Give People the Gift of Smiling

Provide Gifts To Those You Come Into Contact With

When you meet someone new, you should always provide a gift to them. Gifts can be something as simple as a smile, compliment, handshake, or an acknowledgement. You can also provide a gift of listening to them and being observant. The smallest things can mean the most. You can show how much you appreciate someone with the simplest things. Personal gifts are free but can mean a lot to someone. They are very special.

Showing your appreciation can be a huge step towards forming a lasting relationship with people. Give someone a big smile and see how they react. It is very likely that they will return the smile. Smiles can tell us a great deal about people. They let us know that people are friendly, caring, and nice to be around. They are a simple way to show your friendly side to other people.

It is a great idea to get you into the habit of providing these free gifts to other people. Soon, you will find that people are more likely and willing to communicate and spend time with you. You will come off as an attractive person and people will want to get to know you more. It provides a whole new world of possibilities for better things for your life and more opportunities. You could meet a new person, smile at them, and find out that they are the person that you are meant to spend the rest of your life with. This is all based on the simple act of smiling.

Smiling can make you feel much better about yourself as a person and within your life. You become a better person within yourself and you will be much happier overall. If you are happy, you are better able to deal with any situation that arises in life. Your outlook is completely different when you are happy.

There are times when it is not easy to be happy. Learning to be happy is something that takes a lot of practice. Life is full of negatives and that makes people unhappy. A person’s individual attitude is what ultimately determines how they respond to stress and negative situations. If you are happy and fulfilled, you are able to respond to any situation that arises in a positive way.

Positive people are glowing and radiant. They are people that others enjoy spending time with and that they want to be around. If you can learn to be happy, you will find that you start attracting many new people that are interested in you. Your life will no longer be lonely. You will find yourself surrounded by friends and new people that want to spend time with you.

It is easy to meet new people when you realize what it takes to be happy and when you offer a smile, a compliment, or a kind word. It starts building a relationship with a person. This small effort shows that you are willing to take the time to acknowledge a perfect stranger. It generates interest and people then want to know more about you. It is all started through a simple gesture that is friendly towards strangers. Smile at people.

How to Become More Personal with Women

Getting More Personal with Women

At the time the girl appears to accept your approach by showing a friendly response, you can begin to work on a more personal level (mildly personal at first). "We" and "us" can be introduced into the conversation. You can confide in her and tell her small things about yourself. Tell her briefly about your work. You might voice a brief opinion about some subject.

Then later, after some exchange of general conversation, you can talk in greater detail about yourself, such as any interesting, ambitious plans you may have, or your feelings on some subject. Don't be afraid to bare your soul a little. Most women admire sensitivity in a man. If you have strong convictions about a subject, voice them. Women admire men with strong convictions, whatever they may be. They may be in such diverse areas as politics, social issues, the arts, and business (or archaeology). If you are good at something, tell her. Women are impressed by men who are achievers.

But, do not be apologetic. If you say you believe in the Republican Party principles, and she is a staunch Democrat, don't start making excuses for your beliefs, or modifying them to accommodate her. You are what you are. Stay with your beliefs, unless she can really convince you otherwise. This applies with any subject.

A Conversation Guide on How to Talk Women

Making Plans to Meet Women

Making Plans to Meet Women

Do You Have a Plan for Meeting Women?

I have lots of dating experience and I can tell you this: Success with women is certainly not an accident. It doesn't work that way. You just don't accidentally meet the woman of your dreams. They just don't literally drop out of the sky.

You need to have a plan to meet women. It's no different that planning your vacation. It also helps to plan every detail in your pursuit of women and romance.

Have you ever used an air mattress to float on the water at the beach? After awhile you will notice that the current will start taking you away from your original spot you were when you first got on your air mattress.

This is how it works in the dating world too. If you don't have a plan and a goal to meet someone to share your life with you may not end up in the right place. You will just float around in your dating life drifting off course and not knowing here you are headed.

Guys, I encourage you to do some deep thinking and examine where you are today when it comes to meeting and dating women. Do you have any goals or plans for meeting women? So, what are your goals and plans? If not your first goal is to make a plan and follow it.

I challenge you right now to sit down and map out a game plan. You will be a lot more successful with women if you do. Make your plan and work the plan.

Good luck and wishing you much success with women...Don Diebel

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Fun is Key to Good Relationships

What Is The Secret To A Great Relationship - Fun And Lots Of It

What is one of the most common ingredients found in most great relationships? Fun tends to be right at the top of the list. Life can be difficult at times with either financial worries or those involving kids and families occupying your thoughts. Having fun with someone you love is a great way to combat this stress.

So how can couples increase the fun factor in their relationship? All it takes is a little extra effort. Why not try cooking a meal together from scratch. Pick something neither of you have tried to make before and see what happens. It could turn out to be a complete disaster; but who cares. I know someone who ended up eating strawberry cheese soufflé once. His partner read corn flour in the ingredients. She only had strawberry flavored corn flour in her cupboard, you use it in cakes, but she thought it wouldn’t matter; as it was only one spoonful. The end result was gross but the two of them laughed about it; for years afterwards.

Get involved in outside activities. Not only is it good for your health but it is a bit difficult to take yourself too seriously if you are hanging upside down on a bungee jump!

Try having fun at home as well. You could play some games when the kids are in bed but add an element of naughtiness. Strip poker, Scrabble or Monopoly are all good options. Who said board games had to be boring? See, I bet you're smiling already.

Try something outside your comfort zone, such as motorbike racing, take a boat out for the day or go horse riding. Do something one or both of you have always wanted to do but just haven't got around to it yet. Breaking the monotony of everyday life is a great way to improve your communication and rapport with one another.

Laughter is infectious and it is amazing what a positive mind and atmosphere in a home can achieve. Try it for yourself today and see how all your family bonds improve. Moods are contagious and if you are always miserable don't expect your partner or your kids to behave any differently.

Focus on all the good things you share with your partner. All too often we worry about things going wrong. With the current recession, a lot of people are feeling financial pressure and this can cause anxiety and stress at home. But if you try to concentrate on the blessings you already have, you are likely to create more of them. You will be more open to possibilities and will probably find opportunities to improve your life will come along when you least expect it.

When we value those we love, show them respect, admiration and tenderness, they tend to respond in a similar fashion. Nobody said living together would be easy. With hard work and consistency you can have the dream relationship. Fun and laughter go a long way to achieving that goal.

How to Compliment a Woman

Complimenting Women

Compliments

You can now tell her, in more detail, what you find attractive about her. You might say you like the shape of her face. "You know, when I first saw you I was immediately attracted by the contours of your face. You have an unusual type of beauty. I don't know just what it is, maybe the bone structure of your cheeks. Are you of Swedish descent?" Or whatever other ethnic type she might resemble. This is good, because it is not only a compliment but also it tends to draw her out and start a train of conversation.

Other interesting lines of thought are:

• You walk gracefully (Are you a dancer?).
• I like that hair style (It suits the shape of your face).
• You know, I like the way you carry yourself; your smile and the movement of your head and eyes. (Have you studied acting?)
• You have long shapely legs. (Have you done any modeling?)
• Gee, you have pretty eyes. (They match the outfit you are wearing.)
• I like that outfit you are wearing. (It has a fresh, pretty look.)

These compliments are best if they are genuine. This should not be a problem. Any attractive girl should fall into at least one of the above categories. You can probably think of a few more yourself. Compliments are one of the best ways to please a girl, and you can give them before you become personally involved. But they must be sincere. A compliment that sounds as if it was only given to gain something yourself does much more harm than good.

A Guide to Picking Up Women in Nightclubs

Do you stand on the sidelines at nightclubs watching other men meet and pick up women? Have you ever been at a nightclub and seen a beautiful woman that you were dying to approach but you couldn't get up the courage? Do you continually strike out with women? Are you shy and don't know what to say to women in nightclubs?

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