A Guide to Using Lubricants for Massage

Lubrication Tips for Massage

One similarity between men and women is that some sort of lubricant needs to be used when massaging their genitals: this will make the experience more pleasurable and prevent sore spots from developing. One difference between men and women is that one may use oil-based, water-based, or silicone-based lubricants on men, while one should use only water-based lubricants on women to avoid encouraging vaginal infections. For genital massage on men, or for massage elsewhere on a man or woman's body, you can purchase special massage oils at massage supply shops or else just use a light vegetable oil (such as Safflower, Sunflower, or grapeseed) from the supermarket. Lubricants and oils should be reapplied as necessary, so it's good to keep them handy.

It's very convenient to have flip-top squeeze bottles for lubes and oils, and one of those massage oil "belts" that massage supply shops sell. Since many of these belts have two pockets, you could use one for lube and the other for massage oil. Be sure lubes and oils are warm before putting them on someone; if you wish you can run hot tap water over your flip-top bottles for a few minutes before using them, or maybe you could just keep the plastic bottles in a bowl of warm water instead of using a belt. It's also a good idea to put lubricants in your hand before applying them so you have a chance to rub your hands together to warm them if necessary. Oh, and one final word of advice: please be sure any water-based lube you may be using DOESN'T contain Nonoxynol-9. In this context Nonoxynol-9 is unlikely to do anything but irritate.

How to Get Ready to Massage a Woman

Getting Set Up to Massage a Woman

Taking the time to create a sensual and appealing environment for your erotic massage shows that you care about your woman and value pleasure. Start by turning off the phones. You may wish to put a "Do Not Disturb" sign on the door, illuminate the room with either candles or soft indirect lamps, burn incense, and turn up the heat to where one would be comfortable lying down naked. Keep your lubricants, oils, and gloves (if needed or desired) within easy reach, and cover the massage table with a blanket and place a clean sheet over this blanket. You can let the sides of the blanket and sheet drape over the sides of the table so that they may be brought up to cover the receiving partner (keeping him or her warm) after the massage is finished.

Pieces of (possibly fake) fur or feathers can be used for additional sensual tantalization, and an eye pillow or blindfold can be helpful in blocking out any unwanted light for your partner.

Putting a CD (or prerecorded tape) of your favorite music on repeat play is a good idea. Some people are more comfortable with a pillow or rolled bath towel underneath their knees and/or head (when lying face up) or their ankles (when lying face down), and some women will be more comfortable with a pillow underneath their hips; if this is your first massage with your partner you might want to experiment a little or ask him or her.

If you're going to be giving the massage, take a look at your fingernails and clip them if necessary.

Subliminal Sexual Music CDs for Attracting , Seducing Women

Is Push Button Sex Finally Here?

Yes! Simply insert our "Mephisto Subliminal CD" in your (car-home-portable player). She will only notice music, but inaudible, hidden commands penetrate her subconscious mind and "you penetrate the rest!"

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Soon, she wants you with an overpowering passion and a throbbing determination! You become her fantasy!

Like hypnosis, subliminal motivation cannot be resisted because it operates undetected below the level of the conscious mind!

Can Words Hidden Under Music Sexually Arouse a Woman

and Focus Her Passion on Only One Man? Yes?

Subliminal stimuli activate involuntary bodily responses such as "Sexual Arousal!" That means Mephisto's orgasmic subliminal commands (concealed under music) secretly implants erotic urges deep into her subconscious, swelling her sexual excitement to the edge of orgasm. And focuses her passion only on you!

The Proven Power of Subliminals - Erasmus University of Rotterdam and South Eastern University in the US proved subliminal tapes arouse women! In the US test sensors were placed in the CROTCH of college girls to measure excitement. The girls were exposed to harmless movies, but subliminal material with explicit sexual messages were hidden under the music.

The girls were unaware of the concealed subliminal sexual activity, yet their vaginas became HOT, WET and SWOLLEN preparing them for SEX! This test was repeated at Erasmus University with the SAME RESULTS: their vaginas swell and lubricate when exposed!

Sexual arousal is the key to her saying "Yes, I need it!" Our Mephisto CDs creates this sexual tension convincing her that she wants and needs sex with you. Mephisto's subliminal messages convince her she's aroused by you and she will do what ever it takes to reach an orgasm with you. That's why your CD makes her say "yes" before you ask!

When She Hears This CD, She Will Believe:

• She's passionately in love with you and must satisfy her uncontrollable passions with you only.
• You're the world's most desirable man.
• Other men are very dull and sexually repulsive and turn her off.
• Sex with you is "necessary and right!" She wants you only.

Internet for Dating

The Internet Revolution for Dating Women

The internet is a great opportunity to connect people in all areas of life. Because of its architectural features, the web offers a unique means by which people can explore their conscious and unconscious components of their psyche, hopefully achieving a total realization of their selves.

But not always. Let's not forget that our worst characteristics can surface once we hide behind the mask of anonymity. Because when online one will almost inevitably act on his/her unconscious motivations (ebises according to conscious preferences and choices) in selecting friends, lovers, and enemies, we are guided towards specific types of people who address our underlying emotions and needs.

How sure are you, internet user, about the nature of your underlying motives, your hidden expectations, wishes, and fears that press towards the selection of your counterparts on the internet? Baby, scaring you is the last thing we would like to do, but you know, it would be nice to keep in mind this one: Everywhere you go, you fill find...YOU!

Why You Must Never Give Up on Finding Love

You Must Never Give Up in Your Search for a Mate

When dating women you will experience things that will try to push you down. You are pretty much guaranteed to face disappointments and setbacks along the way.

You will experience relationships that didn't work out and this is a setback. This can cause you to lose your enthusiasm for dating and get discouraged. You may even be tempted to give up on dating and throw in the towel.

But, when playing the dating game you have to develop a "bounce back" mentality. In other words when you get knocked down on your ass, you don't stay down. You get back up and pursue that woman of your dreams again. You don't give up.

I encourage you to think this way: Every time you experience relationships and dates that don't work out, it's a setup for a comeback!

Always remember that there is no dating challenge too difficult, no discouragement, no disappointment, nothing can keep you from your destiny of meeting someone special that will love you unconditionally and bring you much joy and happiness.

In closing, develop the attitude that your best days are ahead of you when it comes to meeting, attracting, and seducing women.

I encourage you to be patient and keep the faith because hot romance with hot and sexy women is just around the corner. You must believe this deep down in your heart and soul.

Right now, I'm sending prayer your way that you will find that special lady that you have been looking for...amen.

French Kissing Guide for Men

Advice on How to French Kiss a Woman

1. PLEASE DO NOT START OFF WITH A FRENCH KISS, use a proper move and the way to do a regular kiss above.

2. Ok, now you have done a regular kiss and you have pulled away

3. Instead of just leaving, you go back in and start off again with a regular kiss…note..that is two regular kisses now!

4. During your regular kiss you will turn your head sideways.

5. Then, once your head is slanted you can put your tongue between her lips. NOTE: GRADUALLY AND GENTLY PUT IT IN!

6. Do not put your tongue in very far, you don’t need her choking on your tongue. After you feel your tongue touch hers, just stop and let them touch.

5 Bookstore Pick Up Lines to Meet Women

5 Surefire Opening Lines to Meet Women in Bookstores

Go to any bookstore and you are going to see lots of lovely single women to hit up on. It's a casual atmosphere and great place to meet women. Try these 5 lines for starters:

1. See a woman looking for a book. Approach her and say, "Can I help you find a book?"
2. When you see her looking at a book you've read say, "I've read that book. It's really great!" Then just start talking about the book and ask her out for coffee.
3. Grab one of those coffee table type books on gardens and approach her and say, "Would you like to see something really beautiful? Just look at this picture of a beautiful garden."
4. "Would you like to meet for coffee sometime and talk about books and authors?"
5. "It's my nephew's birthday next week. Can you recommend any good kids' books?"