How to Retrain Your Brain to Succeed with Women

Retrain Your Brain to Succeed with Women

To be successful in the dating game you sometimes have to develop new habits to increase your chances of succeeding with women.

If you have fallen into the trap of negative thinking about your dating life, you have to retrain your brain from:

• "I can't succeed with women" to "I can succeed with women."
• "Finding someone to love just won't happen" to "Finding love will happen for me."
• "I never get any good breaks when it comes to meeting women" to "I'm lucky when it comes to dating women."
• "I'm such a failure with women" to "My best days are ahead to meet, attract, and seduce women."

Say these affirmations to yourself to reprogram your computer in your mind. The human mind is just like a computer. Sometimes you just have to wipe out your old negative thoughts in your hard drive and load a new positive hard drive into the computer of your mind.

If you spend all of your time focusing on how you fail with women, it's time to focus on how things will work out for the good in your dating life. Let go of your old thoughts and chose to think about how successful you are going to be in the future with women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Dating Etiquette Tips for Men

Dating Etiquette Tips When on a Date with Women

Whether it's your first date or your hundredth, chances are you still feel unsure of how to be on your best behavior. A date is already a high pressure situation and stressing out about good etiquette will only make it worse, so here are a few do's and don'ts to help you make a fantastic impression:

Never talk with food in your mouth

Always finish chewing and swallowing before responding - nothing is more unattractive than a mouth full of partially mashed meat and vegetables.

Always bring a small gift

This goes for the ladies. Bring a small flower, a small box of their favorite candy, or any small taken of your admiration. It's a nice way to start off any date.

Never drink too much

There are almost too many reasons for this one, so instead of alcohol have a cola or a "virgin" version of your favorite mixed drink.

Fun Sports, Music Shopping, Dog Parks for Dating

3 Great Where to Take a Date Ideas

Fun Sports

Nothing tells you more about a person than how they handle a little competition. Miniature golf, bowling, and darts are good choices because they are relatively simple to learn and offer some light-hearted fun. You can always make the game a little more interesting with a friendly wager; perhaps the loser can buy dinner.

Music Shopping

If you're a music l0ver, then finding a partner probably means hooking up with someone who has compatible musical tastes. So find out right away. Go to your local music store, split up, and buy one CD each. Then, listen to your picks together and see if your tastes hit the right note.

Dog Parks

Love your dog? Make it a part of the date, too. Many large cities have dog parks where people can bring their pets and let them run and frolic in a safe, enclosed area. If your date also has a dog, you can make it a double date!

Advice About Using Chat Rooms to Meet Women

How to Meet Women in Chat Rooms

While chat rooms are a legitimate form of meeting new people, you must proceed with extreme caution! Always remember that you do not know anything about your fellow chatters except what they tell you and rarely do they reveal the whole truth.

Many People do become addicted to the imaginary community found in a chat room. The conversations and the flirtations boost their egos and add spice to what, in some cases, is a rather unpleasant reality. Go into a chat room leery of these individuals.

With that in mind, you should also stick to people in your vicinity. Chat rooms can give you an opportunity to meet people from all over the world, but long distance relationships rarely work out. You'll have better luck with people you can have a relationship with outside of a computer screen.

Advice About Meeting Women at Bookstores

How to Meet Women at Bookstores

In case you've been hiding in a cave for the last half decade you already know that bookstores are "in" while shopping for books used to be enough to classify you as an undatble nerd, now only the coolest hippest people are to be found among the trendy bookshelves of enormous chain bookstores.

Bookstores have always been a nice place to meet new friends and lovers. After all, it's easy to start up a conversation with someone: just ask her what book they are reading. Now with the addition of cozy cafes, bookstores have become a socially acceptable gathering place.

So find a book, order an expresso, and smile flirtatiously over the top of your pages at every attractive, interesting member of the opposite sex who passes your way.

Advice About Meeting Women at School

How to Meet Women at School

Remember high school? Wasn't finding a date easier then? After all, you mixed with hundreds of available singles every day.

While college isn't quite as simplistic, it does give you a golden opportunity to mingle with a wide variety of mostly single co-eds. College also has an advantage over those rambling locker-filled halls of your youth: these students are career-oriented and goal-focused. If your idea of a dream partner includes someone capable of holding down a decent job and being able to talk about books without their eyes glazing over, your local college might be a great place to look.

"I'm too old to go back to college." some of you are whining.

"I can't afford the tuition." cry others.

Never fear, I'm not talking necessarily about attending college as a full-time, or even part-time, student (although that's an excellent choice). Some universities and colleges also offer non-credit classes to people in their community offer a reasonable price. These classes cover a wide-variety of topics, such as photography, computer programs, or career-development and generally require no previous knowledge of the subject. Part of the charm of these classes is that you cannot only meet someone who shares some of your interests, but you can also improve yourself at the same time.

Look for Women to Date on the Job

How to Meet Women at Work

You probably spend at least eight hours of every day stuck in a place just teaming with available members of the opposite sex. Maybe you've heard the expression, "Don't dip your pen in company ink," and in most cases that's a motto to live by.

But if you work in an office building, there are probably dozens of companies around you full of eligible employees who are not considered "company ink." If you work in retail, you are meeting hundreds of potential dates every week and you don't even have to create excuses for making conversation with them! If you work in the service industry, part of your job is probably networking, so why not use those phone number of potential clients to land a dinner date for "business?" Not to mention the vendors, postal workers, and delivery people who come into your company daily.

Remember, you don't have to date your co-workers or your boss in order to find romance on the job. You just need to look beyond your cubicle.