, then you shouldn't be using the personals in the first place...unless you're only looking for a pen pal and aren't too choosy about who you get.

3. When you specify the age range you want to hear from, don't limit it to the ages of the ladies you think will be interested in you. Leave that up to them to decide. If you think only ladies 45-55 will answer, but you're willing to consider interested 25 year olds, then say you'd like to hear from ladies any age up to 55. You might be surprised at some of the responses you'll receive.

4. I recommend that you include any information about yourself which might be hard for some ladies to accept. For example, the fact that you are handicapped, or divorced, or unwilling to have children. This will cut down the number of replies you can expect, but there's no point in wasting everyone's time. You're better off to know that any ladies who contact you find your circumstances acceptable. Just be sure to stress your strong points. If your handicap has provided you with a disability pension for life, mention that. If you divorced your wife for infidelity or alcoholism, or if it was she who divorced you, say so.

A List of Things to Turn Off Your Date

More Dating Tips on How Not to Act on a Date with Single Women

Listed here are some very important dating tips on how not to act when out on a date with women:

1. Please do not chew with your mouth open while talking to your date. This really turns off women and people in general. Nobody want to watch you chew your food. It's gross looking too.
2. If you have to belch when on a date, excuse yourself and go where she can't here you. It's such a turn off to women to listen to a man belch or fart.
3. When you are seeing a movie with a date, whatever you do don't laugh at the sad parts. This will come across as you being insensitive and not make a good impression on her.
4. When you are at a movie theatre, concert, symphony, etc. you should not put your feet up on the back of the chair in front of you. This is not the proper thing to do in front of your date.
5. Also, when at a movie theatre during the movie don't narrate the movie for her. Just let her relax and enjoy the movie. Also, don't talk loud and disturb others. And it goes without saying, please turn your cell phone off and don't check your messages during the movie. This is rude to her and the other people around you.